@akshayanand4443 .....Not every father is like that.....When i look at my father,I see Big Degrees,I see Fame,I see Narcisism and Selfishness...!.....I don't see Love,I don't see Compassion,I definitely don't see Endurance!..
@@constipatedbowels3473additionally, you see hypocrisy & delusionalism with your own mental and physical health as collateral damage. Same team bhai, let's keep our spirits high, zindagi ke manthan hai bas ye, aage hee jayenge 🔨🔨🔨
This is one of the best videos of your channel bro. Each and every words of yours was speaking to the inner me. That line - Become the largest tree under which most people can find shade. Maybe this is the mission or purpose for me from now onwards. And also thanks for putting it out for free man ❤❤❤❤
Movies usually represent a semi fictional world, in real world there are more refined role models to look upto. Shelby aint that realistically stoic or masculine as MS Dhoni is
Enjoyed this. Few thoughts. 1. There might not be glamour in women joining the workforce but what it offers is financial autonomy which then offers freedom - to exercise your will in the world and exit out of marriages and family structures if they get corrupt and abusive. 2. At the end, Prakhar tried to define the role of the masculine and feminine where he says something along the lines of: the traditionally masculine acts in the world and the traditionally feminine enjoys it. I think the latter is different - the traditionally feminine human creates the resources and environment to nourish the masculine to be a more effective actor. The enjoyment of life is something they can both partake in once the survival need has been catered to. 3. The traditionally masculine and feminine roles are drastically diluted in 2023 in societies with an effective law and order system, job security, easily accessible resources and food and shelter. This makes the job of being a man or a woman drastically easier. With the smoothing of this friction, the traditionally masculine archetype is able to exercise it’s will to greater extents and achieve new heights with each generation from which society benefits and the individual is celebrated. Therefore, there is an incentive to aim in this direction. The smoothing of friction with playing traditionally feminine roles plays out differently. A lot of women now have choice on how they wish to exercise their ability to give birth and cope with menstruation allowing them greater mobility, therefore the nourishing function of a household is now being shared by both men and women so that both can act effectively in the world. Furthermore, the easy access to food with a supply chain, caregiving resources for children like nannies, daycare, easy access of travel for relatives makes the nurturing part of a household easier. To summarize, we now are able to be less vary of danger and care for ourselves much more easily than we could before. In light of that, roles between men and women are becoming more interchangeable. The family unit is also hence becoming less hierarchical. We still bear responsibility for ourselves, our parents, our spouses and our children but we welcome them into a world where mankind is thriving and therefore able to go further than ever before. The new masculine and feminine is set to break and push boundaries.
very very very interesting the way you've put it. you've offered an interesting and new perspective on it than the one i've held for a while now, this is a more neutral, more subjective one. definitely one that i am going to explore more with time. my stance on this still leans towards the idea that a reduction in dimorphism between men and women on a large scale is probably detrimental to society. i think its hard to escape the biological tendency of who we are and what path of least resistance to take. i like having sexual dimorphism within my environments, within my social groups. i don't look forward to an androgynous society which once again forces us all to conform to capitalist culture. but at the same time part of me recognises and realises that odds are that within the span of my lifetime, i wont have to face such a reality. but like you've said, the new men and women are going to be pushing boundaries, and im interested to see where that goes. but how far is too far, that i do not know.
Great video. I do have to put something forward and would love to hear your take on this. Courage, discipline, responsibility, leadership…..AND care, love, compassion etc. are virtues and traits. There is nothing “inherently” masculine or feminine about this. These are just words being thrown around. This association of Masculine to men and feminine to women is very shallow and pretty useless. When a man is courageous just call him that. When he is playing with his pet dog and taking care of him, he is caring and nurturing, just say that. When a woman is taking responsibility of her family just say she’s responsible. When she’s leading, just call her a leader. This idea that he’s in his feminine and she’s tapping into her masculinity is not needed only. People get confused and become toxic. What is this obsession of reducing every “HUMAN” trait to “masculine” (and ultimately strongly associated with men) or “feminine” (and ultimately strongly associated with women. I understand the historical, survival and tribal dynamics that led to this association but if you reduce every trait to just these two then essentially we are ripping both genders off of their ‘humanness’
That "Ripping both genders off of their humanness" is sooo soo valid. A certain set of traits/emotions are okay for men to show but never the rest of them. Same goes for women. There's not need of this emotional bifurcation to improve yourself and the society.
