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The Basement with Tim Ross
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@knxje
@knxje Год назад
I’m 21, OD’d 7 times at 18 and recently been baptized and found this show. I love you so much, more than you know.
@thejazzylife1180
@thejazzylife1180 Год назад
The fact that you’re only 21 and deciding to make a change is crucial. It never to late to change unless God decides your time is up. Some people don’t come to your realization until they are much older and the damage is done. Please don’t ruin your life Jesus has so much more for you! I’m 22 and I don’t want that story when I have the chance to change now before my poor decisions affect my future marriage and future children.
@hollywood3353
@hollywood3353 9 месяцев назад
Goodluck man..I've been in recovery for going on 10yrs..its a battle but God had to sit me down in prison and lose everything to find him. Good for you! Follow him with faith and he WILL show you a new way of life. Stay strong and make sure you do the steps, but also 1 on 1 therapy to get the necessary things out you need to! God bless.
@hollywood3353
@hollywood3353 9 месяцев назад
I'm 37 and just found him again almost 8 years ago. Doing it at your age is amazing..I've seen death personally and lost many friends an school mates to addiction. Proud of you brother! He's been with you the whole time waiting on you to find him, or wouldn't of saved you from the 7 overdoses!
@hollywood3353
@hollywood3353 9 месяцев назад
He's on Micheal Todd's church also..called Transformation Church..check it out on here. It's helped me solve so many issues through God's word..❤🎉
@Hectoralejandroguerrero
@Hectoralejandroguerrero Год назад
I got really sick y'all- hence why you see me slowly deteriorate through out the pod. Thank you for your prayers!!!
@PatriciaRose907
@PatriciaRose907 Год назад
Are you OK now? X
@Antixocialbutterfly
@Antixocialbutterfly Год назад
Praying for a full recovery before your trip to Miami in Jesus name! 🙏🏼
@alaineglover4284
@alaineglover4284 Год назад
Prayers for a speedy recovery Hector.
@tealiciaharbin7515
@tealiciaharbin7515 Год назад
You are healed!
@desireejohnson-flemister9947
Praying for your healing !
@thandekav3
@thandekav3 Год назад
Being in South Africa we always watch the podcast alot later but it still hits the same. Siyabonga Pastor Tim.
@poeticsindile
@poeticsindile Год назад
We in here 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@ethanwhite6995
@ethanwhite6995 Год назад
@@poeticsindile We definitely here!! SA!!
@EbenezerN
@EbenezerN Год назад
Let's goooo
@ntokozosiluma6918
@ntokozosiluma6918 Год назад
The highlight of my Wednesdays😊
@noxolondlela8843
@noxolondlela8843 Год назад
We out here. SA is in the basement
@alaineglover4284
@alaineglover4284 Год назад
A good book I have read that has helped to recognize narcissistic leadership is When Narcissism Comes to Church
@leethehumble9871
@leethehumble9871 Год назад
My book just came in a few days ago. I can't wait to read it. Is it good?
@dianaflower940
@dianaflower940 Год назад
This book helped me too!!! It’s really a good book 😊
@alaineglover4284
@alaineglover4284 Год назад
@@leethehumble9871 yes it is a really good read.
@amandaecheona1457
@amandaecheona1457 Год назад
His guest Jenna mountain spoke of this
@ashleyoliver6989
@ashleyoliver6989 Год назад
I want to agree with Tim on the way God does bless us with the gift of speaking in tongues. I remember being baptized (born again) and everyone receiving their gift (of speaking in tongues) BUT me! I remember being sad and when I got home while praying at around 4am, JUST like Tim described, I began to speak in a language I could not understand! I knew it was not me and I knew I could not understand it, but it just flowed out of my mouth. It was with such ease and there was a certainty within me that God had just blessed me with such a beautiful gift. I was so happy that morning! My God just drew in a little closer that morning. I was so thankful! I cried and cried tears of JOY! That happened at 17 years old for me and I am 35 years old now and I just love to trust God and flow in the Spirit. I'd say to anyone wanting to receive the gift; it won't make sense... trust God and let it flow! It may never sound like anything you have ever heard or will hear. Never stop being hungry to receive all of God's gifts! God can do it!
