I have to pay my abuser, who lied and provided no documentation at the mediation showing she has income when she does, and a PFA...my wife was very manipulative , very abusive and abandoned me. I was so brainwashed at the time.I begged her back but she wouldn't come back. Once she realized I was capable on without her.She got upset and then she wanted to come back and buy then as shot for what it was. I was even giving her mobecause she was making me feel bad. Once you start getting abusive and violent again ( The same woman who tried to get me killed and fired and evicted and publicly shamed me and even at work), I had to get a PFA. I STILL gave her money During the p f a because she would still show up and make me feel bad and scream at me and threaten me. I think she knew that I wouldn't have her put in jail, That's why she continuously violated it. Now she wants me to cosign.Another car learned for her because, according to her.I have to and it's my job.Uh when all I want now at this point is a divorce but I cannot afford one, But when I said no things got real bad, And then the PFA ran out and things got real real real bad for me, And the money I was giving her didn't meet her needs (mostly her drug habit of meth) she sued me for more through spousal support. Ironically, we both work at the same place, but she had just recently quit before.She filed for the spousal support. She's on ticket to work through social security.So she has been making double income for every year now and it provide any pay stops or anything for our hearing in front of the mediator. But a decision was made and I have to pay the person.I had to get a legal order for protection from abuse against. I have to pay the person who abandoned me And quit their job right before they said they have no income.They need spousal support and got it. I can't afford an attorney and it's $400 for the packet alone in P.A. It's insane to me in any case that a victim would have to pay their abuser in any scenario but in a state and in fayette county, that's the law of the land. I'm scared to death to file the de.Nuvo, For fear of enraging her or having to possibly pay even more money to my abuser.
