1. When God chooses someone for you, you will choose this person for yourself too. 2. When God chooses someone for you, this person will also choose you for themselves. 3. When God chooses someone for you, other relationship opportunities will not be blessed in your life. 4. When God choose someone for you, you will not immediately know it. 5. When God chooses someone for you, you two will become a couple one day.
About 3yrs ago, I gave this part of my life totally to him, I said I can't choose the right person. So, he brought me to a godly man, and while at times we are not perfect, we have God in the middle and we are now married. Thank you for the confirmation Mark.
Happy someone found a Godly mate. I've been longing deeply for this blessing my entire life (61 years) and have resigned to unfulfilled longing probably the rest of my life.
@@patriciatollison8655 so sorry to hear this. I know how you feel, single for 8 yrs and in my late forties, still dreaming about the great husband and kids that never happened. I keep hearing there is a match for everyone, lid for every pot but it's hard to keep believing this
@@candykugel you mean like the good plans He has for all the innocent children's lives that He allows evil wicked satanic people to abuse, molest, torture, malnourish, mistreat, rape, sell, murder, sacrifice, and cannabalize all in the name of "free will" and His "love"?! Bullshit 🤣
I pray for her. I pray for her safety and her health and for God to protect her. I pray for God to fill me with wisdom and self control so I can accept the gift from him whenever he is ready
I was at a Christian youth camp where I started noticing a girl and was curious about her. During praise and worship on the last day, I prayed to God to show me if she was the one for me, and I distinctly heard God say "Pursue her." This aligned with the video which talked about how when God chooses someone for you, you also choose them. I never immediately knew she was the one; it was a gradual, logical process of getting to know each other. As we talked more, we have gotten closer. Since then, I've prayed for strength to stay focused on her and not be distracted by other company. The video's points resonated deeply, especially the idea that we would one day be a couple. It gave me so much joy and confirmation.
I've been on dates, I have been in relationships, and I'm still waiting on God's kingdom man for my future husband. So it's ok because I need to be patient too.
Ashley; I’m sure you will find someone, you have experience. Be patient. As for OP, you do need to try, make effort and show interest in them. Otherwise they will friend zone you or think you’re not interested. Rejection is a very big thing in the dating world. The only way to get on top is by constantly getting rejecte, also you do some of the rejections too. It’s just the way dating works.
Op you can’t sit and wait, you need to ask friends to introduce you to the person you fancy, try your luck, ask out people on dates, keep trying. Remember, not fornicating is not a sin; going on dates is fine, you have to make the move. Sitting is for people that give up and need a break from dating, not from those that want to date. Get into gear, start making friends, go to the gym, do boxing classes or go to a church. Do anything that will keep you networking and that may give you more opportunities to get dates. If you’re in your 20’s; this is the best time yo do it! After that ; dating in your 30’s is difficult
I have finally met the man all women dream about and hope and pray for. I wasn't looking when I met my William. We celebate life not struggle through life. Is he perfect , in my eyes even though my heart knows that no one is perfect I had given up looking. God and I have had many conversations regarding relationships. I've been single and celebate for 25 years. Going on 26 years. It was like we knew each other since childhood. We laugh , we cry , we have fun together. At the end of a long day I have him and he has me. One day I hope to be tucked safer in his arms.
@alex-ander-13 funny you should ask. 25 year's ago I wrote myself a poem I called my night in shining armour. I got to with some of my friends on New Year's around a campfire up in the mountains . There was some snow on the grill but not enough to chase us off. We had an RV 😂🤣😂🤣😂 long story short we read what our paper that night in regards to what should your shining armor should be and or damsel in distress should be like and burnt them. A month ago stuck in a book was a copy of that poem. So I read it out loud and told the Universe I was here to finally collect. Being single for 25 years was long enough. Within that same month 💭🤔 a couple of weeks maybe 😂🤣😂🤣 I guess the Universe knew I still had some growing up to do. It's nice having someone to have a good belly laugh with and get a hug just because hugs are healing and feel good with the right person.
I really needed this confirmation, Mark. Thank you so much. God has been saying yes to my prayers and pointing to all the signs, including one for a godly, future husband. One that only believes in him, worships only him, and loves only him. There were times that I felt like giving up praying for my future husband, but the Holy Spirit told me to keep going. And now, my waiting season is still continuing in God's presence, and so is my future husband's. Thank you so much, Mark.
