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What is it REALLY Like to Be Married to an Indian Man? 3 Foreigners Share | Ep. 72 | Invisible India 

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Hearing others' perspectives always brings out new perspectives. I interviewed two other women who are married to Indians who bring various cultural and linguistic background to their stories. Sheida is from Iran living in Canada. Parneet is French, living in Belgium.
I asked the various questions to bring out these women's thoughts and experiences:
1) Things you enjoy about being married to an Indian
2) Your favorite thing about Indian culture
3) One challenge of being cross culturally married.
Hear their thoughts, opinions and be exposed to different cultural perspectives.
Find Parneet @paris_punjabexpress and Sheida on Instagram.
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@batteleyyachtlife9957
@batteleyyachtlife9957 Год назад
I'm also married to a Indian man. We have been married nearly 18 years. I love Indian food, particular Channa Masala. I am totally accepted and feel loved by his family.
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
thats so wonderful. i'm so glad you found this channel. My full audio episodes can be found on apple podcasts, spotify, google, wherever podcasts are found!
@shellpen7326
@shellpen7326 3 месяца назад
Lucky, many aren’t aloud to marry outside their caste let alone their culture, plus normally they’ll get forced to get married by arranged marriage by 35. If you end up falling in love and their family won’t accept you, you’re in for a lot of heartbreak 💔
@caterinatitus1991
@caterinatitus1991 Год назад
I've just come across your podcast and really enjoy it - thank you! My husband is half Indian (South Indian & French) but presents very Indian. I was raised in an Indian ashram in the US Midwest, where I learned Sanskrit at school, yoga and meditation and was more. After 30 years of marriage and 3 kids (who grew up going to temple etc) we're unpacking and reinventing the aspects of the culture that most resonate with us. It's wonderful exploring this with other TCK's and multi-cultural families. Much love from Iowa!
@Mails2NitinSood
@Mails2NitinSood Год назад
Dear Jessica Ji, it's really Gud to know that U r in India for long back 16 years, and married to Abhishek ji 12 years ago. When two different cultures understand, respect and meet together, then life is just like Immortal nectar....
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
Thank you for the compliment.
@VikramXCurious
@VikramXCurious Год назад
@@IndiaWithJessica Ma'am do you do Chhath pooja.
@sanjitneogi8017
@sanjitneogi8017 Год назад
Thank you for your honesty Jessica. I love you and respect for your honesty.
@nayanmdesai
@nayanmdesai Год назад
I AM MARRIED TO A INDIAN HUSBAND FROM KENYA. I AM A PONIA/NAGI TRAINED WIFE.
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 11 месяцев назад
awesome
@sridhar7258
@sridhar7258 Год назад
Your indianess is greatly appreciated 🙏
@NK-kj7ki
@NK-kj7ki 2 года назад
Loved it 🧡
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
thanks
@Pankajananda8623
@Pankajananda8623 Год назад
I like her videos even before watching it in full. Reason: after watching a few, I so liked them all.
@venkatreddy8829
@venkatreddy8829 Год назад
Very educational and eye opener comments and thanks for sharing
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
So nice of you
@ronny383
@ronny383 11 месяцев назад
Wonderful!🙏
@sushmajamwal8075
@sushmajamwal8075 2 года назад
French lady have great knowledge about Indian folk dance.
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
she really does!
@Rainbow_1981
@Rainbow_1981 11 месяцев назад
I agree with most of it what you say 😂 indian culture families like to be involved with things happening with the family members at the same time my parents gave me n my sister the freedom to choose education/ profession/ partners though the last one wasn’t as easy as I said here. These days parents are more open to choose your own partner/ moving abroad for education/jobs.
@Typing332
@Typing332 3 месяца назад
Proud be indian boy ❤❤
@manindermann8164
@manindermann8164 6 месяцев назад
Suggestion ask them to first give a good introduction background , show the couple's photo, years of marriage, and kids, and how they met, what they do for a living? then p
@shantanuprakashnke
@shantanuprakashnke 2 года назад
Haha last segment, beta beti nahi le jate hain. 😂 you are just spot on about it .
