What The Writing Community Doesn't Understand About Writing Craft 

Learning about writing techniques is a good way to avoid working on your writing project while convincing yourself that you're not actually procrastinating. I think that's part of what's going on.

Shaelin is our favorite writing dad, thank you for adopting us all.

*Duckling is anxious* Shaelin hugs ducking protectively

To aid your artist analogy: if you're an artist and you don't know how to draw a cat, you go and look for reference, you study it, deconstruct it, internalize it, do a bunch of sketches and then go back to your piece and draw the cat. You don't go to your mentor and say "so, walk me through how to draw a cat." Writing and drawing are so similar but for some reason people don't see it that way. You have to sketch and practice to problem-solve. Same with writing, you're just sketching with words. Chuck Jones: “Every artist has thousands of bad drawings in them and the only way to get rid of them is to draw them out.” Same with words. You have to write those thousands of crappy words before you arrive to the good stuff.

"Writing Ducklings" may be my favorite Shaelin phrase.

The truth is art is chaos. Every possible case is different and there is no known way to solve it. Just do the thing.

I think what has created this constant indecisiveness and need for an answer are people who have a following who claim to know it all, have the answers, or that this is the only way to write. That then creates the idea that there IS an answer to everything, when there isn't. I used to be this way, partly because of those know-it-all blogs and because I was afraid of not having the answers and having to figure it out on my own. I thought that if somebody else chose for me or told me what to do, my writing would be better because it'd appeal to more people. It would be what everybody wants. That somebody out there must know more than me and I NEED to do what those who know more tell me to do because they know better. But I think that causes for more issues, especially with the piece you're writing. You can get lost in a rabbit hole of thinking you never know enough to begin writing your project, when writing isn't that complicated. There's a lot of trust that you have to place on yourself as a writer and not everybody has the self confidence or lack of fear to know they can solve any problem or figure it out themselves. I think the only advice a writer needs is to read, write, evaluate what you read and write, know how to filter criticism and apply it, and trust in yourself and the proccess. Thank you for this video! This definitely needed to be said 💓

Hey, Shaelin. Thanks for this video, it really pointed out a problem that I think the entire internet age is suffering from, myself included. That being said, I'd just like to add something: you can use tools that are perhaps not the best to achieve a fairly good result. In my actual life, I've used blush as eyeshadow, brown eyeliner as an eyebrow filler and a screwdriver as a chisel to get rid of decaying wood. You don't need to have the best tools to get a good result. As long as it gets you what you want, use the tools you have. *Gets off soapbox* Thanks again for the video, you're great, bye.

I needed to hear this so badly. I've fallen down a rabbit hole of learning about the craft through books, videos, articles and I can't get out. Like you said, I will watch a video or read a book and immediately feel like I need to know more on the subject. But when I sit to write I end up staring at a blinking cursor for hours sometimes only writing a few hundred words. I have over a dozen saved files with different story ideas, each only having a tiny bit written. My fear is overwhelming. I love what you said about trying to be more independent. I really need to "just do it" haha! Love your channel, very inspiring!

The strange thing about writing (as an art form) is that art has no clear answers, whereas most people write with the knowledge they learned from schools. Great video!

I agree completely. Honestly it is a side effect of Internet culture and certain trends The Youth (she says, with a disclaimer of Not All Youths). I've noticed it on Reddit going back YEARS--a whole crop of young folks (all the way up to, well, my age... so not so young anymore) who just... are incapable of fielding their own research. Incapable! I don't know where we failed two wholee generations but we have. I will answer questions on college forums for example where LITERALLY all I do is Google it and pull up the school website. Here, let me Google that for you. It's the same with writing. I will post a whole-ass video on a topic and then get an entire comment from someone wanting an ultra specific answer to their specific situation even though all the answers are in the video. I will be frank but respectful: in these cases, writers like that who cannot help themselves are not the writers you can help. I see my knowledge/advice as being for that specific writer who is seeking information and is willing/able/wanting to extrapolate from it. If I help even ONE self-starting writer with a tiny bit of info, I feel really good. But it's just not possible to help everyone--I don't have the bandwidth to answer all those personal questions. And no one can write your book for you. Make decisions for you. That's not how writing works. I hope people will come to help themselves in their own time, but in the meantime, I don't worry about it too much. (But, yes, this is an issue in the writing community.)

