Alex is an amazing young man full of love . i mean he cries and shows nothing but his raw emotions. Which is always love . that beaming 😃 ALEX is amazing .
From a Registered Behavioral Technician: Watching Aurora mimic your motions and speech is an absolutely incredible step! Her stimming and smacking her lips was also her just trying to help tell the story as well! She’s come so far.
No thats not all the way true they probably did love him they just wasnt able to care for him so there u go parents go through things and yes it reflects on the child but now hes in a better place
@@jameiam5997 But Alex’s mom choked him, that does not show love at all. Alex’s mom didn’t like him, case closed. Although I will agree he is definitely in a better place now.
What she said about Alex is the worst thing I have *EVER* heard from a "parent", if someone says that about a child then it's good that they lost all thier children, that is not ok no one should go through that! We love you alex and this was not your fault you are a fabulous person!! And we feel the same way for all of your family!!❤❤❤❤❤
My brothers and I got that all the time. If only we behaved better, mom wouldn't be so sad/angry all the time. It's horse hockey, we know now; but at the time, it was crushing.
maddie konklin that backfired yes Huxley is better off sad to say it . I have two kids who have autism one is non verbal and one is verbal 7 and 4 years old I have 10 kids including one I am going adopt soon and one on the way pregnant too yes we big happy family and never want to return my kids for any reason even put my own kids up for adoption
Yes. She was hoping he had a brain tumor. And after they found out that wasn’t the case and it was going to live a long life she was like wait this isn’t what I signed up for. I thought he has cancer....
Aurora is too cute when she hugged Alex and Hannah (her HaHa). Alex is the best. It really makes me angry that his other adoptive mom still says he was so bad. He’s not. He’s a really cool kid.
Look how far Aurora has come and I believe it was your parenting and love for all your kids that that makes your family so special. My foster parents abused me sexually, physically, and mentally, I was in from 5 to 12. So grateful that there is really good ones out there. I lost hope at an early age, Even if I did tell, I was abused more! You are all so special!!
I'm so sorry no one deserves to go through that just want need to know that you're special and there is people out there that care about you and the world cares about you so you're here in despair for a reason and the reason is cuz you're needed in this earth or planet sweet
It makes me phenomenally angry that Alex has been so mistreated. I cannot even fathom how you, Crystal, and Aaron must feel about it. I don’t know any of you personally, but from the brief time I’ve spent watching you and your family- I know for a fact that Alex is an incredibly kind-hearted, smart, brave and loving young man without a single bad bone in his body. To blame a child for your own failings as a parent is abhorrent. Nothing a child does or doesn’t do ever, ever, EVER warrants abuse. That man deserves be in prison, and that woman revoked her right to a family when she (from what I gather) abused her kids. I hope Alex gets to a place where he understands, whole-heartedly, that none of what he experienced is his fault. Hannah, too, for that matter. I know that it’s one thing to think it and another to truly believe it. Love you guys so much, thank you for all your open and honest conversations with us 💞
If you adopt a kid, you’re officially their parent right? Then how is it even possible to “give them back” to fostercare. That is terrible, you can’t return a kid like it’s a shirt that after all doesn’t fit you perfectly.. Also how strong are Alex and Hannah for bouncing back after going through all of this. And to talk about all of this so openly and vulnerably on camera. So much respect for the two of them!
Cara Evans has I agree that what I told my foster child who come to us from failed adoption who we will adopt it not her fault they couldn’t parent you like we are
I happened upon this series of videos several weeks ago, and I can't imagine an evening without catching up with your family. As a college professor of Child Development, it is my firm conviction and professional opinion that this is one of the most loving and supportive family groups I have ever seen. What a perfect setting for nurturing and teaching values and convictions. I will be using your family in my lectures, and I am profoundly grateful for your example of love and care. As the parents of two adopted children, my wife has often reminded them that while they did not grow "under" her heart, they grew "in" her heart.
I am astounded by crystal and her husband. Crystal inparticular, her heart and intentions are so pure! She is gentle when talking to her children about serious traumas and really listens to them. She’s inclusive to every child and off camera I imagine they are just great parents. Each kid is so well mannnered despite what they been through. Resilient children/teenagers. Great loving parents. They were meant to be adoptive parents.
Alex and Hannah are a really important perspective in this conversation that I have been seeing on the internet, especially as Huxley is nonverbal.The additional trauma, even without any abuse, of being removed from ANOTHER home and "re-adopted" that they had to deal with and Huxley is having to deal with is horrible and should never occur
12 minutes in and I just need to say, Alex, you're seriously a beaming light. You can tell your heart is so pure. The love you have for your family and everything else in life is evident from just the little bit we see. I hope one day you're healed and you know you're amazing, worthy, and no behaviors you had or will have define you. I hope you know, value, and love yourself as much as you love everyone else. You're worthy and worth it.
