Any man can say anything. Words don't cost him anything. No matter how tempting it is to believe his words, no matter how much you want to believe his words, save your heart from future excruciating pain: don't believe his words. Believe his actions.
Yes, exactly…what are we meant to do when he says all these things and your communication is good BUT he also says all those things that say he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you? How do you rectify someone saying that they are in love with you but that they can’t give you what you need? Is it all bs or is it manipulation/abuse? Or is it possible that it’s true?
Exactly… Narcissists say the same things. They want to know what is important to you so they can take it away and use it against you. Actions must match his words.
I was married to a Narssisist for 50 years. Did not know what a Narssisist was. He Never said any of these things (that I remember). I'm 75. When I had a stroke at age 69 and he would not take care of me; I divorced him and am So Happy !! Jesus is my man !!
He's my man too~ I have similar story, but with 2 marriages ! Yep! 18 years with 1st one and had 2 children with him. 2nd marriage was short and was a big oops on my part. All the signs were there , as I look back! I seem to be a target for these type of men. I'm done! Too sick and tired ! And I'm only in my later 50's!
That’s why Sally I need loyalty and trust. Trust is very important thing in a relationship I believe if there’s no trust there’s no relationship???night 😇
Even when my husband was dying in the hospital, the first thing he asked when I visited every day was, “How are you.” It annoyed the bejesus out of me at the time because HE was the one who was so ill, and my focus was on how HE was. Also, the last thing we both said before I left was always, “I love you.” The nurses kind of teased us about it like we were young kids being all mushy. But they loved it too.
Yes me too, i believe actions.. every man can say that. I dated a guy i met online he said those words even when we didnt see each other yet. And we dated, after 5th date he ghosted because he didn't get what he wanted then ghosted me. Tried to reach out but didn't work, he replied but really avoided me.
He said all 5 points. Additionally, he said 1) he wants to help me in all my problems 2) He wants to take responsibility of all my burdens 3) wants to go that extra mile to keep me happy and not to see me feel alone or sorrowful 4) he wants to be with me and feels happy seeing my face, hearing my voice 5) he keeps in touch on calls and respects the moments when I am busy. He understands why I didn't call. 6) The most important point what impressed me among any other man was that he decided to stand by me in all my messed up situations, without any expectation in return. Seeing my problems, no man would have stood by me. But he showed his manhood and gave me a strong arm. This is divine help. God bless him so much.
Wow that's great news about your experience with this relationship between the two of you and your family ❤️😂 thanks again for all your kindness and generosity and support towards the rest of the form of love.
As a man and a man in a relationship I am happy to say that all of these phrases have passed my lips. We care deeply for each other and we aren't afraid to express it. The moment we met we fell in love and it's going on 2 and 1/2 years now as strong as the moment we met. I look forward to walking down the aisle with a beautiful woman who has a moral code and a heart of gold.
I am in a miserable marriage with an extreme narcissist. He hasn’t accepted I am done. I have met a wonderful man. I don’t want to feel bad for wanting better for myself. I’ve lost everything. Given everything. I watch your videos for clarity and to make sure the real man God blessed me with, knows what he means to me.
I lost my husband this year - our 50th anniversary is this month . He was wonderful at all these things - I was so blessed!! I love that you mention the bible. I can truly say we made it almost to 50 because he loved me as Christ loves the Church. I love your wisdom!
By the way, don’t fall for scammers. Women like you are an easy target. Hence the fellow above who’s asking you to contact him. I’ve seen too many victims get love scammed. God bless you!
My boyfriend always asks me these things... 1. He saids what are you doing today . 2. He wants to know what I'm wearing. 3. He asks me where am I at. 4. He talks to me every day/night ( he lives in another state....we have a long distance relationship.... we've been together for over 2 years now) and people told me that long distance relationship's don't last....but our did. 5. He always tells me to have a good day at work and for me not to work to hard. 6. He always tells me that he doesn't want any other woman. ********* He tells me every day, night and all day long that he loves me********** & I love him with all my ❤️.
