What To Do When Wife Wants A Divorce | What to Do If Your Spouse Wants a Divorce-How To Win Her Back

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What To Do When Wife Wants A Divorce | What to Do If Your Spouse Wants a Divorce-How To Win Her Back
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If your spouse wants a divorce because you have an addiction (which includes behavioral addictions like those to gambling or pornography as well as substance addictions like those to alcohol or drugs), you had an affair, or you are abusive, you must get treatment to work on the issue. You will have a long road ahead of you to repair the damage you have caused.
What to Do If Your Spouse Wants a Divorce
Try these proactive steps to repair your rift and encourage your partner to change their mind about the divorce. Ultimately, the goal is not only to avoid divorce but to improve the health of your relationship.
Act as though you will move forward with confidence. Commit to doing this regardless of whether or not your spouse stays with you.
Allow your spouse to come to you with questions or concerns. Sincerely let your partner know that you want to save the marriage, and then be patient about any discussions on the topic. During any discussions, be an active and engaged listener.
Be your best self. This is not the time to fall apart, go into a rage, or get vengeful. Muster up the best attitude you can.
Behave respectfully toward your spouse. Have self-respect as well.
Don't engage in arguments. Don't take the bait if your spouse tries to get you to argue. You may even have to walk away.
Get help. Read self-help or self-improvement books or see a marriage counselor. "Divorce Remedy" by Michelle Weiner-Davis is a good book for your circumstances.
Give your spouse some space. Don't question them about their whereabouts or schedule.
Keep busy. Continue your day-to-day activities, and maybe even add some new ones: Go out with friends, family, and your children. Visit a place of worship, try a new hobby, and get some exercise. Continue living, despite what happens with your marriage. You may invite your spouse to join you, but don't react negatively if they decline. Don't change your intended plans.
Keep up with your appearance. You may feel very down and bad about yourself, but ignoring basic hygiene can further impact your mental health.
Let your spouse see you as content. Your mood will be fluctuating, but find an outlet for difficult feelings that aren't your spouse. Often, a therapist or counselor can provide a safe space to process your feelings.
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@patriotdefender808 7 месяцев назад

Why is it always only about the woman?

@yanilovee31 2 месяца назад

Because it’s usually always about a man. Simple. Guys need help also.

@BetterMarriageByCodyButler 2 месяца назад

It isn’t

@yanilovee31 2 месяца назад

@@BetterMarriageByCodyButler MEN NEED HELP FROM CHEATING BEHIND WIVES ALSO! The majority of help is usually for women and it’s very seldom that you can find posts regarding women who are cheaters and how they too abandon the marriage union.

@BetterMarriageByCodyButler 2 месяца назад

@@yanilovee31 You are responsible for your behaviour, not here.

@yanilovee31 2 месяца назад

@@BetterMarriageByCodyButler what are you talking about? I’m responding to the post.

@miahdona8161 2 месяца назад

I don’t understand when tf she takes accountability and responsibility for her negative and toxic ways in the relationship. Why do these videos only to make the woman feel better? When tf do the issues the man has in the relationship get addressed? So the man has to struggle and silence with none of his needs being met or addressed until…she feels better?

@BetterMarriageByCodyButler 2 месяца назад

This video is titled what to do if your your wife wants a divorce. If you believe telling her she’s toxic and needs to change and that she needs to address your needs is a strategy to get her to change her mind, by all means, go for it.

@WhiteFire0089 8 месяцев назад

My wife initiated a divorce 7 days ago. I have been trying everything but she keeps bring it up that she wants to be friends as we have 3 kids together but I don't want a divorce she says I lost her trust (no cheating) and don't show emotions. I have been showing my emotions and trying to show I'm fully committed to the marriage. We have talked a bit but it always ends in her saying it won't change the divorce. I also agreed and accept my faults and I'm fixing them but she still says in a week or so she is going to go by a friend's house because it's going to get harder if she stays I need help!

@BetterMarriageByCodyButler 8 месяцев назад

Schedule a call with us.

@WhiteFire0089 8 месяцев назад

@@BetterMarriageByCodyButler watched the video took notes and sent in my application. Hope something can be worked out.

@MrRagusauce 17 дней назад

That's hard man. My wife dropped the D word on me a few months ago. We are still together but the end is closer but I'm still hanging on to hope. Just had our 9 year anniversary, have 3 young kids and she also mentioned staying "friends". Don't want to pry too much but how did everything work out for you? Any advice?

@ctgeorgia 10 дней назад

@@MrRagusauce I'm in same boat. Mine has been threatening it for months. Each time I panic and talk her into staying. I feel like it's a bandaid because it happens almost weekly. I'm 54 and it's wearing me down. I feel physically ill from the stress. The irony is...she claims I had "emotional affair"... I did not but she refuses to see it any other way. My 22 yr old daughter from prior had a severe breakdown and had to enter a facility for addiction and is still there. During that time my mom also passed so I sunk into dark depression. I think any loving father/son would get depressed like I did. During that time I ended up naturally talking to my ex (daughter's mom). It was 100% exclusively about daughters condition or mom's death but current wife hated that I spoke to ex. There was never talk of being unfaithful, etc. The discussion was always about my mom passing or daughter in rehab. Nonetheless, my current wife never forgave me for it. To this day she throws the "emotional affair" in my face almost weekly and threatens divorce. She can't seem to forgive or get past it.