@@theresaslusher4305Right? I mean, yes she was crazy & OUT OF CONTROL for sure! But u could TELL she was in the midst of some episode & was REALLY not well! & For sure her yelling & SCREAMING was annoying, but she wasn't FIGHTING back aggressively or attacking. She was definitely resisting but that 1 officer, I felt like he was REALLY unnecessarily rough w\her AT LEAST 2X, maybe more! But when he 1st went to the car & pinned her down immediately w\his forearm across her neck, I 🤔 ummm 🧐 that's a tad excessive no? But THEN when he had finished cuffing her ankles together & went to put her seatbelt on & she leaned fwd to yell & he used his elbow on her neck & SLAMMED her head back REALLY FREAKING HARD had me😲😳🤯😤! I came to the cmts to see if anyone was saying anything Abt that & I must say, it's distressing that your cmt is the 1st I've seen!
I was in a horrible marriage! Abusive both physical and emotional. She literally tortured me for years! She was a narcissistic monster! Even after we had three children together she’d beat me and abuse me whenever she felt threatened with me showing any kind of independence. Her family saw it and she show tears and they’d support her. They made me the monster and I so wasn’t. It took the police and our 6 year old daughter calling the police when she had sat on me until I was unconscious that they realized I was telling the truth. I was put into a shelter and found help. I got my children as well. Men being abused is a real thing 😢
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've seen women be abusive to men and it's not right. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you shouldn't be believed. I'm glad you have your kids ( I think that's what your comment said). I hope you're safe now.
Bro its a female and your a man physically they cant overpower or even hit hard enough to hurt you ...dont get me wrong i believe men can be a victim of physical abuse but you can overpower that
The only thing worse than a Female Narcissist spouse, is a Male Narcissist spouse who has a position of authority. He has the physical strength And the backing of the system.
@@SoundsBogus yeah that does sound bogus. Females have the power of persuasion. I spent a year in a dangerous county jail fighting a case because a woman said I attacked her after she attacked me. They didn't give me a second to explain just back of the cop car i went followed by the most angry and biased interrogation I've ever seen. I can't even sue her because despite being released because of dropped charges, the protective order still stands
As a woman, im glad the cops take these men serious. It takes a lot for a man to admit he was beat on by a woman and used to be he still went to jail as the aggressor bc "hes bigger/stronger/ect." Men can be victims too of DV and SA. Love that they were listened to and the cops werent manipulated by the women in these cases.
The police are definitely getting better with that but the courts sadly are not. My ex wife used to hit me all of the time. The cops even showed up but I couldn’t get myself to tell the police that she was constantly hitting me, scratching me, throwing things at me, etc. but I just couldn’t do it especially when my daughter cried and said she didn’t want Mama to go to jail. She was also a makeup artist for broadway plays, turns out one night she made a fake black eye and took pics, sent it to some girl who was in love with her who posted it all over social media. She even crashed our car on purpose screaming she was going to kill us, we flipped 3 times. Even after all of that I didn’t want to divorce and thought we could work it out for my daughter. Then one day I’m sitting in my living room and the cops show up and serve me a restraining order, made me leave my house. I produced videos and pics of her attacking me and threatening to burn our house down but the judge still put the restraining order on me & kept it going for like a year. After that I lost what little faith I had in the justice system. The judge was some angry woman who to me seemed like she just loves screwing men over. If I could sue I would. But that was years ago now so I’m just happy it’s over with. I went through hell for a whole year because of it. Her one redeeming quality was that she did tell the court that I’m a great father which is true but I also think it was just because she wanted her weekends free. Total narcissist. I haven’t been able to get into any meaningful relationships since out of fear I’ll have to go through that hell again. I date women but don’t allow myself to get close. So I guess you could call that ptsd. Even my lawyer was disgusted with the judge who didn’t even allow her to do her job. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.
@@pinnacleproductions6275 I've been divorced for ten years now. I had my own issues in marriage as well. I actually did try to date for the first few years until I realized that my life is so much easier single. And now that I've made that decision I feel freer and happier than I ever have. For me once I took the time to work on myself and learn to love myself then I found that not only did I no longer get lonely but I realized single was sooooo much easier with no drama. Being in a relationship no longer made sense to me. So I hope that you learn to love yourself and learn to NEVER settle. Figure out what YOU want and what YOU need and you won't ever allow yourself to be in that again. I think often these people prey on those who aren't so confident and sure of what they deserve. Good luck to you both!