He has said and done it all. He has told me I’m his responsibility to take care of now. I have leukemia, I had it before meeting him. He has told me we are in this fight together. I let him how thankful and blessed to have him in my life. He makes me happy and I feel safe with him.
5. How do you feel? 4. Why do you feel that way? 3. What do you need, want, prefer? 2. I love hanging out with you 1. How was your day? Bonus: Wants you to feel safe, protected, provided for. Takes the responsibility role.
The guy i like says all these and he really makes time to discuss issues with me. Even when I'm just petty he's always patient. 🥰 Even when he's sleepy he won't sleep if I'm upset. He tries to understand me and always asks me how he can help me feel better. 🥰
When he lets you interrupt the movie to get clarity... and in my case stopped the movie 20+ times to answer my questions - that’s deeply loving patience.
My husband never asked me any of these questions at any time in our dating time or our marriage. We were together for 20 years. He always compared me to his mother all of the time. He always said that she did everything better than me. He always said that I would never come first in his life until his mother passed away. I could not stand it at all. She would call me fat all of the time but once I lost weight, he finally stood up for me. When I had my pacemaker surgery and he supposed to be there with me in the hospital he wasn't he was with his mother purchasing roof shingles at Lowe's so they had to admit me into the hospital. He wouldn't marry me until after 13 years of dating because he was so glued to his mom's hip. Now, I can't stand it anymore so I am divorcing him.
Just be careful that you’re not dealing with someone who “plays the part” but then changes once he has you under his control. My partner makes me smile and laugh and that is so important to me. He tells me to be careful when I’m out shopping and that’s so lovely to feel he worries about me just as I do him. Long may we laugh and be best friends too. ❤
I liked this! it also goes both ways! I am recently having fun having long conversations with a man I met earlier at the beginning of this year ,a friend of my my best friends husband! I haven't been in a relationship for years! right now we are just friends,but have found that we like a lot of the same subjects etc...I am old fashioned and don't want to rush into anything to serious,it is nice though having a mans attention! he recently said " say if I wanted to give you a call ;what would be a good time of the day? because I dont like waking people up"?
Hope he doesn't stroke out, and treat you like a caregiver. Then put on a show for your anniversary by buying you a pretty item. Ignores me all day, won't watch tv, a movie, etc. With me. My dog is better than him at this point
The guy I dated said all these things, but he didn’t adore or love me. He just learned that it’s the polite thing to do when you date. In his own words, he was “just being nice.”
My man tells me he feels at peace with me and he wants to spend most of his time with me. He's retiring so he can do just that. He tells me he loves me every day. Thanks for the updates.
I find all these comments so unbelievable. I'm 65 engaged, divorced after a 9 year abusive marriage several friends/ boyfriends and pretty much alone for over 20 years. I've learned alot, heard alot . I don't believe you can trust any man's words, I think you have to individualize each person, you can't lump men into one group. Everyone has their own problems and insecurities and it plays into how they act. But please rule out psychosis before you fall too hard. The only one I can trust is Jesus, and if he says "give him a chance, pray for him, understand him, believe in him but Trust me", well that's what I do. And that's working. It's a growing experience.
I feel very blessed because my husband even after 17yrs still asks me all those questions and makes sure he's doing what it takes to make me happy😇🙏And we love spending time together❤❤
My fiancé has hit all 5 of these....on a regular basis. We have truly felt & shown each other how much & how deeply we love each other. We are both in our 60s & neither of us thought a love such as we're sharing was even possible. We are truly blessed to have found each other.
Nice to see so many people saying they are blessed to have loving partners ♥️ In my country we mostly have arranged marriages. Women are expected to do the major adjustments. Most men don't understand it is an emotionally draining sudden change. That's the reason a lot of women in India are not particularly happy, yet they remain in the marriage due to social stigmas. A lot of stuff related to marriages are messed up here.
True, but not the kind of communication that's gonna used against you for who you are, what you think, dream, believe or want in life! It has to come from both sides!
