What's hurting your relationships? | Pastor Steven Furtick 

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Good you recognize that!

Yup....Leave your work at the office!!!

This is response is EVERYTHING!!!

Amen!

That's why its good to understand each other

Karen Burgos I made this 40

Amen

True

That's true

me cuz i want my one and only marrige when i do meet my soul mate i dont want it to be in vain so good to watch and take notes so im ready when problems arise

Jolie Holiday Amen

Ha ha ha ha....

Me😊😊

I saw this while bored.. Now I try to watch at least one video per day

Amen🤍

❤

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Marsha Creary I love that! Such a good quote

Lol that's a good one 👌

Well said

V i

True True

My sister there is Jesus and enemy. My husband is a Christian we pray together every morning but when there is argument he will go buy a wine😮😮and he won't go to church again! I will ask sorry till I gave up I wake up then go to church I continue my journey in christ he will touch his heart

Totally agree

I totally agree with this word relationship is about dropping issues and marriage is not about how quickly you can get offended but how quickly you can drop offense , not necessary about the love but how to quickly forgive each other

Yes

Amen!!

Yeah i need to learn to Drop it 🙏

A word !!!

Moana Mafi ugh me too! That’s what hinders me the most

But what if it's something that the other won't fix. Like let's say he just stopped showing affection and it bothers me and when I try to express my feelings he blows it off and never addresses it, do I drop it still? I'm so lost right now

@@ashleejenkins7627 Then find someone else. Find someone who would #1. watch this video with you #2. understand why you took offense to some things #3. Apologize for the mistakes #4. Prevent them from happening again. Blame yourself as much as you do to him. By doing so, you'll realize you could've done better at picking a partner

Marriage is Work n must be a three chorded rope not two coz it will be stronger

Amen. DITTO. FOR ME AND MY TRUE LOVE.

Same here…. I need your prayers for God to restore us

Same here🙌🏾I’m praying and ask others pray to for one more chance for me to get it right him and Him and that we start our morning off with prayer

Me as well...

Same 😔

I relate to this so much and this message was so helpful! Send this to her

Hie Keven did it work out for you ??? I can relate. I am currently going through that right now with my boyfriend and we just broke up yesterday but I want us to work regardless of our offenses to each other because we've definitely built a wall because of being hurt. I hope he drops it and I drop it too and I hope it works out for us . I want us to work but through God helping us. I pray In Jesus name that it does

@@nataniasarahsisya3484 I'm going through the same thing I will pray for you guys

@lil rican thank you. Nothing has changed yet but maybe soon. I'm practicing Patience

What was his response?

@LisaArchie, how's it going there now?

Your faith is inspiring, continue to let god work sister your strength is from god and he has all power.

Girl don't be naive...obviously he was busy and he didn't come upstairs because he had something to hide.

Maybe he didn't receive your new year's text due to cell issues and he was upset with you because he thought YOU ignored him by not texting happy new years kiss; so he decided to sleep on the couch because he thought you forgot? Men go silent for many reasons. I hope yours was a miscommunication. ❤😓

Chelsey Michelle say it louder to the people in the back 🗣🗣🗣‼️

Yes the enemy is the ego

YES

Amen

My ego robs me everytime

don't let the sun set on your anger........

Yes Sir you said it

Wow

Amen your right with that 🙏😊

I saw this message a while ago and I didn't get the pun😅❤️💯

Deborah Sheridan it was powerful!

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Nice Deborah

really not that awesome....but ok.

Do you think that the dating is a according to the will of God .God never allow you to date with a girl rather you can ask for God's will.

That really touched my heart ❤

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Yay!

Prayers sent your way sister! God bless you

God Bless, truly

Me too

NayNay or a very very lonely future 🤷🏻‍♀️

You will be happy with your new partner

If you're a Christian woman, make sure he's a Christian man and devoted to his walk with Christ. That type of man will know how to love and respect you for who you are. Especially if you are a devoted Christian woman. God bless you. 🙏💗👼

@@lisaarchie5810 that's VERY TRUE!!!

Find a good Muslim man. If you wash his feet twice a day. Alah will be good to you and his other wives. ..

Did you guys ever get back together 😭

@@michaelvega3669 No, and I won’t because I know that he’s not the right person 🙂

Karen Reed yeah I'm having a hard time swallowing that pill. There's relationships I'd rather just leave unspoken for as long as I can , but I know Thats not the right thing to do .

What if you already ended that relationship but you still feel hurt, can you still properly connect with the Lord?

@@inspiritmeloverse4478 Maybe what you need to do is solve it out. God gave man second chance why won't we? Although He has greater things ahead, you must try talk the hurt out of you.

@@7.lalchhuanawmi568 thanks!

