What Women Notice About Men | 40overfashion 

Joking aside my girlfriend is twenty two. Be encouraged.

@@waterheaterservices that's to young for me but I notice women either hate me or love me but the one's that hate me secretly like me.

Try not looking 60!

Mate . . . You need more money.

Know what you mean

what a good viewpoint

Well one thing's for sure my mom told me whenever I go outside make sure I got clean underwear on and I'm 68 years old

@@josepharato262 do u shit ur pants frequently?😥

Nice shiny well maintained shoes screams undercover policeman. Some broads like cops.

@@laserleftfootttt7683 Ironed creases down the front of their jeans mean drug squad in England

This is spot on. As a woman I agree.

Love that Craig, well said!

That is 🤯 and 💯 and 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Craig D a person should present his or herself .......and people should present themselves.....

I'm stealing that LOL

Well said!

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.

Great point Michael! Thanks for commenting!

Oh, the air of quiet confidence is attractive in men, as is ability to listen. But I like guys who tell me about their lives and what they do, what they think or feel etc.I don't want to have to talk about me and my life. That's so boring, to me.

Oh Yes! listening skills are important! I can not tell you how many coffee dates I have had with a man that has asked me out, but then does not asked me a single question. He will just talk and talk and talk some more. And talk. When we say good bye, many times he will know nothing more about me then when he did upon saying hello. Literary, it's that bad! What that tells me is that he has no interest in me. All he is interested in is himself.

@@joebloggs619 what makes up quiet confidence ?

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Guilty as charged.

@@dogbarbill Me too, man. But I'm finally losing weight now. Maybe someone can find this helpful. Five weeks ago I started 16/8 fasting. It means I eat in an 8 hour window throughout the day, and eat nothing for 16 hours of the day. Nothing after 7pm and nothing till 11am the next day. I've coupled this method with not going over the number of calories for the weight I'm shooting for. That formula is as follows: Say you want to be at 200 pounds. Take 200 x 12 = 2,400. No more than 2,400 calories. It works. I'm actually shooting for 250 and will re-evaluate once I get there. This works! Been doing this for five weeks. If your appetite is out of control like mine was being on 16/8 will help bring it down as well as eating foods that fill you up like potatoes and apples. Chicken and veges help your appetite too. No salt added tomato sauce helps my appetite as well.

And the way they dress.... there are dudes that do not take pride in their appearance.....or how they dress. You don't know the looks I get from married women checking me out because I dress good....while their hubbys don't care how they dress..... come on teammates....gotta do better .

@@jamesgeorge65 Ditch the potatoes, as well as anything "white' like white rice, white bread, white pasta, etc. Waiting until 11:00 am to eat is also a bad idea. You're much better off to eat several small, snack-sized meals thru out the day rather that 3 large meals. Having more smaller meals keeps you metabolism going all day, and *_that's_* what burns the calories. This is what worked for me. I went from 245lbs down to 162lbs in about 8 months (I'm 5'11").

YES! Especially if you don't like it in a woman. Being the proper weight shows you are knowledgeable and have discipline

Thank you very much Jeff!

Very true! Thank you for commenting!

Yes, it does show your respect for her. But, no, they don't like other women ogling their man. They get very jealous and angry about it, actually.... You hear comments like: I saw her looking you over and how you were lapping it all up, looking back at her....We won't ever be anywhere she is likely to be ever again! And, if you look at other women one more time, I'm outta here. I'll be looking out for a better man myself. Plenty of nice juicy male fish in the sea for me...You can have her. And I'll take my pick of the best ones..."

@@joebloggs619 Gil is saying the truth fortunately, when your guy/bf/husband is not envied by others women, your current woman will leave without thinking a second, because she knows she will broke you down, you will cry or even begging her to stay, and therefore the place will be vacant after her,but if she knows that as soon as she goes, another woman will replaces her in the 5s following her departure, she will think twice before leaving you.

You're the man Calvin! Thank you very much for your comment! You had it in you all along my friend!

Thank you very much Sterling!

You say arrogant like it's a bad thing

@@willisix2554 It depends on if you want a partner or not.

@@bellavita2005 never had that problem hahaha...

Well said!

your grandfather was a wise man!

Yep, you're right, but not like a tramp or similar.

"....look like somebody..." Love that!