I'm really concerned about how ignorant she is to the law when she's in a position to be wearing an ankle monitor. She should be a pro at that s*** now. Anomaly is that how hilarious is it that she's worried about the ankle monitor detecting she's away from the house
I had a GF that used to hit me regularly she broke my finger. She hit me with a 2 x 4 and knocked me out. She pushed me out of a window as I was trying to escape out of the house from her and I fell and broke my ankle three years after the relationship she found out I was having a baby had me charged with assault I had to sit there listening to her lie on the stand and even the judge taking sides with her saying that she was a brave woman. All of this made me sick to my stomach. In the end I received 18 months in jail, my child’s birth, and there was nothing that I could do about it. I’ve never hit pushed kicked abused a woman in my entire life, but it is what it is and I have moved on.
Time stamp 41.09 that officer who was talking to the lady who tried to attack the new girlfriend is very professional.. his explanation is perfect and he tried to make the lady feel more at ease considering the situation she is in. And how he said he will arrest her discretely away from her daughter is from the heart. It’s the first time I’ve seen an officer so professional 😊
@SoniaAchieng do you watch other videos like this? That woman got treated that way because she cooperated and didn't resist. That is rarely the case with these type of people. Fact is... you act like an asshole... you get treated like one.
Right ! But I'd seen a video about a Karen princess messed with cops, who called daddy, daddy went to the scene and told her she would be in good place in jail and it's time to grow up... 😂
It shouldn't happen either way,but I had a co worker that abused her husband. I knew her for a couple of years,and then kinda found out. Tough one, they divorced.
How sad she clings to a garbage man,she crazy and he abused her vulnerability to benifit his peen. He doesn’t seem like a victim to me. And she didn’t assault him. Her being that mentally disabled MEAN SHE CANT LEGALLY CONSENT! I bet he’s a narcissist targeted a woman he could easily mentally hurt her with acting like he likes her , use her vagina then discard her then blame her for not being able to handle the hurt and letting it drive her to act out! He did that to her multiple times cuz he finds her reaction to discard entertaining!!!!
And got illegal choked by a cop multiple times and almost killed it is illegal and prohibited for a cop in any state to use force on the neck so explain
I know a guy who can drink 1 tall boy beer and not drink nemore. He is not a drunk. I agree a lot of people simply cannot put down alcohol after 1 drink though. It is worse once you add a vehicle in the mix, black out, end up on the road, wake up in jail or worse.
@@shawnmendrek3544yeah I fall under the second category lol. I have been addicted to meth, heroin, and alcohol and I still say that alcohol is by FAR the worst of the three! More dangerous for the user and for others who interact voluntary or involuntary with the user. But this year marks 10 yrs clean and sober for me. I feel privileged everyday to have the strength, the environment, and the support structure to get my life back on track. Many aren't so fortunate to have the support I did which makes a HUGE difference.
Yet they legally sell it everywhere and promote it everywhere.Yet law enforcement and the system capitalize on incidents involving alcohol🤔🤔🤔🤔 Entrapment
@villain-de-cat first of all lawyers aren't involved. The police press charges for the victims. 2nd if a victim is dumb enough to post bond for an abuser instead of getting a restraining order and getting gone then they are enabling the abuse. Not very smart.
I thought the way the police officer spoke and explained things to her was really good. That's because she was willing to listen to what he said.@@HelenRoseOfLOI
I have two daughters and seeing this woman cry for her daddy kind of upset me. I know she was the one causing the problem but she obviously needs mental help.
This girls dad is at least 50% responsible for the way she is, arguably more. I know I hold myself to an even higher degree of responsibility than that for my daughter, she would never act like any of the young ladies. If she did the cops would be the least of her problems.
Miranda rights are really only there to be a protective barrier to self-incrimination. You don't have to be read rights for detainment or arrest. But they ALWAYS know their rights, right?
Nice to see cops who know how to deescalate even when the person being arrested is drunk and hard to deal with. They deserve an A+ for a job well done.
