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What I Learned About Style, Food, & Self-Care in Paris 

Extraordinary Women with Sharri Harmel
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Imagine stepping out of your comfort zone and landing in a place that’s nothing like what you’re used to. That’s exactly what happened to me when I left my familiar life in Boston behind and dove headfirst into the vibrant streets of Paris.
The moment you take yourself out of your usual element, something shifts-you start to see life differently. I discovered that in Paris, I could reclaim my femininity, embrace the subtle beauty in everything, and indulge in self-care like never before. And here’s the exciting part: as I reflect on my Parisian journey, you get to tag along. Through my experiences, you’ll learn how to step into your own next chapter with confidence, style, and a fresh perspective on what really matters.
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@MC-gh7ln
@MC-gh7ln 2 дня назад
Excellent!! You are an inspiration ❤
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Thank you for commenting and be the inspiration that you are!!
@jasminebaby3375
@jasminebaby3375 4 часа назад
I’m so happy that I found your Channel. I’m learning so much from your videos. ❤❤❤
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 2 часа назад
I am happy you have joined me! Thank you for your comment and hope I can continue to provide interesting content!!
@heathereyles8909
@heathereyles8909 День назад
I've always felt more French than English, and eat and live like a French woman. I live in Brighton, UK, which is a walking city. We rarely use the car. We eat beautifully, if a little too much! 😂 I am dressing more like a French woman every season now. I speak decent French and belong to a French Circle. I would love to live in Paris for a season . I am 75 now, and have visited Paris 20 times, but have not lived there. I don't think my husband is so keen. I have a fantasy Paris apartment, which i furnish in my mind.😊 I've recently had both hips replaced and I'm determined to bounce back, but my knee has other ideas.😢
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
You are a beautiful writer, so write that chapter especially if you can't actually live it due to family and other limitations. Channel what is in your head into a story...because as you write, you'll be living it!
@user-ik2no7jw5g
@user-ik2no7jw5g 2 дня назад
Hi Sharri, Are you no longer living in Paris? Did you sell your beautiful apartment? Loved this video! 🥰
@susandelongis885
@susandelongis885 День назад
Thank you for sharing your very interesting insights! Your videos are like mini seminars introducing so many fascinating topics to further explore. It’s a wonderful inspiration that you find creative ways to continue to put your academic background and gifts to continued use. I just offer my own opinion on some of the possible reasons for the elegant simplicity of the French fashion sense. Certainly, France reigns supreme around the world as the queen of fashion. But, historically, this owes much to Italy, with Milan today remaining unseated, after many centuries, as the fashion center of the world. Still, the Parisians have always had a flair for the dramatic which, for example, might distinguish a playful Chanel from a classic Armani. The French have also been ,of course, notable for centuries for the great success of their textile industries and their fashion houses. However, this same prosperity goes back much further in Italy to the Renaissance and before, with the prominence of the Italian merchant class in the trade of exquisite fabrics, and leathers across Europe. In France, beautiful materials and excellent tailoring were long synonymous with “imported,” placing great cost and prestige on these two elements and demand for designs that would show them off as marks of wealth and exclusivity. Just as now remains the case in The States today, with a premium set on costly, imported French goods. The cultural French penchant for a dramatic, but sophisticated, impact is most visible in the emphasis on clean lines which allow the exceptional beauty of the fabrics to take center stage. This is enhanced by the exquisite tailoring which demands simple lines to be appreciated. Both of these bring to focus the high cost, and therefore exclusivity, of any piece. And, until fairly recent times, this also announced to the world that your blouse was of expensive imported Italian silk, your bag of luxurious Italian leather. I believe that you also mentioned the benefit of the treat for the senses, which only extremely luxurious materials and tailoring guarantee and would be lost to anything superfluous in design. The French also deeply value tradition, loving the pieces passed down through generations, which must be simply elegant in order to rise above passing fashion. And their innate frugality means that they invest in classic pieces of quality over quantity, creating a distinctive Parisian style, building a carefully chosen wardrobe over time, again requiring simple classics. The desire for imported (Italian) materials and tailoring first met the French requirements for outstanding workmanship to place the focus of their wardrobe, not so much on what they wore, as their place in society, their wealth, good taste and, as you mentioned, the beauty of their face and figure, to make a dramatic appearance supported and surrounded by the elegance of the quiet mystery they create with their fashion wherever they go. To my American eye, I sometimes balk at what almost seems a uniform in the Parisian wardrobe. But, in fact, this is where sophisticated Parisian taste really shines. In order to creatively express themselves, while remaining true to basic Parisian fashion sense (which really is to avoid fashion completely, in favor of style) they have to be very smart, which is probably one thing they value well above clothes. They find very subtle, therefore sophisticated, ways to bring a personal twist to the classics, with that playful appreciation that doesn’t take life or themselves quite as seriously as they might at first appear to. This might be one reason why they might really splurge when it comes to extravagantly beautiful and unique lingerie. 😊💗
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 2 часа назад
What great feedback and insights you provide. Thank you! Yes, some of the best fashion videos are photographing women in Milan. I have not visited Milan but it is at the top of my travel list.
