I'll never forget the feeling of trying everything I can to keep them alive just by messaging them (we lived fairly far from eachother and I couldnt drive to their house) and the relief when I knew they were completely safe.
If my best friend didn’t live a block away, and didn’t run to my house banging on my window after i texted him that “thank you for everything” message, my attempt would’ve succeeded that day.
you have a dim empty worried emotion in your heart that you cant express when bro text it and you feel like you want to run at lightspeed just to say ''goodbye'' yes fate is always true. Now this is what keeps our heart beat until the day.... your bro finally was gone
really explain that "bro, i can't do this anymore" energy the breathing also fit the music and what we are seeing, a man desperatly trying to get to his bro, before the end of a man story
got that text a couple months ago... unfortunately the guy was in my hometown in Kentucky while i was in Texas for work. when i went home to visit family, i never saw him again... i like to think hes alive and well somewhere else; but i know that isnt true.
@@bringbackdislikes3195wtf dude, let people try to be happy man, I know your trying to be truthful but still there are times when honestly isn’t the best policy
The fact that was only a minute long but still gripped my anixety with how long it felt like it was taking to rush over, that helpless feeling is very burdensome. I hope anyone on either end of this is able avoid ever finding themselves in a situation like this, life is without a doubt hard and tough but there are genuine people out there that care what happens to you.
@placeholderuniversalgaming sorry to hear you say this, as they may not make it clear enough, and perhaps I am being naive in believing there are good humans out there, hell to be honest I have questioned it myself thinking no one would be there for me due to my overt asocial behavior, though thankfully for me I have always been able to fight those lies that I have told myself in the past and honestly some of it has been recent still I do know there would be people that would run through some walls for me, even if I can't always see it clearly. I know it is way easier to say it than to experience and know for a fact but still here's to hoping people are able to fight the noises in their heads.
I think it saddens me the most to know that a bunch of these stories are probably real, and it happens at a frequency enough for this not to be fiction or just a dark joke. For most things Id have a healthy sense of skepticism and yet, I fully believe this has happened to multiple people in our lifetime
One of my friends once texted to us: "I love y'all, thanks for everything". Turns out he just wanted to thank us for being there for him, he didnt do anything bad.
Then you have to send it to the police, the ambulance, the fire department and the undertaker who will have to clean up the mess you made by deleting yourself.
@@Universal_Craftsman “the mess you made” 🙄 damn, callous much? You act like this is the option people want and do it selfishly. Literally everyone who does it is at the end of their rope and it’s a last resort. Grow a little compassion. ❤️
This does make the heart race. Who knows, maybe nothing happened. But maybe something really bad happened. It’s before these times that we must cherish.
Or in reverse: You just told your bro "Thanks for everything and for always being there" just as you're about to kick the chair from beneath your feet as tears stain your cheeks, then suddenly you hear your door slam open and before you can even turn around to look you feel someone's arms wrap around you in a warm but tense embrace. Edit: just an fyi, my friend literally lives across town from me and doesn't have a driver's license. To this day I don't know how they got to me so quickly. Edit 2(March 28, 2024): WOW. I was not expecting people to notice this. Thank you to everyone in the replies, I appreciate all of you.
@@SamuelKratohwill Hey, you might. You never know. I didn't know I had friends like that until it happened. I wouldn't suggest trying to find out the way I did though.
@@Mellaya_Creations Ah, I wouldnt try to put my friends through that stress and rushing to save me. If anything, I'd send the message, and then do it instantly. Fucked up? Yes. But they wouldn't have to worry about trying to save me and going through a whole monologue that a therapist could tell me.
This would be a really fun parkour game actually, and simultaneously could cover a really dark theme. Imagine the story being you made a friend who taught you all about parkour and brought you into the hobby as a way to cheer you up. With sutle themes about depression and minor fourshadowing. The final mission and the hardest level would be you using your parkour to reach your friend after receiving this text. Of course there would be lots of story and levels that im not mentioning, this is just the general idea. And try to make the dark themes really subtle in the beginning and slowly ramp up from there. (Like doki doki literature club for example) title the game "thanks for everything." But make it appear to have a different meaning so that when you receive the text its like a connect the dots moment. (Ex. Near the beginning of the game the player controlled protagonist says something along the lines of "thank you, for everything." In a positive way.)