To the officer that arrested the mother without her kids seeing it. You sir should instruct classes on kindness. I know not all situations are the same but the level of kindness that you showed the mother and the whole situation was just amazing. Im not a supporter of LEO, but i am of that gentleman. Very kind.
He made this bad situation good for everyone involved. He respected them all. What a great guy!! Definitely need more cops like him!! You rookies take notes!!😊
Why would anyone not be a supporter of LEO? I'm not a supporter of corrupt people no matter what they do for a living. But to generalize leo's into one category isn't any more fair than it is to generalize white people, black people or blue people. There are both good people and bad people everywhere! Besides, what alternative would you propose? Should we do away with leo's completely and allow the citizens to police themselves? What do we do when people make their job so horrible by they way they are treated (even the good ones) that you can't pay anyone enough to be a leo? We're not far away, I know I wouldn't do that job in these times.
Yeah, her ex-husband's girlfriend was telling the cop that she must be on drugs because she's lost 50 lbs in a few months. As if not being able to see your kids, your husband leaving you, not having a job, and being broke couldn't possibly be a reason for losing weight.
@@michaelharrington75She was saying that they were wanting the eldest daughter to live in the big house with the dad because the eldest daughter is loosing weight and they aren't sure if it is drugs or something else. I'm guessing they are also concerned about the daughter having an eating disorder. But they never stated eating disorder.
@@Ryns.16688 Could be that she was talking about the daughter, but it sounded to me like she said they've been trying to get her because her mother has lost a lot of weight in a short period of time, needs testing for drugs, and a mental evaluation. But, she very well could have been talking about the daughter? It wouldn't be surprising for a teen to turn to drugs, or lose weight because of the stress of her parents divorce, and all the fighting between them.
10:43. That was a hard elbow to the face/throat as a result of the officers frustration, It’s very easy to see that the first woman is in some sort of psychosis and needs help instead of being brutalized.
Cops overeached immensely when boyfriend said he was fine and nothing happened, why did they arrest her? He wasn't pressing charges, it just makes yout think twice when calling the cops for help, they should train to diffuse not escalate
In some states they have to arrest whoever has the least damage to their body, it’s the law to keep the peace because it may turn into something more dangerous or even deadly.
@@wendybarber5347 and what puts this woman into your “certain people “ category I’m sure you can see that the majority by far emphasize with her, so your unique perspective on her puzzled me
@@Fleshpuppet67 It's okay that you are puzzled and that people empathize with her. I've seen far many videos (police) and others to know that many women play victim when caught. Never take accountability for their actions because they are female. We can see it more now because of YT and such. And the last time I checked, I have a right to my opinion from my information. I've been around and seen a lot. From family, friends, friends of family and yes, that makes my perspective unique.
The first lady really honestly needed a doctor not jail. It's so sad to see when a person with a real illness is treated like a criminal when in fact she just needed someone to care enough to try and help her. This is a real issue for many men and women who have psychological problems that may be undiagnosed or not treated. I know it's a very difficult thing to deal with from the outside and it's just easier to write them off but imagine if it was someone who you loved that was found in a situation where they are not in control of their own minds. You would want someone to show them kindness and get them whatever help they needed instead of sent into a broken system that will only send them deeper into an abyss where they can't even recognize themselves. I know I would want someone to help me.
What’s bothersome is that nobody noticed that the officer put an elbow up to her throat, choking her on multiple occasions, especially towards the end, where he elbowed her right in the throat, and one particular time before then when she was leaning back, the last time was when she was sitting up you saw that right with the seatbelt on he had her held up by her throat with his elbow the time before, then she was leaning back, laying down on the seat, and he had her by the throat with his forearm, crushing her windpipe you could hear her sound of your voice changed when she did that
31:35 ... Cops could've at least let her just "See" her kids and make sure they are all ok. Since there is No Legal Custody Yet and most Importantly since her teen Daughter says she doesn't Want to STAY there... How many times we have seen terrible things happening to children in these situation. Her Mother's Intuition didn't kicked in for nothing. And even the Cops did not checked on the Kids well being. Anyhow, I Truly have respect to the Officer who kindly deal with the Mom.