Kinda funny because Shaelin basically just summed up the early beginnings of my writing journey. I viewed writing tips as hard set rules that i had to follow when in reality, they're just that, a writing tip. This kind of mentality literally paralyzed me in experimenting with my own writing process and just overall hindered me on learning how to write because i was so dependent on these tips to tell me what i had to do next. Although i finally learned to not give a shit anymore and learned to just do my own thing. Kudos to Shaelin for being real and for pointing out these faults in the online writing community!

Great video. On the subject of craft being more a set of broad tools than specific answers: That's exactly why writers have to read. It's why that's such common advice. Want to get better at writing? Write a lot, and READ a lot. Why? Because those broad tools you're talking about, well you can see how others have used them in various ways by reading. If it were a painting, looking at other people's paintings would be the same thing. Not that it'd be impossible to create a lovely painting, never having seen one before, but it helps to have wide and varying examples of how those tools have been used by others.

I’m a late bloomer boomer. I witnessed my favorite mentor evolve from a sweet, obsequious, obsessively-helpful girl, into a forceful woman. You have personally achieved creative confidence. Young struggling artists don’t understand the real nature of creativity until they find their own light. I love your videos, and your new perspective.

15:59 You are wonderful! What you just said (a minute prior) about being raised outside of the online writing community, I can relate so much. I became a writer without all these "resources". I took it upon myself to just write and learn as I go. I am still learning as I go and I am open to continue learning as I grow. Yes, I keep up with a lot of the tips and stuff, but I was actually taught by my parents to "get my hands dirty" and think through it. So your words are genuine confirmation to all I know and continue to learn. ❤

it;s not the 'symptoms' of the writing community. it's the symptom of the internet, and social media, really.

"I'm not a physicist" BAHAHAHHAHAHHHH THATS LITERALLY ME WHEN MY PHYSICS TEACHER ASKS ME *ANYTHING* ok on a more serious note, i definitely see and agree with your point... I WILL NOW DO MY PHYSICS HOMEWORK ON MY OWN 😂

I feel like another thing is, we feel like "what if we write this thing that people hate, or people interpret to be harmful and shame us" cause I see a lot of that lately, some people are reading media in a unique way, but then shaming the author even if it was completely the opposite of what their metaphor or intended metaphor was. I'm just worried of writing something that will be deemed "problematic". Which has become an increasingly lower standard. One thing about being part of the writing community and it's new vastness is seeing its underbelly. We're made to feel like there is only one Right Way. At least that is why **I** hesitate and worry.

I actually think what you're describing is a symptom of tumblr, not a symptom of the writing community. I used to have a major blog in a particular community (not writing-related) and I ended up deleting it because I'd get 14 messages a day with questions that could have and should have been googled. As you alluded, the people on tumblr are young, usually teenagers, some as young as 13/14. At this age they're still learning to develop their critical thinking skills and unfortunately high schools tend to promote the idea of "this is the one and only correct answer and you need to consult your teacher/textbook for it" rather than promoting creativity and original thought.

Writing my own novel is such a wonderful and scary experience. I end up googling a lot of stuff, sometimes multiple times a day. But when it all comes together, when I can get past this one spot I was stuck at or unsure of, it feels so good. This video hit it spot on. It's okay to ask questions, but self-discovery is it's own reward. And I'll be a much better writer for it.

And this is why your channel is my favorite of any writing channel Ive found so far. Its not ALL about the tips.

