When a Killer Realizes His Victim Called for Help 

Absolutely agreed and eloquently said.

He was as addled as the murderer.

I don't know about that. People always like to think that they'd jump into overdrive and instantly do the right thing and react like a hero. 90% of people will sit their dumb stick for the entire incident and then doubt themselves after. I've been in a few bad situations in my life and you do not react how you think you will. Not to mention, a lot of people are scared of the police. I know I am. Too many cases where in the US where someone tries to do the right thing and ends up in their sights. I remember one time when I was in college me and my girlfriend were walking and some guy and a woman were arguing in their car. She was crying and obviously upset, he was getting upset, trying to keep her quiet. I debated calling the cops. Me and my GF hung out around the area for a while to keep an eye on things. It ended up with her seeming okay and them driving off. But for all I know she could have been in danger. Honestly, I probably should have called the cops, just to be safe. But I was young, the cops in my town were pretty well known to be corrupt and as bad as most criminals, and I did not want to make waves over what was probably just a couple having an argument. Point being, until you're in a situation like that, you really should not be judging so harshly. The guy told his daughter to call the cops, which she did. And then later when nothing happened about it he did as well. Ideally he would have saved her at his place, but like I said, most people don't think very well when faced with a situation like that. And self-doubt can be a bitch.

I agree..this poor girl and the other people who called 911 did everything right...this should never have happened...and how in this short time frame did this monster have the time to kill and bury this poor girl with a thousand people searching for her and countless tips pouring in...sad sad sad

Nah speak for yourself ive been in plenty of situations and its not hard to do the bare minimum in the face of obvious wrong. But keep justifying that to yourself ya do-nothing. ​@arkainin4638

How the cousin did not intervene is beyond me.

She was told to call 911 by her father. It wasn't something she overheard.

​@@doctorshell7118shock is a hell of a thing. If your close cousin came by and something like this happened, you'd probably struggle to come to the obvious conclusion.

Yeah, I'm glad the operator was thankful to her

​@flspacebear That's what the OP said "hearing her father's story." Not overhearing.

Gut wrenching.

I know, this is just so wrong.

I actually can't finish this video. I've seen another video of this and it's very upsetting. She did everything right and so many people failed her

Yes that’s so sad to know that when she passed she KNEW she did all the proper things and still wasn’t saved 😢😢😢

@@dawnsully88 I had heard about this case a couple of years back and am still haunted by it. Another RU-vidr posted about it the other day, and I couldn't make it through that one either. It's maddening but especially heartbreaking.

The odds of literally everyone screwing up were so small. The fact that they all *did* is infuriating. Especially the scumbag who watched her get abducted and ignored her pleas for him to call the cops. What an absolutely useless piece of garbage.

Yes but that cowardly cousin guy takes the cake😡! Completely spineless.

It's probably one of the most upsetting cases for me too. Poor darling. It shouldn't have happened. Or someone should have got off their butts and saved her.

This case is infuriating. I've seen it on other channels too and Denise as a cop's daughter did all the right things to maximize her chances to survive. Even left traces in his car and wherever they went (I remember her wedding ring specifically which she hid in the car so he cannot find it but she knew the cops would, as proof she was here and it was him who hurt her). There was also the issue of two neighboring counties incl. dispatchers in them not passing information to each other. When he crossed the county lines, he basically got them off his back a bit. Such a tragedy, 911 has Denise's blood on their hands. To think her Dad has served to protect his community his whole life only to be let down in such a major way the one time when his family needed help.. I hope he can live the rest of his days in some sort of peace. Not sure if I could. RIP Denise, what a remarkable woman at 21 already.

Yeah, I have a lot of respect for the family.... I can't imagine how hard it is to not only go through that, but also use it as fuel to fight for change

Should've been charged.

That's the bystander effect sadly

​@@bobthetitanicno he shouldn't have

The one and only person responsible for this was charged, brought to trial, convicted and sentenced to die.

The dispatcher’s hands too. Imagine being so flustered in a life or death situation that you fail to provide life saving information when staying calm in crazy situations and ensuring appropriate authorities get informed in a timely fashion IS LITERALLY THE JOB DESCRIPTION. Clearly unfit for the work applied and was hired to do - and it cost 2 young children their mother.

