I think my highschool crush might have been an INTJ and I can imagine him to be the type who would never confess his feelings unless he knows that the girl likes him. I'm pretty sure he liked me as well (I noticed him looking at me a lot during times when he thought I wasn't looking and was overall very sweet and flirty with me), but since we were both shy, none of us dared to make a concrete move lol. Especially because I was kinda intimidated by him, because just like you said in the video, he had a very cold and quiet demeanor that always seemed like he doesn't want anyone to talk to him. Even though I know that he also has a soft and sweet side and that he can also be very friendly if he wants to, I just didn't have the guts to tell him. The thought in itself is incredibly nerve wrecking lmao
You might’ve already made this video before (if so, please link it!) but I like how at 10:00 ish you mentioned being grateful and not taking advantage of all the wonderful stuff your INTJ does. I’m curious what some ways are that you intentionally try to be supportive and loving? I feel sometimes that I’m not enough because I’m definitely the stereotypical flighty hippie artsy INFP and he’s just so good at adulting! I don’t want him to think he *has* to always take care of the logistics but he does it anyway - I guess I’m asking what are the things your INTJ tells you he really loves that you do or responds well to? Your videos are scarily relatable, thank you 🙏🏽