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
yep. my mother in law is the best!
@lalabhaisevusal3674
@lalabhaisevusal3674 Год назад
Wow this is amazing
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
appreciate it
@KejriwalBhakt
@KejriwalBhakt 11 месяцев назад
I never knew you were married to a Bihari. As a Bihari, I have mixed feelings. I always imagine foreigners finding it difficult to adjust to the backwardness of bihar in particular and india in general. I am not concerned about cleanliness or etc. But in general the Indian people arent mature enough to adjust with different skin colors. Hope you stay beautiful and happy eternally. And I hope you find India as a pleasant surprise everyday.
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 11 месяцев назад
keep watching. :)
@amarnathjha8319
@amarnathjha8319 Год назад
Indian man will always respect you as a spouse. This is a relationship of 7 lives, not of 7 years only(US statistics of average marriage). So girls date India. Indian parents are very open minded like west. If son or daughter decides to marry person from different culture they will advise you pro and con; advise you to adjust; advise you to learn language and custom of your would be spouse. Hey, at end of the day, we all behave the same way.
@shellpen7326
@shellpen7326 3 месяца назад
Most Indian parents won’t allow them to marry outside their culture at all??? The Indian man I know his parents won’t budge, only want him to marry in his caste so 🤷🏻‍♀️
@priyashmukherjee3015
@priyashmukherjee3015 2 года назад
*LOVE FROM INDIA*
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
thanks back to you from India
@Irises58
@Irises58 Год назад
I do agree with parmeet that students have to really work hard and all but however we do have Indian ceos of all top companies in the world so that's explainable
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
Exactly 💙
@cookwithbene1516
@cookwithbene1516 2 года назад
Wow this is amazing very interesting massage and really helpful thanks for sharing my dear ❤ 🤝🛎
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
Thank you too
@emotionalIntelligence2078
@emotionalIntelligence2078 Год назад
Yeah a lot of pressure on studies skewed to just textbooks and no other activities as such(New curriculum passed recently).Still French person talking about child's mental health 😅 -eventhough they have a good education system
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
ya
@navinjain3028
@navinjain3028 Год назад
Great
@Amit-9km
@Amit-9km Год назад
May apka new subscriber Jessica ji mujhe apke bare me ek channel se pata chala jaha aap kisi ladke ko interview de Rahi thi thi blue 🔵 saree me Aap bahut achi Hindi bolti Hain aur English ka kya hi kehna ati uttam 😊 May yah kamna karta hun ki apka channel jald hi grow kre aur 5lakh subscriber ho jaye
@gooddayok
@gooddayok Год назад
Indian Education has given CEO to Most of Fortune 500 companies
@GoluSharma-eo6yl
@GoluSharma-eo6yl Год назад
M foreign girl s shadi krna chata hu, par m india m hi rhta hu. Muje ky krna chahie
@user-cd1fu4rj7c
@user-cd1fu4rj7c 6 месяцев назад
Nice and sweet video
@user-qr9tx9rb5h
@user-qr9tx9rb5h Год назад
जेसिका जी आपका बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
Welcome
@Harta23
@Harta23 2 года назад
Good afternoon dear friend Greeting from MACAU CHINA Thanks so much for great sharing 💕💕
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
Thanks for visiting
@rohitsarker1054
@rohitsarker1054 4 месяца назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@proud2318
@proud2318 Год назад
Very innovative ma'am. Can you do a series or talk on cultural nuances of USA for folks immigrating or working there ? Some cultural dos and donts. Also can the husband's also answer these 3 questions?
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 11 месяцев назад
my podcast has a lot of this, yes. look at my playlist
@harshdhoka
@harshdhoka Год назад
Jessica I use to follow you on Instagram. I am really happy that you like India so much.
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 11 месяцев назад
cool
@harshdhoka
@harshdhoka 11 месяцев назад
@@IndiaWithJessica how much difference has to been in your life after coming to India from USA. Don't you miss that life which is so carefree compare to India been a little conservative.
