I think dress #3 is perfect! I love the sequins and the color and it fits beautiful on you. I don’t think it’s “too loud” or inappropriate. Maybe it’s because I associate weddings to be held at night and be a formal affair (at least that’s how they are in my culture). If the wedding is to be held in the afternoon, maybe something more like a “tea party” dress would be more fitting. I don’t know. Maybe context would be needed.
@@ladymire It will be fine, if it is a spring colour or pastel theme. The second one is a bit on the dark side and all the others are just - no, non, nee, nein, never ever.
@@ladymire You guys lack faith in your bride and your groom. Obviously they will be the center of attention. Duh. I find these Non Asian weddings so weird... Like, why do you guys always have a problem with ladies dressing up?? Are your brides that insecure? I never seen groom have any problems with their male friends shining and looking good.
@@ladymirenah standing out in a wedding is bad now? The bride and groom will 100% get all the attention even if you practically have a very shiny dress, trust me
Omg thank you I have no idea why the top comment is saying the opposite, I think the first one and the third one are WAYY more eye-catching (especially the first one), the second one looked the least eye-catching but still really pretty and perfectly suitable for a wedding
Yes, I wore dresses like that (floral/long/black & white pattern) to at least 5 U.S. Weddings & it was a HIT!!- (Also, I always avoid wearing something too fancy, flirty, lacy, shiny, or anything all-White!!)- Have fun!~💗
You can’t look sexier than the bride might, gotta ditch the best for the 2nd best, because you’d want someone else to do the same on your day too, lol.
@@LIROSTRAWBLES I’ve been to a couple of weddings and there are some unwritten rules like the bride wearing a silk saree and the regular people wearing regular cotton but that’s just my opinion
yeah, she should keep them for sure but NOT wear them to a wedding unless she gets the OK from the bride. Bride would have to be fun and spunky and have a funky colorful themed wedding.
Yeah in some cultures it seen as rude to dress up fancier or more loud than the bride, so yeah, probably option 2. Option one and three are still pretty but they’re just… A little loud 😅
The second, please- all the other ones scream “I want the attention”, which is not what you want at someone else’s wedding. It’s all about the bride and the groom.
@@fluffypineapple790 you’re getting invited to celebrate THEIR day because they want you there, not because they want you to be the center of attention
I never really understood that about white weddings. In our culture, there’s no such thing as “outshining the bride” lol sounds the most childish shit ever. The bride and groom themselves would feel very offended if people didn’t try their hardest to stand out and look the best on their wedding day.
You are beautiful and can literally pull off anything. I would always stick to feminine dresses for weddings and nothing too wow. Don’t want to piss of the bride. The last two dresses are very appropriate. Also the second one. Keep the third for your birthday
I think option 4 was the best LOL. The pink one looked like you were ready to work at a car wash and the purple one that you mentioned you had when you were five looked more of NYE dress than for a wedding
Silhouette of 2, don’t wear black to a wedding unless it is black tie or better dress code or specifically requested in the invite. Some consider it bad luck. The time of day of the wedding could impact the formality of the event.
2 and 5. You don’t want to be louder than the bride. It’s not a time to shine the brightest: it’s a day you go and celebrate someone else, so it’s best to not be flashy.
@@kkqq8037 its just common sense to not wear something flashy or white out of respect for the bride. also common sense not to wear flip flops or jeans. set rules is where the bride and groom request all guests to be in one specific color.
Option 3 or 4, both those purple dresses are 🔥🔥🔥💜they're all great dresses!! But do not ever wear the first one to a wedding. That's totally inappropriate. But it's a very fun dress for a party!
I’ve been to around 50 weddings (a lot of Italian relatives) and I have a good amount of experience in this department. Dress 2 and 5 are probably the most appropriate. Dress 2 probably more so. The last thing you want to do as a woman at a wedding is outshine the bride or draw attention away from the bride. It’s HER day, not yours. Wear something simple, modest, and NOT too extravagant. Basically what I’m saying is that dress 1 and 3 are extremely inappropriate to attend someone else’s wedding with. Hope this helps!