Great topic to cover and concept to bring up. This applies across the board, just effing do it! You learn as you go. There is no "get rich quick" scheme in being an expert on ANYTHING. I'm always floored how low peoples work ethic is in school, the workplace, life. It brings up a systemic problem in that people are not taught how to think critically and learn for themselves in addition to their access to information. There's a balance, that leans more toward personal critical thinking that can, in turn, accurately process information. Ultimately, do everything in your power to find an answer or solution yourself and if all else fails, ask for help. Loved this and hope people truly discuss this. It's an important conversation that's concept applies to everything in life. Edit: We're here to help each other but not to the detriment of others personal growth. Also, fear can be used used to motivate you or paralyse you. Most of the time, you get to choose!

OMG you're spot on with your explanation, that's the kind of stuff I try to explain constantly to my music students as well. Learning music is not learning to play a specific piece of music but learning the skills you need to learn tons of them faster and more efficiently! It's the same with every kind of craft! We live in a culture where people's priority is to impress their friends, which results in them ultimately getting stuck for lack of willingness to work on understanding the bigger picture.

As a physics major - you hit it right on the head. Learn the rules, apply them to solve the problem...and double check you work! Your analogy is absolutely spot on.

This video literally is describing what differentiates viewers and creators in my opinion, as always a great video Shaelin!

“How do I write experimental fiction?” Lol

Thanks for this nice slap in the face hahahah This is actually something I've been struggling with personally.. you know, getting out of that mindset. I think it has to do with everything you said, I mean I didn't grow up as a writer-writer and the first bit of writing guidance I got was from the youtube writing community and honestly every writer on here really seems to know what they're doing haha I mean even if they don't I think they have to act like they do because that's what attracts the views from aspiring writers: confidence and apparent certainty. I think it's just too easy to believe all of you have all the answers haha, so much I've found myself looking for answers for very specific things as well. I guess it's just failing to view writing as art. Art is not like physics where there's right and wrong answers and formulas that guide you with certainty towards the right answer; with art you can literally never be wrong because you can create things a million different ways. So thank you for this video; you gave a bit more insight into a topic I've been thinking about lately.

Writing is about creating problems and solving them. You can ask help about better ways to spend your money, but you are the one that is getting the money and the one that will go to the store see if that sofa is really that soft or if its blue color is a good fit in your room or not.

SO GOOD!! i used to be so into writing tips ever since I first attempted nanowrimo, but more and more often it feels more stifling than helpful, and at a certain point it kinda became clear that all the writing tips would not write a book for me lmao.

I swear, every time I click on your videos, I learn something crucial about writing--if "learn" is the right word; I feel like you're bringing to light what we all used to know, or should have known, and somehow overlooked. I can tell you I've wasted god knows how much time trying to get Google give me the details I need to develop my story and characters. And it's been a mistake.

Man, I am the same way! One of the reasons I get crestfallen about my stories is the fear of making a mistake and not bring able to fix it. I'm currently revising a story, short one, for a writing contest and I get do scared to even try to write it out, b%c I worry the story will not only not win, but not even get placed. But, gotta remember that art can't be liked 100% and it's ok if I don't win, as long as I know I tried my best and don't worry what others will say about it. I mean look at James Patterson. His first novel got a 2/5 on Goodreads and yet he has sold a crap load of books. Thanks, Shaelin for the loving correction and encouragement!❤❤

Thanks Shaelin for your usual balanced discussion. I did chuckle when I saw the title. The term 'life hack' never fails to make me shudder.

THIS 👏🏾 IS 👏🏾 WHAT 👏🏾 I 👏🏾 NEEDED 👏🏾 This is EXACTLY my problem. This video is the single most important video I have ever seen! 😭♥️

There‘s so much truth in this video. Thank you I‘m sure many people needed that!✨

I just came across this video and I think I really needed to hear this. Now that I know what it is I can say for sure that I've slowly fallen into this category of people. I haven't worked on my story for months because I'm so afraid of messing up. This was like a wake up call for me, and now I can see what I can do to combat my insecurity. Thank you so much Shaelin, you've inspired me to write again.