@lisacocker1898, I am so happy to hear this news!! Thank you so much for sharing it as I imagine that your profession never experiences the same call twice with all of the different scenarios and principals involved as well. You guys are our life line of matters that may alter our course of whether we live or die or if the fire department arrives to our homes in time. Thank you @lisacocker1898 for all of your hard, emotional, never ending, stressful sacrifices that you make each and every day in keeping us safe from harm and being there at the end of the line for us as you take control to manage our emergency. You guys are angels and hero’s and you should be very proud of the differences you make everyday!!! 👏👏

In case people still haven't figured it out, dispatchers are terrible at their jobs and the women employees are only there to have a train run through them by all the male police officers.

​@mmayhem11 YOU don't know them and will probably never have to, with a comment like this I hope you never have to call for help dude. Not all dispatchers are the same people we hear in this videos smfh

The countless 911 dispatchers I have heard on crime documentaries sound like they have had zero training. "Help, I am just going to be shot." "Oh, is there anyone in the house with you?", or "How long have you lived there?", "Do you think you'll need the Fire Brigade?".

@@jasperzatch610 all dispatchers are trash. All the female dispatchers only get hired to have sex with all the male cops. Did you not know this?

And they had helicopters looking for her??

This case is infuriating. I've seen it on other channels too and Denise as a cop's daughter did all the right things to maximize her chances to survive. Even left traces in his car and wherever they went (I remember her wedding ring specifically which she hid in the car so he cannot find it but she knew the cops would, as proof she was here and it was him who hurt her). There was also the issue of two neighboring counties incl. dispatchers in them not passing information to each other. When he crossed the county lines, he basically got them off his back a bit. Such a tragedy, 911 has Denise's blood on their hands. To think her Dad has served to protect his community his whole life only to be let down in such a major way the one time when his family needed help.. I hope he can live the rest of his days in some sort of peace. Not sure if I could. RIP Denise, what a remarkable woman at 21 already.

What about the guys brother that just stood there and watched him throw her back in the car. This is very upsetting

​@@kokoskoksoIt doesn't really make any difference, but it was her promise ring that he had given her when they were younger. She had never taken it off, even after getting married. 😥

@@VioletJoy oh yeah you're right, it was a promise ring! I've seen her case a while ago so I didn't remember exactly.. Thanks for that! There was a story around the promise ring and how she used it and other stuff to convict the creeper, I wish Mike had included those details too.

Wish there was a way they could charge lame cousin Harold for not doing anything despite witnessing the abduction.

He seems like an accessory after the fact.

He absolutely should be charged

At one point the dispatcher asks if he thinks Michael is capable of hurting anyone and he's like "I don't know." Yet, despite apparently being so uncertain, he was scared to call 911 when he saw his cousin kidnap a young woman. What are you scared of if you don't believe he can hurt anyone? He was 100% a coward.

He was probably scared of Michael

This case is infuriating. I've seen it on other channels too and Denise as a cop's daughter did all the right things to maximize her chances to survive. Even left traces in his car and wherever they went (I remember her wedding ring specifically which she hid in the car so he cannot find it but she knew the cops would, as proof she was here and it was him who hurt her). There was also the issue of two neighboring counties incl. dispatchers in them not passing information to each other. When he crossed the county lines, he basically got them off his back a bit. Such a tragedy, 911 has Denise's blood on their hands. To think her Dad has served to protect his community his whole life only to be let down in such a major way the one time when his family needed help.. I hope he can live the rest of his days in some sort of peace. Not sure if I could. RIP Denise, what a remarkable woman at 21 already.

Exactly!!!!

Same. I am so pissed and ???. They had so many chances. 😢

Same, absolutely fuming. I know they have a script of sorts they have to adhere to...but it was more rhan obvious how much distress and fear the woman was exhibiting. I can only hope the dispatch lost her job and any further employment in the field.

😢

As a father of two and my wife at hone right now, it definitely hits deep. Mostly because it was one of those cases that the husband had no control over what was to happen to his wife.

I completely agree.... Was like watching a movie.

So sad for her family especially two boys who missed out on their mother.