Oh my gosh, I never thought that the man I married for 40 years is deeply in love with me.It brings me to tears because I never appreciated these things that he had said to me and I'm 7 years older than him.
I was married to a malignant narcissist whom passed. I'm now in a new relationship with a man that actually loves me... and it's night and day. He says all five things, btw❤
I m 76 n after many bad relationships n a lot of emotional pain I realize I was searching for the luv I can only get from Jesus! He is my everything n he never lets me down!!!
The man I've been seeing for the past month has said all of these things to me! Great signs! I feel so close to him and protected, safe and loved when near him. ❤️
Be careful because when a man expresses himself like that as soon and as early. He could possibly be narcissistic. They like to rush things and make you feel comfortable. Then once you feel secure and loved They fuck up your life. Read up on narcissism Just be careful
@@feliciafreeman4434 I'm not worried, we have been seeing each other for 3 1/2 months and he is in no way a narcissistic, just a good man! I'm so happy that I met him and thank God every day that he's in my life!
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Although we’ve been texting, I get asked those questions every day… We met on a dating site and finally going to meet once he gets back from his business trip… He wants me to pick the restaurant and the rest is in his hands… What really got me was when he said it’s his job to make sure I am always safe
@@wildflower4795 exactly. Liars and scammers. There are a very very few who are in it for a real relationship. I've learned that LTR.... Biggest catch all phrase. Be specific in what you're looking for. Him as well. Now most are there for sex, others need a place to stay or want a green card. And looking for a place to stay. Even will say, marriage too. The other thing, if it seems to good to be true. Yeah, it probably is. They also know what we want to hear. Good luck to you. I hope yours is real.
Great you're having a good time. Pls I would like to add that the communication should not be on text majorly. Generally speaking, A man should be able to say those sweet things he types on text. (Text message relationship). So that the woman doesn't feel disappointed afterwards cos she might not get to be hearing those sweet words afterall. He might have problems with expressing himself and worst case might not love the woman enough as she's made to feel and every woman wants those expressions.
Hi . He always tells me I am here only for you . Then I love when he says I have given you my heart. Then.I love when he asks me how is your day going so far . What are your plans today . We both love each and care for each other. I am a married woman for 11years now but I have never felt like this ever before . He is my love , my everything. Thankyou so much for this video. Thinking about him has taken.away my sleep and peace . We have been chatting with each other for just only 2 months now. But feel so so comfortable and loved with him being in my life . His presence in my life has taught me.how to love some one with any limit's or boundaries. Unconditionally.
My husband says it all, i am thankful to our Almighty God. Were living for 5years already. He always saying he's love for me is getting stronger and stronger. And he says that he's very lucky that he meet me. .💓💓💓 🙏🙏🙏God blessed us all.
Me too am in a long distance bt he been telling all that sending me money so that I get the documents to meet him bt it's now 1week he is on n off just texts morning sms doesn't call am a friad of loosin him
my husband Jim was saying that right up to the day he gained his wings 27-07-2019. He was an amazing husband and soul mate and will always will be my husband and soul mate. Love you always Jimbo.
My soon to be husband has said all of these to me. He is a law enforcement officer for over 37 years and always makes sure I am safe. He teaches me how to do that when I am alone. I love him, and according to you, he does love me too.
I strongly believe that every men do and express things differently a man can say all the above to a female and he can give her all the gifts in the world and something still just not connecting what I strongly believed is if a man truly loves you you will know so it’s up to us females ❤️🙏🏾
I am a widow of less then a year ‘, my husband said all of these pretty much on a daily basis. And I feel lost without him today, but I had to promise him at one point that I would move on and live life. I’m 72 and I think most single men I have met since, seem to think like my sons or grandsons
1. How was your day ? This question is very powerful , yes . I can hear his voice saying it to me every day or anytime . Thank you for this great video 🙌🏻
He said all those sentences to me but he still let me go despite him still having feelings for me🙂I could even see he wasn't happy while letting me go.but it's reality sometimes you just have to let go.
