What to do when everything falls apart | by Ajahn Brahm | 18-05-2012

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This too will pass!
When life is good do not take it for granted as it will pass. Be mindful, be compassionate and nurture the circumstances that find you in this good time so it will last longer.
When life falls apart always remember that this too will pass. Life will have its unexpected turns.

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@lordbyron3603 2 года назад

Everything did fall apart …. last November 2021 , when I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma! I went from a healthy 165 lbs to 110 lbs in 1 month. Nothing but skin and bones. I should have died ! I was in so much pain that I wanted to die ! I didn’t want to live anymore. But here I am 7 months later. Alive and well !!! My family and friends couldn’t believe it; including the doctors who treated me initially. They didn’t think I’d make it! I DID NOT EXPECT To make it ! Some of my friends even question whether I was sick or not because I look so good. One said it almost seems that my cancer was UNDONE ! My life did turn around in a dime! Another Buddhist monk who inspired me during this terrible period was Thich Hnat Hanh ! He said to meet what ever it is that faces you and not to run away, embrace it and Use the energy of Mindfulness to help you! There was nothing I can do ! I had cancer! So I calmly rested in my predicament and just allowed life to unfold itself.

@mer4631X Год назад

Wow that's incredible. I'm glad you are feeling better now. So things did improved in your life.

@henryhuynh3574 Год назад

nice

@matijasevictomislav Год назад

'Just allowed life to unfold itsel', such a powerful statement. Must be precious insights into life. Glad that you are still with us.

@Boris_Chang Год назад

@@matijasevictomislav It sounds somewhat Taoist to me.

@sachinthaherath4902 Год назад

@Lord Byron Glad to hear you've made it through...This Too Will Pass😌👍🙌 Hope you've learnt a lot throughout this 'growing pain' of life🙏💛

@ihatra4756 5 лет назад

"if there's nothing to do, then do nothing. Enjoy yourself." such a simple notion yet it makes all the difference.

@faisaljaveedtv 4 года назад

Ive ended up here when everything im my life is falling apart n i dont know what to do

@bhushanpatil6665 3 года назад

This too will pass.

@stephenlynch5143 3 года назад

Your words my thoughts

@sushiguy5125 3 месяца назад

By the grace of God and RU-vid I found Ajahn Brahm and this video. I’ve probably listened to it 150X and Ajahn Brahm’s videos over a thousand times. This single presentation helped me through the darkest times in calmness that lasted for years by helping me to reframe the challenges, rid my mind of negativity, sit in neutrality and then charge forward to positive outcomes. Thank you Ajahn Brahm!

@benjithebigben5276 2 года назад

The most fun-loving, kind, wise, moral and upright dhamma teacher I could find at a young, tender age struggling with severe, paralyzing illness. Eternal gratitude to this renunciant, this beautiful monk whose positivity, loving-kindness, compassion can reach across the world wide web to anyone whose hearts is open to receive. Gratitude belongs to the superior men :)) "Please lower your expectations." :))

@lvntravels 6 лет назад

I will heal. I will take each day and be thankful to open each eye every a.m. I will make peace with my life. Thank you Ajahn Brahm you are my inspiration.

@hennym10 3 года назад

I just randomly spent like 2 hours going through your page and all the channels, found some gems! No idea why, but thank you

@angelariley5403 3 года назад

You are affected by what you see in your chosen path, remember the reason, let go of what you have no control over.

@kanethompson708 2 года назад

Thank you

@sachinthaherath4902 Год назад

@Distance yourself😌

@azn884 10 лет назад

I lost count on how many times I've listened to this talk :) mostly when I'm at work

@johanvermont 9 лет назад

good talk.

@qambi1 8 лет назад

yea, I always play it in the background while at work :D

@TwoGrainsOfGold 5 лет назад

Azn88 same!! 🙏🏼

@akalankalokubogahawatta 5 лет назад

Same here

@Elegance191 4 года назад

It offers me hope 🙏

@lordbyron3603 5 лет назад

I did not expect Life to be so disappointing ... but it is. I’m one of those people that thought Life was a fairy tale and everything would be rosy and wonderful.

@communistrussia 3 года назад

Me too :-)

@andiepanagaris5028 3 года назад

Me three

@SC-jh9qp 3 года назад

I've always been a pessimist about the long term and I've not been disappointed.

@angelariley5403 3 года назад

Expectation is the problem.

@ID-8491 3 года назад

@@angelariley5403 So are the negative expecations.