I've been an emergency call taker and radio controller for two UK police forces. It can be difficult getting relevant information from, understandably, hysterical callers but the female driver wasn't hysterical in any way, she was calm and giving good information. It's not an easy job, the training I had for both police forces was extensive. One for for a small regional force and the other was for the British Transport Police. Even once training was over we always sat with an experienced buddy for some time after. Obviously policing in the UK has some major differences from the USA. UK forces will normally just have one central control room, possibly two at most, you don't just have a couple of people working out of a police station. It can be stressful, it takes experience to take a deep breath, cut out everything around you and ask who? what? where?, when? why? and how? Everything you need lies in those questions but it can be difficult to keep people on track. You need to be able to do all of this in 90 seconds. At the same time your mind is thinking, what will we need? Dogs, helicopter, TFU? It's not for everyone, there is usually a high turnover rate of staff because you need to put it all out of your mind and do it all over again the next day. If you allow yourself to think too much, to become invested then you just couldn't do it. I think it can be easy to be critical of call handlers but you don't know their level of experience or training. The 911 handler wasn't great but I've heard much worse whilst listening to this channel. It still remains the best job I ever had. I'm glad to hear that this dreadful case has led to better advice and training for 911 operators in the USA, it's just sad that it took something like this to make it happen. My advice would always be to seriously consider whether you can handle a call from someone whose having the most horrific day of their life. If you hesitate or think "yeah, maybe" then don't even apply for the job.

@@MarshaKlein8425 i have been a police/fire/ems dispatcher for almost two decades, so i have some understanding of the matter as well. i also have have sat through the Denise Amber Lee training. There was alot of mistakes made from multiple agencies, the perfect storm .. we must review calls like this and others , including our own so we can be better trained.

@@MarshaKlein8425, I've listened to a lot of 911 calls from both the US and the UK over the years and am always very impressed with the UK emergency call handlers compared to the ones here in the US. They seem particularly adept with children who call for help remaining calm and comforting while obtaining the information needed to get help ASAP.

@MiraLee53 That her husband speaks at conferences is important. Presenting at conferences for 911 operators is meaningful as they’re [they are] frontline. Denise fell through the cracks in this case. Sad.

Let's not forget the family member that witnessed the girl screaming for help, being pulled back into the car on his own property and did nothing. What a useless piece of shyte that one was.

​@@alannatodd7183Then to add insult to injury, he calls 911 and does not give this guy's name or address, just a general area where it could be happening. My guess is that he only reason he even called was because he new his daughter called 911, and he was afraid of some sort of charges coming down on him for not helping when that poor girl begged him to. He should be charged, but I am sure there is not enough proof to convict him. Total piece of dog shyte.

This case is infuriating. I've seen it on other channels too and Denise as a cop's daughter did all the right things to maximize her chances to survive. Even left traces in his car and wherever they went (I remember her wedding ring specifically which she hid in the car so he cannot find it but she knew the cops would, as proof she was here and it was him who hurt her). There was also the issue of two neighboring counties incl. dispatchers in them not passing information to each other. When he crossed the county lines, he basically got them off his back a bit. Such a tragedy, 911 has Denise's blood on their hands. To think her Dad has served to protect his community his whole life only to be let down in such a major way the one time when his family needed help.. I hope he can live the rest of his days in some sort of peace. Not sure if I could. RIP Denise, what a remarkable woman at 21 already.

@@kokoskokso dawm..i did not know she was trying to save her life and leave clues in case of her violent demise. I mean after he took her to his home and fed her grapes he put her back in the car and so it makes sense she started to realize she would not make it back home. Hense "Just let me see my family again please!" So painful to hear.

The blame lies with the killer's male relative who did nothing to help her when she screamed for it. Also, she was a woman, not a "girl."

Right? "A tragic sledding accident". Please.

You can tell she was raised by a cop. :) Smart girl and excellent father because he taught her well!

@@foxybrown1gif only her father had taught his department well.

Not only that, she made sure to rip out some of her own hair (with the roots attached, since the roots are what contain DNA) and wrap it around the ring so that it could be definitively tied to her and let investigators know that she was there in his car. At that point she clearly knew her fate, and wanted to do everything she could to bring this monster down.

Well damn now I’m all teared up for a whole new reason Blessed be

Unreal 😡

Like that operator who wouldn’t send help to that lady who got her car stuck in a flash flood and drowned on the line with the operator berating her in her in her last crying moments😭 they might be able to answer bc I certainly don’t know

You don’t normally hear these stories, , cops usually cover up their failures

The fact that there was a patrol car on that road but he was never given the information from Jane’s call… I’m livid

@@srbelnappaomg for real? They need better training honestly. It’s ridiculous

Yeah I think he should be charged with something. Not only did he see the struggling screaming woman, he gave him tools to bury her.