It’s so interesting to me the idea of ‘The Great’s’. This constant need for answers may partially be the result of social media and the chaos it’s brought, but I think there’s something to be said about how we view classical novels, poems, works of art etc.; we view them as Godly, on another level, and PERFECT. It’s important to know that no art is perfect, but all art is perfect. A massive contradiction, I know but I mean that there is no answer to make perfect art, but that’s what inevitably makes the final outcome of ones work perfect. All art comes from a perfect place, it should never come from what worked previously for another person whom you have little connection with. Yes, learn about the very few core answers with writing, but also make your own answers. The works from ‘The Great’ writers and artists didn’t have the answers we all want, they forged them themselves. We are at a vantage point as we can learn about them as well as from them.

This is a really important discussion!! I notice something similar on the artist end. I get people saying "hey i want you to do this art piece for me" and then when i give it to them, being like "no i want it in this style." like dude, just because i can draw doesn't mean i can do every single style lol. i also grew up without social media!!! i didn't have a smartphone until i was a junior in college and didn't start texting until i was 18. i think we are very similar lol

As a painter, your painting analysis is spot on. There's a reddit called r/restofthefuckingowl which was made to spotlight really bad art advice and tutorials, but all everyone posts there are tutorials ant tips for advanced artists, because they assume shit like "well if it won't teach me the basics every time it's an incomplete tutorial." This reminds me a lot of writing questions too. It's never "hey I have this question about my story, I'm not sure how to approach creating a language, does anyone know how languages are formed?" it's "tell me how a fantasy language has to sound." People aren't looking for methods, they're looking for ready, complete templates they can just rearrange a bit and ta-da! A story. They don't want art supplies and a canvas, they want a paint by numbers picture that will somehow be exactly what they imagined in their head.

Thankyou so much for saying this! I’ve been doubting myself so much and feeling overwhelmed with writing information lately when a lot of the process is being able to think on your own without so much advice. Watching this reminded me that I can write my novel an rely on myself a lot more than I do!

I’m so happy you make discussion videos like this. I needed this a few years ago. I got into the mindset that writing was nothing without a formula for everything. A lot of the time people take the art out of writing. I definitely did that. And then writing wasn’t fun anymore. Fear and indecision are my worst writer traits but I’ve learned that I’m never going to do what I love without experimentation and practice.

Thank you! this is always a good reminder that I need to hear every once and a while. :)

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As always, great content. Bold and inspiring. Awesome job!

Shaelin: "This is not #AuthorTubeTea" Outro music: "L u v t e a" Me: 🧐 All jokes aside this video is much needed and could not agree more. You learn the most on the job, so to speak, and there comes a point where you have to just do it!

For future content, Shaelin, I'd love to see more videos where you apply these major tools to a work. I feel that we have enough resources out there, enough information, but people are missing seeing someone just putting those tools into action, and then solving the problems along the way. On authortube, writing gets boiled down to: You outline based on these beats, and then...follow all my "tips" and that's it. One of my favorite videos was one where you edited your work and showed how you edit, and why. I felt that video followed the whole "give man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach him how to fish and you feed him for his life time." I hope the next level of authortube is more focused on showing the real life process, rather than everything being about following a formula (beats) and having the right answer (tips).

As soon as I saw the title I had an idea of what this was going to be about. This was such a good video. Food for thought. Thanks for sharing. I notice that, while I don't ask questions about writing specific things in stories for the most part, I like reading writing-craft books and I watch a lot of youtube videos about writing even if it's about something I already know about. It's not necessarily that I think I don't know enough about it, though I get the feeling I'm hoping something new is revealed in the video, but it's almost like comfort food to me at this point? It's easy to get into and rest my mind, maybe?