@madhura0403 Год назад

This talk saved my life when I was going thru a very difficult time 10 years ago. I learnt the art of forgiveness and my ghosts of the past stop haunting me. No more tigers chasing me, I am now riding a tiger with compassion and healthy boundaries. Now I am teaching the same and assisting others. I learnt I cab be a rainbow🌈in someone else 's cloud. Thank you for your fun loving teaching way ❤😊

@robertmitchell8630 9 лет назад

This too will pass, life is a series of the unexpected,both good & bad. imagine how many suicides, anxiety and depression this can save countless people

@ARdave311 8 лет назад

+Robert Mitchell amen man, this was a amazing talk.

@meltingpotmeme6181 5 лет назад

At least delay it in the hopes that a reason to go on develops.

@khoobe8881 4 года назад

@@meltingpotmeme6181 "Be ready. Everything is impermanent!" Let matters go by -- my beloved Bhante & continue to serve mankind.

@janetnjie5019 Год назад

Can it!! I'm so anxious right now from work expectations 😫 I struggle with with tasks due to hip arthritis and feel so unsupported right now

@robertmitchell8630 Год назад

@@janetnjie5019 Being okay if it happens and being okay if it doesn't happen is a very powerful place to be All the best , the external world is a projection of one's internal world So create an internal world of your desires bless all even the ones who annoys you and watch the external world you desire unfolds

@Elegance191 4 года назад

It's August 2020 and I come back to this talk still. It helps me so much. I want to be strong to help my son get well from a depression. I am guilty of the pick n mix attitude depending on what's bothering me; trying to reap some wisdom from Ajahn Brahm. 😊

@venven809 3 года назад

You will get through your difficulty. I know how you feel. Now I also have to deal with the condition of my son, who several months ago is diagnosed with epilepsy. Our difficulties just pop up like these. Nobody knows. Just enjoy our life

@Elegance191 3 года назад

@Ven Ven Thank you. your words help me have hope. You too, your son will be well, with your care. May you have peace too.

@andreadeans2520 5 месяцев назад

When you lose your job, think your going to lose your best friend, lose all your self confidence, sink into depression and bad habits, that’s when you come to talks like this and I pray this too shall pass 🙏🏼 in the meantime the honey is the only thing keeping me going. I’m staying hopey

@MrOliverTube 4 года назад

It is said, the Buddhas appear where they're needed. Indeed.

@dmarianne6163 8 лет назад

"There's always honey dripping down. And your job when you're between a tiger and a snake is to enjoy the honey." :) I've just realised that in my life buddhism & teachings like this one are the honey that's currently dripping down & making tough times much more bearable. Thank you very much Ajahn Brahm for this teaching & it helped me a lot! :)

@DelgueAdventures 3 года назад

Mmmmm that's delicious!

@bastian6173 3 года назад

Don't forget that sometimes when you examine the tiger and the snake very closely, they're actually not tigers and snakes but actually just some cute rabbits and mice. Sometimes our perceptions are way off and what is a mouse in realite becomes a tiger.

@sachinthaherath4902 Год назад

@@bastian6173 Great point👌😎

@fredrikbeckker125 4 года назад

The best part is probably "when you relax and be at peace you live up to everyones expectations" I Will try ro remember that♥️🌷

@TheSkinnyFairy 12 лет назад

Thank you, it is 4:37 and I couldn't sleep. When ever wanted to close my eyes, my worries came to my mind. came to check my email and the email that you downloaded something popped out. thank you, it is such a comforting subject and just in time. thank you! thank you! thank you!

@frederickstewart6217 5 лет назад

When everything falls apart just breathe. Life is sweet if you let go of your suffering. Just let go

@7upkevin 5 лет назад

Well......in 2019, this talk still inspires me....thank you for your timeless wisdom 🙂🙏🏼

@theukwatcher 6 лет назад

i must taste the honey more and have more cups of tea

@mikedang3613 6 лет назад

The video quality may be potato-tier, but the sermon of Ajahn Brahm leaves our minds richer than the richest men on this the Earth.

@qmutube 12 лет назад

Wonderful talk, as always. When i feel life is hard to deal with, i always turn to his talk and it makes me feel much better :)

@CharityDeA 7 лет назад

so positive, reassuring and most of all comforting....thank you Ajahn Brahm!😊

@jayathvidanage380 10 лет назад

Einstein was an Atheist ( also a German Jew ) .. …He once said I want to know God’s thoughts why he create the world Not how and other things. He also said ….The Religion of the future will be a cosmic religion. It should avoid dogma and theology. Covering both nature and the Spiritual, it should be based on a religious sense arising from the experience of all things as a meaningful unity..If there is any religion that could cope with modern scientific needs it would be Buddhism