Last year i had a friend who was suicidal and we were in different states bc i moved. Everyday he would tell me abt his day. One monday night at 2am, he called me and he was holding a rope. I stayed up the whole night crying with him and convincing him, he soon gave up. Now, whenever my friends are sad, im their #1 supporter. I still wish i could have been there with him, but all that matters to me is that he is ok now.
Sadly this happend to me not to long ago as of writing this it has been 5 years but he said after we got off of our minecraft world "ill see you tomorrow" he was right but not in the way i wanted him to be and i got to speeding tickets driving to his home. My one wish is that he plays with me one last time and sees what i have built in my life and see what i have built in our world and not do what he did. R.I.P Eshawn 1989 - 2019 You will be missed.. Im crying now.
The fact I know so many people would do this for me always makes me rethink any bad choice(ex:SH). It brings me hope that someone, even if I barely know them or don't know them yet, would do this for me. Sometimes it's hard. But just remember the person who'd do this for you.
The day this happens is the day the world stops spinning, truly a gut wrenching feeling. And one day you will have your last conversation to your best friend. So make every second you have with them count. Since once you lock eyes. It’s the start of the best days of your life. And once you loose that lock, they’re gone. So what I am trynna say here. Is don’t take the homies for granted.
Got a snap like this from a friend a few years ago. Was just a simple "I love you" with a pure black background. This friend had confided in me a month earlier about a bunch of stuff she was going through and revealed she was cutting her wrists with razor blades. I assumed the worst and immediately texted her back and fortunately nothing happened(still alive today too). But the terror I felt in that moment was indescribable
If my friend did this there'd be literally no way to help them besides telling my mom to call their mom. They live way too far away from me for me to run there and I can't drive. I put my phone on do not disturb while I'm sleeping but based on my friend's mental health I should probably stop so if they call or text I can look to see if I need to get them help. I'm worried we won't make it to college together.
bro ive made a woman in my life feel used and I cant live with that knowledge cuz I never wanted to make them feel used or anything. shit hurts my soul
This reminds me of when my best friend send me a text at 3 am I opened it and it said "I am so close to jumping" I mediately knew what that meant so I went to my notes and copied my will to live note and copied everything and sended it to her as fast as a can she then replied with "your words always help but not this time I am sorry" so ran down stairs waking up everyone ignoring my mother screaming at me to get back to bed and I opened the door climbing over my porch fence and climbed my fence which hurt like nothing before as my dogs where barking at me but I ran as fast as I can not caring if i get hurt and I made it to where a first met her the railing to the sea I still remember her crying and having to call her parents to come pick her up
The song is "Paranoia" by KENTENSHI, if anyone has wondered. Its history is actually pretty sad, and it's fitting that it's gotten popular in these "when bro texts you 'thanks for everything'" videos. It's always tricky to research Japanese music without knowing any Japanese myself, but my understanding is that it was inspired by something that happened to another artist called Siinamota, and it samples lyrics from their song "Young Girl A"
Wow this is one of my worst fears and also why I stay up so late (currently 2:46 am lol) because I'm so scared of being asleep and missing that message
I once had a friend who was really funny and often goofy but one day, The day he said to me at school, "Thank you, thank you for being a true friend" Broke my heart, The next day he wasnt in hes house, Not even at school... I was scared because of what will happen. I was worried sick all day and night.. When he finally showed up i cried. Telling hin NEVER do that again...
I was suicidal for a long time and I sent this message to a few friends but only 2 responded and got me help. Took them 10 minutes to show up and normally it takes them 30 minutes to drive to my place. The other people saw the message and didn’t even respond but these two just drive straight over. That’s why they’re my best friends rn. And some people say I’m third wheeling their relationship, but I don’t think they mind. I’m just glad I found people who care
was playing a game with bro and left briefly for a snack, came back and hes like "whered you go" and i said "i was busy cutting myself _sits down_ ..some oranges" and he said "thanks for the pause"
I was told it would get better when I was having these thoughts at 12 years old. I’m about to turn 20 and it’s so, so much worse now. I don’t want to die but I don’t have the strength to keep living.