@@D1722eieioyup that red flag told a lot. The daughter is literally begging. I’m sure that’s why the cop went easy, even aside from her cooperation, I think he really felt for her situation. He gotta do what he gotta do, though.
She literally was beating on him and trying to beat up his girlfriend. She is trashy. The daughter set it up and told the mom where the dad and girlfriend were. The mom is the problem here. Did we watch the same video. The mom and the daughter set up a scenario to beat up the girlfriend. It even said the teenager doesn’t live there she just stayed the previous night to set them up. She even knew she was at fault. Sometimes I feel like I’m watching a different video than you all. When my husband and I first started dating his ex would do shit like this. She had broken up with him months prior but when she found out when had a new girlfriend she got my address and tried to fight me at several different locations. She threatened to stab me. She threw bricks through the window of our car. She injured my 3 year old daughter one of these times. She called my employer said she was me and cussed my boss out and told her I quit my job. I lost my apartment because she kept stalking us at my apartment complex and causing damage. She finally was arrested for robbing and kidnapping an elderly woman. 4 years later when she was released from prison she was on my door step the next day. Jealousy is a hell of a drug. Women who show up and assault other women they have never met because their x is with someone else are truly crazy. She a truly dangerous woman. Thank good for cameras she would have lied and sent him to gel.
@@hermonorossco7988 Its the sisterhood. They could give a crap about the truth. They will always back the other women probably because they are like minded i.e trashy woman who love to play the victim.
These abuser women always manage to put on a victim front. Most guys they abuse haven't a chance of being believed. Nice to see some police who can see through to the facts regardless of gender.
Not always the case I was accused of been the female abuser cause of his smart mouth… luckily i got cctv to prove it wasn’t me I was the victim and now he is serving the time he deserves for the nose he broke twice… for the broken ribs he broke for the broken toes he broke for the broken fingers he broke…. For my kids still struggling… MEN AND WEMON ARE BOTH VICTIMS
This woman is obviously having a mental health crisis. It's very sad really. I have mental health conditions, I battle bipolar type 1, severe PTSD and impulse control disorder. There needs to be a mental health unit within the police department that are equipped to handle situations like this. Most officers unfortunately are NOT equipped to deal with this. In fact dealing with a mental health crisis, most officers react improperly. I pray that woman actually gets the help she so desperate needs.
That girlfriend saying that her boyfriend's wife has lost 30 to 40lbs the past cpl months doesn't necessarily mean she's on drugs. It could be because her husband of many years and father of her 4 children and 1 on the way, left her for another woman and took everything because he's the one with the job so he has the kids. So, it could be her nerves...I could be wrong...just saying🤔
Agreed. When I found out my husband was cheating on me, I lost 50lbs in 3 months just from anxiety, depression and utter devastation. I barely ate or slept, and when I did eat, I would get sick from the ulcers that had formed, so I could barely keep anything down. Exercise was a way for me to try to manage stress, so I dropped it fast.
@@justme240Stress doesn’t actually cause ulcers, but it can exasperate ulcers caused by other medical issues. The weight loss is so common during divorces. My neighbor and best friend went from 175lbs to 98lbs in six months due to not eating and paranoia of what he would do. He’s a diagnosed malignant narcissist and as bad as they come. I’m sorry this happened to you. Hope you’re doing well now.
I think by that stage the cops should've been aware that she had some serious mental health issues. Not an open and shut case. You can see that she is seeing something else
At least the lady who said she was at hubby’s house to see her kids didn’t cause more trouble when the nice officer told her she was under arrest. I’m sure all LEO wish for every arrest to be like that.