@akanshraj1353
@akanshraj1353 2 года назад
Hello mam i am from bihar some native say in Bihar there is nothing yes there is corruption but many are hard worker mostly indian u found outside India u will found bihari and even in Mumbai and Delhi mostly are bihari native are winning in every filed we r hard worker we r good in math even u find most ias ips from bihar yes bihar is backward in finance term but slowly it improving fast thanks for ur time and u see in Mumbai and Delhi they r running towards west but bihari never stop follow culture there is difference we r ground to earth and cultural too .
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
yes of course,, thats why I do many videos about Bihar. TO break stereotypes
@deepanshusaxena3831
@deepanshusaxena3831 Год назад
@@IndiaWithJessica use #tags for more reach about topics
@shyamsundertyagi2839
@shyamsundertyagi2839 11 месяцев назад
Be happy jessica ji your smiling so cute
@bimalnayak158
@bimalnayak158 Год назад
Beautiful time
@ach4049
@ach4049 2 года назад
What I am curious about it is: are they obligated to go on with the arranged marriage? It is okay to call it off before the wedding? What are the grounds to cancel it before it happens?
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
who do you mean by "they?" Indian people in general or foreigners married to Indians?
@ach4049
@ach4049 2 года назад
Indians in general. They have to carry on with the arrangements their families do or they can get away from that without scandal? @@IndiaWithJessica
@kihonojohn
@kihonojohn Год назад
@@ach4049 Um ..Indian here , um In arranged marriages partner is chosen by parents and my parents are also a product of it . Well ultimately your parents search for partner but they search until you pick one . They kinda keep providing u with options until u pick . Hope it answers your question
@h.nmurthymurthy6560
@h.nmurthymurthy6560 Год назад
♥️♥️
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
thanks
@abhishek2026
@abhishek2026 2 года назад
subscribed and liked, mam par hume to hindi aati hai ye to non-indian ko seekhna chahiye naa, aap hindi course wala advt. english me kijiye.
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
thank you ji
@arindammohanta4276
@arindammohanta4276 Год назад
Have a any foreigen girl for married? i am indian Boy.
@INVINCIBLESYBETROSS
@INVINCIBLESYBETROSS Год назад
The anchor has the authority that only can be.... earned. Or was given by her mother in law.
@Genlogsgaming15
@Genlogsgaming15 7 месяцев назад
litti chokha khaye kya kaisan ba
@adityaaditya3933
@adityaaditya3933 Год назад
Love from jaipur rajasthan ❤️
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
back to you
@surveenrussianchannel1328
@surveenrussianchannel1328 2 года назад
💝💝💝💝💝💝
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
thank you!
@mrarya0412
@mrarya0412 2 года назад
I am also from bihar mam and i proud to be bihari 😊😊😊
@saawanjaiswal
@saawanjaiswal 2 года назад
Kuchh hai proud karne layak?
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
Jai Bihar!
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
keep your negative comments to yourself.
@Abhishekkumar-sc6ji
@Abhishekkumar-sc6ji Год назад
@@IndiaWithJessica Nice reply.... thanks 👍👍
@Abhishekkumar-sc6ji
@Abhishekkumar-sc6ji Год назад
@@saawanjaiswal Dirty mind.. Dirty politics..... Shame on you 🤮🤮
@lalabhaisevusal3674
@lalabhaisevusal3674 Год назад
Love from India
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
thanks. love from india back to you
@ravindrasingh897
@ravindrasingh897 2 года назад
Auto subtitles dijiye kripiya
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
ok will try next time
@Singh-ed4os
@Singh-ed4os Год назад
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 ❤️❤️❤️❤️Punjab
@GoluSingh-dx7vy
@GoluSingh-dx7vy Год назад
Good morning bhabhi ji 👏👌🙏
@utkarshraj7857
@utkarshraj7857 11 месяцев назад
good to know,but still indian women are the first choice for most indian men who would have settled in say west.
