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What No One Tells You About Dating In Argentina As A Black Man 

Jay Focused
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In this video I dive into what the dating scene is like in Argentina for Blacks. Y'all won't believe this. Enjoy!
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Комментарии : 106   
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
Feel this topic, or nah?
@InBetweenFlights
@InBetweenFlights 9 месяцев назад
Yessuh! Can you touch on weather, the “blue dollar” currency exchange, food and women from all the cities you’ve been through.
@natiballa2007
@natiballa2007 9 месяцев назад
Great topic ! You doing the peoples work 🙌🏾
@Audiomajik
@Audiomajik 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for keepin' it real. Its good to see a video where someone isn't just trying to sell a foreign fantasy. People need to understand realistic expectations. Keep up the good work!
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 6 месяцев назад
Appreciate. I'm glad that some people appreciate a detailed, lived, balanced perspective vs. 'Selling a dream', like so many other youtubers do. Kindly subscribe to support the channel.
@NataliaVader1
@NataliaVader1 6 месяцев назад
I'm a 34 year old woman from Córdoba, Argentina and all your descriptions about people in Buenos Aires are new to me. Here in Córdoba we are so different.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 6 месяцев назад
I know Cordoba, very, very well. I've done several videos about Cordoba on my channel. The people of Cordoba and Porteños generally have a different character, Cordobeses are more easy going, this is true. Thanks for watching. Subscribe and like the video to support the channel.
@robertgross9580
@robertgross9580 Месяц назад
Women frequently say one thing and do another. We men are used to ignoring comments like yours
@danielrogers2622
@danielrogers2622 9 месяцев назад
Great advice. I haven't been back since travelling there as a poor student almost 20 years ago, so this is very interesting to hear
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
Glad it was helpful!
@ThePremiumForges
@ThePremiumForges 9 месяцев назад
Please more content like this, Not many people going this in depth on the experience in Argentina.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
@thepremiumforges I'm taking notice of how this one is received. Thanks for watching
@BlackLabelExpat
@BlackLabelExpat 9 месяцев назад
I can mostly agree. I have found I get more attention from Venezuelans and Brazilians in Argentina. Most of the time, Argentinas were impressed by the US status, but it was a platonic interest. But the ones who were interested could borderline cold approach me or would leave me with no doubt.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
@cujonuke This guy gets it.
@princessprincess7708
@princessprincess7708 9 месяцев назад
Cap . They liked you for you. You just cant accept that you are liked. Smh
@sugarbear1225
@sugarbear1225 8 месяцев назад
Bring it💯
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 8 месяцев назад
Thanks for watching
@InBetweenFlights
@InBetweenFlights 9 месяцев назад
Need this type of talk. Everything from A to Z regarding Argentina would be clutch!
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
Noted. Thanks for watching
@RajNUK
@RajNUK 3 месяца назад
Great video, are you saying they are more formal/ as in ladies prefer serious relationship? I heard Argy men are notorious playboys so women really pick their men well down there ?
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 3 месяца назад
Hello Raj, you may want to listen to it again. I think I was pretty clear in my breakdown
@vonbyronbedell8950
@vonbyronbedell8950 2 месяца назад
Jay thank you for this video I appreciated hearing all of this valuable information. I will hit you up on Instagram before I decide to visit Argentina this year
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 2 месяца назад
Sounds good!
@BeeboiZam
@BeeboiZam Месяц назад
Good video.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused Месяц назад
Thanks for watching. Kindly subscribe to support the channel
@MrResale
@MrResale 6 месяцев назад
Real talk
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for watching. Kindly subscribe to support the channel.
@KerryBuchanan
@KerryBuchanan 4 месяца назад
Dang, a 45 second intro? Who are you Marvel Studios?
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 4 месяца назад
I can make it 2 mins if you wish, I left a lot of footage out
@menem88
@menem88 3 дня назад
No sabía. Siempre tuve la impresión de que para gente de EEUU por el.hecho de ser exóticos y hablar inglés era mas facil conseguir mujeres. En general, los americanos son vistos como superiores y más deseables a nosotros (mestizos) por la genre blanca. Inclusive había un Hell Angel que andaba con una mujer blanca de mucho dinero.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 2 дня назад
Yes, it's still not as 'easy' as you may believe for Anglo foreigners, even white ones. I have several friends living in Argentina, young white British, Canadian and American guys. There is some initial interest but it is nothing like what they get in Colombia, Rio, Peru or other parts of Latin America that tend to have less European blood.