Especially after he borrowed a flashlight , a gas can and a shovel.

​@@burialdrip723...seems like aiding and abetting a criminal, he should have faced serious jail time...

criminal

The ONLY thing I could even possibly think of to excuse is if he had _severe_ anxiety issues, but... I mean, if he's out and about and _eventually_ making phone calls, maybe some weird OCD-like thing where he HAD to finish other things before he could even process an emergency? Otherwise complete and utter negligence. Even if he does have some explanatory issue, he should definitely get some court-mandated meds so he can freaking help someone literally screaming at him for it...

It felt like I heard it in the daughter’s voice. Like I don’t really have a dad, I don’t have a protector. It was probably terrifying for her. I hope she’s doing well.

@@knowyourlove5613 absolutely…. I would be disgusted and would probably never speak to my father ever again if it was me.

Exactly, he was a coward and could have saved a young mother’s life, but he did NOTHING.

He should be prosecuted for aiding his cousin in the murder

I think he should get charged, he literally saw his family member abduct a woman and aided him.

It does give credence to him having a low iq as she's stating her name and address asking him where they are while he's trying to figure out where his phone was. Not to mention driving around with an unbounded kidnap victim. I mean what does he think she's going to just not try to save herself. Cops should have let dad put his body in the grave he dug for her and just say he escaped.

Thank you. Reading this after 5 minutes I am out.

@@felixlingelbach2758 Well it is a true crime channel. Mike doesn't do happy endings...

@@scottcol23 I overdid it with this Annie Elise, you know cutting out baby out of the womb and so on... Need a break.

​@@felixlingelbach2758 Same. The Taylor story in Texas? That was a rough watch. I can't imagine living it. She is now where she belongs. Scary how one lying, manipulative, selfish, evil person can so easily justify ending a life, stealing another, and destroying so many just to avoid admitting a lie.

Me too. I was thinking it would turn out ok. God what a dirty monster.

​@@buschovski1I did too for a second...... until I considered that I was listening to "That Chapter." Then I realized her fate 😔

I could see it coming, unfortunately. with all of the bullshit happening around the case - Harold just stands by and watches it happen, the dispatcher who couldn't handle the situation - I couldn't see it ending any other way.

Same. I feel my heart drop. It was like watching a movie, hoping the good people helping would be in time to find her alive.

Same. Audibly gasped in my car. Now I feel sad and angry.

how do you think the dispatcher should’ve responded other than alerting the cops in the area?

What stupid question should you have asked other than this one?@

how about you chill for a second? I was genuinely curious how a dispatcher is instructed during training to respond when a witness asks if they should follow the perpetrator or not. hope you enjoy the plethora of smart questions you come up with in your life. @@tomoda7602

Oh, do schools give out 911 degrees now? Interesting.

Do you know if she was fired?

F Harold,he'd be receiving some special attention if it were one of mine.

It makes me wonder if Harold had had a few run-ins with the law (possibly even an outstanding warrant) and didn't want to bring attention to himself.

@@alekhidell3644this is exactly it, I’m sure. I’d hope they wouldn’t be worried about his warrants at a time like this but you never know with these people. Edit: not that him going to jail matters, I’m js. He should’ve gone to jail anyways.

He didn't stop his daughter from calling. I think he went into shock and was desperately holding on to the hope it wasn't what he thought it was. Men get scared too.

your hired!

Inner city fo ol, for diversity.

@@superwildside4585what?

@@superwildside4585 I’m sorry you turned out this way

You’d think they would have naturally done that without a prompt. I’m willing to follow someone home for cutting me off, I’ll follow someone home who has a screaming woman as a passenger. I have that kind of time 😅

It is, in fact, less cruel than gas asphyxiation.

Exactly! I suppose these POS pull at everything they can for leniency. Tragic case..

@@Uomo_Universale for real in Japan they don't ever tell you and there are no appeals

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@@FuhrerHeisen There are appeals, but it is difficult to appeal and people spend up to 50 years in jail before they get killed.

He certainly is! Agree 100%

It hit very hard. So so sad!!