@georgiegirlize 9 лет назад

+Jayath Vidanage haha. yes the 'religion' of the age is atheism. (Buddhism is atheistic._

@jayathvidanage380 9 лет назад

??how much you know in Buddhism

@jayathvidanage380 9 лет назад

georgiegirlize Thank you for the comments. Buddhism knowledge that GodS exist but God ( s) not in a superior position in Buddhist teaching Please read some chapters in Buddhism ie The Discourse of Blessing .,...,A young Deities asked Buddha 'what are the good blessing' Buddha gave a wonderful reply

@jayathvidanage380 9 лет назад

While Buddhism dose not ask to worship A God .. it also acknowledge the existence of gods perhaps a good example is Magala Suttra The discourse of Blessing .The Introduction to This Suttra said …There was a debate among people what are the highest Blessing were..( make people to be successful in their life “ lucky “ ) ?? .. then this debate happen to get into among gods and goddess too .. ..??so ONE DAY ….( as the introduction to this suttra ) said when the night was far spent, a certain deity(a young god ) whose surpassing splendor illuminated the entire Jeta Grove, came to the presence of the Exalted One and, drawing near, respectfully saluted him and stood at one side. Standing thus, he addressed the Exalted One in verse: "Many deities and men, yearning after good, have pondered on blessings.[4] Pray, tell me the greatest blessing!" (Some people translate it as The Great Collection of Success-Generators) Keeping away from unwise and unwholesome friends, And seeking the company only of those who are wise, Giving honour and service to those that are worthy recipients These rank among the highest success-generators. Living in an appropriate area of residence, with a record of good living in one's own past, And with perfect mastery over one's own self -- These rank among the highest success-generators.,,,so there were 32 points in Discourse of blessing

@toreybelle1562 5 лет назад

The story below just turned out to be too long . I'm just in so much pain. I keep coming back to this video hoping it will lift the darkness again. Everything is gone.

@Elegance191 4 года назад

What is the problem Torrey Belle? Are you feeling better now?

@acemany1126 3 года назад

His problem was that he couldn't poop.

@robertberganza6231 8 лет назад

I love you. from the bottom of my heart thank you

@marydonna9607 8 лет назад

Thank you ajahn brahm

@n8gard828 4 года назад

I feel so stuck in my life i am 21 and i feel so behind. I have no degree i luckily can keep a job and have work experience and i love to learn. However i feel like such a loser. When i turned 21 I got bells palsy lost my job and because i lost my job i had no insurance and no i am in debt and with this covid thing it took me forever to get a job and now i am extremely depressed gaining too much wieght and i just feel stuck. I am start a new job but i just feel so defeated because the road to catch up is so long

@madhuridas4745 6 месяцев назад

How you talk to yourself in your head is very important. Be kind and compassionate to yourself. Try to do a few things in a week that lift your mood. I'm much much older than you, and you have so much of life to live. I've learnt to learn from errors and mistakes - I made so many. And then try to gain insights from these. Don't compare with others. You are unique. Hope things work out for you X

@fredrikbeckker125 4 года назад

Now modern psychologists answer to everything is medication 😥

@bonnieziemer749 12 лет назад

Thank you so much for reaching out to everyone. I am incredibly thankful that i found this. I have been in a terrible slump lately and this made me step back and realize that i need to wake up and live. This too will pass.

@MrMintha 8 лет назад

You are the symbol of wisdom. You know life so well. Everything you talked are all very true. Thank u so much.

@angelariley5403 3 года назад

We all have this ability

@wedihhabte 12 лет назад

actually ya have no idea how many people you ar helping by sharing this wonderful talks.thankyou from the bottom of my heart. God bless ya . From UK

@MrFrost227 12 лет назад

I seem to be drawn to repeated viewings of this video. I think there is something here that I need to learn very badly..

@danniedee1 8 лет назад

Thank you for a message with so much meaning & kind words to help people.

@ChE2003YY 3 месяца назад

Thank you Ajahn Brahm...whenever I'm down, I always turn to your talks and they help me so much. My gratitude 🙏 🙏🙏 to you

@LeePearce-wq6pv Месяц назад

Whilst being abused and the imagery came across my mind that two abusers in my head were a tiger and snake... I realised if I'm dangling in a hole I have a thousand tigers above and hundreds of snakes beneath me! then I thought; if I'm holding on to a root, I'm in real trouble because I'm pretty heavy, and when I look up and see a bee hive I desperately try to avoid any honey going into my mouth because I'm Vegan! The moral is.. sometimes there is no Honey! Sometimes things are not ok, and there is NOTHING that is going to make it ok. My ADVICE ; Wait, Things Change.. And That, Unless We Die.. Is Inevitable.