I just met my man about two weeks ago. He tells me everything you said. He’s such a dream one true. He tells me every day and night he loves me. I ant ask for a better man
My man says these things and also that no one is going to hurt me when he's with me... So I guess he's falling for me.. That makes me happy, he adds to my happiness 😁
I haven't met this man in person yet. We both suffered the loss of our spouses. But we started a relationship on getting to know each other. We don't dwell on past events and we have chose to take this time to know each other. This man has been everything you have said. I have photos of him. He has things to do before we meet. But he has said everyone of these to the T.
Please be very careful. IF u do actually meet choose a venue where there are others and advise family or close friends where and get 1 to call u so u have an excuse to leave if feeling uncomfortable. Being aware is taking care.
Ty I have informed my family and believe me I have checked things out. I can say this one was send by God we were meant to cross paths. But ty for the advice today's world is not so nice I know.
Make sure you video chat and make sure it's not fake. There alot of cat fish people out there that prey on kind people especially widows etc. They usually know exactly what to say and do to make you feel special
I am not sure men born in the 30s or 40s are going to say or ask all these things. My husband wanted it to be about him and I accepted that, because he did other things that showed he loved me such as offering to do things like the shopping and until Covid we went to breakfast together every day even if it was just a drive through. He never missed Valentines Day, my birthday and took me for cancer treatment and all doctor's appointments. It's actions more than words sometimes and we had 50 years together. Oh and he always said Love You.
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Woooow it felt like you are talking about my BF in this video,its been 2 years together and he hasnt changed a bit,he says all the 5 things..just yesterday he sent me a VN telling me he misses me so much nd he thinks it has started depressing him since we in different countries nd cant get to see each other as easy like before because of covid🤕🤕i just love how hes comfortable being vulnerable with me
I'm just starting a long distance relationship but some times as if l don't trust him..He always telling me that he loves me. I don't know if his.pretending or not . No idea yet..
Was married 10 years, my ex husband never did anything to make me feel better when I was upset. Verbally, emotionally, physically abusive. Never said any of this. So glad I left. Happy New Year
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Thank you! Wow all 4 with my husband and before we were married! I’m a blessed woman for sure. How can a woman not want to just engulf her man with love when she is treated this way!, ❤️
He has said all of these things to me, and I haven't even met him yet. We will meet in August when he is released from his contract with the government. He's overseas providing orthopedic surgeries. He's amazing, and I'm so excited to finally be with a man who is in touch with his emotions and not afraid to say how he feels.
Rita, are you sure he's who he says he is? Have you video chatted? Does he ever ask for money? What kind of contract is it? Honestly, he sounds like a scammer. Just looking out for you.
I’m so sorry to worry you, but I met a man online. He said the same exact things, that he worked out of the country as an orthopedic surgeon. He turned out to be a scammer. I saw right through his lies and his inconsistent stories and blocked him. Please be careful!
✝️MARRIED FOR 35Y AND my Hubby asked this 2 to 3 times a day ...❤STILL OPENS THE DOOR FOR ME PULLS MY CHAIR OUT ...AND IT DEPENDS WHO'S UP FIRST WE PUT TOOTHPASTE ON EACH OTHERS BRUSH 💞I THANK ALMIGHTY GOD FOR MY HUBBY ✝️🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
I have been asked all of the above almost on a daily basisis over the years. I have no doubt in my mind that he loves me and always wants to make me happy. And i am happy
My guy has said all of these and he has been very true to his words. I know he loves me I trust him immensely and he has already asked me to marry him. He always asks me how my day is going, how I'm feeling and he.listens to me. I am deeply in love with this man. He has stolen my heart.