Yes, very very sad. Poor girl, she tried everything possible - again and again. It was so close, yet so far. When the caller said, “he’s turning on Toledo Blade...”, I was so hopeful about the outcome

100% what a despicable person

Agree..150%¡

It was his cousin not his brother

@@echolightning604I don’t care what he was. His freaking gardener, it doesn’t matter when you’re faced with a moment of truth you F-ing act. A world full of cowardice.

@@francispitts9440 I was just saying chill out

Sometimes dispatchers are downright mocking people and not believing them. I remember the one time where a lady was drowning in her car in a flash flood and the dispatcher was mocking her while she was dying, and die she did. I know it's a hard job but there's too much at stake to allow the standards to drop this low.

⁠​⁠@@kokoskoksomocking her? 😳 what was she saying? Is this from a series or where did you see this?

@@Jo-vb9tm type the following into the RU-vid search, but be warned, it is disturbing: 911 dispatcher mocks drowning woman in her final moments

I seen it here on RU-vid. It was truly sickening as well. They didnt take her serious until she was actualy drowning. If I were these dispatchers, I would never beable to live with myself. ​@Jo-vb9tm

I said this in another comment, in much more detail, so I'll be more brief here. Most people like to think that when faced with a situation like that they'd launch into action and be the hero. They'd make the right moves, not doubt themselves, and save the day. Simple truth is that 90% of us would stand there stuck dumb, and then self-doubt ourselves into not doing anything. Until you've been in a situation like that, I don't think it's right to judge it. The guy had his daughter call the cops right away. He then called later as well to make sure. Yeah, I wish he had acted faster. I bet he does too. But we're only human and self-doubt and fight or flight can make one rationalize all sorts of things.

Well considering how bad dispatch blew it. I doubt anything changes if he does call. They'd have been like oh , I'll blunder this 100% as bad as I possibly can. They had so many chances already. Information wasn't lacking.

@mcoofannoyingpe, I agree wholeheartedly!! The father provided the tools to kill Denise Amber Lee so he IS an accessory. As for what the general public would, I believe that most people would step in and take action as the cousins daughter did as she knew something was not right and made that call to 911. The cousin didn’t act for hours later due to King being a relative, most likely. I think that the general public would act and not stand by and do nothing.

Yes what he did or didn't do is so wrong but what would be the charge? He didn't do anything illegal

I wouldn't have done anything. It's called minding my own business.

Just so gut wrenching to hear all those calls. Heartbreaking.

Sounds like you need to do some forgiving for the “people who dropped the ball and contributed to her death”. I don’t know what “rest in power” means and I don’t know any one named power. I do hope she was a Christian because she then will be with Jesus her Savior, and with God. Please pray for the ones you say “contributed to her death and please pray for the Uncle and the 911 operator”. Everyone makes mistakes. Every one deserves forgiveness. They deserve to be able to forgive themselves. Hopefully, they will receive help, prayers, training, counseling, and forgiveness. I hope when you mess up really badly and you will, every one does at some point in their life, that you will also receive forgiveness. If you don’t forgive others then you will not be forgiven. Matthew 6:14,15 “If you forgive people when they sin against you, God will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive people their sins, God will not forgive your sins”.

My thoughts exactly!

I would find out the biggest,baddest dude in that prison and let him know his commissary account would never be empty.

@@boathousejoed1126Harold was the brother of the killer. The one who did nothing to save this woman who was clearly is great distress at the hands of his own brother.

That's what I was thinking too. It's Florida man, there's always a lake.

@@RillaGorilla420 Cousins, Harold was a cousin to the killer. But yeah he did nothing to help despite witnessing the abduction.

Um yeah, the babies were left alone, it was kind of obvious

​@@lauralishes1he said before he entered the house he knew something was wrong. The kids being alone were his last sign to call.

Because the windows were closed and earlier she said she would open them. That's the first thing I would notice too and say what's going on here.

"Hello?... Hello?...Hello?...What's your address?" What the hell kind of person must that operator have been?

That's horrifying, I'm so sorry. I did this job in the UK and the idea of laughing at any caller is just unforgivable. Policing here is different in some ways to the USA but it seems that in some situations it's just a couple of people in a police station whereas , in the UK, most forces will have one, at most two central control rooms. I received really good, intensive training and one of the first things I was taught was, "what if this was you that was calling? How would you want to be treated?" I don't think all forces are equal. I didn't have great experiences dealing with the Metropolitan police in particular, and I was calling from another police force so God alone knows what they were like with the public

At that point I've be asking for a name and their supervisor and if that didn't work, I'd contact the media.