Blondes and alcohol 🙄🫣 yeah an absolute nightmare blackout and no1 is there and then it gets crazy.. I'm sure there's nice Blondes out there but the 5 I've ended up with.. look attractive innocent then a few years go bye 🙈 this is not normal your younger there attractive use end up living together then the drinking starts and 😳 yeah this isn't the same women I met thought she was .. so yeah now I avoid Blondes 👱♀️ but unfortunately I have two sons to one and her mother was an alcoholic used to hit her .. found out her grandfather had abused her and as the years went past she went from this innocent attractive 20yr old woman to drinking until she was blackout drunk and 🙄 yeah wasn't fun my youngest son lives with me and my gf of 4yr she's petit ginger haired women privately educated comes from a nice family.. and our first year together she noticed thing's she would give me compliments and id automatically 🤨 why you trying to be sarcastic 🙄😦 I'm not your looking really nice .. and when she would open a bottle of wine I'd leave 🤚 no I no what happens next .. took over a year to relise yeah she was different wouldn't blackout get aggressive but yeah it took time. Then my ex would phone at 4am send love songs 🎵 old videos of us together.. say I miss you sorry it just comes in waves then two nights later she would be phoning saying she was going to beat up that little ginger bitch 🙈 ffs I'd have to say you come near this house it's recored I will tell the police and I'll tell them everything I no where you keep your cocaine ect .. then she would hang up and then my gf 😮 now I understand that's not normal.. Well that was my life and yeah according to my ex I'd been seeing my new gf for years behind her back .. yeah it was crazy so I used to find Blondes attractive but now it's a red flag 🙈
That last one really got me. She did the right thing by first leaving the restaurant to remove herself from the argument and then when it got too heated she called the police and they arrested her. There was so many clues that he was the aggressor and the small things she did was reactive to what he was doing.
@@user-vi9lo2jy3q so sick of these fucks in a bad bad way....but me too dude i laughed at her when she screamed bomb lol but she has some real sad shit going on they both prolly use too which makes it all 1000x worse and then like her desperateness to be wanted then screaming daddy im realllllly rough around the edges but that made me so fucking sad so many lost people out there
So many Florida cases 😂😂 We should have our own dam channel. 41:29 that cop was awesome w the momma. She knew she fd up. And caused no additional issues. I believe she acted out of love for her kids. Not an excuse. But kids are definitely NOT pawns.
Most deadly abuse happens when someone tries to leave. My husband tried to kill me three times. I broke free 30 years ago but I still have nightmares. Woman can be just as abusive as men.
I'm proud of you for having such courage to leave 💝 for the nightmares - RU-vid " 8hrs psalms , Psalm 23 & 91 " they are protection prayers, the vid plays quietly the whole night. Whenever I have a couple nights in a row I automatically know to play that. And it works EVERY time 🙏
How the hell does that woman think she’s a Kid??? I was a married mother of a child at her age😂 sick of these goofy Adults acting like they should be considered kids. Cringy as H.
😂 that first girl was throwing out everything in the book on that guy. Anything in hopes the cops would believe her. "Hes got a bomb, ah hes a terrorist, um ah.. hes got drugs in there, ah illegal stuff... um ah hes an alien!! Did you hear me! HES A GODAMN ALIEN GOD DAMMIT!! 😂😂😂 she even had pink cuffs on suiting
1st female: drunk or high or mentally ill or a combination or all. Her excuses are lame. I just cannot be a cop. The patience that is needed to deal with this situation is just beyond me. 2nd female: she's been getting away with treating people like dirt and did not suffer any consequence and was surprised when she got tazed. Tsk tsk
U guys are disgusting that gave them no reason to be touching her like that and to be tasering her ass like wtf literal pigs I can’t believe this people that believe everything they read but don’t pay any attention to what’s actually going on and what they’re watching
I applaud that male victims are being taken seriously by authorities now, and while none of this behaviour can ever be condoned or excused, it is worth considering how tame much of the violence in this video is, when compared to levels of common male against female DV. How far we have come in recognising that all DV is wrong, and it’s great to see a crack down on all perpetrators.
The first lady was suffering psychosis. She didn't abuse her boyfriend. She needed a psychiatrist not jail. I heard Dayton does this all the time to ppl.
That second cop should take a walk once a week or get a desk job😂. That little girl almost whipped his butt. He would of been in trouble if back up hadn’t arrived😂. He was so scared he tasered her after she had cuffs on😂😂😂
Do not agree how rough he was with a 22 year old half the size of him and teasing her that much was ridiculous. She may have been an idiot but did not deserve to be wrecked around and pretty much dragged down the stairs that’s supposed to be professional police officers not bullies
No, she was calling out for her own dad. "Daddy" is pretty common throughout the southern US. I'm 25 and I still say Daddy. It's a title for my father, not a kink.