Masculinity is more like a term which is made to make the men slave to women in this generation, see around you and observe that most of the hard work is being done by men, meanwhile women are always looking for easy jobs and rich guys, to live a comfortable life and they want a slave husband who will provide them everything for free because they have something to bargain with them, you know very well that's the most disturbing part
by this logic the words courage, discipline, responsibility, leadership are all inherently ripping _everyone_ from their humanity. these words are just labels as well. when we use adjectives to describe something we are inherently making a generalisation. you can bring 5 "creative" people into a room but soon realise that all their creativity exists in different forms. courage discipline and leadership are all traits that can be clumped together and generalised and be labelled with "masculinity". language is a limited medium, and yes you are right in that these are all just associations. but all adjectives are associations. that doesn't mean that we'll stop using these words entirely, because we need them for function of communication. the choice is yours whether you want to use these words or not. whether you do or don't is of no concern. both are completely valid.
I am a man (24 year old ) and going through some family shit .. This video made me confident that I am doing right ... On the truth side only .. thin difference
usky uthao woh to tumharay comments bhi nai prhta , he does not care about his followers , he is making money off of his audience , that's all. watch his recent video titled this will change your life in 20 minutes
I discovered you this year through my tough phase of life. Iam very motivated person since the things are going downward in life but today when iam listening this i realise iam just thinking like you i can exactly relate to your father example. After 2 years iam there talking to you how to develop warrior mentality in our kids and make our motherland proud.❤wooho feeling goseebumps in writing yaaaah! Seedhe maut Sidhhu Mossewala baby!! Just my things iam crazy when i listen person is speaking like my inner intent.
There are so many languages in the world and you chose to speak nautanki...but bada wala cringe nibba hai tu😂😂😂...abhi ande se nikla hua chilgoza hai ..jab bada hoga mature adult banega tab pata chalega ki ye sab farzi youtubers kuch bhi faltu bakte rehte hai tum jaise hootiyo ka kaatne and views k liye
पुरुष में थोड़ी-सी पशुता होती है, जिसे वह इरादा करके भी हटा नहीं सकता। वही पशुता उसे पुरुष बनाती है। विकास के क्रम में वह स्त्री से पीछे है। जिस दिन वह पूर्ण विकास को पहुंचेगा, वह भी स्त्री हो जाएगा। ~ प्रेमचंद
Prakhar bhai I have been diagnosed with ADHD . My personality is exact opposite of masculinity due to ADHD. I want to improve but I'm clueless and all my attempts have failed. I'm very confused but don't want to give up. Can you please help me out through a video about ADHD men . My ultimate goal is masculinity and I need your help . Please do no deny or ignore this . Thankyou Prakhar bhai you will always be my source of inspiration.
Meds dnt help with ADHD. It’s a lifestyle accept it . People with ADHD are extremely intelligent but distracted. Try to get into meditation not medication. Build a routine in your life nd surround yourself with people who can bring you back to it when you again lost track nd wandering. Kindly try to go off meds.
What do you think Osho's stance would have been on the idea of red pill? From what I've heard, he emphasized on masculinity and femininity. But many times he emphasized that deep inside we're all the same.
The very core nature of humans, DIVIDING, there's a lot of concerning issues in this world that deserves the attention at the top, but look, where are we at?? "men are more important, look at the contribution we made to the society" "ofc if not for us women, we don't need anyone like you" ..... The peak of human naivety, rn This should be the least concerning(not really) issue we should be focusing at.
bhai aapse bahut kuch seekha hai par pta nhi kyu ab woh relatable waali feel nhi aa rhi, bura mat maanna par kya aap wapis relatable content daal sakte ho, all these current things are a bit over the top IMHO PS aapki purani livestreams ko public kardo , they were pure gold
Carrying load and not being a manchild ... It's necessary.. agreed.. But what are women supposed to do.. if they don't put up masculine roles.. cook, reproduce, go on with their own emotional mayhem like most of the manchildren have.. You seem to be more aggressive on how men should take up responsibility, which they definitely need to btw and not talk even a little about women who are all about using some man for fending for them. You didn't talk about that.. and I've seen that pattern repeating in you.. what are women who don't take masculine roles here for ? enjoying the show.. besides the tough task of menstruating and reproducing and taking care of household.. even that they don't have to do anymore, cuz feminism.. can we talk about feminism.. how it's used for selective freedom and renouncing responsibilities that comes off of idea itself.. why don't you talk openly about it.. is it not politically correct ?