I had a similar situation just a couple weeks ago, when I called because a woman or child was screaming in terror outside late at night. I don't believe the police ever arrived, even after I called a second time (about 20 minutes after my first call). The second dispatcher snottily said, "Okay, Ma'am? Do you realize it is Mardi Gras season?" -I'm in Mobile, AL, of course I fuh king know it's Mardi Gras season. Oh by the way there's a police academy only a block away. But a human being in clear distress takes zero prioritiy compared to protecting PROPERTY. That's what the police are really for, in case anyone didn't know.

​@@lainiwakura1776 you'd all for their name and supervisor from the backseat of a car while you were on your kidnapper's phone, huh?

The 911 operator was rubbish!

I am a woman. Everyone in my life who has shown me mercy, helped me to achieve something, given me some kind of break or help in some instance, believed in me, etc have 95% been women. We are amazing. Women are amazing.

And she lacked human decency. Zero compassion in her tone, just repeatedly demanding, "ma'am what is your address?"

99% of the times we see this happening with the 911 operator it is usually an older white or black woman. maby its not a good job for women.

@@TerryD5000The 911 dispatcher who told someone whose friend had been shot to deal with it herself after she cussed due to the horrible situation was a dude. I’ve heard many terrible 911 calls - a lot of zombies doing that job unfortunately, but it is a job women with souls are very capable of doing.

US dispatchers are notoriously incompetent

Women shouldn’t be allowed to be 911 dispatchers, they are not built to handle stressful life & death situations. I’ve seen so many cases where they get flustered and/or do the bare minimum when victims could’ve been saved. Makes me so upset

They need to charge the braindead 911 operator *and* the POS loser who stood there and just watched her get abducted like it was a fucking TV show. She begged him to call the cops and instead he called his daughter and told her about it like it was town gossip. "I just saw a woman being violently abducted and she begged me to call the cops, so crazy right?? I dunno, I should probably call 911 but I'm not super comfy with that so... Eh, she'll be fine, whatever. I'm going to the store later, you need anything?"

Yeah this one got to me the first time I heard it. It really makes you feel like you can do everything right if you've been abducted and so can bystanders YET it all means NOTHING because 911 officer's fail at utilizing such useful info. It made me so mad at the failures of the 911 systems and feel hopeless that if someone else was in that situation it would happen again and that's gut wrenching

@@benmcreynolds8581 This case is infuriating. I've seen it on other channels too and Denise as a cop's daughter did all the right things to maximize her chances to survive. Even left traces in his car and wherever they went (I remember her wedding ring specifically which she hid in the car so he cannot find it but she knew the cops would, as proof she was here and it was him who hurt her). There was also the issue of two neighboring counties incl. dispatchers in them not passing information to each other. When he crossed the county lines, he basically got them off his back a bit. Such a tragedy, 911 has Denise's blood on their hands. To think her Dad has served to protect his community his whole life only to be let down in such a major way the one time when his family needed help.. I hope he can live the rest of his days in some sort of peace. Not sure if I could. RIP Denise, what a remarkable woman at 21 already.

I would've quit had my incompetence ended another person! So tragic!

But because she works for the police department, she was promoted.

Yup... thin blue line of stupidity.​@@MamaTriedSolo

Really? You've obviously never had fast food. It's always garbage people working there.

@@flspacebear someone's gotta feed your fat@ss, no need to talk down on fast food workers they're just trying to make a living dude.

Oh I’m sorry. Did she have a history of heart issues? If not, I hope it wasn’t vaccine related. Not the point though (I’m vaccinated). I’m just so sorry - 49 is young!

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤

Very sorry to hear about this. You are right, though, that this is a channel that can bring families together. Mike has the right takes and doesn't get political. I hope you are grieving in as much comfort as would be reasonable. You will meet again.

❤

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing a bit about her with us.

Agreed. There were so many chances for her to be saved and nothing was done.

It's incredibly frustrating and heartbreaking when systems designed to help fail those in need, especially when someone like Kelsey did everything she could to seek assistance and protect herself and her children. The tragic outcome highlights the urgent need for improvements in emergency response protocols and support systems for victims of domestic violence.

