I cried so much🥹abuse can happen to anyone but as Nigerians we lack emotional intelligence and say so many bad stuffs about a person just because it’s not us
I tried to fight back my tears watching this vlog 🥺Frances,God loves you so much... I'm happy you didn't get pregnant or end up in a terrible state... I've never been in a relationship;when I'm ready, I'll let God know because all of these abusive relationships i hear from people scares me, Take care ❤️❤️❤️
I watched till the end and I appreciate you talking about this🥺... It takes pure courage and strength to talk about something traumatic. You're seen, every one who has had a traumatic past is seen and loved ❤ may God help us all heal 🙏 Your videos are always on point too🥰🥰💗🌹
Society is too judgmental, if society had so much love to give to people coming out of abusive relationships and marriages, I bet majority of people would not be in their abusive relationships and marriages. There is literally no love.
I just finished watching the video and I can't stop crying cause I felt like you were talking to me directly. I'm still trying to heal and it's not easy and people ain't making it easy but hearing this advice from you I'm certain I'll make it through. I love you so much ❤
In order for abusive relationships to be sustained, there has to be a level of isolation. Otherwise, the victim’s family and friends would have more influence. So if you see someone going through it… don’t get frustrated with them … and definitely refrain from judgement ❤
Frances you are such a kind and beautiful soul , you are polite, hardworking and overall an amazing person. These is how Christianity should show in our lives . May God bless you. you will live a happy and love filled life . ❤️
Thank you so much francess for your kind words, this means alot to me and and personally ive never been in a situation like this but hearing stories and seeing this im learning and i know that the God i serve will never let me be in this situation. Youre so bold francess and you are so brave i love you so much girl. girl i cried
My darling, i've been following you for a while now and honestly, my instincts were right the day i started watching you last year, You're amazing and this video just got me locked in girl.......God loves you, and i'm proud of you
I watched it to the end honestly beautiful words were spoken. First of all, abuse happens in many ways. He or she doesn’t even have to lay hands on you before you call it abuse. To be honest, if you see any sign that doesn’t sit well with you leave immediately. Sometimes signs could mean he or she explaining what they have done to their partners or friends in a previous relationship. Sometimes it might not even start with you but it will end up being you. It's important to leave when you see the first sign if not you will start making excuses for the person and it becomes too late.
It takes a lot of determination and willingness to pull away from abuse, May God open the eyes of all those going through it to the reality of the situation 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love you Frances♥️ the daddy issues part resonated so much, cus I’ve been there. Healing takes a lot of time and effort and I’ll one day get my complete healing.
Well said Frances👌 Also been a victim of abuse; but it only gets better when you live that space of negativity and find peace or better still being your own peace,self love and happiness… it takes time but you will surely heal❤
Frances you’re so intelligent and very strong 😊. It took me a while to focus on God , but i can say that I’m living In answered prayer’s already because i believe in God and i learnt and started to love myself first before any other thing . God loves us all , we just need to get close to him ❤ and everything will be easy 🙏
I have gone through the same we started dating when I was 15 he was cheating and always beating me we broke up last when I was 19 I still love him but I know I deserve better and I am still healing
I felt so emotional in the end 😢😢 Abuse is totally wrong and it makes people who isn't yet in a relationship to be scared of being in one. As she said Trust God leading and guidance, thanks so much for this Miss Frances ❤
You just have to love FT🥺Thank you so much for sharing this. May God give everyone thee dream they so desire, Amen. I pray everyone going through domestic violence would find healing fr💓Cheers to beautiful beginnings😘
France i bring liking u since the first day i watch ur vlog but this make my like u more u give motivation inspriation i no dis make me do better in life
Thank you for your words. It is never easy to go out. It takes courage and for you to love yourself enough to know you have better. The process of healing is hard. We all will get better ❤. Love you frances
Abuse can be both verbal and physical and most at times it starts with verbal then becomes physical. And if you find yourself in any of this, please pray ask God for the strength to leave because it isn't easy, it is not easy but please try , because as Frances said God loves you too much to give you someone who will talk down on you, insult you or hit you, and if you know someone in such a situation, instead of getting angry or offended that the person isn't listening or mocking the person please pray for them, ask God to remove them from that situation. God help us all.
Sincerely,people think it’s easy to detach,I tell what; it’s manipulative that’s why you need time to separate yourself.thanks for sharing your thoughts
Lovely video shoot❤❤❤, the nails and brow is beautiful too❤❤❤. Any form of abuse whether physical, emotional or verbal etc shouldn’t be condoned at all👌👌👌
Hey sisterrrr, looking good as always. This abuse of a thing has tramatized me that I decided never to date anymore. Thank you for speaking out, we've always been in the dark. Regardless I've missed you.
I love you even more for the strength to do this video Just got dumped by an abusive guy in a situationship it hurts that he left but I know God answered my prayers and this video is a confirmation
I have been in two verbally abuse relationships, i so understand, I was miserable and trauma bonded twice. God kept telling me though that I can do better. I’m glad he gave me strength to come out both times, the person I am getting married to now is Gods Gift to me. It’s like God created him for me. Daddy issues nearly ruined me. Thank God for his mercies
I honestly can’t wait for u to get married cause u look great with victony🥰😍😚and I wish I met u the day u went to ikeja,I’ll be soo delighted 😍🤓and thank you for the motivation,it means a lot♥️