Karen Reed ““So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:23-24‬ ‭NLT‬‬

I understand you. I will definitely pray for you. I have been led to pray Psalms 56-60 for when there's a lot of things going on especially negativity at work and home

Araceli A Thank YOU for your prayers. I feel like I've been lead astray from the Lord. When I had the best relationship with the God. I feel lost and not knowing my direction that God has prepared for me

You said some really important things here. First off... Prayers are sent but can we help with anything? I know it's probably a terrible feeling and sometimes we look so far for a fix and it's painful to sit in all that but I also promise you aren't alone. There's a lot of pain and none of it is your fault. Whatever voices are telling you that you are unworthy or can't, replace them with "God is in me, I am enough". I say these things out loud and I also have a poster of what I think i am:) Example: I am... Enough "The lord is my helper, I will not fear,. What can man do to me?" Hebrews 13:6 Strong "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." Timothy 1:7 Disciplines: Exercise yourself toward godliness. For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come." Open: "Listen to advice and accept instruction for you may gain wisdom in the future." Love: But above all things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. Colossians 3:14 Healed: Many are the afflictions of the righteous but the Lord delivers out of them all." Psalm 34:19

Michelle Colato-Ochoa I'm going to take heed to the message and the scriptures you have provided. But the thing I need most right now are some prayer warriors that can pray and communicate with on a regular, I'm a child of the most high, I confess to being save and sanctified and filled with the Holy Ghost and I know the Lord is working with me. I do the work of the Lord but at the same time I'm a loner I have learned at a earlier age some people don't want to see me win and it sent me through something unimaginable, but I pulled through it with me and God and I told myself I'll never let people stop me from being GREAT again. But I had to remember this flesh still have feelings.

Praying God’s intervention in your life now. In Jesus name

KmKm n. N

Elizabeth Reed Here is another one. Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11 Ecclesiastes 7:21-22 ESV Do not take to heart all the things that people say, lest you hear your servant cursing you. Your heart knows that many times you yourself have cursed others. Proverbs 18:19 ESV A brother offended is more unyielding than a strong city, and quarreling is like the bars of a castle. Ephesians 4:2-3 ESV With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. And there were more

After listening to personal feelings on top of personal feelings. seeing fun props, lots of entertainment, lots of jokes you hear a brief mention of Christ. There was more talk about Satan then God in this clip. People in the crowd were "amening" things that had nothing to do with God. Church is the gathering of the called out ones for the glorification and praise of God. In that worship to Him, He transforms our hearts by the reading of His word. The more we learn about God, the more we want to change ourselves. When we see His holiness, it makes us want to destroy our flesh and be holy as He is holy.

i just meant the "dump" analogy bro. I totally understand everything else you are getting at-it's very child like, on the nose type teaching. It's trying to build an "i can do it" attitude that quickly burns out unless it is a "i can't do it, only Christ can" focusing on Him alone. When the heart is transformed, the rest of the body will act accordingly.

@@rage.against.the.regime1913 I really hadn't considered how my way of dealing with offenses literally separates me from my wife until I saw the props. If it draws people back to God what does it matter if it's not eloquent or intellectually sophisticated?

@@rage.against.the.regime1913 you know even if the message is so simple it takes a lot of work to drop offence in people's lives. Being reminded to DROP IT, DROP IT. DROP IT. Is a big help for all who wants to change.

What do you mean by the way we are????

Hey Diana ? How is it going?

It’s been a year?

@@strawberries175 Same

I just try not to share and do my best to not get in his way , sad

My boyfriend also does not listen to me, his habits hurts me a lot. Sometimes i just want to give up on it but my unconditional love for him is hanging me in this relationship.😔

I'm also in a same situation. Pray that God will restore the relationship by giving me a second chance.

Same here.. 😢

Same here

Praying for you.

Praying for you. I wish God could have given me a second chance but it's to late for me since I waited to long to apologize and drop all our wrong doings that he married someone else. Fight for your relationship and believe if it's meant to be God will help you reconcile don't let the devil win by making you not want to fight and hold on to the hurt and be unable to forgive. How I wish I could have heard this sermon years ago my life could have been much happier then painful holding on to all the resentment

Praying for your and your marriage. I am at a place where my marriage is on very uncertain ground as well. Hoping my husband and I can strengthen our bond in Christ 🙏

I pray over ur marriage let the Lord work miracles in ur lives Amen

I pray a year later that your relationship is stronger than ever ❤

I pray that God speaks life into your marriage.

Praying 🙏🏾

Yes this applies with friendships too // Such a powerful message

Friends won’t help relationships like ah marriage they will destroy your ability to grow with your partner and will always talk you into leaving them because of an offense the sooner you learn that the better I’m sorry if I offend you

Hello Adriana, how are you doing

mamta mangwani amen.

Jasmeen Arechiga what did you take from it?😊

Hi Elizabeth, how are you doing