@akashraj-cn5le
@akashraj-cn5le Год назад
i like chhath puja in bihar state
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 11 месяцев назад
ok
@peacebonuer2183
@peacebonuer2183 Год назад
Really, useful! What about a black African lady marrying an indian man? What is it like?
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
i will try to find a match like that to interview. I did ask one couple, but they were not available to make the video.
@yoursronak2363
@yoursronak2363 2 месяца назад
Didi mere liye bhi angrezi dulhan dhund do
@arkapravabhattacharya3118
@arkapravabhattacharya3118 2 года назад
Jessica do you have an Indian citizenship? If yes, was it difficult to procure one? How easy/difficult is it for a white American national with no Indian national to get an Indian citizenship? Also tell us, have you ever faced active or passive racism in India?
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
I talk about the racism in India on Episode 9 "Being White in India" - feel free to check that one out. The other stuff, I don't feel comfortable commenting on in in public forum. ;)
@arkapravabhattacharya3118
@arkapravabhattacharya3118 2 года назад
@@IndiaWithJessica I listened to the entire podcast…thanks for sharing…I could understand it from a foreigner’s perspective …that was very informative…thank you
@rakeshkumarsharma8823
@rakeshkumarsharma8823 2 года назад
Aap Hindi bolti hi 🙏🙏 🙏
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
hannji
@world-Mix-Eeaction
@world-Mix-Eeaction Год назад
Mem abhi or aaiya he foreigner ladki india boy ki sadi ki copule Russia garman america south Korea Italy jiyada he india me or vindaban me ap jao ak bar bahar ki ladki hindu culsure apne liya uska culsure chor diya apko mil ke atcha lage ga logoko jiyada russia n milega 😍
@Imroh17
@Imroh17 2 года назад
You know it's very hard to leave your home country and settle in some other country. As of now you live in India but do u ever feel like returning to the USA with your husband when u both grow older or when your children start earning their livelihood? If I were in your place I would surely want to return to my home country. Just saying.
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 2 года назад
its possible. lets see what happens.
@SherSingh-mk9th
@SherSingh-mk9th Год назад
@@IndiaWithJessicaDear Jessica ji, isn’t it more likely you’ll have a better family support system in your old age, particularly from your children? Just wondering 🙏😊
@billiewillard8381
@billiewillard8381 Год назад
Is all Indian food hot?
@narendermakhijani9512
@narendermakhijani9512 Год назад
It is spicy. It depends on u how much hot peppers u want to add to make it hot. .go indian restaurant or get some frozen indian foods from grocery store
@devendrahansmani6095
@devendrahansmani6095 Год назад
Hello mem
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
namaste
@simona6395
@simona6395 Год назад
i reelly need to poop
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica 11 месяцев назад
why?
@simona6395
@simona6395 11 месяцев назад
@@IndiaWithJessica because i love you!!!!
@user-saraswatidevi
@user-saraswatidevi 7 месяцев назад
​@@simona6395💀 क्या
@austinhastings7824
@austinhastings7824 Год назад
And i think every south asian should marry foreigner girl..
@austinhastings7824
@austinhastings7824 Год назад
Girls are interested come to india we are willing to get married..atleast we are educated clean from any kind of addiction.
@IndiaWithJessica
@IndiaWithJessica Год назад
Yesss💖
@austinhastings7824
@austinhastings7824 Год назад
Sometimes i feel arab people are the best atleast they care their women..and their pride So atleast white people are not great they are like a average indians.
@RefCursor
@RefCursor Год назад
There is a difference between care and dictatorship Mr. Austin, you won't get it about my India. We care/respect our women.
@seeker9497
@seeker9497 9 месяцев назад
This women do not show that in india, woman can not easily marry as per her choice. She even got killed for doing Intercaste marriage, thats called honor killings. This American woman could easily marry out of her religion, but in India woman can't marry out of caste within same religion. 3-4 crore female foeticide happened in India, still happening. This American woman is getting all the views for her white skin, because indian loves it.
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