Willi six simple but excellent statement. Thx for sharing!

instead of a button down shirt what about a long sleeve shirt with no buttons ?

what if the guy wears a basic watch ?

couple of things. throw the watch in a drawer, you will soon realize you are looking at that thing way more than you should. instead look around and enjoy the scene being a lawn, a forest, or the city skyline. second, wear what you are comfortable in, being uncomfortable will be reflected in your mannerisms, your walk, your confidence.

I like your shoe analogy 👍🏼

Yes, it is hard to start again at 62, for a widower. But, if you look after your health and look as if you still care about life and yourself, you will be in luck because there are so many lonely widows who would love such a man. Hint: Don't look like you are managing very well alone as a man eg cooking, dressing too well etc. Because older women like to think a man needs them to help him cope with certain things women know how to handle best eg clothes, cooking etc. Basically, unlike younger women, the old girls want a man they can love and take care of, help him with things he is not too good at eg colour coordinating his clothes. Leave them something they can do to feel wanted, useful, necessary to your life and wellbeing as a man. Because that gives meaning to their own lives as older women. Though they may complain about your atrocious dress style, inability to figure out how to even boil an egg and other such things certain older males are notorious for not knowing. It is kind of quaint and cute and appealing about them and older women can feel needed by them. So longer as you can handle some of the traditional male stuff many women feel overwhelmed by eg things mechanical or involving directions. We can never figure out where North is, but men seem to know such things instinctively. We marvel at such male attributes. I can stare at some minor mechanical matter for hours trying to fix it. Then along comes some male and just clicks something and it's fixed in a second and I'm thing "What on earth...This must be some sort of magic!". Meanwhile, kind man smiles, says "Noworries, mate!" and just walks away and I'm thinking "Hey, I like you, mate, come back... I'll break a few more gizmos or garnets, so you can fix them for me, just to see you again...Hey, I'll even cook you a nice meal, take up the legs of those disgusting too long trousers I see you in..."

@@joebloggs619 Thank you, great advice from this widower who lost his beautiful wife 2 years ago. Your keen insight is very much what I have experienced most recently. This 10 minute video goes into a unique direction that ties many well need and critical life lessons together. Great Job!

Thanks for commenting Edward!

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Thank you very much Paul!

Well said Gary! Thanks for watching!

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Thank you!

Don't forget about the sexiest mens shoe available "DOUBLE MONK STRAP SHOES "!!!!!!!

I regularly clean and shine my work boots. People notice, especially when you work at an international airport.

MTobin1000 ..flip-flops

My Husky wears nice booties when its below zero..........the lady dogs been checkin' him out a lot more.

This is good, man..

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Those are the things I use on my 6th date...not the 1st!! Oops!!

True, man.. I don't understand how a 45-47y.o. man can dress like a manchild..baggy shorts, oversized tee..omg.. And that's on daily bases, not going to the gym!!

@@adrianasilitonga7335 📌👍

Me too Keith! Thanks for commenting my friend!

What kind of shoes do you have?

Billy Carter I have so many different shoes. Cole Hahn are probably my favorite inexpensive brand. I also really like Bull Boxer for cheap but good looking shoes and boots. My shoes need to be comfortable and stylish. I won’t wear uncomfortable shoes. Also like New Republic Chelsea boots.

Thank you Mike!

Thank you very much!

Ha! Nice. Thanks Robin!

Today it's 100% correct and tomorrow it's 0% correct. Dress well for yourself first -- if others appreciate it, that's great. Women are whimsical and capricious by nature and change like the moon. If you dress to please them you're insecure.

J Williams women change like the moon? The moon is constant. Sometimes you just don’t see all of it.

1 swallow doesn't mean spring is here....

Beetleything Very clever. Did you make that up yourself?

Thank you very much for watching and commenting!

Qoq..this is new (to me)..tx man.. Ever since college, if I meet my ex teachers or friends they'd all say "doctor or teacher now?" I keep wondering how ppl guess.. Now I'm in my late 40's I have a simple dress code.. One day I decided to try something new..and my son said: " mom, don't change ur style.. It's a bitchy bizniz woman..keep it that way" And I was like: OMG I was flattered.. And now reading ur comment, now I know why I dress the way I do.. I've always wanted to BECOME a business woman.. Hahaha.. Tx, dude..