@loriturnbull3356
@loriturnbull3356 Год назад
I liked where you talked about the egg. And vulnerability being your superpower. Recently after watching an online sermon the Holy Spirit revealed something that blew me away. He showed me a family pattern that has affected my current behavior. As I processed it with Him, He continued to show me more about something I've been working on. And how they are related.🤯 This experience came to mind as you talked about doing your own work. As I do my own work, I'm changing. I can't do other people's work. Thanks for that reminder! I also enjoy the YT live-s.❤
@catrina90210
@catrina90210 Год назад
Funny u mentioned this. As the Lord has been also highlighting the details of family cycles as well for me. Encouraging. I'm right where I'm supposed to be. Thanks for sharing. He's Worthy!!
@CAVILA19
@CAVILA19 Год назад
I can’t wait to see you guys in MIAMI!! VousCon is my birthday trip🎉. To be able to attend to a live recording is just 🤯.
@tealiciaharbin7515
@tealiciaharbin7515 Год назад
Just curious Tim... 1st. Thank all of you for your obedience, time and energy that yall put into this podcast. It gives me a healthy perspective on living life the correct way. Tim, what causes your abandonment issues being that you had a great healthy upbringing. Thank you in advance and God continue to bless yal life!
@j98253
@j98253 Год назад
Tim I love how real you are in your walk with life and helping so many people. Real deal I was nervous to watch this time but God would not let me stop listening to the very end. When, you shared about your first 24 months and helping that married couple it just resinated with me and helped me in my healing process of the last 5 years. My name is Johanna and if you see this please pray for me and my husband in our restoration of our marriage I would appreciate it so much.
@desireejohnson-flemister9947
Can you guys do this every Monday? I love that you guys want to reach people live and I would love to ask questions too , appreciate all the advice and faithfully wait for the premieres of your pod lol signed a faithful basementer
@ambe_ezy
@ambe_ezy Год назад
I missed the live because I was watching old episodes 😒 lol but definitely a good surprise for this gloomy Monday in Cali
@kangruckus5939
@kangruckus5939 Год назад
“The sensitivity of vulnerability in fragility” -Tim Ross Bars
@AmarisLW
@AmarisLW Год назад
HECTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Missed your laugh my friend. 🥺. Hope you feel better!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏 Loved the live!!! I got a few questions answered thru other people. Blessings!!! ❤❤❤❤
@Hectoralejandroguerrero
@Hectoralejandroguerrero Год назад
Love you😭❤️
@racheld4766
@racheld4766 Год назад
I have watched pretty much all of your podcasts but this one 😢. I feel like God spoke to you because he knew what I was gonna pray and cry to Him about tonight before watching this podcast. Thank you for listening to Him 🙏🏾
@yolandahart552
@yolandahart552 Год назад
I’m watching the replay and loving it!!
@Dems967
@Dems967 Год назад
It’s the Pod on Monday for me!Come through Unc Tim!
@quintonque1040
@quintonque1040 Год назад
@TheBasement Put out as many Podcast's ill speak for myself and can say I can listen to what you saying 24/7 because its eye opening, in ways one needs to be self aware of who i am and who is around me.
@recipebandit3563
@recipebandit3563 10 месяцев назад
This is the only podcast that I listen & enjoy to the intro shoutouts🤣. Blessings Basement
@mwoods22
@mwoods22 Год назад
My friend told me her church "taught' her to speak in tongues...like they had a class on it...and that all the churches she grew up in were like that. My brain thought...*I didn't know that was TAUGHT, I thought that was something that just happened and God dropped it on you*...Make it make sense Tim....
@emanipettiford868
@emanipettiford868 Год назад
I love how God allows you communicate in the spirit because you spoke in tongues was natural and I could tell it was genuine
@quintonque1040
@quintonque1040 Год назад
This is the "Discussion" I needed to stay in tune for, because what was mentioned in 45-50min is how and what i needed to hear based on a past experience. As adults we supposed to speak through things not hide and run.
