Well really what they are doing is using them to be famous and make money. Those girls didnt give consent for their parents to parade them around on the internet.
And if he didnt want to be the caring big brother there would be no way out for him anyways 🙈 Mummy and daddy and their youtube channel.. It's so frustrating how people like you react to three minors being used by their parents for thumb ups and making money on the internet.
Right!!! You go guys 🎉 My daughters a cancer patient paralyzed from the waste down and will probably never be able to walk!!! But she is amazing 💞 And your babies are a gift from God🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼Bless all of them 💖💖💖
My sister has special needs and was in a special pushchair when she was little. My Mum used to chase after everyone who stared, made comments or laughed - and gave them a severe dressing down. We ended up quite a few new acquaintances that way 😂
@@malinia.20she’s speaking on HER sister babe. So why even butt in? ❤ Disabled isn’t a bad word but neither is Special…it’s the preference of the ***person living the life*** lol and in this case you don’t even know the woman who uses a wheelchair enough to try correcting her literal sister (the commenter) on the internet…as if you know her preferred terms better somehow? “Just say disabled”…what if she doesn’t enjoy that terminology being used to describe her or the things she uses? Mind your business 💓
@@444HER because they're not SPECIAL needs. They're just needs, and everyone's are different. "Special needs" is for OTHERS to be comfortable. Not the disabled person who just wants to live their effing life. So heroic of you to yt knight for us poor 'special needs' people who obviously can't speak for ourselves. 🙄 Take your own advice.
@Mymusicfmw33 Describe it how you want, but let's not get caught up on semantics. The phrase "if I had a dollar for every time..." highlights the frequency of something and implies their dissatisfaction or annoyance with it.
They're not complaining. They are making a factual statement about how people are while out in public. What's "cringe" is the fact that everyone claims to be so "woke" (super cringe🤮🤣) yet children are hustled away w Don't Stare, as well as adults apparently instead of being taught her beautiful children are no different than other children and its nothing to gauk at. SMH
I hope you admire the children too. So often, our parents are constantly praised and we are looked at as burdens. The children, who actually live in a wheelchair, deserve more administration.
@@findingbeautyinthepain8965 Oh a 1000%, i wouldn't be working with these adorable, amazing young people otherwise. I love how I'm here to cheer them up, but in reality they cheer me up so much more! People should have so much more respect for disabled children. (and adults)
@@itshgart I’m glad you are so good to your patients! I am in my 30’s now, and just because I’m in a wheelchair, people assume my mom does everything for me. I have been able to fully care for myself since I was about 10. But when I’m with my mom, people praise her for “taking care of me.” In reality, I take care of myself and my child. Don’t even get me started on what people say when they see my mom doing the slightest thing for my kid. I have been told, “How can you be selfish enough to have a child? Doesn’t your mom have enough to deal with?” In reality, we probably see my mom about twice a month. My sister, who is able-bodied, actually receives more parenting help from my mom, because she has 3 little ones. It’s crazy how able bodied parents are praised for raising disabled kids, but then when disabled kids grow up and have our own kids, we’re called selfish. Keep being a bright light in the lives of the kids you work with! Make sure they know their dreams and goals are admirable, not selfish!
You are all beautiful, making a beautiful family. Whoever is being cruel, take no notice of them. Stand up with your shoulders back and love your family to the full. .
Just because people take notice of something that's out of the ordinary, does not mean they're being cruel. We all tend to do double takes and look a little longer when we see something that we don't normally see. We are an interracial family, times 3, ( Asian, Black and White). The majority of the time people don't pay attention to us at all but there are certainly times when we are aware that people notice us. However, we understand why. People don't see families like ours every day. One people do notice us, 85% of the time people look for a few seconds, then turn and go about their business. About 14.5% of the time, people come up and tell us what a beautiful family we are. Since we became an interracial family over 40 years ago, only about .5% of the time, have we had any kind of a negative or ignorant reaction to our family, at all - and we live in very rural, very conservative, supposedly racist North Florida. Additionally,one of our daughters has cerebral palsy, although she is not in a wheelchair. However it does noticeably affect her gait and her speech.
I’m often curious why parents complain about being “stared at in public” when they then put their children out there on social media for the world to see
I saw her make a statement, not complain. She puts a video up because she wants to. Being in public trying to go about her day is completely different.
@@GrannyMardi There are so many yt channels put up by mums and dads who have special needs children and they don't use or even abuse them for effing likes from strangers. They will just tell you what their daily routine looks like, because what they want is that their children get along in society or help parents in similar situations. Big difference. What do you get from this video? Mummy has a nice dress and bought one for the girls as well? Are you just looking at those poor girls thinking "yeah, I got lucky in life, they didn't...?" Does that make you feel better about yourself?
