When A Man Loves You | Cuffing Season | (Part 9 ) | Jerry Flowers 

If a man don't know Jesus , he doesn't know how to love you

Three types of men: 1. Self made - a loner, introvert, he treats you like a man, self-taught, don't believe in counseling. 2. Culture made - love you based how he was shaped by culture: music, tv, etc. Inconsistent. 3. Kingdom made - he understands love is sacrifice, covering, provision, Jesus dependent, and heals.

A man loves you when: 1. He gives you his vulnerable/ flawed self. 2. He challenges you 3. He expands you 4. He helps you detox 5. He can lead you 6. He sacrifices for you 7. He covers you 8. He complements you. Rich teaching on today Pastor Jerry, blessings.

Forgiveness does not always mean re-entry

“I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE TRYING TO HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES!”

This is a great season to be single in, God is giving us fresh word left and right!! Thank you Lord for looking out for your children that are single and waiting on you Lord 🤍

Whoever reading this, I pray that God visit your home with healing, blessings and miracles. Amen.💕

Ladies! Don't be a quarrelsome woman. The tongue is the smallest member of the body, but can be the most deadliest part. We must learn to keep quiet when God tell us to be quiet. We have to learn how to speak life. Lord bless us to speak life in the mighty name of Jesus. Lord help us to learn how to submit ourselves to you completely while we are single. So, we can be the help mate that you designed us to be in marriage in Jesus name. AMEN and AMEN!!! Hallelujah! Thank you Lord Jesus. Amen and Amen.

" I don’t address shade thrown by a tree with no fruit” 😳 OOOOF. AMEN 🔥

"Don't confuse what's good to you, with what's good for you." Glory to God! Hallelujah! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️🙏🏾❤️

I am a 19 y/o male and man, Pastor Flowers has been a blessing for me. I started watching him back in March and he has changed my whole prospective on a lot of things. I pray that God keeps using him and keeps blessing his family. Thanks!!!

A kingdom man: 1. Gives you his vulnerable self: his fears, inadequacies, his flawed self. 2. He challenges you 3. He expands you 4. He helps you detox 5. He can lead you 6. He sacrifices for you 7. He covers you 8. He complements you

When a man loves you like Jesus Christ loves the church! 🙌🏽

Some of my exes were not Kingdom men. Many were bruised, broken, spiritually castrated and trying to play Kingdom because they saw I wouldn’t entertain anything but Kingdom. But you can only fake Kingdom for so long. Jesus will help you discern spirits in men and will rescue you from the sons of Pharoah if you allow Him to.

I’m watching in 2024 and this is working on me! My GOD TONIGHT!

"The quality of man is directly related to the quality of his counsel!" 💯 Who's in your ear? Who is leading you? "If you allow your mind, emotions and your thought patterns to be your guide and counsel, pain is eminent!" 💯

"I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE TRYING TO HELP THEM FIND THEMSELVES!"

My Kingdom man leads me. He sacrifices for me. He is willing to be inconvenienced for my benefit. He secures me emotionally. I am able to talk to him more than to my girlfriends. 🙏🏼 Thank you Lord for your all your blessings. Amen 🙏🏼

A man will always treat you out of what he loves. Wow! That’s powerful.

“I don’t have to respond to shade thrown from a tree with no fruit” praise God that had me shook👏🏼👏🏼

Here to help learn how to become a Kingdom man for my woman❤🙏🏿

Ooooo weee! “ You can not change the world until I have first changed you.” I hear you, Lord loud and clear!

PAIN will NOT have the final say!!! I’m taking my pen back! Pain will cease writing my story.

I will no Longer Lose Me while helping someone else Find themselves !!!!!!🙌🙌🙌

Marriage isn't permanent 👏👏👏👏Don't loose yourself.

"Can he lead me? If so, where!" Where will his leadership take me and my children?

I am learning to stop going with the flow. And denying who I am, and what I stand for just to be in a relationship.

Have anointed friends!! Anointed friends breaks yokes.

Dear subtitles... CAPITALIZE the “g” in God.

That breakup was an investment in my soul care 🙌🏼🙌🏼 I will no longer lose me while/by helping them find themselves

Kingdom man leads you to thirst and hunger after Righteousness into perpetual Kingdom Principles!

Whew! When he described the men. 🥺 God just smacked the whole truth in my face through Jerry. The first “self made” man was exactly what I had with a mix of the culture. I need a kingdom man

"We ask God to heal us..but we don't let go of whats infecting us.." I felt that n what I'm dealing with. So stuck on what could have been.

Forgiveness does not always mean re-entry Hallelujah😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏

“...real men love Jesus” My soul says: Yes, yes, YESSSSS a thousand times! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️

Them cutting you off and/or rejecting you was an investment into your soul care.

“ You have to learn how to NOT respond to what you’re not” amen to that ! Everyone don’t deserve a response! Once you know who you truly are/ called to be you’ll understand everything don’t need a response

I will NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES!!

Pain will not have the final say of my story, in the name of Jesus!!

I will no longer lose ashley, by helping them find themselves.

Perfectionism is the fear of criticism, dressed up #dope

That vulnerability part is so true! Ladies I'm tell you the truth... You will know if a man loves you if he's vulnerable with you and sacrifices for you.

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE MESHIA WHILE HELPING A MAN FIND HIMSELF!!!!🙌🙌

Amen!,"I have never had the love💗 from a man yet!,"Not even from my father,"Only real love💗 from my father God ,"And that's all the love that I need! 💘

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE HELPING THEM! 🙏🏾‼️🙌🏾

When I say that you have run all the way through my current situation!!! The self-made man has wrecked me. I allowed it. I am ready to grow in wisdom!!!

