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He's always busy, right? When you want to hang out, he’s busy.
When you like someone, you're going to find time to hang out with them. When you like someone, it's an emotional response, not a logical response. Your logic catches up with your emotions to form rationalizations.
It gives you blind spots so you don't see the negative traits. You only see the positive traits.
When you want to go to the gym, there's no such thing as, ‘it's too far away’ or ‘there's not enough time.’ You find time for the gym because you want to go.
When a guy’s always busy when it comes to you, it's simple. You're not a priority.
You have to reevaluate if you should continue seeing him. Being busy could be a sign that he's losing interest.
If you guys have been in a relationship for a couple of months, one thing that you can do is texting him, ‘We don’t have to hang out.’ It's not too aggressive but you're being honest.
Let's say that he does see you, but he goes back to being busy. It means that he's only with you because of his ego. If he feels like he's going to lose you, he will come back to you.
What you can do is become busier. You can tell him that you started doing some martial arts classes and your instructor is very good at what he does.
You're not telling him that you are f****** someone else. You're just telling him about things that you're doing. Say that the other people you’re doing it with are guys.
Tell him that you have a new project at school and your partner is a guy. You and your partner are going to study later on.
Say that your new coworker is a guy and that he's funny. Start bringing up guys.
If he really likes you, he's going to regain the interest he's had with you. If he doesn't like you as much, he's going to keep being busy and you're not going to get anything out of him.
You could recover from it by completely backing off. If somebody is being flaky with you, you can be a little bit harder to reach so that they will respect you a little bit more.
People take you for granted if they know that you don't mind them treating you that way.
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@TheFactsofLife237
@TheFactsofLife237 6 лет назад
You are never too busy for a priority!
@slemusrocks
@slemusrocks 6 лет назад
Ambassador of the United Nations 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭
@mmrxca2842
@mmrxca2842 6 лет назад
Stephanie Lemus 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂
@VeganGroceryLife
@VeganGroceryLife 6 лет назад
Once I think he said Ambassador to North Korea 😂. I lost it😂.
@mmrxca2842
@mmrxca2842 6 лет назад
lol!
@mmrxca2842
@mmrxca2842 6 лет назад
lolololllloooo
@denig2000able
@denig2000able 5 лет назад
I wish I had that line last night. But anyway the guy got the hint when I said I would go look for his twin that would turn up for date...he got tetchy and replied happy hunting. In short he blocked me today on what's app. Well despite the slight upset....at least he took himself out with the trash and I didn't have to do it for him. I wish though I knew the Ambassador of UN though. It turned my upset into a giggle....Next!!! If by chance this guy does come back I have a better line... I Will say....who's this...sorry I'm at a funeral...and if he replies I will say it's his as my interest in him has died!!!
@Jane_Toussaint23
@Jane_Toussaint23 6 лет назад
Last time a guy was "too busy" for me, he was cheating on me.
@Is.Freya.M
@Is.Freya.M 6 лет назад
shsugrad08 same. so never again
@Dzkhadouj
@Dzkhadouj 6 лет назад
Damn
@ishitadutta9334
@ishitadutta9334 5 лет назад
shsugrad08 so true! Same here!
@redfather5342
@redfather5342 Год назад
Hahahaha thats a good one
@mhekaytv4851
@mhekaytv4851 6 лет назад
His always busy ..but always online and not even send a fckng msg 😂😂😂.. im not fool so ... I run 😉
@Is.Freya.M
@Is.Freya.M 6 лет назад
Mhe_Mie Sarino online "busy" chatting with other girls of course 😂😂 yeah, they deserve to be left in the cold
@mhekaytv4851
@mhekaytv4851 6 лет назад
Thats really true.. thats the real player though hahhaha
@Is.Freya.M
@Is.Freya.M 6 лет назад
Mhe_Mie Sarino indeed. so we gotta outsmart them and don.t accept such behavior
@mhekaytv4851
@mhekaytv4851 6 лет назад
Oana Marria you right,, there's a lot of men so I believe that we can find someone who can give us value 😊 ...