If you didn’t want people staring, you wouldn’t have them plastered all over the internet for the world to see. You created this spectacle by exploiting your children.
Or perhaps by putting them on the Internet, letting people know who they are, it makes people more comfortable with people who are different. And perhaps they don’t mind being stared at, they just know that they are! (I’m stared at in public, too. I don’t care).
@@Dania7473 I went and watched some of their other videos, and my view is changing. Everything is pictures of matching outfits (the girls are always wearing ‘Instagram ready’ matching outfits, sometimes Mom with them), princess parties, etc. There’s no educational component, it’s very superficial right now. None of the videos show any awareness about the girls medical needs, what they like, their diagnosis (I suspect Rhett’s syndrome, but I’d prefer to not jump to my own conclusions), who they are as kids, the joys and challenges of raising two disabled girls, etc. I’m more comfortable with this type of content when it raises awareness and fosters a supportive community. This is a tad performative.
Well, you're parading your kids on the Internet without their consent to make money off of them, so how is that any different than getting stared at in public? I can already tell the mom is toxic.
Yes, that’s why I parade other people’s kids without their consent and make money off them! I get all the positives and none of the negatives because they’re not my kids!
Just scroll through the shorts list. Very toxic. Most people with 3 kids, let alone 2 in wheelchairs wouldn't have time to take a shower or cook a meal, let alone put on makeup, go shopping, make RU-vid videos or have need for a passport.
I don’t know why this witch keeps getting showcased. Her son does not look like he’s having fun he looks petrified dad also looks like a zombie n the girls can not give consent. Her videos are trash n I keep hitting do not recommend. Time to clean cache
Nah y’all she definitely has a favorite child cus look at the girl the mom pushes in, she always has that kid on her side or at least touching her wheelchair..
U have 3 beautiful children. I was talking to some friends at church Sunday and i said if someone doesn't like the way i look then dont look at me. I only have to please 2 people. God and myself. The kids look great. I'm so proud of u and husband for loving all of ur children the same. When my sister was pregnant with her only daughter the Dr she was going to wanted to do amniocentesis. I'm sure i spelled it wrong. I don't know why he wanted to do it but she told him NO. If there is something wrong with my baby i will love her and take care her no matter what. There was nothing wrong with her. She is married and has 2 children of her own. One of them made 6 years old last Wednesday, her other child will be 4 in July.
Amen!!!!‼️‼️‼️ they wanted to do the same procedure on me because they thought my son may have downsyndrome…i told them No… it didnt make a difference, my son was not born with the condition, this is a beautiful family & im sure that GOD & a loving community is with them ALL THE WAY
People have no manners and some may just e am?Ed at how beautiful hour family is .I have a daughter with special needs and sometime she acts out I have somepeople just stare at her and give a piece of my mind our special Hildreth deserve to do what everyone else does you guys are ama?ing beautiful family ❤
This happened to me as well. I said an album isn't going to make me change my mind about having this baby either way so I'm opting out! All because I was "old" the one time (35) and the next two were also for that reason but also I had gestational diabetes. Point being tho, it wouldn't have mattered to me if anything was "wrong" or abnormal.
@@debrapastfield183 I bet this couple would have put their kids on display even if their girls were born 'normal'. They need the attention, the "oh, you are such a lovely family" from strangers. Very, very sad.
I have a 40 year old autistic disabled child and it gets harder with time. When you're young and you are full of energy, it really isn't a big deal at all. Now at 60 it's major. I worry every day what will happen when I'm no longer here to help him. That's the issue. It's a huge issue actually. I stopped after him because I knew my limitations and I knew I couldn't handle another. Now year later a part of me wishes I had tried but not if I got another one disabled. It's too hard and I am a Christian God fearing woman.
I can kind of relate to this because I have a younger sister who just went into middle school and she has a lot of different disabilities. I am in college and far away from my home so I don’t see her that much. I do worry about her but I know that my parents are taking care of her❤
@LindaVanGalder-jt6yf , that hits home really really hard...I have a 5 y.o. autist and I have no freaking idea what happens to him once I'm dead/unable to take care of him, as all the opportunities are frightening. Having a disabled kid is one of the greatest tragedies in life. It feels like a God's punishment. Not so much to the caregivers (although their sufferings are tremendous), but to these poor disabled creatures. One day nobody will give a shit about my child and he will be in an institution treated like a biological trash, as I know the reality of these institutions in my country. If I could turn back time I would have never bring him to this world to suffer. Never.