Masculinity is more like a term which is made to make the men slave to women in this generation, see around you and observe that most of the hard work is being done by men, meanwhile women are always looking for easy jobs and rich guys to live a comfortable life and they want a slave husband who will provide them everything for free because they have something to bargain with them, you know very well that's the most disturbing part
Bhai prakhar is the biggest simp you can ever meet, if a man can get p*ssy by pleasing women by his words even if it needs to burden other men then, he would. Remember that
man anything that is against men is okay with prakhar since he is an established man, the suffering of all the other man is irrelevant to him, most of his contents are watched by females and he is constantly setting the standard higher for them which is impossible to be carried by a normal man.
You can observe every single video of prakhar which is only targeting men and not allowing them to be what they are. He is constantly setting a standard for men in this society but you can never find that anyone setting any standard for women, since their life is easy prakhar is trying to make their life more easy by putting men at hard work
There's no such thing as masculine and feminine energy. This has been created by carl Jung that human have soul anima and animus. Which has been taken out of context 80s, 90s feminism. That's why feminist says that woman don't need man. I think we don't have two different energy masculine and feminine. Rather masculinity is related to man and femininity is related to woman and we need each other not just want.
Masculinity is more like a term which is made to make the men slave to women, see around you and observe that most of the hard work is being done by men, meanwhile women are always looking for easy jobs and rich guys to live a comfortable life and they want a slave husband who will provide them everything for free because they have something to bargain with them, you know very well that's the most disturbing part
Agreed , the logical brain is same on an average just hormonal and organ differences are what makes us so damn different and also if we go by Physics the concept of energy is very different from this masculine and feminine shit.
@@Trueneutron abosulty bullshit logical brain ain't same men brain is 10 percent larger than female brain have higher level of testesterone which affects our brain chemistry and women have more grey matter and evolutionary traits which makes men and women complelety different from each other
At 12:20 i think that before a guy move towards feminine he must be masculine enough to be a man first as they say "a man should first be a beast and then carry on towards feminine characters like love , care , etc ".........do u agree?😮
Prakhar Bhaiya, I want to ask one thing, even if we start living for others, being responsible, is there any chance that people will help us back, and bhaiya, this is kalyug , 21st century, majority of people are selfish, they take advantage of good people for their own selfishness. Men and women are cheating on their partners, women in more, for more than satisfaction for ourselves, we are crossing our limits and destroying good people's lives. Do you think, what you are saying is actually true?
37:30 so femininity is adapting and moulding yourself acc to standards and masculinity is putting efforts to change the standars for better living conditions. this is pure dichotomy, everything in binary and i think Prakhar has put it very perfectly. i feel one should have both the characteristics to survive and thrive, do sacrifices which makes you humble, stop living on narcissistic standards of society, care for yourself and your family.
okay fair enough, I know my online comment serves no real value but I will give my two cents regardless. I disagree with the part where you patronize men for being a manchild while appraising women for "fighting" the societal norms, and communicating in a manner where girls become more "mature" than boys. I disagree with that statement completely. I am sure you're privilege enough to not experience the "things" at a young age. Good for you bro like genuinely. However, most "boys" are expected to carry the burden of responsibilities when the family lacks the financials or for that matter in any aspect. You don't know what shit goes through when the family looks down on you or when they treat the son differently while the daughter is still a "princess", when you don't "provide" and essentially you are ostracized from the family decisions for your lack of value and the state of being a liability. I hate the whole narrative "oh women sacrifice more than men... oh women are so mature than men...... but juxtaposing with... he is a manchild....he is a toxic masculine.... he is useless... he is incompetent". Sure men will do everything to become "masculine" in the modern times, we will take the role, we will protect and provide. We will die trying to become the "masculine" self, but what about women? They can be modern, woke, feminist while men become traditional and "virtuous". Oh but you can't tell a girl to not sleep with many boys because that's misogynistic and outdated. I bet you can't say a word on what a woman should be and how they should behave and their "mindset"/"traits". Edit: I have to say, I was a bit extreme with this. I realised men and women both go through struggle and suffering. However, you still appreiciate a man's struggle just like how you appraised women and their "maturity" in the video.