@@breadboi7444 No, they won't. Things don't just "get better" you have to make them better. I've tried and failed many times, and I just don't have the energy anymore.
@@danielwoods3896 it may seem like nobody cares about you but I promise some people do. All you have to do it keep pushing forward and believe in yourself. I’m not the best person at explaining things but I promise to you that I full heartily believe in you that you can make things better. Just seriously don’t do anything bad to yourself please and get some support if you need a therapist might help. All love
@@danielwoods3896 Hey so, first off, hope you’re still alive. I’ve had the feeling you described before and I get it. I think it can be easy if you’re a person who’s struggling, to get caught up in the cycle of feeling utterly exhausted and defeated when you’re trying to make things better and it’s not working. That said, I think in this cycle you can end up tricking yourself into thinking that things won’t or can’t get better when that’s not actually the case. You’re right in your response to the other person that things don’t just “get” better, you have to make them better. For me I’ve found myself at points, and leading up to my recent past increasingly so, where nothing was working. Had a hard time enjoying anything, even things I used to enjoy, felt that everything was ruined, I was broken, I couldn’t do anything, everything was just stress and anxiety. But I reached a point with this stuff, where I was like, hey, if I’m this miserable, what do I have to lose by trying? Trying things I think I enjoy or could enjoy or know that I have had the capacity to enjoy. Even if it doesn’t work, what do I have to lose. Things that are scientifically proven to have positive benefits for people’s health, walking/exercise generally, eating healthy. Even if I’m not feeling it, what do I have to lose by objectively improving my health? And to be clear, I didn’t go into any of this with an optimistic outlook, I went into this at the end of my rope. And you know what, it’s not easy, and it’s not perfect. I’m not great at this stuff yet, and I’m still working at it. But even if I’m not where I want to be, and even if things don’t work a lot of the time, it’s important to remember that feeling good isn’t some impossible, unattainable fantasy, but a real tangible thing that you can do real, tangible things to experience. I hope you can realize that when you say you don’t have the energy to try to make things better, I get that that feels so unbelievably real and I’m not denying your lived reality, but “energy” isn’t actually a tangible, real thing you can measure. It’s not something you “run out” of, it’s just a reflection of your mental state. When you’re feeling good, you feel like you can do stuff, and when you’re feeling bad, you feel like you can’t. But none of that actually determines your ability. I also hope you can realize that when you are saying that things won’t get better, you are saying that purely on the basis of what your experiences HAVE been and ARE, not what they CAN or WILL be. There’s no rule or law of the universe or anything that says because you’re suffering now, therefore it’s going to be the rest of your life. There’s just not.
My Sister Messaged My Mom This Long Goodbye And My Mom Only Heard It Because Me And My Brother Bought Her These Little Bluetooth Headphones And My Sister Was States Away But Because My Mom Reacted So Quick She Managed To Get Through Like 50 Different 911 Operator's And Saved My Sister Her Choice Was Pills And Liquor
I fear that I may not be fast enough anymore. I worry of this situation happening to me and I won't be fast enough. Not too long ago I broke my ankle and my speed has never been the same. The day after being fully recovered I thought of this exact moment happening to me. Now I train myself to push past my original speed which was pretty fast but it'll all be worth it in the end
Im doin online school, sophmore, and my bro i met there texted me "cya bro" a few nights ago. I was texting him nonstop and he finally texted me back and told me i was the only one that responded and that he had taken pills... The next morning he texted me and thanked me and said he wasnt successful and he'll be alright... The worst feeling ive ever had... Its the pain knowing you cant stop it because youre nowhere near him and knowing that youre talking to someone who is going to die... I hope we can meet up irl because hes awesome and i want to do more for him
I’ve sent that text before in a gc with my friends. It was probably midnight or smthing and they all got online and talked to me and told me how much I’m cared for and made sure I wasn’t going to do anything more before going to bed. God I love them so much. Though I may only know them online, they’re there for me in more ways then anyone I know irl. (Except my parents they’re great too❤)
what hurts the most is when they don’t actually mean it. they’ll text you and be like, “thanks for everything man” or “I think my time has come” and then they’ll be fucking fine. they’ll talk to you in detail about how they’re going to kill themselves and then they just say “oh, I didn’t mean that.” THEN WHY THE FUCK DID YOU SAY IT? it just pisses me off how all the people in this comment section are talking about their friends who are genuinely suicidal and then I have these shitty ass friends who think it’s funny to act like their lives are shit but they literally have everything they want. they act like they’re so horrible and traumatized but they’re not. they’re fine. god I fucking hate them so much. (edit: I just went on a rant lmao my bad, seriously though I hope everyone is doing alright out there. if anyone out there thinks suicide is “funny” or “cool” or anything like that, you need to rethink everything in your head. it isn’t funny at all. but anyway, have a good day👍)
I mean, I would be thankful my friends never actually feel they need to go, and can joke about such a serious thing. Feel for everyone who has actually lost someone.