@Is.Freya.M
@Is.Freya.M 6 лет назад
Mhe_Mie Sarino true, there are good men also. At least we learned from the players how to watch for the red flags.
@shaharazon2449
@shaharazon2449 6 лет назад
If hes too busy. bye bye. even a workaholic can find time if they really want to
@SR77736
@SR77736 5 лет назад
True. I dated an attorney who worked over 8 hours a day and still replied to texts and called me. He lived in another state. Never made excuses.
@lisadeav73
@lisadeav73 2 года назад
Notice how at the beginning of the relationship he's never busy. Mental notes
@thatmetalchiick
@thatmetalchiick Год назад
RIGHT. he was texting me so fast the morning he wanted to f&ck me again!
@vennyblingas
@vennyblingas 5 лет назад
😔👌 he is soo busy all the time .. Time for me to find someone who has time for me.. I worth that
@lduma5627
@lduma5627 4 года назад
Girl that someone who has time for you , is you!! 🥰
@redfather5342
@redfather5342 Год назад
No your not
@vennyblingas
@vennyblingas Год назад
@@lduma5627 thank you hun!
@fatimamathews
@fatimamathews 6 лет назад
I used your tactic and sent the " we dont have to hang out" text. He responded by asking why I would say something like that lol!
@PinkLaptop
@PinkLaptop 4 года назад
Fatima Shani ha lol. It crushed him.
@mariahconklin4150
@mariahconklin4150 2 года назад
That’s funny! Lol! Unfortunately people have to play these games it’s sad.
@revertingthemoldways
@revertingthemoldways 6 лет назад
He's online, sees my message and never replies. Then when I don't message him, he says I could have messaged. Yesterday he said I don't always look down on the screen. Lmfao. 😂😂 Haha, some people can be hella funny.
@schnioula
@schnioula 6 лет назад
Thank you for honesty! Nothing worse than love coaches who sell false hope!
@lovelychica111
@lovelychica111 4 года назад
I dumped him yesterday.. he always says that he is always busy and he is only texting once a day.. so I told him yesterday that I'm not interested any more and good bye.
@Apricot90
@Apricot90 4 года назад
My boyfriend is an INTJ... They usually hate texting or small talk (or people in general :))) and are often really busy either with work or with something scientific which occupies their mind.. But I can tell that he's a really caring and thoughtful person, honest and never mean or disgusting. He also never really had a relationship until his mid 30s.. No one is innocent of course, we all instinctivly do dirty things now and then
@harajukuloversbaby11
@harajukuloversbaby11 6 лет назад
You put this video out at the right time... Thank you so much
@veronicaalmeda8014
@veronicaalmeda8014 5 лет назад
Thank you for this. 4.30 minutes and on was an eye opener. Something that it may seem so obvious but can't be noticed when one is lost in infatuation and silly thoughts.
@marilynharper5854
@marilynharper5854 4 года назад
This is one of your best videos If a person really want to spend time with you they will move heaven & earth to be with you
@MindfulAttraction2.0
@MindfulAttraction2.0 6 лет назад
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@HealthWithHilary
@HealthWithHilary 6 лет назад
You expounded on this excellently. 👌
@shallshahi2652
@shallshahi2652 6 лет назад
really needed this! thank you alex😩
@fizzo971
@fizzo971 6 лет назад
hi I wanted to say thank you Alex because your tactics worked. When my sitation gets better Ill support you like you deserve ! I learned so much
@djwhisper3246
@djwhisper3246 5 лет назад
I like how you use examples. I needed to understand this because for some reason I don't understand how to listen to my own reasoning.
@MindfulAttraction2.0
@MindfulAttraction2.0 5 лет назад
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@mujathepaganprepper7610
@mujathepaganprepper7610 3 года назад
NEVER ASK A GUY OUT!!! MAKE HIM ASK YOU OUT AND GIVE YOU A GOOD REASON WHY TO SAY YES!!
