What Nobody Tells You About Marriage | mildred kingsley-okonkwo 

Amen and amen

1, Hear God 2, seek counsel 3, then choose In that order . God bless

@@theycallmegbayi exactly, God first

1. God's counsel

Great reminder!

Yes it's true

Yes true

No regret nana, you can still enjoy that man

Let me listen

I know hey, but I'm getting out, been separated for 3months, I've tried it's not working, he breaks my spirit because he is dead, thank you Ps Mildred

Good insight.

AMEN!!!

So true

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Me too amen 🙏🏾

Same here.AMEN

Amen

Amen 🙏 Bring it in prayer to God, Trust Him, Hope in Him, have Faith and Trust the process what I mean by this, is be patient.

Same here, me too

That's the first point I picked 😃

Wooow

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Welllllllll….. isn’t nice a synonym for kindness.

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@@tearakasiyamhuru1614 True. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yGGTj93Z29I.html

@@kinglordehud True. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yGGTj93Z29I.html

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Sooo True

So true. Those fake brethrens are worse than those acclaimed bad guys.

If your real you will identify real my dear deep calleth unto deep

That na there real koko....so many people pose as believers only to fall hands. Truth is believers make mistake ba God dey with u.

I believe you 100% my lovely

Have u prayed ??? Prayed for your husband and yourself and your marriage… she just said the choice of how your marriage will turn out is up to you… your prayer can turn your husband to God and change your miserableness into happiness!!

I’m burdened with mine too beyond I have prayed but it’s too much

@@daphnehammond8054 Yes she prayed and Prayers didn't work, it has never worked..

@@ras3054 there is no such thing as the prayer didnt work… prayer always works… If you dont see an answer to your prayer … maybe you should change the prayer : instead of “Father change my husband” you could pray “Father show me how to treat and honour my husband for him to fall in love with you the way i have” “Father Show me how to humbly submit to my husband for him to see You God in me” “Father you hold the heart of the king and u order it in any direction it should go, father turn my husbands heart to you” God answers all prayers sometimes its not what we wanted to hear or wanted to see but rather what we needed. Pls dont downplay the power of prayer!!

@@maureenmango7829 my darling it is hard but God will never give u what u cant handle… the bible says pray without ceasing… meaning pray without stopping even when ur tired and u cant take it anymore keep praying.. even when it looks hopeless keep praying…. He will come through

right person exist only in Heaven Not on the planet earth.

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Me too. Amen

Amen

Congratulations.I pray for the same for me too

@@blessedsoul949 Amen 🙏🏾

I cover your marriage with the blood of Jesus😄

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@@Handiesafrica awesome 👍👍💓💯.ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-RoQyZRWIenY.html

How did you married yourself

You are to be married to Jesus first

Woow great testimony.I pray to find such a man too

The best comment I’ve read so far. Tbh better than the video. You are to live your life & allow God to be your everything in all you do & THEN as they say when you least expect it, that person will come. I’m sorry but I’m a first generation abroad African in my immediate family & I do not like the African mentality when it comes to marriage. Nobody talks about cultivating the season before the person. That’s the most crucial moment of your life. If you don’t take care of that when you do get into a relationship and now start to work on you, that union will struggle. Don’t wait until you find love & then you haven’t dealt with your own issues during your single season. There’s a time and a place for everything. Work on NOW and be patient for when you get THERE

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Awesome education

Amen

Word🙌🙌

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I'm blessed

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Woow. What a message. Wisdom on two feet. That was more prophetic mighty woman. So inspirational and uplifting. May God keep you for this generation as you continually lead them on the Kings High Way.

Yes 💯♥️

The only way a praying person won’t suffer in a marriage is not to marriage the person, or if you marry the wrong person, if you Marry the wrong person it will hinder your prayer life. It would have to be equally yoke

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Amen 🙏🏾

💯 the love of God restrains, I have seen that even in my life.

Someone who is accountable to God is number one for me

May God help me to find someone who loves him and fears him

Thank you very much sister

Glory to God ooh 🙌🏽

Thank God you are happy and free.

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me and you are just the same... thank God for you my sister am still single and taking care of the kids alone, oga is gone with another woman

@@annathembani7290 oh Lord! May God continue to grant you ladies the grace 🙏🏽

Thank you

That really slapped 🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥

Just hear God, let him choose for you.

very true. Develop a personal intimate relationship with God so when it comes to marriage you are already used to God's voice and He will direct you in marriage. Don't wait for marriage to want to hear God for the first time

That’s what I used to think but listening to this message it’s actually the easiest . All u have to do His pray and have a pure heart without inequities and God will guide u.

Thats why we were given a helper the Holy Spirit to help us discern and give us wisdom

@@Agri-prenueur exactly what truly separates us from that is Sin. As long as we abide in God and He abides in us . The Holy Spirit will always guide us

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Amen amen

as in ehn. it is obvious that he is proud of her.

Pastor k reciprocates the love he’s wife exudes , it’s ok to want a man who loves and treasures you but do you love your selves enough to show love to some one to show that back ?

I was thinking the same thing!!! They are a match made in heaven and they make the kingdom of God glad

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Some time the Christian them worse than the unbelievers

Please some Christian in law is very wicked

@@kellywilson3232 Spirit filled believers and wicked o not mix. Many are religious people like the Pharisees in the Bible. True sons and daughters of God will display fruit

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Happy here from Kenya too.....This woman is blessed....

Kenyans everywhere 😂😂😂

Am a Kenyan too, found this today +254 representing

Thank you for this word 🙏🏾 I’m a young woman who needed to hear that

Listening! I’m now single after a 5 year relationship, engagement and planning a wedding for 2021.