@@reiinU yes, exactly. The other dresses were flamboyant and would take attention away from the bride. That to me seems like a more appropriate dress to wear
I always suggest sending photos of them to the bride and letting her decide. If it were my wedding, that first one, the pink one, I would encourage you to wear, because you are rocking it and its a fantastic color on you.
@@check2653 Some do. Not most. But I have heard of weddings with a disco or hippo themes. Those would be the only times I could see the 1 and 3 dresses not being ridiculous choices.
@@Straw_berry_671 No, it does not depend on the wedding. It is #1 rule for all weddings - DO NOT try to outshine the bride. Don't do that - it is very rude. It is not your day to shine. It is the wedding couple's day to shine. So, dial it back about 10, and don't do that - Be respectful to the wedding couple. If they wear a burlap sack - you better be showing up in a Hefty bag dress.
@@valkyre420 I don't think you get but not every wedding has this rule especially if it's the brides choice and all cultures are different and we shouldn't disrespect it.
@@valkyre420 I have no idea what your talking about all I'm trying to say is that not every wedding has this "rule" and can make up other rules to follow maybe you have to wear all black or wear a really pretty dress it's all up the bride. Also in different cultures around the world you can even look/dress up prettier to the bride but it's all up to the brides choice once again
4th is appropriate cuz 1st is for cocktail or bachelor party, 2nd one is for the picnic or family get-together wear, 3rd is a reception or after party wear, last one is an office party wear or tea party wear.
the only thing you have to keep in mind when it comes to weddings is that you dont want to steal the spotlight from the bride. So I think options 2 and 4 are the most appropriate
Am I the only one who thinks the whole “I don’t want my guests to steal the spotlight” thing is literally so narcissistic?? Like wouldn’t you want your friends and family to look great at your wedding too as they’re there to support you?? Why would you want them to deliberately dress not as nice as they potentially could? Getting mad at guests wearing nice fancy clothes to weddings seems like such a bridezilla thing to me. Like as long as it’s not a long white dress so they don’t get mistaken for the bride, I don’t see any problem. Random rant but yeah, wedding culture in the west is so wierd to me.
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy well i don't think it's about being narcissistic.. even if the bride herself doesn't get mad at someone, i think it is basic manners to not to try outshine the bride herself.. it is their wedding,the most special day for them,they should be the main focus.. so going to a wedding wearing something "too much" just seems very ill mannered to me. And i don't think it's a western only thing either. I'm Asian myself, and I would never wear something that would outshine the bride.. that feels super weird and rude to me
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy It’s definitely not just a western thing, it’s basic respect in my culture to wear something that doesn’t resemble a bride’s dress or something flashy that will outshine the bride. Just common sense and respect, like how you wouldn’t wear a wedding dress to a wedding
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy it’s more narcissistic to think that it’s ok to take the spotlight away from someone else’s day, seeing as they’ve invited you from a free party and free food
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy dude it is their special day…it is nice to be selfless once in a while you know? It is just being considerate of other’s feelings
@@taylorgayhart9497 I would agree, but with the front cutouts, it's just a bit too revealing. Of course, that kind of depends on the crowd, but you don't want to be flaunting too much when it's someone else's special day.
@@YinYu_.7 uh yeah exactly that makes sense, you obvi don't know wedding appropriate dresses since you've been to '1 wedding' throughout your entire life.
@@YinYu_.7 I've never been to a wedding, but the only appropriate wedding dress was #2 and *maybe* #4, emphasis on maybe, because you never want to outshine the bride at the wedding, it's disrespectful and can draw the attention to yourself, unless there's a theme including white then it can also be seen as disrespectful to wear white at a wedding
I agree. Unless the married couple tells you otherwise always go for the more subtle option. Now if they tell you go ham, wear whatever you’d like, take that as you wish.
@@myyou7335 It’s at least not offensive for a wedding like the 1st and 3rd. I doubt she would step on anyone’s toes wearing it even if it looks a little out of place.