@redfather5342
@redfather5342 Год назад
What makes you so fucking important
@vanessamorales1867
@vanessamorales1867 6 лет назад
Lol you are so damn hilarious!!😂 thank you for the somewhat of the male insight to things.. And the whole smoking thing 😆cute microphone
@StrawBerry-wj5xl
@StrawBerry-wj5xl 2 года назад
God bless you Father Alex 🙏🏻💘
@nourz2454
@nourz2454 4 года назад
you are the best ..i don't ever get bored listening to you 😍
@asalane20
@asalane20 6 лет назад
Effin ambassador of the United Nation! lol
@FeelTheOrient1
@FeelTheOrient1 6 лет назад
Can not tell you how many of your vids I have already watched it became a routine so that I need motivational words every single day!! Thank you for being so self-confident and helpful! I would love to watch a video about how to overcome an obsession with a guy who you are in a relationship with... I am excessively thinking and overthinking every single shit and scared of what will come next even though there is nothing to worry about, he texts me everything what he did and does, where he is and so on but the only thing is that he doesnt like to talk on the phone and never calls me, he would pick up or call me back if I called him and he has been single for 2 years and I am so confused like even though I got all those other signs that he likes me I am so insecure and this leads to obsession and wanting to control everythng and be assured all the fucking time, would love to hear something referring to that. Lots of greetings from Austria, you know the little country next to Germanym, where the Alps are =)
@lauramci22
@lauramci22 6 лет назад
My EX is so mad at me and resents me. He wants me to move out of the state. But is trying to hurt me by rejecting me over and over again. Like punishing me.
@biancawijaya1772
@biancawijaya1772 3 года назад
That intro tho.... 😂❤ Love you
@katbigos6451
@katbigos6451 5 лет назад
There’s plenty of guys out there that will have time for me to hang out with me and I really want to see me I won’t be too busy
@lilhope8292
@lilhope8292 2 года назад
I like the intro sm "so he's busy huh? He's busy?" 🤣🤣🤣
@user-oy2gr9ol5c
@user-oy2gr9ol5c 6 лет назад
Alex, please, why why why does he keep making plans with me and then canceling at the last minute. He keeps pursuing me, but not following through. What does that mean???
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
@user-zx5xw4yw2e 6 лет назад
It means you need to not waste your time with him.
@Ramanhere468
@Ramanhere468 6 лет назад
Ugh been there. He's a waste of time. Cut him off.
@Maria-rw7dd
@Maria-rw7dd 6 лет назад
Some guy did that to me a total flake and looser!!! Forget him waste off time!
@gabrielladots5990
@gabrielladots5990 6 лет назад
It means that he has no respect for you.
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
@user-zx5xw4yw2e 6 лет назад
Gabriella Dots Exactly
@Bloomtobestself
@Bloomtobestself 6 лет назад
lol love how the video ended
@lalmuankimichhakchhuak5424
@lalmuankimichhakchhuak5424 6 лет назад
What about bad girls? Why men are attracted to them? Their character traits
@cmh9932
@cmh9932 6 лет назад
Your intro had me dying LOL Sooooooooo oo Busy! 😂
@andrajulie
@andrajulie 6 лет назад
Like the haircut Alex 😉
@milesaway794
@milesaway794 6 лет назад
I went on a first date with this guy,as soon as we order something to drink,he told me,he will be busy for a month,it really hit me ugh..
@naturalcurlyhair8331
@naturalcurlyhair8331 6 лет назад
Master of Selfmovement just be a gentleman and ask her to carry her books for her. Open doors be real and mannerable don't play games because you may meet the right young lady I don't care if you may be young.Just be respectful and earn respect.