i love this guys content its so fun! i also love the little details he puts in like the panting and notification sounds. we didnt need them but he gave it to us!
I’ve sent this text before and I’m lucky to have such great friends, they were too far away to come to me but they talked me out of it. Even something small can change your outlook so quickly. So glad I didn’t do it as I’m happy now though not a perfect life, still happy.
i'm concerned for one of my friend's mental health and it has come to the point where she is saying she'll kill herself. my biggest fear is to get one of these texts.
a friend i know online slowly got less happy and stopped messaging much i asked him what happened to no response he then said "i might kms gang" in the gc i was so concerned. thankfully i convinced him otherwise and hes now doing well
I have best friend with depression and s*icidal thought It's very painful, when someone who you love want to end his/her/their life. Before I started to take antidepressants (I have the same mental disorder) I wanted to do this too, but now I feel little better. Take care about yourself and people, who you love. Mental disorders isn't a joke💔
I remember one of my bestfriends back in high school who lived several states away from me told me they were gonna do it. I was panicking so much, I didn’t know her address, guardians phone numbers, except for the town she lived in. I called the towns police department, explained the situation, and they were able to get call her number, contact her guardians, AND reach the house in time. She was mad for awhile, but now she’s engaged, working her dream job, and loving life. If you ever have a friend that says they’re gonna do it, call your towns police department and also get to them if possible. Chances are, police are much closer to their house than you.
in grade eleven i got sexually harrassed and bullied by a group of boys for most of the year. i told who i thought was my friend about a particular incident. i didnt realize she had a crush on one of the boys, and she told everyone about it and how i was a liar. i very nearly didnt survive but this one girl who i grew apart from decided to text me at the very moment i nearly did it, and she helped me calm down. we arent friends anymore, but i really think she saved my life. :)
My friend vomit suicide last year. I still visit this grave everyday I just wish he never died. The message he sent me was “I’m sorry for this and thank you for everything you have done for me” at that moment I ran out of the door knowing what was about to happen but when I got to his house, he was already gone.
The moment you receive the text, you just put on shoes and start running like you never before, you’re heart start pounding like it wouldn’t do normally and you somehow just think only of all the moment with bro and you just ran even faster
It feels weird typing this out but several years back I had my third attempt and seeing that it hadn’t worked out i finally decided to open up to one of my close bruvas… he didn’t really know what to say and I don’t blame him but a while after highschool we kept in contact and I started having a better outlook on life (somewhat) but a lot of the music I liked was still aggressive and sad, and I loved posting lore whenever my favourite band announced a new song release…. One day I posted about a new song soon to drop but in the most cryptic way I could come up with and bruv called me seconds later all worried… I felt super bad after but it was a nice feeling to have. Didn’t mean to post such a long story over worrying one of the boys but this seemed like the perfect spot…. Tho I should eventually tell him it meant a lot to me but it might just scare him again 😂 😭
I have a freind who's tried to (yknow) 11 times this year, I wish I could just go to their house to help them but sadly they live states away. This is the exact feeling i get every time
Tip: Use gmail scheduled messages or schedule message in your messaging app if it supports such function. If you won't be able to do the thing - you'll just cancel the sending.