Prayer for a Worrying Mind I know that worrying gets me nowhere Yet I still allow it to consume me In such times as these, Lord, I ask You to grant me A great amount of strength, Of faith and courage To fight off the doubts and fears Within my mind. Fear casts out faith While faith casts out fear. I’ll be praying for you, my dear sister in Christ❤️
She is stared at for having a learning disability? Are you sure it's a learning disability? With the exception of one (visual perceptual/visual motor deficit) learning disabilities are not visually apparent. Is it possibly a developmental disorder, such as autism? Either way, it's insensitive & wrong for people to stare, and I'm sorry that it happens. Try not to let it affect you, though; people like that are usually ignorant, unaware, uninformed, or uneducated.
What a lovely family. The girls in beautiful coloured dresses and the little man in his suit. I never understand why people stare at people with disabilities. I would come up to you and say I love the childrens outfits and how beautiful they are. X
So…..if you knew you would have a child with such difficulties…..I’m interested as to why would you then chose to have another and inflict this on them? For the internet? I am an adult child with a severe neurological condition. Life has been a struggle. I don’t want this. And you won’t always be around for them.
@@eglutis05 this is so irresponsible. Those kid’s quality of life will be restricted. It really isn’t fun growing up with a life long condition - the struggles, challenges, restrictions and barriers are a lot to deal with. No kid wants this - many of us look at others and wonder why we can’t be the same and why they can do things and we can’t and why they can achieve what they want but we never can. There are no ‘accidents’ if you think about it. I’m sad for them being paraded about (kids can’t consent to be put on the internet anyway, especially not kids who have severe disability). Horrid business, this.
@@miaglossender7430 You’d be begging for death if you lived a day in some people’s lives. Some of us should have been aborted but selfish parents wanted us to have a lifetime of struggles (some for ‘likes and shares’ on RU-vid). Those kids will struggle. FACT. Their lives are unbearable some days. And their parents won’t be around for them at some point. It’s a disgusting thing to do.
Abortion is murder of the innocent. Yes its going to be a struggle for the kids but they can get a miracle and even if not they can still have a good life.
From what I read in their bio is that their little girls have congenital disorder glycosylation or cdg for short. My little girl has it and in result she also has cerebellar hypoplasia (where her cerebellum didn't grow to its full size causing development delay)
I literally can’t get enough of your boy. Not to say the girls smiles aren’t absolute perfection, but his personality is just top notch in these shorts.
@@willb4643 he wonderfully made children ,He wanted to give a gift that no man could take away: A special knowledge of the power, strength, holiness, faithfulness, might and wisdom of God that only comes from NEEDING HIM DESPERATELY. I believe that it is the answer. I also believe that is why He gave child with special needs . He also gifted these children with a loving caring family
I doubt the parents are happy like they seem in the video unless they have a full time of caregivers to take care of the disabled girls.I work as a caregiver 20 year full time job and it’s gratifying but absolutely exhausting.But I get to clock out and go home.For this parents it never ends.Its only going to get harder.Their lives are ruined.Dad will eventually bail and I don’t blame him.
You can be happy AND exhausted. Good lord and then to just accuse the husband of doing something like that in the future. The only truly miserable person here I feel is you.
Children are beautiful, love the way their mom styles their hair.May the HEAVENLY FATHER YAHWEH blessed them with healing, health, protection, happiness,and prosperity.🕯️🕯️🕯️🙏💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝
A very good friend of mine had a child born with multiple anomalies and he died shortly after birth she was 21 yrs old, she had another baby ( before she had genetic study done) this boy born with severe MD but he lived wheelchair bound all his life. I went to nursing school and didn't get married till age 29 but I visited her often. It was very sad because her life was so difficult and I was having the best time of my life. New convertible, nice Apt and she was always so depressed. We drifted apart..but I sent her letters and Christmas cards, she wrote me once said her life was hell, going through divorce , depression, health problems...her son is still alive he's 55 yrs old. I've had difficult times but nothing like her. She pretty much keeps to herself but I still write her and send her cards and I ask her if she wants to go out to lunch or something...she never answers I know she had a breakdown 😢but I always ask her anyway!! So 😭😢 sad!!
I'm confused. Many children are born w what's not considered normal & healthy. The fact that you consider it an anchor that has held and drowned your friends happiness and ability to live a meaningful life and then commenting about it to parents who are genetically predisposed to pass on disorders being sure to mention that you make sure you send reminders yearly has me mind boggled. Maybe I'm misunderstanding something, forgive me if that's the case.
Sometimes at genetic level, some couples shouldn’t breed together. Why would you keep putting your potential kids at risk of genetic defects? Let God bless another couple with their cute little souls.