@pennir8834
@pennir8834 6 лет назад
Thanks Alex I was told this tonight 🤔🤔🤔. This video kept making me laugh think you need a new camera 😂😂😂
@mistybella8615
@mistybella8615 6 лет назад
Penni Rowe back off and see what happends
@pennir8834
@pennir8834 6 лет назад
Misty Bella thank you I'm trying that right now......head wrecking lol wish me luck 😉😉
@kristikg7431
@kristikg7431 6 лет назад
love the camera falls.
@CatEyedGoddess
@CatEyedGoddess 4 года назад
When he canceled a our date because he was busy. Moving a friend out a storage unit and going to a 3 year old birthday party and he doesn't even have kids. I said to him we planned this a week ago. He didn't have an answer, said he would call me, never heard back. Oh well. His loss, not mine.
@budgetrebelgoals
@budgetrebelgoals 5 лет назад
The man I want to date is a 3 year widow, used time to work,be in social club and keeps so busy to not think of wife or should I think he is blowing me off
@brianabrixxx
@brianabrixxx 6 лет назад
Lmao I liked this video in the first 10 seconds cuz u funny asl 😂😂 so sassy
@mmrxca2842
@mmrxca2842 6 лет назад
The camera!😂😂🤣
@kitstanwood
@kitstanwood 2 года назад
Thank you 🙏
@gxniie1825
@gxniie1825 5 лет назад
1st reason when i ask, he's been busy. I ignoring him cause i know what's that mean, i hate it. About two weeks no contact, he started posted sad or angry quote and weird videos on social media. I hit him up even tho i won't do that , just want to get the clarity wth is going on and once again same answer, he's been busy. I think it's enough. I leave his busy ass. 🙌
@victoryudo1
@victoryudo1 5 лет назад
What if it's an online long distance relationship?
@MegaBlueEyezz
@MegaBlueEyezz 4 года назад
An online long distance relationship is nothing.
@lillyours666
@lillyours666 21 день назад
​@@MegaBlueEyezzthen you're nothing
@Tatianarain
@Tatianarain 3 года назад
I cannot believe this actually worked! Thank you Jesus for leading me here. The first time I listened to this,I was high but it made it click even much more
@dg-qn5mi
@dg-qn5mi 2 года назад
🤣🤣🤣
@subliminaljunkie3748
@subliminaljunkie3748 6 лет назад
Pls can you make a video about personality and charisma for women (nothing to do with dating)? A lot of the videos are just for men
@novemberrain5442
@novemberrain5442 6 лет назад
beautiful background
@tetehl4731
@tetehl4731 5 лет назад
He has time to do something else but not with you..Ouchhh 😔😔😭
@tristinajames9816
@tristinajames9816 3 года назад
So what does it mean when he expressed that he wants to continue to see me and stop with the good morning texts etc. Now all of a sudden he is busy but is always on Instagram. I told him that someone is asking me out and he stated that he is at work and will contact me when he done and doesn’t want me too think I’m ignoring him. And nothing
@rettarere7998
@rettarere7998 3 года назад
I love you alex💜
@RichelleDunbar
@RichelleDunbar 4 года назад
What If he just ended a relationship because he was too busy?
@belvienna646
@belvienna646 6 лет назад
Dalexis, could you do a video on how to deal with him dating another girl . She is also so beautiful and it’s driving me crazy and jealous . I don’t know how to not let this affect my behaviour when I am around him as he doesn’t know I know about the other girl . How do I come off attractive and also potentially how do I win him over ? - I would be so grateful if you could somewhat cover this topic .
@duckypam
@duckypam 6 лет назад
How do I attract a religious guy? I can get regular guys but guys in my religion don't react the same way.
@naomisavv
@naomisavv 5 лет назад
The beginning tho 😭😂😂😂
@BlkKidWithTheGlasses
@BlkKidWithTheGlasses 6 лет назад
What's with that window? :0
@savicast19
@savicast19 6 лет назад
Hahaha you we’re so high you were , smoking , smoking smoking elocuente and fun 😂😂😂
@ImCheesedOut
@ImCheesedOut 6 лет назад
What if he says he has been studying hard and he will call you after his exams but you still see him in social media?