Pain will not have the finally say, I will not allow pain to have the pen to write my story!

Next do a sermon titled “When a Woman Respects you”

Wow!!!!! 3 types of men.....1(Self Made Man)2(Culture Made Man)3(Kingdom Made Man)...Good Lord! This word has single handedly changed my life and provide insight where I was at a lost and could not process on my own. Amen thank you for this Godly message. ❤️

🗣🗣 “Don’t throw a stone, that will be thrown at you, if your behind the scenes everybody knew” .........extend GRACE !!! Whew 🙌🏿💥💥

What a WOOOOOOORRRRRRDDDDDD!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

This right here changed my whole process. This word was the best thing I've heard in years!!!! I've always looked at myself as a man.. but Lord he taught me so many more things that being able to call yourself a man requires. Thank you Jesus and Lord God Almighty. Great message!

God is putting forth his Kingdom agenda. Our men need the love of God to lead others into His love.

This was very much needed. We so need more Kingdom made men.

Ohh my God. ...I'm so greatful I found this man. A kingdom man..I'm in tears writing this comment. Thank you Lord for answering my prayers.

He ain’t lying ! It’s a kingdom agenda ! This has been in my spirit all week. !! Speak lord and give us direction to help build up your kingdom the way you would you have us to ❤️🙏🏾

Amen!!!! We unknowingly hurt our kids and don’t even realize it until years later

Wished I had a male figure to lead my heart with God.

Hallelujahs and Glory to King Jesus Christ! "He can lead me" "He sacrifices for me" "He covers for me"

I will no longer lose ME while helping them find themselves! ❤

The man is the covering.💯💯💯💯

beautiful message! this inspired me to have a deep convo with my dad on how to love my mom better. thank you pastor Jerry!

Forgiveness frees the prisoner. Pain is not my author, God is. Amen

Yes Pastor Flowers! I need to hear Biblical teaching! The Truth never changes. And I was burnt out on "regular so called relationship advice." Thank you so.much for this!!!!

Stop measuring your strength by how much pain you can tolerate.

Thank you for this. My journey this year has been to transform and shed my old self to reveal who God created me to be. You're message has pushed me ahead in the journey. Amen

Kingdom Vibes Only!

"I have to have quality in my corner"...that part 💖

The quality of a man is directly connected to the quality of his counsel

I NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE A MAN TRY TO FIND HIMSELF 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

PAIN WILL NOT HAVE DA FINAL SAY IN JESUS NAME,AMEN!! Dis is evrythin, Thx Ya Lord, Thx Ya🙌🏽🙌🏽!!

I will no longer loose LaWonda while Helping them find themselves!!!! Hallelujah God!!

Kingdom vibes only!!!

Pain will not have the final say in my story!

Wow!!! This is free game!!! GLORY BE to the most high God.

I will no longer lose me while helping my parents find themselves. Amen and amen

“If the Identity giver isn’t there, it automatically by default, positions the family to engage in identity theft.” Woooooow! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

"I will no longer lose Sophia while helping them find themselves." Amen. 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🙏🏾

"I don't address shade thrown from a tree with no fruit" 💯....so many allow trees with no fruit to occupy the space in the yard of their lives... clean up your yard, remove barren trees, plant seeds in good the soil of God so your life can start to bring forth fruit!

I will not allow pain to have the pen to my story 🙌🏿💥💥💥💥

Pain will NOT have the final saying!! Pain is NOT the pen of my story!!! ✊🏽

This has truly blessed me. I’m 56 years old,and it’s as if I’m learning in a way that I’ve never learnt before in my life.

Teach our men of the planet to love and learn in the true name of Yashua. Theres power in his name. Worship Yahweh.THERE IS POWER IN HIS NAME.

I WILL NO LONGER LOOSE MARNIE, WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES; #AMEN!!!❤

Dear abba, please loose me from every connection with men in an identity crises and misery in accordance with genesis 29:32, genesis 2:19 and this whole message, binding all that wants to take unfairly from my love and identity, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

First time. Enjoyed the message.. My husband is divorcing me. He tells me no one could love me. I can’t imagine falling out of love & then making someone feel like they are not worthy of love from anyone. Surely someone could love me like this..

Pain will not have the final say, in Jesus name!!!

Amen! 🙌 Equally yoked , iron sharpen iron relationships ❤

Men hand out identity. Lord heal the identity crisis of men. Help him to walk in his purpose of handing out identity and be present.

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME TRYING TO HELP THEM FIND THEMSELVES!!

I will no longer lose Consuela, while helping them find themselves 🥳

I will no longer lose me, helping him. Kingdom agenda moreover then self. Amen 🙏.

This sermon was so deep and real! Definitely a replay and to be shared! Blessings All!🙏

We are asking God to heal us but we're not letting go of what makes us sick.

This was something that came ON TIME ! Lord I thank you for answering my prayers

Blessing's Pastor, and Lady Flowers, Excuse Me This Message Was Powerful Nothing But KINGDOM, PREACH PREACHER, PREACH !!! Thank You Jesus,

Kingdom vibes Only! Fantastic sermon! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

I don't respond to shade from a tree with no fruit 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ #Shoutfest🙌🙌🙌🙌

Aaamen,so true; something happened to our men; and now we don't have many who are modeling the love of God to us....sad😔

Yes. Lord. Yes. Lord. Yes. Lord. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. AMEN. LORD WE THANK YOU FOR DELIVERING THIS BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE THROUGH YOUR HUMBLE SERVANT/VESSEL. IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.