@minecraftkid50978 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I have problems, we all do. Sometimes I dont know what to do anymore, now is one of those times and this helped me get my mind in a way that will be best for us all. I'm going to enjoy the blessings around me, be thankful for what I have, and enjoy the time I have. I cant help whats affecting me, its out of my hands. Our love can be the best and worst things. I will always love and always be thankful. Maybe a gap will open, I hope so, but im ready to take that train heading towards me dead on if it doesnt turn, im tied to the tracks and my ropes are atleast keeping me warm.

@qambi1 8 лет назад

For my friend's birthday, I bought her a ring.. engraved in it the words "This too Will Pass". She loved it, thought it was the best pressie ever... lol

@LoveintheshapeofaPitBull 6 лет назад

Thank you for filming and sharing, it's wonderful that you can be there for me anytime I need you.🙏💕

@chrisdecker1443 5 лет назад

Ur a great teacher, namaste!

@westleycharringate9526 Год назад

I love listening to these talks. I lost 10 years of my life through uncontrollable pain and sudden change. I’m better now but older and feeling cheated. This helps. Thank you so much. 😢🙂

@bhushanpatil6665 3 года назад

Dont worry, be Hopey

@Tstaru22 12 лет назад

homework is not so dull when i have this played in the background =). Thank you!!!

@zelk4971 Год назад

I listened to this teaching several times. But now my life actually fell apart and listening to it again today made me lift my spirit. Thank you great teacher... thank you Buddha for showing me the way...

@bloglife5484 8 лет назад

Absolutely Love this lecture.. AB is the best.

@stephenlynch5143 3 года назад

Most definitely my friend Peace I've been listening to him for a few years now Peace

@lordbyron3603 3 года назад

I also listen to Ajahn Martin and J. Krishnamurti. Ajahn Martin’s teachings is direct and straight. He’s a no-nonsense kinda guy. He doesn’t fool around with soft nice words for you to hear. He’s opposite from Ajahn Brahm. Sometimes I really need to face myself... face all the ways and methods we trick ourselves from seeing the truth, and Ajahn Martin’s teachings helps me with that.

@allanreyes6873 Год назад

Thank you once again-- So very valuable Will use this now ❤My gratitude is like that well you described 🙏

@_PM_1322 7 лет назад

amazing talk, amazing human

@kuer38 6 лет назад

One of my favourites!! And has somehow shown up when I most needed it. Sadu sadu saaaadduuuuu

@nolifeonearth9046 5 лет назад

my life is a series of ajahn brahm videos. unfortunately it will pass :/

@staceyklj 5 лет назад

Thank you Ajahn Brahm. I have endless appreciation for your talks, especially this one.

@Michael-Philip 6 лет назад

How do I look to the future with "hope" but also " lower my expectations" and " expect the unexpected" ? Is this negative thinking?

@mirsadgacevic3890 2 года назад

This brother is amazing!! Love you ❤️❤️

@gigicats6 12 лет назад

Does anyone know if these comments are actually read by the monks for by Ajhan Brahm, or is someone else hosting this channel for the monks? Just curious. I think all the videos are wonderful!

@davidtucker5777 3 года назад

It doesnt matter if they do, or not, they are monks :) But I read it!

@michellecheng6817 5 лет назад

This speech is extremely powerful, insightful, and therapeutic! Do not miss this speech for life lessons.

@saketkhanna2713 5 лет назад

A most beautiful talk. Thank you dear Ajahn.

@TheBohemiansoul 12 лет назад

I wish people were more compassionate with Ajahn Brahm.

@123chandimal 12 лет назад

wonderful ! Ajan brahm.Like drizzling rain in the desert.It's raining here these days .This weather encourages me do Anapanasathi meditation.I like that meditation so much.This remind me the conversation which occurred between Buddha and A farmer before the rain in a rainy evening

@bsimpson639 5 лет назад

53:30 I broke down

@alanbrown3857 7 лет назад

My friend just got a new tattoo: So this too will pass ...

@sardha410 6 лет назад

🎉 🙌 Woohoo

@vidunr4177 3 года назад

I have recently broken up with my first ever girlfriend of 8 months and i was completely lost in what u was meant to do as my expectations where so high that i was thinking about marriage even, my dad linked ne this video after he found out about my situation and i want to thank him and ajam brahm for this new motivation in my life to keep fighting on.