@gabrielladots5990
@gabrielladots5990 6 лет назад
SM is a short distraction from the stress of study. Not an issue. Let them have space during exams. Watch him at any other time, however.
@candygirl9591
@candygirl9591 6 лет назад
ImCheesedOut if he has time to be on social media then if he was "interested" he would also take that time to reach out to you. In fact, he would prefer reaching out to you than being on social media, if he was interested in you. Don't fall for the game and don't make excuses for his actions.
@gabrielladots5990
@gabrielladots5990 6 лет назад
If the girl is sleeping with him, she is more worried. Don't do it girls!
@dg-qn5mi
@dg-qn5mi 2 года назад
BULLSHIT
@crockyraby5932
@crockyraby5932 6 лет назад
Hey ! What's your other chanel please? ❤
@crystalkeeley9365
@crystalkeeley9365 6 лет назад
Crocky Raby mindful attraction
@chanellekeepsit1006
@chanellekeepsit1006 5 лет назад
PREACH
@Amaze8268
@Amaze8268 6 лет назад
What is that next to you?
@mariahconklin4150
@mariahconklin4150 2 года назад
In my case I’m really thinking he’s busy. Lol!
@tiffanyskinner
@tiffanyskinner 5 лет назад
1:23 wtf 😂😂😂
@chloesimone7964
@chloesimone7964 6 лет назад
I feel that you have accents of French 😄👏
@charmainejoycemunar613
@charmainejoycemunar613 6 лет назад
😂😂😂 Your cam is drunk.
@aylaa4774
@aylaa4774 6 лет назад
You need a new camera Alex lmao. For me Its the other way around, a guy I like keeps pursuing me. He makes plans but I say Im busy or working. I like him but dont wanna come across needy. I just want him to make more effort.
@ay-de6sq
@ay-de6sq 6 лет назад
Nayla A u just playin then
@Is.Freya.M
@Is.Freya.M 6 лет назад
ay better than to be played. way to go girl! make him work for it!
@ay-de6sq
@ay-de6sq 6 лет назад
He's gonna take that as ur not interested and dip
@Is.Freya.M
@Is.Freya.M 6 лет назад
ay my experience has been that the moment i let my guard down, they.ll take advantage & feel like the game is over and take me for granted.
@aylaa4774
@aylaa4774 6 лет назад
ay not necessarily, we will go out eventually but he cant just expect me to be available right off the bat.
@gabikarvak
@gabikarvak 2 года назад
Ambassador of the United Nations, okay you got me now 😀😀😀😀😀
@MysticalCheshireKat
@MysticalCheshireKat 6 лет назад
You're sensational
@Kimtei-mom-of-2
@Kimtei-mom-of-2 5 лет назад
yea he's busy
@suziezelenka921
@suziezelenka921 Год назад
Thats the excuse i always use🤣🤣🤣
@Imrd123
@Imrd123 6 лет назад
1:27 😂
@tiffanyskinner
@tiffanyskinner 5 лет назад
3:08-3:16 😂😂
@masterofselfmovement8811
@masterofselfmovement8811 6 лет назад
Any advice for getting girls in high school?
@gabrielladots5990
@gabrielladots5990 6 лет назад
Make something of yourself first $$$$
@beneze1374
@beneze1374 6 лет назад
When you dropping a video on the guys channel
@zipporahmeredith6791
@zipporahmeredith6791 6 лет назад
I guy never said that to me unless he’s at work but you look just like my boyfriend I call him muscle man lol
@bonnieburton9985
@bonnieburton9985 3 года назад
I would say just block his number get rid of him and delete his contacts found some of the better and be careful
@asalane20
@asalane20 6 лет назад
That fluffy mike ???