Alex is such a beautiful bright sunshine -- he was the reason I kept coming back to this channel after the first videos I saw from them, just because I was drawn to Alex's beautiful soul
I followed the Stauffers from the adoption until about the time Myra got pregnant. I pretty much was disgusted at the way she treated Huxley so I stopped following them. I believe, in my heart, that Huxley is better off out of their care. I pray that they placed him in a better environment that he can thrive in...But they don’t make good choices so I worry about Huxley. 😪❤️
I am a firm believer in the saying "everything happens for a reason" and boy does this speak volumes for Alex and Hannah; what an unfortunate start to life they both had, but without those events they would not have been placed in the safety of your family; the crazy pieces! They should both be so proud of how far they have come, Alex is such a respectful, funny and handsome young man and Hannah is so charismatic, gracious and a beautiful young lady! I don't wish anything bad on their previous adoptive family but all I will say is, they are the ones who lost out on these amazing kids through their OWN fault and nobody elses! Much love to your amazing family! 💙💜
Char Lynch yes I agree I have child from failed adoption come into our home now and she is going be adopted by us I see her as my daughter . Everything happens for a reason I believe that
Big hugs Alex and Hannah I know it’s not easy to talk about and remember I’m so happy u both have a safe n happy forever home where u can heal one piece at a time!
We are adoptive parents and live kind of close to the Stauffers...we are heartbroken over the situation. Asking our almost 16 year old daughter (adopted from China at 6 years old) about the situation...she said it is good that he is with a family now who can help him become the best he can be.
Alex, your future is NEVER defined by your past. REMEMBER that. NEVER change the man you are because you will be the spokesperson for those coming after you. SPEAK OUT and bring the spotlight to these issues. You have what it takes to change the entire system. Remember the power of ONE voice. God bless you and keep moving forward and live your dreams. I've worked in this field. People will listen to you. USE the power of your voice and experience and I hope you are continuing to foster the relationship you have with your older biological brother. YOU ROCK BOY!!!
Broke my heart to see Alex cry 💔😢 it was like watching my own son being hurt. Silver lining Alex and Hannah are in their forever homes and that makes me smile☺️ Edited: Aurora is such a healing power!!! The love and the concern she shows her family in such a little body. Precious and Priceless! When she hugged on Alex after he got emotional she lifted a weight off him you could see it and feel it. Her hugs are her super powers. 🦸♀️
I’m the same age as Alex and I just want him to know that he is so dope, his previous adoptive parents were so wrong about him. From my perspective, he is an awesome sensitive wonderful person and a great son and brother. I would be lucky to have a friend like Alex 👍
I am really glad that you didn't make a video just defending the parents, like many people did. And instead thinging more about the poor little boy and how he must feel now...
I don’t normally cry but hearing what Alex and Hannah went through the tears were streaming down my face. As a mum of 2 who are 16 and 10, I couldn’t imagine on giving my kids away due to behaviour or otherwise, I was abused as a kid and I have issues due to it, I have a mental illness amongst other stuff. Telling a child that it’s their fault is not ok and horrible. I really do hope Alex and Hannah know that none of it was there fault and they grow up to be happy, healthy and no damage x
Alex, it is absolutely in NO way your fault!! That man is in prison for a reason. You are very loved and important!! I really hope you get to read this because you definitely deserve it after all you've been through. You are nice. You are loved. You are special. You are one of a kind. YOU are Alex!
I hate when the kids cry it just triggers me to cry too with them. I’m so glad the crazy pieces kids got their forever family. I actually raised my niece and nephew my brothers kids. I never formally adopted I did have full and legal custody of them but they are my kids and they do call my husband and I aunt and uncle . If you hear them talk they refer to us as their parent’s. My niece was 5 now 27 working for a bank my nephew was 7 now 29 working for a crane company. It was hard but I wouldn’t change anything.
To Crystal: I can see that this issue still deeply affects you, I could hear it in your voice. It shows how much you care about the children you have adopted. I loved how you explained what adoption meant to you personally and I agree with you 100%, Adoption is not something to take lightly; it is not something to take for granted. Once you sign that paper, you are morally, legally, physically, and emotionally responsible for the life entrusted to you. Thank you for this channel... It really is a gem!!!
