i just turned 17 this year and still got my V-Card waiting to swipe it because I want a good girlfriend rn cuz I got a job and I’m financially stable it’s just I don’t wanna engage in no relationship yet cuz I don’t know how to drive yet so I’m waiting too learn and after that imma start getting the field g
I lost my shit at 13, I'm 24 now and for a long time I regretted that shit. I lost it to someone who I was with for two years, and that I had known since I was like nine, and I never fully recovered from that. I got cheated on, and since I was so young, that shit warped my perspective of relationships for a LONG time. Any youngins reading this, stay safe and don't make rash decisions.
Lol 11 is when u can bust a little. 12 where it gets better. 13 is the shit from there. I remember doing it for the first time and a tiny bit of blood was visible and I felt a bit of pain after but no real pleasure until I turned 12 where all that seemed to go away. Busting was amazing while it lasted. Now i quit so w (edit) let me specify more. I was 10-11 at the time of my first bust and went dry mode. That can be the reason why it hurt the first time and why there was a little bit of blood and some nut mixed together. After that incident, I realized i had to use lotion. No blood from there, but that little bit of pain still persisted until I tried it again when I was 12. It’s all about body development.
People who lose they shit at 15 and WAYYYYYY under should be filing reports because who was touching you. You don't even have game at that age. Like what were you saying "hey baby wanna play some Minecraft at my place and chill"
Tbh, the right time to lose your virginity is whenever you are ready to and not from all the commotion of societal expectation. I lost mine with someone that I thought I could last with but she ended up leaving me heartbroken. I acted upon sexual urges and societal expectations and not what I inherently wanted. Now I live with this burden of wishing to go back and reconsider that I’m still trying to overcome. This is coming from my own experience and by no means saying this can apply to everyone.
Alright 👍 Thank you for sharing this message. Hope life gets better for you, but if it doesn’t, just know that you aren’t the only person who has gone through this before. God bless you🙏
Never lost mine, nor do I plan to lose it any time soon. I'm 19 years old, started going to the gym to change myself physically, I'm too focused on getting money; along with trying to be financially stable. As I mentioned before, I'm not planning to lose mine yet, but eventually, I will find the one.
AND PEOPLE THINK IT'S A FLEX. 😭😭 like if u lose ur V card while still in school that's not cool that's just irresponsible asf and it says alot about u 💀💀
Quite shallow buddy idk. As long as you educate yourself and you’re well aware of the risks and can take careful precautions, I wouldn’t say it’s irresponsible. But the youngeryou are the less responsible you are generally speaking
Saving it for marriage. I don’t want to just throw it away. I want it to actually be a special moment. (Edit) lost control of myself and lost it at 18 :(
17-18 is ok but I still don’t recommend I think after high school u should lose it I could’ve lost it in school but I didn’t care about that at the time I want to focus on my work and sports 19-20 is a great age to lose it lost it at 20
I blame myself easily I had multiple chances and fumbled every time I wouldn’t consider myself a bad looking guy I workout and take care of myself it’s just I have no game at all unfortunately
@@dwadeisthegoat2020 yoooo same brody, right now I’m on a weight loss journey, stacking my bread and glowing up and I’m 22. Once I’m set physically and financially, I’m losing mine. I don’t mean to be immature but I’m not keeping my v card playas 😂
Yoo i met this girl called Sofia in college and i just asked when did you lost your V card and she said 14.....and i was like wtf at 14 years old i was waching cartoons and shit........and i was like okay...okay and then i asked what is your body count......and she said 70+......from that day to this day i never talked with her again💀
19-21, but I've never seen anyone who makes me attracted to them that way. I've had crushes, but I just don't feel like fcking them if that makes sense. Could be ace-spec tho.
I mean I just turned 18 still ain’t get no action but tbh it’s not like I’m going out of my way to make it happen if something comes it comes if it don’t I’ll still be here plus no one said it should be a race to lose your v card bc it should be special not casual
Losing ur v card shouldn't b special really imo, get it out the way and get the experience you can while u still young. U don't wanna b in ur late 20-30s n shit with no sexual experience. Fuck I look like being 40 something talking about idk how to stimulate the clit idk how to last long idk where the hole is.
Below 18 Not normal Because below 18 you Are just a kid Not Teenager arent allowed to lose use your Mind Its akward I mean I got my First gf when I was 12 but i didnt know what S-position means Even If Ik Hell no i wouldnt do at 12 I Wanna say over 18 aight But below 18 no
If anyone sees this just know sex isnt important at all in terms of personal growth. Its something thats overblown because people are constantly insecure about it. The best way to experience it is to improve yourself and wait til legal age so youre mature enough to know whats going on. You dont want to be putting yourself in dangerous or uncomfortable situations just to have sex. You should also aim for losing it to someone you can be intimate with and not some random person. Im 19 havent lost it but thats my advice based on what ive heard and how I feel
@@iang7244 I’m 27 and I feel the same way as op. Believe it or not, not everyone is anxious to lose their v-card. Some of us are focusing on bigger things (master’s degree), and things like sex and relationships are put on the back burner until after graduation which is normal for people like me in higher education. Even if someone isn’t in higher education, I’ve met 25+ year olds who are waiting till marriage whether they have a partner or not.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 With all due respect, the social stigma is completely different between men and women. Your virginity is seen as purity by many, while mine makes me a loser. Also, I’m in grad school and there are plenty of people in relationships. The focus argument is a cop out.