@mist__4974
@mist__4974 6 лет назад
asalane20 😁
@EmilyHummingbird
@EmilyHummingbird 6 лет назад
Wait... What are you holding? XD
@nempalanggalan8763
@nempalanggalan8763 4 года назад
ouch!
@hafsahafsa6108
@hafsahafsa6108 6 лет назад
❤️❤️❤️
@1Blkmadonna
@1Blkmadonna 6 лет назад
Lmao u r hilarious
@sunshinexoxo4984
@sunshinexoxo4984 6 лет назад
Man I love your videos, but theyre too long! Condense them to a shorter version. The info will stick better!
@MindfulAttraction2.0
@MindfulAttraction2.0 6 лет назад
Can't else you'll miss out on important info
@MindfulAttraction2.0
@MindfulAttraction2.0 6 лет назад
Wait this vid is 6 mins long, what u talking about long?
@sunshinexoxo4984
@sunshinexoxo4984 6 лет назад
I was watching a lot of your old videos, and just wanted to tell you I like your message, but most of your videos are sooo long the message almost gets lost.., overall bang up job!!
@tha_plumma_gang2328
@tha_plumma_gang2328 6 лет назад
Lmao I thought he said donate to my go fuck me account 😂
@MindfulAttraction2.0
@MindfulAttraction2.0 6 лет назад
That's absolutely hilarious
@rafapimentel599
@rafapimentel599 4 года назад
LIES HE TELL
@kokoawan
@kokoawan 6 лет назад
kinda sad but ..✔it. 👍
@sonias9722
@sonias9722 6 лет назад
Yay I don't like him anymore!! Been busy :)
@realtalktina
@realtalktina 3 года назад
I just noticed Alexis has a mark on his forehead and it looks like a cross on his forehead he might be the chosen one!!!
@katbigos6451
@katbigos6451 5 лет назад
☺️
@gamerpro6858
@gamerpro6858 6 лет назад
Lol your funny.. but smart
@summat2286
@summat2286 6 лет назад
What is going on behind you? The colors...
@summat2286
@summat2286 6 лет назад
Oh some screen
@JMthdjhgbnjk
@JMthdjhgbnjk 4 года назад
What's it with that microphone? Lol
@lamartelekung9769
@lamartelekung9769 3 года назад
to busy
@ashleyriosrizo
@ashleyriosrizo 4 года назад
Hes a fucking ambassador of the United Nations...lol
@angelblueeyes2339
@angelblueeyes2339 2 года назад
😴😴😴
@gabrielladots5990
@gabrielladots5990 6 лет назад
All of these relationship problems would be avoided if women stop sleeping with men prior to marriage. Men get "busy" after they get the cookie. Wake the F up!
@jennalove2400
@jennalove2400 6 лет назад
Gabriella Dots true!
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li 6 лет назад
True😂😂
@milesaway794
@milesaway794 6 лет назад
Soo true..
@ay-de6sq
@ay-de6sq 6 лет назад
Gabriella Dots what do u want me to do with this?
@gabrielladots5990
@gabrielladots5990 6 лет назад
ay ..? ..with what?
@lovesme24
@lovesme24 2 года назад
Grow your hair back but lobe the video
@tasafolan2691
@tasafolan2691 5 лет назад
fuckin hate my life right now
@truthseeker1649
@truthseeker1649 4 года назад
I love your mind!! I would date you in a heartbeat!💞
@arabchic7855
@arabchic7855 4 года назад
Nooo way he be playing minds games all the time And lose interest quickly ain’t gotta time for that 😂 still his biggest fan he advice is amazing 😉
@truthseeker1649
@truthseeker1649 4 года назад
@@arabchic7855 lol, true that!☝️🤔😁💞
@truthseeker1649
@truthseeker1649 4 года назад
You have a lovely profile pic. Very pretty💞 I ain't gay lol I just don't think us women compliment each other enough sometimes u know?💞
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