Watching Hannah's face is just heartbreaking and I want to give her a hug. God has truly blessed both of these young people (all of them actually) with such a loving family.
Thanks for addressing this subject. I used to follow the Stauffer as I follow you guys ‘cause I’m really curious about adopting. The Huxley case made me question myself on whether I should be searching for more adoption content on RU-vid or just drop it. But I can see that your home is filled with understanding, dialogue and - above all - unconditional love. Thank you Crystal and Aaron for being so inspirational and all the kids for sharing the adoptees’s point of view as well.
Such an important video! So many people who have never been in an abusive situation have a really hard time comprehending the fears that go along even with the idea of getting help.
I am so happy I found this channel. You are the living embodiment of everything I have been saying for YEARS. I get so many people judging me and saying such hateful things because I'm going to adopt. This is why I am!!
I will never understand how someone could do that to kids. They already been through so much at a young age and then they still need to endure more torture? I hope Alex realizes that it’s not his fault. He is an amazing brother/son/ friend/cousin/ loving person. The same goes to Hannah, she is all those wonderful things as well! I am so glad they found their forever family with you guys! 💕 Also, Aurora was so cute when she came over and gave both of them hugs.. she could probably sense they were hurting a little bit and needed that.
I am sobbing. I felt so many of the same emotions due to experiences I had growing up. Lots of virtual hugs going your way, guys! You’re so brave for sharing your emotions!!
I love your family and your videos so much! Aurora may be non-verbal but her compassion and love is louder than a sonic boom. It is so clear how much your family loves and cares for each other.
Thank you for addressing this issue. I hope it wasn't too painful for Alex or Hannah. Love them both! And Aurora, wow, she amazes me how she is mimicking and making so much progress with her communication skills. So precious! Every child deserves and amazing forever home like this.
Alex! My heart broke when you got emotional, just know you are loved and cherished beyond measure not just by your family but by EVERY subscriber to the Crazy Pieces channel.
She didn't "know" she wanted a special needs child to help more the world as she said. The doctors told her thatcl child needed more than they could provide and she was mad she just saw a picture of him among others and choose him. From there everything went so weird, people used to tell her she wasn't a good mum she and would say I am a great and wonderful mum that was the first year of the adoption then you could never see those comments. Poor child, she suddenly shifted attention to the new born and everything was about that new baby
Alex, you are clearly a beautiful human being. Anyone can see that by watching you. Hannah, you too. You sweet girl. Your stories break my heart. You are where you belong now, and are obviously huge blessings to your family AND those of us who watch your kind and generous hearts.
I appreciate this video so much. I'm an autism mom. Whom would love to adopt one day. I've been a follower of you and the crazy middles for long time. I didnt know how you would feel on this. I love how you support your children and made this about them. I hope Alex and Hannah continue to heal from that terrible time it was just a road to make it home to you. Thank you for what you do. The previous "abuser" [becauss no mother abuses a child] must be crazy because all I ever get from alex is great vibes and so much fun. I dont know how anyone could mistreat any child let alone those beautiful children who seem to always be smiling.
Thank you for this vlog. I am a foster and adoptive parent. I agree with you 100%. My heart is broken for Huxley. I am a huge advocate for attachment and this is one more obstacle for him. I love how your children are willing to share their stories. They are amazing kids!! Many blessings to your family!
I have enjoyed your channel so much. I didn't think I could respect you any more than I already did, but you proved me wrong. Thank you for just sharing your story and experience, but not bashing the Stauffer family. We have know idea nor do we have the right to know what was going behind closed doors. Thanks, Hannah and Alex for being so brave to share your story. I wish you and your family nothing but the best!!
I’m glad y’all did a video on this. I just always felt in my soul that the stauffer family never really wanted Huxley, so i have mixed emotions about it. I’m happy if he goes to a home with a family that truly loves him. But, I’m sad that he will have to...once again...bond and learn to trust another person/family. I will keep praying for him. He is a precious boy! I wish him the very best. ❤️
I work for DCS in another state. The Stauffer situation has been weighing very heavy on my heart. I pray that it was a positive move for that little boy, and it will be a home that he'll thrive in. ❤❤ I love watching your blog/story. It continues to inspire me to be a better case worker, and helps recharge my heart after tough day.
I got such a kick watching Aurora imitate her mom. I had to play it back and get my husband to watch, he had a good laugh watching her as well. I love the advice you gave Alex.