Hmm.. May God give you strength

Pl

Lol @ u willl see pepe

Noted, with concern👏

My sister better cameroon pepper o

Some born again, spirit filled husbands are worse that you can imagine 😳

We say in my country, " Those in it want out and those not in one want to be in one".

@@eileenwatt8283 True. However, I'm not in one and don't want to be in one.💯💝😁

@@Annabee399 me too. Dont want any husband.

@@Annabee399 please don’t let this be your final decision. God said in the Bible that it’s not good for man to be alone. We have been designed for God not to be lonely. I used to think that I didn’t need a man but the truth is that deep in my heart I actually wanted someone, there’s a loneliness u feel even when God is in the picture. God as created a man for every woman so our prayer is that He guides us to Him, and we are able to be filled spiritually and hear what God is saying. If we can pray and hear God we won’t have to pass through the pains and troubles. Please don’t say u don’t want to be in one bcus it might just come true, God won’t move for u unless you call on Him and tell him what you want. I have seen what it feels like to grow old lonely and I don’t pray that for anyone and neither does God want that for anyone.

@@eileenwatt8283 please read my reply and don’t wish that. We have been designed by God not to be lonely. He will surely bring the right personal that will bring Joy and happiness to you

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Wow!

You don't need to know too much about marriage. Too much knowledge about marriage is one of the tricks the devil uses to destroy marriage. If you've known too much, you won't be 20 years in marriage.

@@brendawells8852 my people perish for lack of knowledge....

@@brendawells8852 I don't understand your comment, Ma'am.

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I really enjoyed this message

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Aaah sis, the accent is one of the best parts 👌🏿

@@dineosedibe8128 kere bona 🔥👌🏾

I love Nigerian accent too.love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

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@@melsaotieno1234 hi

I wish l listened too..

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True. Because some people think marrying a believer is express. No, challenges are attached. Just that the God factor is there to stabilize things.

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James 1 vs 3 New International Version 3 because you know that the testing of your faith(A) produces perseverance.(B)

That is were, people are getting it wrong, please let us try & understand, the difference between human nature & prayer, every thing does not done by prayer alone, non changed by prayer There are things u hv to changed bf praying, which helps prayers to work & attract unending blessing Which is CHARACTER, let's hv a wonderful & a good character bf praying, which will help prayers to work perfectly Amen!

My dear sister please it's not like that, most of this happens to Christian.

@@mbagwukingsleychibuike8617 The right kind of prayer will change your character.

Hello Sister, I enjoyed the teaching as well and was throughly blessed, but you have to remember that she made mentions of being born again; which means to give your life to and become a new person in Jesus Christ. It is those who are sons and daughters of God that will be led by God. Please give your heart to Jesus, He loves you and is willing to help you. Remain blessed!!

@@ebunehinmowo8610 Respectfully, she is Muslim and has her own faith tradition. She gave a nice compliment. It's wonderful you are strong in faith. I am Catholic. We don't all have to be of the SAME faith to learn lessons. That fact that our Muslim Sister is even here at all and found benefit is a GOOD THING. I'm Catholic and found benefit, also a GOOD THING. Christianity is not a forced issue. not 8n the time of Jesus and not now. As Christians let us just appreciate our Muslims Sister's interest in the subject matter. GOD bless you+

Hello Sister, You are welcome. I read a response from someone who I felt lacked sensitivity. So I made a comment. I hope that you will take aiment to read it.

Asalam alaikum Sis. I appreciate your religious mentality so much such that all we needed was the message and learn from it. Cos knowledge benefits the believer. Much love

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Great point.

That person may be a mere church goer or someone who 'shouts' the scriptures, a true Christian has a worthy character because it reflects the life of Christ. Going to services and reciting the bible, even bearing the title pastor does not make one a believer i.e a born again

One cannot marry & yolk with non-believer. True that some non believers better than some Christians, but we all need to look at the fruits, plus each get in life what he/she deserved.

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@@beautifullama9 Yes I agree, but much of it depending on how they lived their life prior & how they picked their spouse. If the person genuinely seeking Gods will or followed their own flesh desires.

I agree with you @Kelly Lerry

Pray about, the Bible says if a believing woman marries an unbelieving man. The believing woman might be saving her husbands soul. The verse is somewhere in the new testament. Maybe God sent you into that relationship for a reason.

@@xolisilemnguni1358 that verse is only applicable if you are already married and later become a believer, and your spouse isn't. That's when the Grace is there. Choose well from the start

@@xolisilemnguni1358 that scripture refers to those MARRIED already

@@Manlyman120 True. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yGGTj93Z29I.html

My sister run for your life...You'll have years of tears. Look at Devon Franklin and Mega Good's marriage!

Strength is supplied to you

Take heart dear, God is with you

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Jes! You don’t have to beat yourself up🙏 you were meant to work through this to come out strong. Many pastors home are on fire and a lot are broken up. Jesus loves you and I love you too😍 it’s God that knows the end from the beginning.

I pray for happiness for you.

Sis,If only you can pray. Go on your knees and fight it out in the place of prayer. God is set to answer your prayers

@@bestchristopher thank You sorry it took me a while to reply…honestly I haven’t been myself but I’m getting better God is showing me mercy

@@maryslifestyletv what can I say honestly I appreciate you God bless

God will comfort you sis!

I wish I could concil some girl, I marry and I think I sacrifice my destiny 😪. Just realizing after 10yrs. Ladies, listen marry someone in Christ.

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