There was quite funne meme about man in space suit working in Burger King;)

Great. Now I need to find mandalorian armour.

Doesn't work if you work on a ranch, farm, are a garbage collector, or a plumber. Suits don't go.

Mmmm not sure I can go to the Dock yard in an astronaut suit

Well said! This is so true! It takes so little effort these days to look a step above the rest.

Here in England a 'casual' is a lad or guy who loves football ,proberbly is involved in a firm but wears nice italian or other European clothing like c.p company for instance, always looking at one upmanship regarding wearing something no one else has, in fact its more about getting an approving nod from another casual than impressing women 🤣 , it started as a sub-culture but you see the look everywhere now , just thought id comment on how things differ , its held me in good sted since my youth, all the best .....

@@andyallen7437 Smart casual like a full tracksuit is a clean and accomplished look. Like a footballer in training or a young Dad taking his kid to the shop. Always reminds me of PE teachers.

@@bignose16 its the designer that singles a casual out , FILA and Sergio Tacchini for instance based on 80s tennis stars Bjorn Borg and John McEnroe ...

Thanks for watching and commenting David!

If you still gettin compliments from the ladies when you over 65 years old,let me know

39 is barely beyond 32. If you get late 20s guesses in your 50s then bother telling someone.

Thanks for commenting Mark!

I noticed a guy yesterday that had on cool boots and I told him I liked them

Mike D I do get some good natured ribbing from some of my coworkers, but at 63, you have to take care of yourself!💪😉

People notice your shoes! Keep them clean and take care of them. One of the things I remind my 9 year old son of often! When going in public, try to look your best.

*their own appearance.

@@davidcopson5800 yeah sorry, auto type on my new phone 🤦‍♂️

Thank you Greg!

Thank you very much Mike!

It just so funny spit shined my shoes just don't do it while drinking a root beer.

"Friend Zoned" or friends you have boned?

Greetings! Thanks for watching and commenting!

Thank you very much!

Thank you Rob!

Thank you!

Thank you very much for watching, and commenting!

Thank you very much Luis! I appreciate the kind words!

I would have liked to have learned these things in my twenties. Still learning in my sixties. Great info.

Same here, I’m in my 30s but love the style and tips

Yes! This is great point! Thanks for commenting!

I’m married also and staying properly groomed keeps my Wife in her feminine energy.

Thank you for watching Ron!

Yes, maintaining yourself doesn't stop once you're married.

40 Over Fashion yup, so many guys (and gals) think they don’t need to try anymore once they caught their fish. But it always matters. It’s an element of respect.

Thank you!

Great point that gray hair grows out over night in all the wrong places.

I appreciate that!

I don't think you really need to "invest" much money in nice clothing. You can be on a budget and still be discerning. I am very particular about my clothing, how well it fits and the color as appropriate to my complexion. I get a lot of my clothes off of Ebay, actually. The biggest investment has been the time in finding clothes that fit me well, and the styles that look good on me, and how I want to present myself.

Macy's Ralph Lauren suits fit me like they're tailored. 100% summer wool or winter wool. It does it for me.

Yes they do! Thanks!

Great point Alex! Thank you very much for commenting! Congratulations on 32 years!

great comment!

Thanks for commenting! Sorry about your boss.

Thanks for watching Ricky!

Well remember as your her spouse you are representing her what's how you conduct yourself. You look bad she looks bad. You look good she looks good

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Thank you Joseph!

Thanks, will do!

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Thank you!

Thank you Gene!

40 Over Fashion I work in sales and I apply your tips and it help a lot . 😉 Keep up the amazing videos Thanks Gene from Pittsburgh

Thank you!

Thank you!

Yes it does! Sadly, I no longer have it.

Pink is gay.

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Wow..... thank you sweetie. ☺🙂

That's me honey thank you thank you... mr jhn

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Thank you Rob!

Love the sound of that my friend! Thanks for commenting!

05Rudey Same here, I am 53 and been single fir over 15 years. Crave to get back into the dating scene and the tips in this video are golden. Good luck on your quest to get hitch!

@@sayyer10 15 years? what happened mate?

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What a simp! Women love rich dudes and men that are confident. Good luck with your grooming/fashion tips.

Thank you very much!