We love you all your all perfect Caring Radiance Amazing Zappy Youthful Perfect Intelligent Energetic Confident Empowering STRONG Love you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for allowing the older kids to have a voice but also make sure they are safe while doing so! I have heard you say several times that they don’t have to share tough things unless they are comfortable
You guys are everything that is good with adoption. Alex and Hannah are great kids. It makes me SO angry that someone could abuse a child and then blame them for the whole situation. Also, I was cracking up watching Aurora mimicking you - it was seriously the cutest thing ever.
This, for me, is the best video you have done. I have been following the media on Huxley and it is hard to know what to think. Your thoughts really helped balance things out for me. Also, Hannah and Alex, my heart breaks for what you have had to handle in your short lives. I am so thankful that you have found your forever home. We love you guys.
I’d like to think that even though Aurora cannot speak with words, she speaks in her own way. She came along at a good moment and gave everyone hugs. It’s just so sweet! Sometimes hugs mean more than words. Just cause we can’t understand her doesn’t mean she speaks in her own way.
I agree 100%! Aurora is such a ray of sunshine and is so compassionate. Her actions speak 1000 words and it has been amazing to watch. Our family is so lucky to have her in it!
Crazy Pieces Aurora is often the best parts of your videos. Seeing how her actions display what she wishes to say and see just how much she tries to communicate. She’s coming along so far and you all as a family are helping her so much.
Crystal is so supportive and loving she gave a hime to so many kids and splits the love so equally its incredible she makes everyone feel good about themselves and that they deserve to be loved unconditionally!🤍🤍🤍
Alex you are amazing! Never ever ever think that was your fault! No one is perfect but you were a child and she was the adult and shame on HER for even saying that- and especially for the abuse she and her partner afflicted on you and the other children. Your real forever mom and dad love you SO much like you should be loved. I don’t even know you and I am proud of you and Hannah! The joy that you are makes me so happy and thank you for making my day better when I watch your videos. Keep being you!!! ❤️
I wish I could give all three of you a hug😭 I'm not adopted, but this really hit home for me. Im happy that Alex and Hannah are in a better place with a loving and wonderful family. ♥️
Not only that, but they were fully aware he was special needs before they adopted him, so to me, they have no leg to stand on when they start blaming his special needs.
The main problem is that they saw the kid as "something" they get, to be happy, so as soon as they got their own child, they just returned Huxley and that´s so wrong. Adoption is to share love and take care of a child that was meant to be your child, in order to the benefit of the child.
This was heartbreaking. Thank you Aaron and Chrystal for being the parents these kids deserve. Alex and Hannah you are both such beautiful souls and amazing kids.
Isla Kenny Huxley is a little boy from China who got adopted by another RU-vid family that decided to put him back for adoption after almost 3 years of having him
My husband went through a lot of what Alex did, his mother abused him and him and his brother was placed into Foster Care and his aunt came and got his brother but did not take him, his brother was raised with family and he was jumped around in the system and abused, unfortunately he was never adopted just stayed in the system. We was married 16 years when trying to have a child was unsuccessful and we adopted a baby girl from our friend who had cancer and was unable to care for her, she is now 4 and we named her Paisley. My heart is there for adopting sibling groups, we just have to get our finances in order and get a bigger home, I absolutely love watching you all and The Crazy Middles because it makes my heart so happy to see these kids succeeding and loved! Now for my question.. Alex and Hannah, When you all came to live with your mom and dad (crystal and Aaron) how did you act? Where you nervous if you wasn't perfect that you would be abused? How long did it take you to gain trust?
I’m so glad you have done this video, too many children are humping from one abusive home to another, the children deserve so much more, you are so right about training, I struggled with my boy when he first came to me but I got trained on nurturing attachments and developmental trauma, helped me understand so much how to support him
Alex and Hannah thank you for sharing more of your story, I cannot imagine how difficult it is to talk about. Children should never be blamed for adults issues, Alex any adult that places blame on a minor they are transferring blame, and or their guilt. Hannah you’re a very mature 13yr old, it broke my heart to see you fighting your emotions, you certainly are a very beautiful, strong, young Lady who deserves to feel safe and loved, Alex Sam and your other siblings from your previous adoption you all deserve to feel safe and loved. Aurora is the next level of adorable 😍, it seemed like Aurora was doing sign language to repeat what you were saying Crystal. As someone who cannot have children, abusive parents, neglectful parents who take their children for granted is definitely a sore spot for me. Crystal I am so glad you touched on the term “rehoming” I found that term to be out there, my kids are fur-kids, and when I heard that term I was shocked and was of the same opinion as you definitely a term that should never be used relating to a human being! Thankfully you all have found each other, and have found your forever home, that came with unconditional love respect and understanding!