@menem88
@menem88 2 дня назад
@@JayFocused Creí que para los hombres negros era más fácil conseguir mujeres blancas en países cómo Argentina por ser exóticos y venir de usa. Creo que los que son mestizos no estamos tan influenciados por la cultura de uk y usa y no los admiramos tanto. O sea que los hombres negros tienen más éxito con las mujeres marrones que con las blancas en Argentina?
@sugarbear1225
@sugarbear1225 8 месяцев назад
👍🏾
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 8 месяцев назад
Thanks for the support. Don't forget to subscribe if you haven't already
@SimonHillKeepsItTrill
@SimonHillKeepsItTrill 9 месяцев назад
Very interesting
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
Appreciate it
@maliwoodtalks
@maliwoodtalks 9 месяцев назад
If you know their history in that country, you’ll know how they feel and what they did to the Africans way back then.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
@maliwoodtalks I know their history. I coulda went into it, but I don't want to bore anybody.
@petulioclark2367
@petulioclark2367 9 месяцев назад
Who are "they" and what "they did to africans". Are you one of those that watched a youtube video full of bullshit and repeat it like a parrot?
@LOSTGPS
@LOSTGPS 8 месяцев назад
@@JayFocused wouldn't be boring
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 8 месяцев назад
Thanks for the feedback. I'm just not seeing a lot of support for the Argentina videos. So I'm not gonna do one on that niche of a topic, unless someone Cashapps me and shows me they are really interested.
@maliwoodtalks
@maliwoodtalks 8 месяцев назад
⁠@@JayFocusedI’m sure you know their history. I thought I was replying to someone else.
@maliwoodtalks
@maliwoodtalks 9 месяцев назад
Classism and colorism low key is worse outside of the USA on the surface level.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
It's worse to me in Brazil than anywhere I've ever been
@whitegirllover32
@whitegirllover32 9 месяцев назад
Compare to Asia. latin america is the worse. I have not seen a black passport bro yet with a bad non black latina chick or even decent looking and I have watched 100 of channels lmao and maybe because of the European descendent that's why they care about race not sure . I see brothers with non black par ones or just afro latinas. But I seen more brothers with bad Asia chick and they are non black on RU-vid and living with them.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
@whitegirllover32 Ok
@maliwoodtalks
@maliwoodtalks 9 месяцев назад
@@JayFocused I’ve been there and I can tell. All the black women were with white guys (married with kids and all trying to lighten their kids skin up for a “better opportunity”
@maliwoodtalks
@maliwoodtalks 9 месяцев назад
@@whitegirllover32 I hear you but it’s all subjective. And also, not everyone is on RU-vid. There’s plenty of black American men with beautiful Latin women. If you live in FL you’ll see it.
@luna-rt4vx
@luna-rt4vx 6 месяцев назад
I’m going in two weeks and nervous haha. When I asked argentines on Reddit they say it doesn’t exist. I’ve matched many argentines but don’t know if it’s because they have black fetish or because im a foreigner or they think I’m attractive lol
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 6 месяцев назад
How long are you staying? I may upload a video of Mar Del Plata. Many Argies go there in January.
@luna-rt4vx
@luna-rt4vx 6 месяцев назад
@@JayFocused 3 weeks.. by myself haha. I heard Uruguay is close so maybe I’ll go to Montevideo for 2 days, but for the most part BUENOS AIRES. Do they have hip hop clubs? Any cool spot to recommend? (Hip hop clubs, clubs where all the hottest woman go, restaurants. Etc)
@mikesopinion718
@mikesopinion718 6 месяцев назад
I been here for about two years and will be for a few more months if you want to link
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 6 месяцев назад
Montevideo is worth a look, a weekend there is enough.
@luna-rt4vx
@luna-rt4vx 6 месяцев назад
@@mikesopinion718 def. You American or what? I’ll be in the Palermo area.. maybe grab a drink or something
@crisrye
@crisrye 6 месяцев назад
Im from Buenos Aires and I dont feel related. I think you have a very disrupted USA vision. The difference is in Argentina there is for sure classism. But we dont judge people for their color. In fact we call "negrito" to the people we love and thats okay not a negative thing. I have many friends with different colours from different places and backgrounds. Culturally speaking we are very different from what you learned in the US where everything is a color label. I lived in Europe and USA and I can tell you Argentina its not a racist country generally speaking. We don’t care about race, we care about people.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 6 месяцев назад
I lived in Europe, USA and Argentina too. So we have a lot in common. We don't have to agree but respect each other's perspective. (Even though I don't know what you disagree about what I said...) I never said Argentina was any more racist than anywhere else in the world. Thanks for watching.