I worry that people have forgotten how to play. Problems or challenges in writing are invitations to play. The structure and hints and tips and all that stuff are the swings and slides and monkey bars: the tools we use to play. Writing is playing on that equipment. When you have a problem, play with it. That's how you learn to get across the monkey bars without falling off and spraining your ankle. I've tried to teach myself that the tight feeling in my chest when I don't know how to deal with a writing problem is anticipation of the adrenaline rush of playing with the problem. Excitement that I'm about to go off on wild adventures until something clicks and I can return from my side quest with a new technique to apply to that piece of playground equipment that had looked so daunting. I worry that people of my generation (I'm old, my child is only a couple of years younger than you, Shaelin) have been so busy structuring our children's lives, putting everything into a schedule, that we've left our children afraid to just play. To take the time and risk the ankle sprains. Combining that with your assessment that ready access to quick answers on the internet discouraging personal experimentation, and I think you're right that this wonderful boon of access to information has come with the challenge of learning how to let go and strike out alone. Thank you, Shaelin. As someone who's come late to the language and concepts of writing structure and techniques, and who hasn't had access to the education you've had, I find your explanations and supportive attitude valuable. I hope your viewers all find this video supportive and encouraging, that was how it struck me.

You’re the best!!!!!! Thank your for putting this into words for us. I’m gonna finish writing my book, darn it!

Truth tea! Writing is a solitary and personal process most of the time, just you and your brain. And no one else knows/cares about your work more than yourself, most of which you can control and solve. Having learned something is a better destination regardless of whether your work is right or not.

Shaelin, I absolutely agree with all you say, BUT when I add your and other videos to my own independent problem solving, my learning is 10x faster! When I'm stuck, I keep solving it + watching videos from you and others. I could have never learned things I know now without these videos. So a BIG thank you for that! :)

Not gonna lie... after watching this, I finally realized this was my problem. I'm so glad I found this video so I can start getting out of this mindset. Thank you for putting this out there!

This is lowkey what I do just,, in life. This is such good advise, thank you Shaelin!

You say so so many smart things in this video. It's an excellent kick in the pants. Thank you!

10 seconds in and already so relatable. Thanks for this! I needed this reminder 😊

I needed to hear every word of this, thank you so much for your honestly

Thank you for the tough love! I needed to hear that. :)

This is so eye-opening and true. I grew up with the resources you are referring too and didn’t even realize how much I use it as a crutch. Personally I believe it is a lack in confidence, since they’re some people who claim there is only one way to write or live by these tips seem to bring down anyone who doesn’t agree. This was much needed and I’m glad I got the chance to watch this 😊❤️

shaelin this video inspired me. I'm busy writing a memoir and i certainly don't feel like a writer even though i'm working on several writing projects at the same time. i battle especially with grammar. writing is so darn hard yet i feel compelled to put my thoughts to paper. This video made me believe that within the writing community there is a space for all kindsof voices - even for those who struggle with grammar or battle to say with clarity what they want to say. Thank you

About writing being messy: A physics prof (Tom Tombrello, nicknamed T-squared) said: "You will re-invent the wheel. You will invent wheels that don't roll."

Such a great video, I agree with everything you said! I definitely think that one of the biggest parts of this issue is the fear of messing up. I do write but I mainly draw with pen and translate fiction and poetry. The latter ones helped me so much with accepting my mistakes and working through them! Both of these art forms require patient and meticulous work (as well as writing does, of course) so I think those practices really helped my writing process, and they also forced me to moderate my perfectionism!

T h a n k y o u for this! I deal with this everyday, seeing it in so many groups. "What do you think of this? Can this happen? what about this? how do I do this?" I see a lot of writers/authors do this. Additionally, I find, that these writers also cry when they get the answer they are looking for because it wasn't simple and meant a lot of work and fixes. It gives me great anxiety when I see these questions and know that it's too nebulous to answer--or worse--know I will be chewed out for giving an adequate answer that's too much for the writer. (if that makes sense.) This was the video that the community n e e d s. Thank you so much for talking about this topic.

Shaelin, you are the best, I've only just discovered this video but found it at the perfect time for me. I am one of your older ducklings, I started studying creative writing in my 40s and am now studying for my Masters (in the UK). Thank you for such great, insightful video content. You would make an amazing Prof!