No they don’t….she’s probably going to a wedding of someone her age…so no people aren’t gonna give her attention…y’all got some outdated ideas on women. I’m Fr gonna elope god.
@@check2653 All the other dresses are inappropriate for a wedding, like the pink one was too bright, the purple one was too loud and the other purple one showed off too much skin. The reason number 2 is appropriate is because it is the simplest (out of all the dresses) and not distracting. The reason people won't wear colourful or fun dresses is because it outshines the bride - which you never want to do. The bride is supposed to be the most beautiful, and showing up with a dress that outshines hers is rude.
I would also probably go with a second or last. But in all honesty I just wear something a slight bit dressy. Not like casual casual wear but something a little bit nicer. But don't outdo the bride. You said that right
The second is great if your bride is smash bang gorgeous, but otherwise the last one does work as it is a rather safe choice for a wedding, don't outdo your bride. Also try to match your brides color scheme if she has one, if you can, it's always a nice gesture of friendship
No black isn’t usually okay to wear at weddings, though the dress is acceptable. The last two are the best. The last one can also be dressed to look classy without making her look like she’s an old lady.
European weddings are like that. For Indian weddings, even if everyone wears their fanciest dress (and they do. It can't be too plain for weddings), it is literally impossible to upstage the bride.
@@aSPOONFULofSAMMYohh no lol not the lilac one.. that one cute but not for a wedding in my opinion either... plus an adjustment on the back would have been needed.. it looked one size to big.. I had to watch the video a few times cause number weren't mentioned on all lol.. so the 2nd that's mostly black I thought was stunning and the spring dress with the full puff sleeves that went up to the neck was realllly cute.. I couldn't pull it off and the material I thought was perfect for the colors and cut.
@@casiedomingos5197 just don't wear anything, that could bring attention to you like too much skin shown, flashy colors or over the top accessoires Just something neat, something formal (unless specified otherwise), something simple
@@YunaMiyamotono way . If someone is pretty they will attract attention even if covered head to toe . So if you are prettier than the bride you are going to be noticed even in a potato sac😂 and its her wedding doesn't mean i should look bad. I wear something as per my taste , if the bride's taste is bad she will look bad so do i dress bad for her no way. Western brides are too insecure , all girls in india dress best for weddings but they can never outdo the bride and also no rules like that to put the pomp and show down rather other way round even the bride wants the guest to show up in their best clothes . Just be confident in yourself as a bride and all sorted
@@144sanskrutishah4 it's totally ok, as long as the couple is fine with it. Sure my statement is based on western tradition, I don't deny that. But if the bride wants to be the most beautiful girl at the celebration, let her be (of course as long as she doesn't demand longlasting changes to your body like dying or cutting your hair) It's totally fine if the weddings you go to allow all to dress how they want Just do what the couple wants the celebration to be, because they're the ones being celebrated
@@YunaMiyamoto no only if they specify a dress code if not you wear anything good and modest ya I agree not too revealing but it doesn't mean I can't be glam just cause it's her wedding. If so insecure then don't call anyone and stay locked up indoors lol
I live and grew up basically right next to a Danish Military training base. How little secrecy there is around it compared to this is like it’s two different planets. That training facility trains the royal guard, but they allow the public access to the grounds when they aren’t doing anything dangerous. The grounds are really beautiful and a great place for birdwatching, my mom goes on walks there when it’s open. A few years ago they even gave back a lot of their land to the public and that is now a protected area for wildlife.
It’s not supposed to scream look at me it’s supposed to be something that highlights the bride in my opinion not that look at me as a bad thing not trying to judge just saying
Having been to at least 12 weddings that I can name off the top of my head, 2 is the best option. The last one is a decent choice as well. The other three are absolutely out of the question, especially the first one.
It shows that you guys don’t have logic sense she does not know she’s not taking the spot light and the pride is definitely wherein something better then that and it’s not her fault she has barely been to weddings and you quoting it wrong. “I don’t know what appropriate dresses are” are wrong she added wedding dresses so ur saying she has no style what so ever? Or was it a mistake?