This family is so inspirational to me. I am a much older lady “51” years old with all grown children and a grandchild. My nephew was placed in CPS care 4 times from abuse the 5th time the state stepped in. The mother wanted my baby in her boyfriend’s family care that had a very very long criminal background which the mothers boyfriend and his sister is the abuser. You guys have helped me learn a lot through your family.i never thought you could love another child like you do your own. My baby is like I gave birth to him I have the same love! 🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️
My heart breaks for the trauma that Alex & Hannah and all the kids have gone thru. It is never ever the child’s fault when an adult chooses to abuse. No matter the reason. The Petit kids are some of the most kindest, well adjusted happiest kids I’ve seen ESP for what they have gone thru and they deserve every bit of happiness they get. You are all blessed to have each other. Blessings to Crystal & Aaron. For putting this family together. I love y’all. Proud of each of you. Alex you are a rare, one of kind young man. So impressed by you. 👍🙏👏
This is one of my favorite videos, my in-laws took in over 100 kids/adults and adopted 2 after having 6 of there own! The ones they taken care of over years they never got any money but gave so much love and still most come back to visit over the years! The love is so amazing ❤️
Poor Alex 😟 trying to hold back tears and be brave. It's ok to cry and feel that hurt, I've faced abuse almost my whole life from 5 to 16 sexually mentally emotionally and verbally along with struggling with epilepsy. I often wish I had been beaten vs being verbally or emotionally abused because outer wounds are harder to cover up. Alex and Hannah you both are amazing and strong and have so many great things ahead in your future. Wish I could just hold you close and let you know how loved you and how your life does have purpose and you are valued. What happened to you wasn't ok or fair and none of it was your fault and it shouldn't ever be put on a young child for fault or blame. I know we don't know each other personally but I do love you, I love your whole family and I love how you build each other up.
I remember hearing your video about the foster care situation, court and the horrible abuse. This video has me crying putting a face to the story. Alex is such a bright, funny, charming & handsome young man I just don't understand. I'm sure you've done your due diligence to get his approval for the openness of this video.
Alex is such a beautiful, loving caring young man and so much more. Some day you will be an amazing husband and father yourself and love your children. Alex always remember you are truly loved and you are amazing, and you will have an amazing life full of love ♡♡♡♡ Your family are amazing and beautiful ♡♡♡♡
By watching you and all your children (bio and adopted) I can tell that there is ❤️ love for each and everyone of them and I send hugs to each and everyone of your family members. These adopted children have the best parents in you and Aaron.
There is something about Alex... Whenever he looks remotely sad then I start bawling 😭 I cried almost this whole video As someone who went thru some mental abuse myself I know how it feels to put all the blame on yourself. I'm still working on finding perspective as I'm still living in an unstable household. It hard to see that it's not my fault when my parents are "mad" or "disappointed" at me.
as someone who was adopted internationaly, i can say that i love your channel i have been watching you guys for along time. my parrent apoted me and my from a ditrent country not china and im glad that you took time to state your tance on this.
12:35 Even if I was Alex’s “behaviors” that caused that THATS a good thing!! (Even tho it wasn’t just him). But whatever kid acted up to show those parents true selves did a good thing because kids get worse and if they couldn’t handle that small of kids something worse might’ve happened in the future
You are THE most AMAZING family and Alex - look at you! You are a FANTASTIC young man and nothing that happened in your past was you fault! Hannah; you too are a WONDERFUL girl an you too so deserve the wonderful family that you have now.Your parents, Arron and Chrystal, are the best parents and you deserve to be in such a happy loving family! Xox
Poor sweet babies. Alex and Hanna, you both bring light and happiness into this world and you deserve everything wonderful in life. God bless you both.
Love this. Love you guys. You make me want to be that safe place for another child. My husband was in the system and he always says when we buy a house that he wants to foster.
As a young adult this is shocking to me and makes me so upset. Thank you Crystal and Aaron for showing Hannah and Alex true worth and love and that good people are the majority.
Abusers prefer to blame everyone else but they do not want to take responsibility for the fact that their abuse causes the breakup of the family. Alex and Hannah are two of my favorite pieces...they are certainly in the top 12.
Both teens are so brave for making this video. They’re shedding light on a topic no one wants to talk about. Imagine how many foster kids are watching this who think they are a burden. Beautiful teens inside and out ❤️
Omg children are an eternal gift. I don't understand how you could be so cruel to another human especially a child. I was not fortunate enough to have children of my own. But your channel has given me hope that one day I could be someone's forever mum. Aaron and Crystal you both are angels on this earth. 💖