@kimfatica2228
@kimfatica2228 Год назад
I just stumbled on to this after spending several hours watching RU-vid videos of Tim and Preston. I didn't realize my notifications were off.😢 I won't miss another live chat if I can help it! ❤
@Yaya_P
@Yaya_P Год назад
“Oh.. go straight to the justice of peace, what the problem is” iiiiiii hooolllllaaaawwddddd 😂🤣😂🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Favorite thing to listen to while I telework
@Nichole4Hope
@Nichole4Hope Год назад
Do this again PLEASSSEEE!!! 🙏🙏🙏 I was working and did not know. If I did, it would’ve been on my calendar FOR SURE. 💯💯💯 Sending ❤from sunny Florida.
@jordandandy4767
@jordandandy4767 Год назад
3 EPISODE IS CRAZYYYY🔥🔥🔥🔥
@tabithajohn8254
@tabithajohn8254 Год назад
I’m so glad that you even think about us 😫❤️this suprise blessed me a lot 🙏
@Mrhenry_fit
@Mrhenry_fit Год назад
We need a financial podcast!!
@TiffanyParson-mw3yz
@TiffanyParson-mw3yz Год назад
Myron Golden is amazing
@aramideabosede4082
@aramideabosede4082 Год назад
You guys got me on this one. This came as a huge surprise to me 'cos I receive y'all content in Nigeria on Wednesday and on Friday. So seeing this post was a shock and a beautiful surprise as well. I was like is this a episode I missed or what's going on. Then I saw that this was posted a few hours ago. Thanks for the surprise,Tim. Shout out to Juli, Hector, Sammie, Love you guys💕
@Nichole4Hope
@Nichole4Hope Год назад
Same here 😅
@monicasoyombo3360
@monicasoyombo3360 Год назад
I was on for about 20 min then i had to hop off to prep dinner for the kiddos, but the title....yo i was literally about yo ask some questions on this topic like🧐🧐🧐. Im going to make a cup of ☕ and enjoy the pod after my quiet time... Should we go live every Monday yaaaaaaas for da Lord!🙌🏿 From Owings Mills Maryland baby!
@yvngapollo7234
@yvngapollo7234 Год назад
She coming in Honda, she coming in a Honda, she coming in a Honda.🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@user-ps1zh9bq1j
@user-ps1zh9bq1j Год назад
Thank you for being on air… you have been so helpful to me with my life and marriage.. oh ps.. how can I get sweat shirt in the basement..
@alejandralandry1820
@alejandralandry1820 Год назад
I watch the pods in my car, so it takes me till the next Tuesday to be caught up 😂 but it feels great to always have something to watch/listen to. Love y'all!
@ashleyoliver6989
@ashleyoliver6989 Год назад
I am so happy! I can listen to your wise words everyday!
@lachamaisalet7606
@lachamaisalet7606 10 месяцев назад
Amazing word!!! Fire fire fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@reneeorsak1144
@reneeorsak1144 Год назад
Basement live eeeek!!! Can’t wait for all the testimonials! Hallelujah
@noahholden1750
@noahholden1750 Год назад
“God ain’t petty.” 😮‍💨🔥
@northlight6759
@northlight6759 Год назад
I really appreciate the open rebuke of purity culture. I'm 37 and still struggling with its brainwashing, feels like I'm alone in it, and I still hear snippets of purity culture in the churches I usually attend. Honestly the whole thing has strained my loyalty to the church. So it's very refreshing to hear Christians not hedge or hmm-haw, but directly repudiate it
@NoemiFodorenau
@NoemiFodorenau Год назад
Well dang it!!! I missed the live but I’m here in boondocks of far south Weatherford, Texas catching the replay!
@jordandandy4767
@jordandandy4767 Год назад
The evolution of Hector fading in this is wild 😂 get better dude!! Props to powering through and still delivering like always .
@reneeorsak1144
@reneeorsak1144 Год назад
Sooo beautiful Tim!!! What a new season indeed!!!