My hub is all in to me as I am him. We have a Soulmate relationship and our 23 year success secrets are all of those mentioned, but the one that binds us tightly is respect and not demanding of each other. We were best friends for six years. We were like two girl besties who shared everything and spent time laughing as well as asking each others advice. Love is not an emotion but an action verb. We work at being the best partner we can be, yet we respectfully disagree from time to time. No matter what happens outside our puzzle board, we always come back after dealing with an issue of any sort. The puzzle board is our deep, unshakable love, fueled by our love relationship with Christ first. Love is kind, patient, forgiving, loving, playful, and dedicated 100%. Great video BTW, thanks👍
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Most of my male friends say this.. If they generally good friends and care they will say it... It's not necessarily them in love but who they are as people...
I've never heard those from the man I married for 12 years. He started cheating when my child was 1 year and kept forgiving him until I discovered that he already has a child with other woman and I've finally decided to let go of him and filed an annulment case. So terrible 😔 but thanks be to God for all the revelations.
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He asks me all of these questions everyday or every other day & even when we're both together spending to when so thats wonderful to me that we're both on right page together he make it so easy for me to love him & vice versa ❤
Thanks so much, this is exactly what I needed to hear.. After my divorce of a 30 year marriage, II said I just wanted a man who actually cares. And this is exactly what I meant but didn't know until now. Thank you
Hii I know it's pretty random but I got your profile from the dating advice here I was bored and figured I'd take a shot and hit u up. Lol. I would love to hear from you soon, we could text on Instagram if you want to talk.
My first husband ( til death did we part) was a very romantic and faithful gentleman! He was the first man and was very experienced in love making . So he taught me to the joy of sex Which we both enjoyed. He writes me love letters and poetry at lot , and every wedding anniversary, he would propose to me and just really celebrate very romantically. Made him Happy to Make me happy and content vice versa. I always tell him how much I love him and was so proud of him. I never nag. Very loving and protective. Not only that, he loved my family parents and family. He was a very good husband and I was a great wife according to him. Two years after he be passed away, I met my second husband . He was a Coach by profession. He was a quiet man but loved to read and loved me to read to him. We were dedicated to each other and he taught me how to have my own identity. He was also faithful and dedicated but in a different way. He would send me beautiful red roses very Valentine’s Day at work and I miss that so much. We were both passionate and enjoyed each other too. We loved to travel as well as he allows me to have my own identity as well as I allowed him to be his own man. I never nagged. We had 20 yrs and he passed away 7 yrs ago. Different people, both wonderful loving and intelligent gentlemen who treated me like a Lady and thank God for giving me such wonderful husbands who never laid mean hands on my, only tenderness and passion so I really enjoy my life partners and think of them with fondness and love. I miss them so Much.
I do agree with what u said. But As a filipina, most men in our country d is not outspoken when it comes to what they feel for the woman they love. But they show it through actions as we have a saying that ‘action speaks louder than words.’
Will you only believe if he said these words in front of you? I got scammed by a man in fb. Every morning he wrote me sweet words, asked how my day go, and how I doing. I asked to video chat, but he refused. I broke up with him, telling him that his love to me is not real and his sweet words don't last a relationship. If he do really love me like he said, he would have called me and video chat with me. Don't believe words, but the motions and what he do for you. I'm glad I unfriend him and broke up with him.
Yayyyy my baby says all these things an have been saying them in the beginning of our relationship. It’s been 1 yr and 5 months for us but I genuinely feel love from him. So 🙏🏽 for confirming these signs for me
Whoaaaa!!! I didn’t realize how this guy who has been pursing me really felt about me. And during the second encounter that I had with him the “secret bonus” was something he said during that time. And I am not going to lie I was so oblivious to all of them because I was not ready for anything serious.
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I'm always ready ❤️ I'm watching from the Philippines Oh my goodness all of them are usually what my long distance relationship tells me since we're miles away from each other and considering it has been four years having this relationship. We haven't seen each other in person though . Stay safe and thank you so much I do appreciate it.
My fiance say this things every day he care about me he always talk about our future never hide anything from me he advice me were am rong he teaches me alot of things and he is a God fearing. I LOVE HIM AND HE LOVE ME HE VERY OPEN IN EVERYTHING THANK GOD FOR HIS LIFE