@crisrye
@crisrye 6 месяцев назад
@@JayFocused I do respect your perspective, never said I didn’t… I said I’m not feeling related and gave my perspective as well. There’s a lot of judgment about Buenos Aires people. Yes for sure there might be some pricks around but I believe there is more people open to know each other no matter the background then the ones there are that they do care about this class and color thing in Buenos Aires and Argentina. Everyone who wants to come here to help make the country a better place is always welcome. See, I believe here people is more connected with the simple things in life. Maybe because we suffered crisis and crisis and crisis that we value the things that really care. I believe Argentina has a lot of things to improve. Im not sure if racism might be one of them at that level now. But again just my humble opinion and if you feel different let’s open the talk and awareness You can post all you want and you are always welcome here. I appreciate freedom of speech, so since you posted a public video I felt free to comment. 🫶
@spittfyre365
@spittfyre365 5 месяцев назад
​@@crisrye Why do people love to dispel or discredit the Black experience. They ALWAYS feel attacked.. or guilty by another person's truth. I live in Texas.. some of the negative things people say about Texas are true. It's okay. You haven't walked in the other person's shoes.
@crisrye
@crisrye 5 месяцев назад
@@spittfyre365 ​​⁠yeah I never said he might had feel it. And if he did I really sorry for him. But coming very influence for the USA society where every moment of your life you might be waiting for a racist behavior, you then just arrive to a different place expecting the same things very sensitive about it, and that’s it’s totally understandable, but you can’t speak for all Argentina saying is a racist place if you have stayed there for a short period of time. Argentina is a different place, different country, different culture, different story. If you claim Argentina society as a hole is racist I feel totally free to speak my point of view. You want to bring your fight everywhere and speak to the the 4 winds about it go for it. Don’t expect everyone Agree with your opinion. Even when I’m against racism in every way.
@rageoftheredphoenix
@rageoftheredphoenix Месяц назад
My father was born in Argentina 🇦🇷, Buenos Aires. He never used that word referring to people of Nubian decent and called them as MOROCHO when talking to my mother who was born in the USA because they are rare in that country of Argentina 🇦🇷. How did they look like? Father looked like dean martin while my mother looked like Natalie wood. German Argentine and Italian Argentine married to a Spaniard, French, Portuguese Swiss American 🇺🇸.
@rashodm
@rashodm 4 дня назад
Bruh your intro is alot of wasted story.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 4 дня назад
Thanks for watching
@princessprincess7708
@princessprincess7708 9 месяцев назад
We are not black. Stop it
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
What are you?
@princessprincess7708
@princessprincess7708 9 месяцев назад
@@JayFocused I am Afro hair not black colour . This black.■■■■ I do not identify myself with a crayon colour black . My skin looks like yours. This is not black. Am Afro. My hair is similar texture.
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
Gotcha
@bestofatlconcerts
@bestofatlconcerts 8 месяцев назад
@@princessprincess7708 I viewed color the same way as a child. Very simplistic, right?
@princessprincess7708
@princessprincess7708 8 месяцев назад
@@bestofatlconcerts 👍😆
@Infraredfr3d
@Infraredfr3d 9 месяцев назад
What the bodies look like in Argentina?
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 9 месяцев назад
Lots of variety, but they lean more thin compared to Dominicans or Colombians.
@whitegirllover32
@whitegirllover32 8 месяцев назад
That's why they are harder to get
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 8 месяцев назад
You don't like curves?
@fernandogarcia-wq1qm
@fernandogarcia-wq1qm 7 месяцев назад
no tantas curvas jaja @@JayFocused
@JayFocused
@JayFocused 7 месяцев назад
@fernandogarcia-wq1qm Creo que eres de la minoria, amigo. 😆 La mayoria de los hombres jóvenes hoy en dia quieren chicas con mas curvas. Pero no siempre era asi. Esta es la generación acostumbrada a ver BBL's y implantes.
@lifeisabeginning
@lifeisabeginning Месяц назад
I’m a white guy in Buenos Aires. Very tough market
@JayFocused
@JayFocused Месяц назад
Thanks for the honesty. I've discussed this with white brits, blacks brits, white Americans, Canadians, Venezulans, etc. So this isn't just my perspective. Hell, even a Venezuelan lesbian agreed with me! Dating Porteña is a very different experience for anyone coming from abroad.
@lifeisabeginning
@lifeisabeginning Месяц назад
@@JayFocused any tips? Would you say they are more focused on looks than other places?
@JayFocused
@JayFocused Месяц назад
I'd say that they are more focused on SOCIAL STATUS than other places. Instagram has the highest users per capita in Argentina and Brazil. Work on your Instagram
@lifeisabeginning
@lifeisabeginning Месяц назад
@@JayFocused gotcha thanks
@nathancasey7712
@nathancasey7712 3 часа назад
How good is your Spanish?
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