@byrondavis8323
@byrondavis8323 Год назад
The Q&A is dope. The title of the episode throws me off tho. Didn't hear much about what the title specified.
@Team_Blackledge
@Team_Blackledge Год назад
A MONDAY EP LETS GOOOOOOO
@saulhernandez5922
@saulhernandez5922 Год назад
Thanks!
@amandahernandez8279
@amandahernandez8279 Год назад
Amazing!! I love how much impact you have guys have. Thanks for obeying God’s word. 💕 Listening from Winter Haven, FL. Saludos Tim
@karenalicea-dunn2099
@karenalicea-dunn2099 Год назад
Great episode 👏
@crucialily
@crucialily Год назад
31:15 i cant do dates anymore i get way too attached... i always says we can be friends and if you want to marry me after bwing friends go right ahead
@1990imthebest
@1990imthebest Год назад
“Delete that Snapchat.” Hector! I screamed! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@avia-dawnwalcott6006
@avia-dawnwalcott6006 Год назад
Great advice to feel the emotions. Feels great. I relearning how to feel now. I used to bury everything so as not to have a wicked heart l but that wasn’t the way to go
@LynaeBarnett
@LynaeBarnett Год назад
I knew I wasn’t trippin’! It was live 😭😭😭 my chest hurts!
@cassandrabyrd2788
@cassandrabyrd2788 Год назад
I definitely can relate to using the Bible, podcasts, and books for mentorship when it is not available in person.
@tonyabuford2095
@tonyabuford2095 Год назад
I'm mad Missed the live. I have never missed an episode
@eliawhitaker2497
@eliawhitaker2497 Год назад
Yasssss for the lord! Im bummed i missed this live!!!
@mexicaflor05
@mexicaflor05 Год назад
Praying my future husband loves me like Tim loves Juliet ❤
@TheIronPath
@TheIronPath Год назад
45:55 bookmarking. On Forgiveness and not being bitter.
@_javielys
@_javielys Год назад
Thank you for the live!!! 🤩
@johnathanrutledge5400
@johnathanrutledge5400 Год назад
Please come to Charlotte, NC
@user-zp6kq7po1y
@user-zp6kq7po1y Год назад
Amen! He is working all things for good even in times I don’t see it or feel it! Praise Jesus! ❤
@sojo973
@sojo973 Год назад
This is healing me so much ❤
@katymaestone
@katymaestone Год назад
@TheBasementPodcast Hi, Tim! I don't know if you have ever read the prodigal God by Timothy Keller. It talks about the feast at the end of the prodigal son in Luke 15 in part of the book. And how we focus on the prodigal son but lack the focus of the elder brother to come into the feast. And how as a church we look up to more elder brothers than the prodigal sons who don't feel welcome in the church. Both are sinners but we make the elder brother look good because of how he has done everything right. (self-righteousness) The feast is meant to bring both together and feast in peace. No wonder we have a lot of prodigal sons that don't wanna come to church. Hopefully this makes sense, I digress because there's so much more context for it. (This is to piggyback on what you are learning now and about the feast you talked about)
@claudiamesa8619
@claudiamesa8619 8 месяцев назад
Oooooouuuuuffffff!!! To Nike stuff, and just do it really hit home for me❤ and to not be paralyzed by a longing/desire 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽amen.
@loidatshebeha8397
@loidatshebeha8397 Год назад
You got me thinking 🤔 if it was already Tuesday or Thursday …. I loveeee you You all Let’s goooooooo❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@maynadhunter
@maynadhunter Год назад
I’m watching the replay. I would really love to sign up for the Dwellers. Can someone please give me the information to become a member? I already follow on all platforms. I mainly watch on RU-vid.
@LilLynda
@LilLynda Год назад
Hit the link in the description..hope that helps!! Happy Dwelling..LETTTSSS GOOOOOO!!😊❤
@Antixocialbutterfly
@Antixocialbutterfly Год назад
What Lynda says, you have to do it on a desktop or laptop though
@maynadhunter
@maynadhunter Год назад
@@LilLynda thank you sooooooo much! Done!