@monus782 2 года назад

My mother tells me to "not worry and be happy" at times and the tea story made me decide to take those words to heart, really appreciate that these talks are available. More than two years ago I was pretty suicidal and I realize that it was because I was left with a huge void of purpose after leaving a fundamentalist Christian lifestyle and I felt that I had nothing left to live for, I'm grateful I didn't go through it and it did come to pass. A couple of weeks ago after listening to another lecture of yours I came to realize what was probably behind my depression (it was in part because of loss of identity) and I think that I've finally seen the light at the end of the tunnel and feel more alive than before, for that you have my eternal gratitude.

@natu-- 4 года назад

I wish this could be translated to spanish so that my parents can be able to understand. My family is falling apart and I'm losing strength and words to help with this situation.

@kupakralicesitarot7222 2 года назад

This beautiful speech and especially the honey story reminded me of the movie "a serious man". I recommend you to watch

@bastian6173 3 года назад

It's funny how when things go good we're clinging so much and when they tend to go bad, we're resisting. Clinging and resisting seem to be the primary cause for our misery. Gotta train that monkey mind.

@shaneross7428 2 года назад

So very wise. Thank you. Eat the honey through every bad situations. If there's nothing to do don't do anything. If there's something to do give it everything you have.

@elodievieilleblanchard8034 4 года назад

I love Ajahn Brahm so much ! Even in the midst of chaos and suffering he brings me joy and laugh :-)

@maralynfarber2068 2 года назад

Yes, amen.

@myhighest1 11 лет назад

I hope and pray, life is going well with you. Peace

@tommulligan5849 4 года назад

Love this. Really inspired me today as I look into my financial. challenges

@cartesiaLive 12 лет назад

This too will pass.

@wootwootwoot32 3 года назад

Make a cup of 🍵 ☕️ 🫖? Yes I’m about to! 👏

@LCarefortheworld 5 лет назад

Thank you, Ajohn Brahm. I hope I’ll get a chance to visit you In the near future.

@XchokeholdX 7 лет назад

thank you.

@mobiusloop339 5 лет назад

*woof* "Yes, it's exciting isn't it? Thank you for those special effects". Gotta love this guy. He has changed my life for the better.

@georgiegirlize 11 лет назад

OK,, haha.. Tiger is reincarnated in heaven?..

@michaelcorlet2998 2 года назад

Wow humour awsome thanks.

@georgiegirlize 11 лет назад

also, AB.s own 'hopey' endling of the tiger breaking his neck?.. now where is compassion for all being there?..come on AB, tell it like it is...

@tinkerbread 12 лет назад

Thank you

@mariagrant7042 8 лет назад

Thank you for this!

@NadeeshaniSenevirathna 12 лет назад

Just so wonderful as always...

@IRG849 5 лет назад

Excellent discourse. Thank you Ajahn Brahm.

@zerogreenwood2631 5 лет назад

So the answer to what to do is do what uncle Iroh would do :)

@alec_almartson 4 года назад

It will pass...

@aryaravish 7 лет назад

Thanks a lot. Very interesting talk with so many stories involved.

@SaraLanvin 11 лет назад

My favorite one.

@fra7399 2 года назад

you are so special to me 🙏🏾

@bachnhutduong6861 7 лет назад

Sadhu! Sadhu! Sadhu!

@chitrasenaratne4966 3 года назад

Don’t worry be hopeeeee 💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏sadu sadu saduuuuuu

@Oneminuteguitarkenji Год назад

This talk saved my life so many times.

@wootwootwoot32 3 года назад

Ya this really helps me recently so useful to adjust the perspective when outside circumstances can’t be adjusted!!!

@joycemansfield1108 3 дня назад

I love ajahn brahm! Ive listened to 100s of hours .he has changed my life.his teachings helped me alot.i also repeat his teachings to others.they say " I never thought of it like that."

@stellaschmucker3059 7 лет назад

Thank you!

@timcole100 12 лет назад

Thank you Ajahn Brahm.

@DebbieRodgers 12 лет назад

Thank you! I enjoyed your talk very much.

@19saamy82 6 лет назад

You are amazing, for me you are the white Buddha 😅😅😅

@19saamy82 6 лет назад

The above comment has been done by my 10 year old son, not me. I just saw this.

@thudo5587 5 лет назад

As my routine everyday , I listen to this talk and i f eel you send me a message " don't worry,be hoppy". Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. I am in difficult financial situation and I am going to see my mom in hospital 's dead bed this weekend!!! Thank Ajahn Brahm for your wisdom and compassion 🙇🙇🙇

@utahjonnymontana8698 10 месяцев назад

I have lost him OK I am lost. I need to hear the story of the 999 bricks in a wall that are good in the one that’s not where is that one? I need to hear that story I cannot remember which one it is where it is and masters teachings can someone help me