That first lady is absolutely crazy but how does she get charged with assault against a police officer when she was handcuffed and he hit her with his elbow in the neck and choked her?!! That's still unacceptable behavior from a police officer, he let his anger get to him!
95% of the time I am commenting on how immature or crazy these people are acting and how a lot of these police officers do a great job but that first video was just disturbing
"Why are you doing this to me?" They aren't doing anything to you!!! You did it to yourself!!! Take some responsibility for your actions lady!!!! You made your choices!!! And NO MA'AM you cannot put your hands on anyone!!! Men need to stop letting these women get away with putting their hands on them just because they dont wanna "look weak" or whatever!! Men can be victims of DV just as much as women can!!!! Most men suffer in silence and just deal with it, which is so not ok!!!!
As a male that's been thru this, the most painful part is your male friends calling you a p*ssy & laughing at you. With a really toxic partner calling the cops is out of the question bc b4 they get there she'd lock herself in he bathroom & smack herself in the face with a curling iron or something. You are absolutely correct, it's not a gender thing. People shouldn't hit people, especially those you lay your head down next to at night. Peace
Absolutely. I must have grown up "different" cuz when a police officer was asking "those" questions, I would be as kind as possible, knowing at this point they are my enemy (they're gathering evidence against me, so not a friend). I learned quick to shut up, comply & later talk to my lawyer. Some of these hot heads have a, no joke, "I wish u would" attitude. I had a cop who during our interaction kept making his gun completely up for grabs. 1st, no, 2nd it was in a 3 step holster so even if, I wasn't gonna get it, 3rd NOO. these peoples have hard ass jobs no doubt. But a lot of them, to make life easier, put u in 3 catagories. Best to shut up, keep your wits & tell the PD, this guy needs a win as bad as you do. Peace
Florida is significantly different from the rest of the country. The people here are still mentally living in the 1900s. They need a Democrat to come in and get this state into shape- starting with their woefully inept education which exacerbates every issue they have. It’s utter chaos here and people are too dense to realize the political party they love and support are directly responsible for their problems. Ignorance is bliss should be their state motto 😂
I believe the Depp/Heard case has a lot to do with men being believed with regard to domestic v cases. Are rightly so. All the years that men were immediately thought to be the perportrators without question is sad. No one deserves to be abused. In my humble opinion.
Absolutely agree! I truly believe it set a new precedent for male victims everywhere. I’m so happy JD got some justice for what he endured. Props to all guys finally being “heard” …. 💙
4yrs of hell for me. She will never be held accountable. I'm lucky I'm alive today after being stabbed and had guns pulled on me, being attacked in my sleep ect.
What do you know? The perp was calm, and she realized she screwed up. Cop treated her reasonable and respectful. Why can't both sides be like this more often?
Jesus that girl not wanting him to leave is insane. She needs to just shut up and calm down. No wonder that guy wanted to leave. Edit: As i watch more of this i have decided drunk chicks are literally the worst thing ever. Like dealing with emotional toddlers. Makes me lose my mind. Some of these cops have the patience of a saint.
I feel so bad for the woman who just wanted to see her kids. As a divorced mom, if my ex denied me access to my kids for 3 weeks without a court order, I’d be frantic, too. Then, the “girlfriend “ says oh we are so concerned because she’s lost 40 pounds in 3 months-it must be drugs! No, loser, it’s called depression. Her HUSBAND is shacking up with some cow and refusing to let her see her children! I can understand why she snapped. I hope she takes her loser ex for all he’s worth in the divorce.
Sorry for your troubles, keeping your children away from your ex is a pretty low thing to do, I couldn’t imagine going through that especially when there’s another stranger involved,that would make me crazy too. For this guy’s girlfriend to get involved and say something like that just makes everything worse. Her little Daughter sounds like she wants to get out of that place, I’m sure it’s because of the other woman causing the 14 year old problems. Hope everything works out for you and your children.nGOD bless.
I get that. So fix the issue the right way. That does not mean she is allowed to show up and try to attack the mans new girlfriend. Then also try and attack him as well. We have no idea of the back story. Sure he could be an ass. But she could also be mentally unwell. I understand the kids part. But if she is unwell mentally being around the kids may not be the best option. The fact your instantly on her side and even more so hope she takes everything the mans worth is a bit telling. You just assume the man is the bad guy and she is entitled to take everything he worked for. What if she is the bad guy and he should get everything she is worth?