@@wanimalus her name’s Denise

@@zippityzoop1478 It looks like that comment is about a whole different video! *Pam*

​@@wanimalusplus the poor lady, who called 911 as she'd driven accidentally into a river flooding. That dispatcher literally took the mick out of her and she drowned. That dispatcher is still working her "job" (she was delivering papers....the driver and she couldn't swim. That call (urmaker) is harrowing and vile.

It's like the 911 operator had around the same IQ as the killer it's just infuriating

Same I just said the same thing. This one is just super super dark. Even for those of us with strong stomachs.

Not just a step behind, leaps and bounds behind. For them to know the identity of the kidnapper, the car, the direction they went, and still not get him because of people being beyond shit at their job is heartbreaking. Denise was failed by them, when she did her damnedest to help them find her.

Right! My heart us racing right now! I'm pissed!😢😑

It is the same for me! I usually stomach these cases quite well but this one is so messed up on so many levels. :c

Same here.

Yeah I feel uneasy now...

Eejits. Clearly Denise could not talk freely and the dispatcher shouldn't have shouted her lame HELLOOO because the kidnapper could've heard her and ended the call. But you'd need brains to come to that realization.

The dispatcher who answered her call was horrible!

She came around and realized what was happening, it was the last one who totally botched it.

How was he supposed to know it was actually a serious situation and that she had been kidnapped if his cousin had no history of violence or crime? How was he supposed to know that his cousin wasn't messing around with him? Harold did absolutely nothing wrong.

Is this how they were able to start the foundation? Were they awarded a payment or judgment from the county against the police department?

@El_Ophelia yes they were awarded a settlement, and it helped start the foundation.

He's a scumbag and should've been charged.

How was Harold supposed to know that she had been kidnapped by his cousin if his cousin had no history or violence or crime? Harold did absolutely nothing wrong.

How was he supposed to know that she had been kidnapped? His cousin didn't seem to have a history of violence or crime so why would he automatically think "oh he kidnapped that girl"? Should he have called the cops right away? Yes. But he didn't. He probably has had bad experiences with speaking to cops. Mike did say the guy wasn't comfortable with speaking to cops.

She had dozens of officers shouting various questions and instructions while ALSO fielding information from the caller. You couldn't manage a crayon drawing under those conditions without a therapy dog and hug from your Grandma, tough guy.

@@faszikilawang8445 ouch somebody's a wee bit triggered 😂

​@faszikilawang8445 yeah better that she work flight control

@@jumpingman6612 she's better at her current job than you are at being an independent adult.

​@@faszikilawang8445 Found the dispatcher's RU-vid account.

Did anything happen to the 911 operators??

@@missssophisicated6742 Mike said. Did you watch the whole video? *Pam*

Yeah. Just a shame, huh? Thank god there are less broken appliances strewn about……

@@allendean9807 learn from our history or we're doomed to repeat it. yes, it is a shame. the communities were all in fear. We wore bottons with her picture on them for months. We remember her every year on the anniversry. No one has forgotten. But we learned were our weaknesses were and worked to change them so hopefully this will never happen again.

The eye witnesses are all idiots. Non of them are the type to jump into action. Weak

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​@@koaga224 I am ashamed to admit how pissed off I got at the damn dispatcher. I almost clicked off of the video.

@@dakotyascott7996 I'm the maddest at the guy's cousin. I mean, I'm not saying he has to die for this girl, but why not at least try to talk the cousin down? Him doing nothing and just letting them leave more or less gave him the go ahead and hurt the woman. Utter friggin coward. And yes, I do know what it is like to be in a situation like that. I got stabbed in a situation in which someone was holding a friend of mine's kid sister against her will. It was more of a slash than a stab honestly, and was superficial, but that's because I got the knife away from using the girl's bag of clothes. Hell, even my 50-year-old mother jumped between the girl and the coward holding a knife. I can't begin to believe this dude couldn't do anything.

​@@nerdjournalwhat would you do if you caught a friend (male) doing their female dog?

@@sweetmissypetuniawilson9206 that deserves an unsubscribe from life punishment

It’s wild to me that it isn’t more difficult to obtain a position like that without more thorough training erc

As a fellow paramedic, I can confirm that dispatch must have a very low bar. Sometimes it feels like they are discouraged from having any critical thinking or problem solving skills.

They're not paid enough either. Super high-stress, low pay, understaffed, with lackluster training. Recipe for disaster.

Thanks so much Katie!