@kaitlynsakura2659 People are going to stare whether they make videos or not. Children will stare because they are curious and don't understand why some children are different. It's the adults on here need to grow up and stop with the hateful and nasty comments.
I’ve seen many families with multiple kids affected with the same disability. Not a big deal, you live your life and give them the best life that you can. They are so cute. You shouldn’t be surprised that people are curious about the kids - not everybody sees a child with a severe disability. Everybody needs to see that all struggles are not the same. You’re going a great job.
I have 2 sick kids, and we don't even need wheelchairs for people to think i must be trying to scam the system. Cuz I'm sick too. Try telling that to people. It's endlessly hard. Their love is amazing and wonderful tho. But one by one everybody gets mad because i can't do one more thing, and they get offended.
That is terrible. If you haven't yet you maybe you should try getting disability for you and the family members that may need it . I know some people are against getting public assistance but if you need it you need it. God Bless you and your family. I hope everything turns out well for you
@@MelB868 only people this ignorant can express so much ignorance - you mean like cerebral palsy or other genetic disorder that causes severe illnesses can be treated like a flu? We don't wish any of this into you but, you really need to live what we go through to believe how hard it actually is for the kids and their caretakers.
He isn’t. Adult children will come to resent their parents for forcing them on the internet as children. They don’t want this life. There is no way for them to consent. It’s inevitable that they’ll run a mile from those who remind them of their horrible childhood.
No he won't. His eyes look so dead and out of it right now. I hate parents like these. He'll have issues for the rest of his life because of this stuff.
Why should they hid these children? You are discriminating against the disabled. Every other mother are posting these vids of their families why is it exploitation only when child is disabled??????
My older sister had cerebral paulsey, and as a child I was very protective of her, and would get so angry when people would stare at her. More than once I got in trouble for confronting people who would stare and point at her. So glad to see how well yall are doing.
@@NanOfTwo her mom never responds or acknowledges her followers. She just grabs the money and exploits her handicapped kids. Ava is practically a vegetable. She has no emotions that I have ever seen. I think she's so depressed with her life that she's numb. They need to get the poor girl some Prozac so she can see the world in a different way. Very sad.
People the parents are bringing these little girls to prove they are not embarrassed or shamed by them. They are beautiful little girls that their parents adore and love. If this was your child, wouldn't you feel the same way? Please realize that this is what they're trying to say. God bless you too.❤❤😂❤❤
I’m a Mom to 30 year old twins with Intellectual disabilities. People don’t stare, they can’t see their disabilities. Our problem is waitresses, sales clerks and strangers that don’t understand, especially when we help them order or pay. People also ask why they don’t work. I ask them if they would send their 4th grader out into our country filled with crime and sexual predators. My mother, family and in laws were ashamed of them.
I love how sweet and precious your girls are there a delight. We love watching your videos, and your son is hilarious.😂 You are an amazing, blessed family.
Bro had one troublemaker on the right. Then his mother brought another one in the left. DOUBLE TROUBLE! how do you not give them away for adoption, they would be so annoying and frustrating
@@kitty_765oh really? Yea, I had no idea. I’m new here. Lol “🗣️ SHE DOESNT EVEN GO HERE!! 😎🫣” Hahah, I’m kidding. Yea, sorry, I didn’t see that one. I had just starting to go through their shorts/reels. Only got so far, as I have a little girl with Autism, Epilepsy, ADHD (she’s asthmatic too, so the ADHD & asthma are counterintuitive w one another😳🙄) & an immune deficiency. So my days & the time I get for myself to shower, read or go in my phone for a bit are very far n few between AND short lived. To say the least. Lol #momlife Anywho, yea, I didn’t see this video you’re speaking of. If you have a moment, tag me in the comments of this video you speak of? If you can. And don’t mind. Thanks a bunch. ❤
That is the most confident air drummer - to this day - that I have ever seen. You go, Family! Get it! Cool supper in a hot town tonight! Rock in da beats!
This couple have a healthy boy, 2 girls two years apart who both have a rare disease. Any baby born from them has 20 percent chance of developing the disease.They have gone through 9 ??invitros to have another baby. I think the last invitro produced an embryo. This time they will use a surrogate to carry the embryo. Any thoughts
I know that feeling I'm a amputee and the kids stare at you bad enough but then you get there parents or other adults. Proud of the parents of these beautiful children. You just have to say out loud ,yes they are beautiful aren't they
You all are a beautiful family &having kids who are in wheelchairs doesnt define who they are as people&it doesn't define them as childrens either so spread kindness &love to this family please &thank you
The two girls are so cute, but I might be caught looking at the little dude out of jealousy, I'm an adult and on my BEST day I've never looked that dapper!!!