@clarrisanabanoba6202
@clarrisanabanoba6202 Год назад
Yaaaassssss for the live every monday
@Kinkaidp
@Kinkaidp Год назад
At 29:09 when he’s talking about how God told him that was his wife… how do we know that it’s God telling us that and not us just hoping that that is the truth? I’m struggling with this right now. How do I know the man I’m talking to is who God wants me to be with rather than just who I want God to approve of?
@ms_aariona
@ms_aariona Год назад
So when Tim was talking about who he was going after referring to homer and the bushes it made me think about what I believe apostles do - round up the sheep and tend to the flock. I by no mean am concrete in this 😅AND when Tim was talking about that it instantly made me think about how apostles go out to shepherd.
@WhitfordPR
@WhitfordPR Год назад
Can you do an episode (if you haven’t already) on purity culture? the damage/dysfunctional issues that stem from it, and how might we reset from it
@jasmineb0411
@jasmineb0411 Год назад
So mad I missed the live. I was at work 😢.
@brookehampton_121
@brookehampton_121 Год назад
Can’t wait to have you Timmy!! 😊VOUS is SO excited! 🎉 The Basement Live is sold out… VOUSCon not yet sold out!! Come hang with us!🫶🏻
@papo30013
@papo30013 Год назад
The bit on tongues... 🤣🤣🤣💀💀 AND thank you!! I needed to hear it! Until that time comes, I pray Holy Spirit continues to provide me with prophecy.
@monizalez
@monizalez Год назад
eyyy!!! I'm excited to see you here in Miami :D
@annolamiju4363
@annolamiju4363 Год назад
I am really missing the old theme song! 😢
@user-wy4sq3qs3q
@user-wy4sq3qs3q 7 месяцев назад
St Louis,Mo
@faithmassok1983
@faithmassok1983 Год назад
Caitlin's question is so me 😭...I am VERY scared, ALWAYS hiding...(Faith Massok from South Africa, Cape Town, Mitchell's Plain - 13/06/2023 - @ Work 15h49)...
@kraer22
@kraer22 7 месяцев назад
I love the bobble head!!!
@Derrick619.
@Derrick619. Год назад
I’m hurt… was off work today and coulda caught this 💔🙆🏻‍♂️
@Derrick619.
@Derrick619. Год назад
But I’m happy that I was able to spend time with my daughter today. Notifications are now on and won’t miss moving forward 🫶🏼 Gods Kids
@jamekathomas5120
@jamekathomas5120 Год назад
Me too 619, I missed it.
@manuelasmith441
@manuelasmith441 Год назад
Me too😢 will watch the replay😅
@Candie4JC
@Candie4JC Год назад
Ok I’m upset that anyone in a church would THREATEN a member from leaving. I’ve seen that happen from my mother church during church planting the church I came from had a be pastor that SPIRITUALLY threatened members who wanted to support the church plant. Sadly, it worked. It’s only more 5 years later that many mother church members have their eyes open to the manipulative spiritual threatening they were under and many have come to the church plant to apologize. We have to ask for spiritual discernment because the spirit of covert narcissism & manipulation in the church is a hot mess. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@antoprophy
@antoprophy Год назад
Here for that dating methodology and that it applies to both genders. Go on and rebuke that purity culture, yes here for my femininity not being smothered and weaponized. Oh yes to the formation. Go on Tim.
@poppnitwithpre
@poppnitwithpre Год назад
It is obvious I’m not doing something right. I feel I keep being placed in the wilderness.
@CMTuck
@CMTuck Год назад
Sam is a FOOL 😂😂😂😂 y’all are such a team hahaha
@PraiseYWHW
@PraiseYWHW Год назад
Come to Alberta Canada! Would love to see you live
@ashleyfranklin4708
@ashleyfranklin4708 Год назад
Not sure if this will be seen or if this question will be selected for answering, but I’m going to go for it. Can Tim give me advice on this issue: I am a deep rooted Christian who is divorced with 2 kids. We’ve been apart for 11 years. My ex has become an atheist since we parted. Our daughter who is almost 14 is wrestling with her sexual identity. As a follower of Christ, I tell her I love her and also tell her that that’s not who God created her to be. Her father on the other hand celebrates this & buys her pride paraphernalia. Besides praying for her & speaking truth to her, is there anything else I can do to help steer her through this?