so you think girls arent expected to do something for their family at tough times ? what age are you living bro ? I am an elder brother in my house, but i think the load on me and my sister mentally is the same, even though my parents expect more from me being the elder one and a boy, but as a brother i can see how much my sister struggles and works hard for my family. even if you think its your responsibility more than your sister because you are a man, but the mental stress a girl goes through is the same. i think you have watched too much videos related to western society, which many of the times doesnt relate to the society we live in and start to unnecessarily bring all those things in. acting like this will only repel women from you, remember that.
@@goku9401 I wrote that comment a month ago, when I was so resentful and bitter as I was consuming excessive content. I then did some introspection and took a step back from this and fixed my hatred and contempt for women and stuff. Yeah, some women do experience the same pressure/pain as men. However, I do believe that a man's pain is often overlooked and ignored. Btw, I live in a Western society even tho I am Indian.
desi bat yae hae ki masculinity ka hawa bana kar rakha hae. real masculine man na hi is type ka video dakhta hae aur nhi is bat par jyda dhyan daeta hi kon uska ebarae mae kia bla . balki woh apnae family and close ones ka care and dhakbhal mae busy rahata hae.
Bhai dope de diya yaar... How nicely you elobarated the idea of a man. Somewhere I forgot that it requires challenges to get strength. Completely lost after doing startup , a job at 22. Unemployed by 3 months in hope that I would get clicked something better. But no, i have to completed what i need to. Thanks. Btw shakti aur purush are given concepts, needed someone to explain this much better.
@prakhar I understood who is a man and I myself am a responsible man and I provide for my family and also I understand the Tate perspective as well as the Peterson perspective but I am facing a hard time understanding women. there are many women around me as mothers and friends but I just can't understand in a deep manner what is the meaning of women in existence itself. and I am kind of objectifying women when I think deeply because of media(movies and stuff) but some times i don't understand the meaning of women other than raising the child which is not true I know but still, I am confused when I think and fight between the ideas so can you please make a video about it.
read - the way of the superior man -understand feminine qualities better and you will see how they can deeply impact you and help you. i hope the book and other people in the comments can help you more
Prakhar bhaiya opinion If a man has to be on alert every time, if he is always in a situation where masculine mindset is needed in particularly today's society than he failed to advance in life and he failed in finding a sustainable environment for his family he failed in reaching that 1% or whatever where people aren't fighting rather doing business and business vie is different than streets. A warrior is a great failure if he could not end the battle or at the least kept on fighting in the same ground.
Bro your educational father made a community for mens "mensutra" When you playing with your biological father's money.. So may be this tend jacking gonna kinda grow your channel 🧠
identification with a sect , religion , nationalistic views is also a pleasure or EGO , a person who wants to fill his ego and wanted to live in the illusion of something great or divine { call it god } often identifies with these mere things to boost his ego and representing with such illusion is limiting yourself
@@shubhambhalerao6596 No letting it happen means planting a seed,watering it everyday and waiting for the fruit.. That's feminine energy Rather than forcing and digging up the plant every now and then ..fighting that's masculine
that's not how you evolve. If you confine yourself in a box and believe destiny and faith will shift your character, then my friend you are delusional. Masculine mindset, traits, standards, virtues and values are acquirable in order to level up yourself. These things do not come naturally.
Never had I experienced myself closing my eyes and thinking for minutes what did I just saw on RU-vid. You inspire me in ways where I need to grow and you have my respect for that.
I agree with you on every topic but why you making fun of cold shower ? I take cold shower and it's feels good and its good for health, brain and Testosterone.
Hey bro I had a question if we start to solve other people's problem the doesn't it means that we view ourselves superior than them and it relates to a narcissistic approach, please explain this.
Great thought, but I think It's more like first solve your basic problems and then try to help who needs it. You shouldn't be a guy who are not at all think about themselves and go out way to help others, atleast in this century, be realistic.