@@Akaya3511exactly. This woman sounds very bitter and making ridiculous judgements she knows absolutely nothing about. And any mother who is gonna pull up block in vehicles and act that way particularly in front of her children probably has some pretty serious issues. She could easily be the reason he left her and he may have very good reason to be keeping her kids away from her. She even admitted just in that little bit that she has some issues and I'm guessing jealousy also played a big role here. These type of extreme snap judgements all from a couple minute video clip are exactly what wrong with so much of society these days.
Sounds to me like the father felt he had a duty to his girlfriend and his children to protect them from a woman mentally unstable enough to attack them and show up at their house uninvited.
I agree and I have so much respect for that officer's kindness and compassion. I'm happily married so I'm not "bitter" but there are a few things in this story that didn't add up to me. One being the wife said (if her story was true) that they had 4 kids and "one on the way." She wasn't even showing yet, so that means hubby was just with the wife as recently as a few months prior, right? Why was her bank account frozen with HER RELATIVES' $8,000 grand in her account? The 14 year old just broke my heart when she cried and and said "I don't want to be here anymore," meaning she was very uncomfortable and unhappy living with her dad and his new GF. Also, GF sounded really rough around the edges to me, that "been around" sounding voice, doing all she could to make the mom look like a mental case, druggie. If she talked about the mom to the cops like that, then GUARANTEED she was making sure the husband knew all about how "horrible" his wife was. The wife couldn't be THAT crazy if her 14 year old wanted to go with her so badly. She gave her 14 year old a phone so they could communicate and the dad took it from her? That's really disgusting if true. Also, the wife didn't turn into a raging demon Karen when told she was going to be arrested, and cooperated with the officer. That told me a lot right there. The wife also said the hubby was "just at her house the other day." Why was that? Why would he leave the mother of his children destitute to go shack up with his new GF? Why would the GF be okay with that?? Why would the GF be okay with the dad keeping the wife's kids from her? The GF and dad were keeping the GF's address secret. That's a terrible thing to do. It was the daughter who gave the mom the address. She has EVERY RIGHT to know where her kids are living, FFS! If they had a court hearing, chances are they would have some sort of joint custody arrangement, so why would the dad want his kids at his soon to be ex wife's house with nothing? IDK. Things just didn't add up there either. Imagine seeing your HUSBAND with another woman you know is talking sh*t about you (the 14 year old would be loyal to her mom, NOT the GF and would probably tell her mom everything the GF said about her) and she has YOUR kids and worse is helping the dad hide them from you? IDK. That would make me a bit ballistic too, even if I wasn't a nutcase. If you meet a man that tells you "My wife is crazy and we're getting a divorce," but the wife is pregnant and isn't even showing yet, then FIND your own man (or wife). I would have told him, "Fine. Call me when the divorce is final." Period. NEVER participate in breaking up a family, no matter who was at fault. If she's telling the truth, the wife said she "kicked him out" which probably means she caught him cheating with that GF. If you're truly meant to be together, then you can certainly wait until the final divorce decree and custody arrangement. Until then, find a single man to date and leave other women's husbands alone (that goes for men too, leave other men's wives alone). Advice from my late, very wise grandmother. "Always remember, if they'll cheat WITH you, they'll cheat ON you."
no it’s not?? 22 is barely an adult. 3 years after you a teenager you just grown and perfect? also people having mental health episodes dont really remember or think logically so probably not
That cop in the first case REALLY loved choking tf out of that woman who was cuffed😑 First choked her w his forearm w her hands cuffed behind her back, then choked her w his elbow hard w her hands and legs cuffed......... Ik she was acting really weird but she was clearly having a psychotic break or drugs or both.. I heard the boyfriend saying her dad took her to the mental hospital. I think that was excessive force and he needs to keep his hands/arms/elbows off of peoples necks, especially if they are already cuffed.
I agree 100% Officers need to be taught empathy. That woman was either mentally ill or affected by drugs and needed help. If the officers had taken their time to talk to her, and allowed her to feel heard, they probably could have gotten her to agree to go in an ambulance to get checked out at the hospital. These police officers need to learn how to Protect and Serve.