This was really eye opening and you're totally on point.

Ya know, I'm a noob writer, no schooling or anything, and I scratch my head - alot. And something just clicked listening to you. Thank you.

You took the words right out of my mouth. As someone who’s been writing since they were 6 and only got into the writing community about a year ago, I agree. I’m in several writing groups on Facebook and most of those posts are like “my character/story is at point a. How do I get it to point b.” It’s like people nowadays are afraid to write their own stories. And that’s what I don’t understand because the joy of writing for me is the process of writing. That’s why became a writer. Much love for you and this video. 💗

"Once you get those tools, you have to figure out what you want to build yourself." An excellent summary of this video's application. VERY good video topic. Thanks!

I got overwhelmed with all the online info too. It’s hard knowing when to start when there’s so much to learn and it’s easy to find too much time researching instead of writing. I think it would be helpful to give people on idea on what to focus on first

I think this is great advice for life itself too. So much is about knowing how to use the tools we learn, and a lot of that is fumbling through!

Skill development and mastery in every art sport and craft is the same as what you're saying. Thanks for this!

Great words of wisdom as always. Never be sorry for spreading truth. Thank you, Shaelin.

I think what you're talking about is about the Internet in general and what it's done to our brains. It's taught us to think the answer to everything is out there, not in here, not in your head. Everything you need to know can be Googled. Except as I've been working on my book I've realized I'm having to exercise a different part of my brain. The ways I can potentially make my good great really can't be Googled. People just aren't used to that feeling of being on their own, but that's probably what any creative endeavor is.

You are inherently wonderful, and an inspiration; thank you for the videos.

Much needed video! It's all about the core skills, the rest is practice and experience. I think the temptation of the Internet is that you feel there is so much more you could learn before starting to write. But I think if you have the basics, just give it a crack and you will figure it out!

i needed this video so much. i just got over a near three week struggle with getting through a single section of a chapter. i knew i couldn't get help anywhere, but i still felt there was something. somewhere i could look where someone had had the same issues as i was. eventually i just had to push through it, and i agree with the video. 90% o the time, that's all it takes. there's isn't a shortcut to write your story, only information on how to write in general.

My favorite video by far. How I missed it, don't know. You really poured your heart out here, as well as your beautiful mind. Humor, (a chef's kiss) You're a great mentor. By the way, I think the color brown looks good on you. A truthful comp, for your knowledge shared. Fair exchange, I would say. And, you are wonderful 😊

Thank you Shaelin, this help me a lot

Important topic to address. Kudos for being brave enough to tackle it!

Terrific video Shaelin. I think you’re right that this problem is symptomatic of a larger sociological dilemma.

Dude, I really love this video. I am a music major and enjoy creative writing as a deep hobby. I never thought about applying this thought process to writing, but it's so true with any interest/passion/career path. As a musician, I can learn scales, etudes, orchestral excerpts, chord progressions, etc... but when I start learning a specific solo, I cannot find the answers with the fundementals. I can use them to increase my musicianship, but it won't automatically give me the answer or abilities to play the solo flawlessly.

i needed this, thank you!

Wow thanks sensei 😅 for real though, this video definitely gave me one of those "go fly free" moments. I have learned so much from your videos here and on reedsy. They have given me so many tools and I've reached a point where I'm having a lot of fun getting my hands dirty. I'm taking randomly choosing this video today as a sign that I've learned more than I realize, Now I'm going to go play in the mud for a bit ❤

Thanks for the pep talk dad.

I love the writing "is problem-solving" quote. Schools don't teach critical thinking enough. They teach answers not how to solve the problems or how critically think. I was lucky to have had a few "hippie teachers in the late 60s and early 70s. I had a history teacher who didn't care about dates he cared about what did you learn from this event in history. He also taught history is written by the victor and have us think about what would have been written about this event if the other side had won. It taught me more about POV than writing classes did at the time. Another key is action is character. You have to do it to learn it. You are wonderful as a teacher and a mentor. There are no answers there are only questions.

