What I WISH Men knew about Women 

So sad . Thank you for sharing this.

May I ask what is your advice to a man on this ?

you have no idea how much I love reading it!!

@@MagdaKay I will genuinely help you on your journey to educate the masses

The funny thing is, the woman that robbed me kept preaching that very same thing before our date. How I needed to make her feel safe, how vulnerable she was, how scary I am... and it all blind sided me as I tried every way to make her feel comfortable right before she sprung the trap on me. But who cares?

fully agree with you. the safety in fact comes from the masculine energy, and I do recognize that in women, we haven't really developed it. we've been in a way expecting that from men. and how our masculine is, projects outwards and can impact how others approach us.

Magda Kay Oh, don’t get me wrong... I agree with your video that more men should be supporting feminine energy... it’s a wonderful gift from masculine to feminine and there’s far too little divine masculinity in the world these days. I just meant that it should come from centered, calm energy and not fight-flight energy. Men, especially, need to develop this centeredness these days. Everyone would be happier ;)

oh, wow. amazing

thats a good point. i'll try to cover it in my next months AskMagda

what's your biggest concern?

@@MagdaKay Blows to confidence. Gold diggers. Nutcases sabotaging/lying about contraception. Being misread as a creep, while knowing the initiative expectation is almost certainly on me so I have to risk it at some point anyway. Being much less likely to be raped doesn't make you a tank, nor it makes you perceive yourself as one. Our perception of interacting with strangers in any context doesn't depend first and foremost on what's in our pants or what's our body mass but levels of trust we have towards average person.

Matt Tillman I think it’s not just about physical safety and more about a woman trusting your masculine core. Is a man grounded, centered, and unfazed by the power of her emotions? Can she trust him to be her rock (emotionally) or does he freak out or not listen when she tests him? You are correct, men try to fix things. But, very often, all women want is for you to be steady and centered when they are emotional. You don’t have to “fix” anything, just stay totally centered. If we can do that, it creates a sense of safety, and safety creates openness, and openness creates attraction.

Just read your comment, that’s so sad, glad it would be a different ball game now

@@shaneanderson4177 Thank you Shane, I appreciate it.

@@CheekyYogaClub You’re welcome. Actually I just, snooped your channel. Way to go yoga lady! I liked the one with the winter scenery, and you look great! I’m glad you’re enjoying yoga! I decided to subscribe, not sure if I can do yoga but I do know it has many benefits, even very old, ancient benefits . I hope it has helped you a lot I’m sure it has!

While being prepared is a good thing, always, this topic goes deeper to a simple but very real difference between men and women I've observed over the years. An example might help. My wife's relative had her house robbed - she was not there at the time - and went to a local self-defense master to learn some hand to hand defense techniques. He looked up at her 6 foot 3, 320 lb frame of mostly muscle and asked, "Why?" Her size and physical strength were more than enough as it was. She said to him, "I feel afraid." He nodded and enrolled her, understanding that the need for training, in her case, was not due to a lack of physical stature/strength. Magda has done well to speak out about something that intrinsically us men just don't experience in general (some men are damaged or have been beaten but usually, especially when younger, we feel like we could take on the World with one hand tied behind our back - and win! :-) ...I know I did :-) ). In my old age I might need two hands. The priority for a feeling of safety for women is much, much higher than with us and it is good to be reminded of that. I do love that old saying, "God made all men and Mr. Colt made all men equal!" Especially in the case of women who are generally much smaller than men, in jurisdictions where self-defense by firearm is allowed, it is a powerful self-defense tool, IMHO.