@quintonque1040
@quintonque1040 Год назад
Little Timmy got a mic. Thats dope. I am from South Africa
@christulier
@christulier Год назад
I wish I could gooooooooo! To the live pod 😭
@roseallen5514
@roseallen5514 6 месяцев назад
Make the bobble head bop to Pres B intro
@yeviec9263
@yeviec9263 Год назад
😂😂she coming in a Honda, Roku tv, E. coli virus!! 🤣🤣
@cynthiamoore745
@cynthiamoore745 Год назад
Hahaha thisssssss
@jamekathomas5120
@jamekathomas5120 Год назад
Wait, a Monday pod?
@jamekathomas5120
@jamekathomas5120 Год назад
I was at work and on a Monday night prayer call.
@claricezoggyie
@claricezoggyie Год назад
Chicago in the house!
@MachelleNowlin
@MachelleNowlin Год назад
I'm sprinkling Jesus glitter ✨️ over you @Hector, praying you are better!! 🙌🏽✨️🙌🏽 Thank you, @Tim, I have added Jesus glitter to my vocabulary 🤣💖🤣‼️‼️
@alicrater3801
@alicrater3801 Год назад
Charlotte Gambil!!!!!! 😯 I already know! Let's goooooooooooo, Fam!!!!! 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️
@jamiehigh924
@jamiehigh924 Год назад
Yes, I remember Romper Room
@DailyDoseOfRuth
@DailyDoseOfRuth Год назад
i’m soooo maddddddd i missed the live
@markbentz7585
@markbentz7585 Год назад
1:08:19 were you giving an example? Does there need to be an interpretation every single time you do it? I’m coming from a perspective I want to believe and understand but haven’t been able to get over certain hurdles.
@dailyreflectionswithchris4984
Dripping Springs too❤
@pzlzcreation9027
@pzlzcreation9027 Год назад
What’s up Tim and Cruze. I’m From NC. Please check your compressor for the future. I know you’re trying to cancel background noise but, with Tim’s personality and different voices you are cutting his high frequencies TOO much. Thanks for all you guys do and keep an ear to what GOD says and DO that work. SODOPEFIYA🔥👊🏾🙏🏾
@aliciam_g16
@aliciam_g16 Год назад
Will God forgive me for leaving my husband who is verbally mentally and psychologically abusive? We have a daughter together and I just kept hearing you don't want him to be the example that is set for your daughter. Even if it is her own dad. I've left 5 times now and I believe this is the last. He always guilt tripped me into coming back because of biblical reasons. I honestly see him as a narcissistic personality kind of person. I was not perfect either. But I couldn't take feeling like I was sinking jnto a black nothingness and blamed all the time for any and everything that went wrong. I couldn't let my daughter see her dad treating her mom like that. There's just a guilt he put in me about leaving and "God is going to punish you since you're the one who left" not him the one who has cheated and treated me like the dirt that the shoe picked up after dog poop. 😢
@kikigeeu2be
@kikigeeu2be 8 месяцев назад
i liked what he had to say
@katieanastasia
@katieanastasia Год назад
Basement World Tour?? Australia, Melbourne?? 🤪
@JW2310
@JW2310 Год назад
At work and missed the live AGAIN 😢. Does anyone one know how we can ask a question that could maybe be answered on a later pod?
@kayechapple0802
@kayechapple0802 10 месяцев назад
Cleveland Ohio
@nailomar3388
@nailomar3388 9 месяцев назад
Cleveland
@olivialeah14
@olivialeah14 Год назад
I can’t believe I missed the live 😢
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لدي بط عالق في أذني😰🐤👂
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لدي بط عالق في أذني😰🐤👂
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