U forgot to add 1. religious people who follow their beliefs and try to keep pure 2. People with no game whatsoever 3. People who too busy trynna make some COLD HARD CASH and can't focus on women Personally I'm all 3 😅
Yea I was super late too, was 26. Highschool 15-18 was way too shy for it. 19-24 dealing with depression and anxiety and self esteem issues, partially from my self worth feeling lower from being an older virgin, plus not as much contact with making friends and meeting women not being in a school setting. 25 I realized dating sites were an easier path to meeting people but flaked on dates. 26 started drinking that liquid courage and my horny sex deprived self tried to smash as often as possible. 28 now and have probably an unhealthy relationship with sex, almost on average 1 new partner monthly the last 2 years and never a committed relationship.
I'd you legitimately take charge of your life and be the person you want to be you can do it. It's not easy, it'll take all the energy you have, but it'll be qorth it in the end.
@@DreamOnDamu Waiting for the right person or just don't want to catch anything because they body be on some R.Kelly song type of gig or just don't want to fuck up and not pull out then boom your whole life is fucked
I lost mine at 14-15 around there and looking back at my little sister she’s now 14 like I’m upset with my self and how I let some dude win me over like that because I wasn’t my idea and I just went with it because I didn’t want him to leave me I thought he was my world then he left and then everything got confusing and real bad for me after that
@@tararsb5363 haha it was a stupid idea that I didn’t understand at the time , I had no guidance or anyone to help me . My mom wasn’t there for me and my dad was always gone . I was confused about a lot about everything and had to learn the hard way because I was naive / innocent and sheltered
@@kimbymurakami5592 Honestly I lost mine at 15 and in a similar fashion to you. I thought she was the one and that it was love but really looking back it wasn’t and she ended up breaking my heart. I was naïve back then and now I’m paying the price 😔
I was 14-15, granted my teacher thought I was a senior freshman year. Always had my hoodie with me, voice was deep, and I was taller. My advice is wait, not because it’s not fun, because you don’t know how good shit is waiting, also almost slipping up and making a baby while in a Jamaican household some bold crazy shit.
@@OVOJermey I was 5’10, 5’11, built a little, and compared to other Freshman I guess a little more built lol, not super ock whatsoever but not skinny either. I was laid back and chill with basically anything.
@@OVOJermey I was 5’10, 5’11, built a little, and compared to other Freshman I guess a little more built lol, not super ock whatsoever but not skinny either. I was laid back and chill with basically anything.
@@bourne8636 nah bruh cuz if you think about it it's kinda gross. I just want to try it. I personally dont think it's all that important unless I want a baby and trust me I dont.
what age than cause u guys be crazy. why are you guys have swex when you so young, this dude who is younger than me he lost his v in 7th grade and had it 5 times with 5 differnt girls. like why are yall doing this in the 1st place. im afraid for our generation on whats it going to became. the females who have swex young are porbaly going to be only fans mom. Kid these days be smoking, have tatoo and be have swex. Im 15 and im no doing swex untill i finshe school cause i my school there are already 15 pregnate girls
Wow, the “normal” age range to lose your virginity is unreasonably small. I agree with not losing it as a literal child, but you should never be considered too old. Seriously, the 19 to 20 age is already the start of an OLDER GLOWUP? I’m 21 and finally found the right person to do it with. The V-card is set to get snatched this Saturday night.
23 and still have it. Girls picky these days and I had my chance last time but my dumbass forgot to put in my number and I wonder if she still hasn't in her yearbook does she even still have a yearbook with her cuz if she does I wonder what she thinks every time she reads that one little note I wrote...😄😁. And that was when I was like 15 16 or 13 14 I can't exactly remember cuz I was in Washington State I know it was middle school, and I just can't exactly remember. She had everything I wanted she was kind too and had this personality with a sprinkle of feisty. We were friends but I just couldn't really build up the right courage to ask her verbally so that's when I wrote the note in her yearbook towards the end of the school year and like I said I forgot the damn number...🤦😄😁
Girls aren’t that picky bro. I promise you. I was pretty self conscious as a teen and even my first two-three years of college if I’m being honest. I later found out about how many girls actually had a crush on me in HS. Some of them talk big game or act disinterested, which can be annoying, but they’re not unattainable or anything. Trust me, Im your age too and I have gotten more experience this past two years while becoming more confident. Just treat girls like regular human beings and be likable.
@@tiger_lord305 yeah one time and one of my middle schools or high schools one of those two I got sent a crush letter no name no nothing it was completely anonymous and I'm just saying they're just reading this thing I'm like what's the point of you saying this this is nice and all but it's completely wasting my time I don't know who this is I don't know everyone in the school at times I had no girls do but me I just I guess I just wasn't ready or I don't know but all those chances are gone oh well what can I do...😄😆
same 😭 waiting till marriage . no way I'm having my first time with some person I don't have a special relationship with. it's sad how quickly people lose their virginity too people who don't even care about them.
The thing I find crazy is some of these people say “I lost it at 13” and acting like they got game when really they just got the chance to do it and they got lucky that there not sitting in prison right now for “rape”. Not kidding, them girls toxic.