@vitaavanesian2448
@vitaavanesian2448 14 часов назад
You are so wonderful! So inspirational ! Thank you!
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Oh my...thank you! You are very kind to say all though nice things. I have a huge smile on my face because this channel is all about inspiring others!!! Keep at it and share more about how you are working on your next chapter!!
@wandadabrowski8745
@wandadabrowski8745 2 дня назад
Thank you Sherri, great advice
@donna4137
@donna4137 День назад
Spot on !!!! So important to purchase That 'One Hundred Stars' robe for that 'next chapter 😊 !!!!
@viewfrommylensjane
@viewfrommylensjane День назад
Phones? I never take calls in public, I do NOT have an iphone! I tell people I will call them back & explain that I am out in public. Like you I loath it! I do not see it a problem here in Southern Australia. I always greet and say thankyou & have done always in shops etc. mmm Like you I think its falling away with young generations.
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Love hearing this, so thank you for sharing. You are a role model for the younger generation and maybe they'll start to notice soon.
@Bonnieuxful
@Bonnieuxful 2 дня назад
Melania Trump dresses classy and beautifully❣️🥰💕She is a great role model in style and classy behavior❣️
@KPknits
@KPknits 2 дня назад
Hi Sharri, interesting video. Agree wholeheartedly with the exercise and cell phone use. As I age, I struggle with trying to look more feminine. I had to give up wearing contacts and I don't like wearing much makeup. I usually just put my hair in a ponytail but it just seems rather meh. Maybe I should try a bit of jewelry and be more attentive to the small details? Thanks for the suggestions.
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Oh gosh, I'm right there with you. A ponytail is my go-to hairstyle, but let's both try to add more fabulous earrings. They can make us feel pretty and more feminine, regardless of our age. Plus, I actually think we look younger the less makeup we wear as we age, the younger we look. Don't underestimate yourself!
@viewfrommylensjane
@viewfrommylensjane День назад
Yes France & Italy are the same re clothes & dressing. The French have the right idea about eating, food and lifestyle! Italy also.. 3 course lunch BUT THEY DONOT SNACK! like in the west
@conniebaker5146
@conniebaker5146 2 дня назад
Thank you, Sharri. This hit home on so many levels. Can't wait for your book.❤
@janjackson2200
@janjackson2200 2 дня назад
Thank you, many helpful ideas!
@tamarasmith1023
@tamarasmith1023 2 дня назад
...or someone talking on their cell phones! Drives me nuts! Older people seem to be the worst.
@carolbrenner3121
@carolbrenner3121 2 дня назад
❤❤❤
@svetlanarybalko6867
@svetlanarybalko6867 2 дня назад
It’s interesting how American style had changed over the last 100 or so years. If we read American Tragedy by Dreiser - we’ll see how European like American fashion used to be. Girls wore beautiful dresses and coats, and men suits, and ties, and leather shoes. But of course in new world this kind of dress code was always a sign of people of class, a men of consequence, as Dreiser put it. Jeans and similar kind of outfits were originally created for enslaved workers toiling on plantations and other places. At some point in time classical style of fashion has become less desirable, jeans became a mainstream outfit. With sportswear now becoming more fashionable than ever. All of that continues to make American everyday street fashion to drift away even further from where it started in the 19 century.
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Yes- all well put- and fashion does change as our way of life changes- even climate change is shifting the seasons and how intense each season becomes. That said, we are each trying to be true to ourselves, and take the time to present ourselves in such a way that makes us feel confident and visible.
@viewfrommylensjane
@viewfrommylensjane День назад
100% agree re schools again its a western thing USA, NZ, Australia, Canada etc history has disappeared & not enough life skills! home economics, metal work etc has all disappeared. I do same park further away & walk. I walk an hour everyday & going back to tennis this summer. Totally agree with your doctor totally! Weights are key! Thankyou that was a lovely chat
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
thank you for joining me! You are so right on- walking one hour every day and back to playing tennis. (I wish I could because I love that game.) Everyone is just so busy...everything needs to be fast and easy, which doesn't add much to our lives. Let's try to help the next generation slow down and enjoy life a little more.