First time commenting on your channel. I have learned a lot from your videos, even if I'm 62, published internationally as a comic book writer/artist for classic cartoon series. Still, I'm rather new at writing novels and short stories. In fact, I consider myself a passionate amateur in love with story-telling and much to learn. I just wanted to thank you for keeping us professional old timers au courant.

wow, I feel like I had a handle on things when I wrote when I was younger, and when i stopped writing fiction for a few years i got it in my head that I didn't know what I was doing, but when I watch vids about craft I realize I know what I'm doing, that I've even found most of these things myself through problem solving. this really resonated with me thank you.

Most videos I see out there that are intended to teach writing have led me to not feel ready to write or scared to do so. Ever since I found your channel the opposite happened: I've never written as much as I write now, so thank you so much for your honesty.

I know I only started writing ym novel when you went on your youtube hiatus so I think you have an excellent point

i wished to wish i had more mentorship and imformation on writing, but now i realize how much ive learned from problem solving. TYSM Shaelin youve probably taught me more abt writing than any human bean (

What you have that most everyone else doesn't have is brilliance. When Shaelin gives you an answer, it seems more intelligent than something you would get off Google. :)

Wow shaelin 🙌🙌🙌 great video! “People are afraid to think critically” like yeah, nailed it. Gotta do the work yourself if ya wanna get anywhere. Other people can’t write your story for you.

Thank you! My grandpa's dad answered a whole lot of questions with, 'you need to try it yourself.' My grandpa taught that to my dad and my dad taught it to me. Try it. I made my first dress the summer after 3rd grade. 1955. That was also the summer I read Great Expectations and was introduced to a world so far beyond myself that I have never looked back. I feel for those who have been spoon-fed answers. That doesn't mean I don't look for answers when I should be trying to figure it out myself, though.

Great video! Writing is messy and we all have to apply theory using our own methods, with a lot of trial and error to figure out what works for us. It took while for me to figure out how to keep myself invested in my writing, and I only finally figured it out by looking at what was important to me. Drawing from others is invaluable in terms of tools, much like looking at a talented artist's techniques to learn, but you can't just copy their entire method or follow "how to draw x" tutorials or you'll never truly understand how to draw something new.

Well, some want your attention because they look up to you. I would set up a disclaimer/rules and direct them. I know it's hard to say, "look it up yourself." That's what I had to do when this one girl would call me at 1am, as I was up, and ask me basic biology questions. I'm not an expert on biology. I was usually just getting off work at 1am and my parents are biology/life science and A&P teachers, so I know a little more than some other people due to exposure. I answered her questions but found her to be inconsiderate. I didn't even have time to do my own homework and had to do it during lunchtime at school. I had to help support my family during HS due to my stepdad's health problems. I'm sure you have a life as well and people need to respect this. You can be polite and warn then ignore them if they cross your boundaries.

So. True. (my early days of writing were when we had one hour of internet time per day on one family computer & the internet modem was connected to our landline - you just took your notebook & entertained yourself with your stories. alone.)

Thank you for the video, it's pretty motivating! Even for things that aren't writing, to be honest. You're got this, everybody! Even if it's really hard and takes time, it'll most likely be very rewarding in the end. Perhaps start with what you dread the most or what you know to be the most difficult, if possible, and try not to think 'I'll do this now' before starting. Instead just do it. That helps me personally against procrastination.

I love your videos Shaelin, thanks for being our writing dad XD. Could you maybe do another Q&A?

Loved this video! I think that I’d to the list of things to do before asking Shaelin (in my complete non-expert opinion) would be to look at other works similar to yours for inspiration. For example, with that 7 perspective fantasy novel, maybe take a look at Game of Thrones and figure out on a craft level how it works.

"The right way to write your story is the way you want it to be." Priceless advice.

You make some good points. People are too used to *others* solving problems that they're not practiced in the art of problem solving. And, yes, I do see problem solving as an art.