@mariarooney6262
@mariarooney6262 День назад
First time listener. Very interesting. Even though I am American, my grandmother was born in Italy and my mom was first generation American, yet I feel European. It’s in my blood literally. That is how the woman dressed and behaved. That is what I gravitate to. Thank you for sharing your experiences. ❤️
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Thank you for joining me! How lovely that you have all your Italian culture to enjoy in your life and share with others.There are a couple of youtube videos that highlight well-dressed older women in Milan- incredible!
@viewfrommylensjane
@viewfrommylensjane День назад
American to have big names etc. Australia its not a thing, rarely. Agree 100% on your under garments point. Americans always complain Australian homes donot have huge walkinrobes. Australia we say Mac Mansions as in Mac Donalds. I edit my wardrobe every year as 62 its a fit issue, I'll buy to replace. I'm now wearing more things I've kept for good more readily now and make a point of it. I've never worn alot of makeup as minimal
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
YOU are a role model!!! America is changing...and many people now can't afford huge houses. Thank heavens and I look in the mirror as I say that. Less is SO much more but sometimes we learn our lessons after a load of life experiences.
@Bonnieuxful
@Bonnieuxful 2 дня назад
I love eating seasonally and shopping at my farmer’s market in California ❣️It always tasted sooo much better‼️🍏🍓🍇🍉🍋🍓🍆🍒🌶🥦
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
In California, you have so many wonderful fruits and veggies at your markets. Minimal transportation needed for farm to table! Much harder to do in other areas within the united states but we can keep trying. Go local!!
@viewfrommylensjane
@viewfrommylensjane День назад
Agree in Australia I eat seasonally, its become a real thing, sadly USA does influence Australia too much. Everyone here is going back to seasonal. I've always eaten seasonally, shopped at farmers markets or just edited. I've just naturally followed as I was raised that way in Australia.
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
I love this...you are going back to your roots by eating seasonally! Share some of your favorites for the different seasons.
@joelleurack8590
@joelleurack8590 День назад
I enjoyed lessening to you love your classy approaches of describing the French culture im French but live in Australia and I had to adjust to the difference thank you for your lovely documentary au Revoir 😊🇦🇺🤗
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Thank you for your comment! I always worry whether I'm reading the culture correctly so being French, your comments were much appreciated.
@lorraine6947
@lorraine6947 2 дня назад
Isn’t Boston a rather conservatively dressed town, the preppy look? I lived there during my college years and for several afterwards. Heading to Paris in November, any suggestions on where to stay?
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Oh Boston has changed too...like the rest of the USA, it's become more and more casual. One has no idea who is in an office and who is on a daily walk. There are many special hotels in Paris, so focus on an area that you want to be in most of the time- I love the 7th arrondissment but only the area that borders the 6th, and I like the 6th A. But that is right for me given I like certain parks and shops and cafes. Chose the area and then focus in on hotels in that area.
@goconnor0304
@goconnor0304 2 дня назад
Hi Shari. This is my first time weighing in. I enjoy your channel. I am 63 and I believe that the younger boomers (like myself) and generations afterward basically decided they didn't want to partake in this way of dress. My mother worked as a seamstress/fitter in a boutique, then I Magnins, and then Bloomingdales and was very aware of styles. But I distinctly remember as a teenager, that the trend was Lee and Levi jeans, and it never stopped. The difference between France and the US is also that really and truly France is made up of mostly French people and therefore they have a certain look. Whereas the States has many different influences. Also US women now are happier to create their own trends, which is also why so much decluttering goes on. And we have the closets to be able to do so. I certainly like to have my own eclectic style as it says more about me as an individual. I also think France is the only place where women dress like that. That is certainly not the way in the UK or Ireland.
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Great comments and I agree with you. America is a big country, and how a woman of a certain age dresses in NYC versus Miami, California versus Texas, all very different! Same for London versus Cotswolds. Different weather, different functions, different customs. I hope I didn't imply we all need to take on a uniform of sorts- we each need to create our own style and it sounds like you have done just that.
@brucerosepapa3748
@brucerosepapa3748 2 дня назад
Hi Sharri! I love your YT! I can relate to your story about Paris, I feel in love the minute I stepped out of the car to the hotel. More please and thank you.
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Thank YOU! Ahh, yes...connect to the feelings that we get from the places where we live, work or visit!
@adrienneoeding9901
@adrienneoeding9901 2 дня назад
You are making it possible for me to embrace what is good for me
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Go for it!! Be YOU!
@dianabergeson7465
@dianabergeson7465 2 дня назад
Le Galerie Dior Museum is a must!
@extraordinarywomennextchapter
@extraordinarywomennextchapter 13 часов назад
Oh what a treasure!!! I couldn't agree more.
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