Thanks Mark. I’ve experienced many of the bad signs and closed doors. The pieces have never really fit together and it was clear when the Lord did not want me with someone. Now, I feel at peace and expectant for what He has in store for me. The Lord has richly blessed my single season and I’ve healed from many things in the past year. My prayer at the end of the day is that God would make me the man He wants me to be and how I ought to be seeking first the kingdom of God and it’s righteousness and all these things will be added unto me.
Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $356,000 every three months and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Hello how do you make such monthly?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down🤦🏼♂️ of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God🙏
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Brilliant stuff. So helpful. Imagination, infatuation, idolatry; nailed it bro. Never beg someone to be in your life. If they can't see the gold in you then someone way more suitable surely will. Always remember than no-one is 'out of your league'. They are simply not compatible with YOU.
I met my person on a dating site, we quickly exchanged numbers soon after matching and we both felt conviction from the Holy Spirit when we spoke on the phone. We never met, we knew nothing about each other and we felt attraction but we are both mature enough to know looks aren’t everything: we’ve both been hurt, married, tried it all.. anyway, it is possible to know who your person is. We’ve been dating and things have been wonderful, not perfect but when faced with a challenge, we have God in the center and are able to work our way through with love and respect. The best connection I’ve ever had. I pray this is Gods will for us and just wanted to share that we both knew instantly. It is the strangest thing he and I ever experienced and many Christians I’ve met have experienced that too (confirmation through the Holy Spirit).
Bless you🙏🏻🙌thats wonderful. Im going through same things ,wondering how did you know, after how many time talking. Did you met? Its interesting we two also met through sister in Christ over phone ,studiyng scripture,became best friends. Conversations went so wonderful, flowing, then we met after few months in public ,and there was so much joy, conviction so wonderful. Like we knew each other lifetime. So scary. Never felt that before . But its complicated since Im in a relationship celibacy, he is single. We are both christians, and Im still in unequally jolked relatinship.
@@andreamegec9836 yes, we met shortly after the call! For me, it was very bizarre because as I was talking to him on the phone, it was as if he was reading my mind. He was saying everything I was thinking. It was extremely strange and if I wasn’t so into God I would’ve thought this was devil sent. But, what got me to really thinking is that I was feeling very hot, the way that I do when I’m in church while I was talking with him and knew it was the Holy Spirit. I was very happy talking to him, we had so much in common and just very, very similar in mannerisms and just our logic and view of things. I had prayed for that.. I had been fasting for my future husband and I had received numerous confirmations after. God speaks to me through people and that can be in person or via reels or RU-vid channels. It mostly starts with a thought, feeling and then an outward expression or realization, so I know it’s not just me. Every persons experience is different and that is what is amazing about the God we serve; He is very intentional and detailed. So, my story can look very different from others or alike! It’s all about your relationship with Him. You have to know God and spend time with Him to be able to hear Him. But what you are explaining doesn’t seem to be God favored if you are in a relationship already. If you know you aren’t supposed to have an unequally yoked relationship, there is no point in entertaining one. I hope I am understanding what you’re saying correctly for me to make this sort of judgement and it is all with love. Be wise.
4 hit hard. Didn’t think my current fiancé would be my fiancé when we met. However she’s getting me closer to God through her own self, and peace permeates the relationship.
This is great timing. I just got rejected and this whole dating thing feels hopeless. I’ve prayed, reflected, and believe for years that God has someone for me hit I guess I’m just not for anyone. It’s frustrating and self pity but this whole thing feels like you’re told you’d be invite to this party your entire life and the host has a gift for you only to find out you’re told to wait outside in the rain/sleet/snow but don’t worry you’ll be let in at the right time and everyone else is having a good time inside with their gifts meanwhile you’re still outside left wondering with all these promises that haven’t been fulfilled. It’s upsetting.
It can be very frustrating. You have no idea what God is potentially saving you from. Perhaps he could be teaching you a lesson. Have faith and enjoy your single season as much as possible. Pray to him and thank him for the gift of singleness. Stay strong💪Dont be anxious or worry. It's hard but he has everything under control
@@Sam-zs1pm Trust in the Lord with your whole heart and lean not on your own understanding. Proverbs 3:5 It is hard, I understand. Im 27 and have never even had a girl ever like me back. But you gotta trust God. If you can't, pray and ask Him to help you. Read Psalm 128. You fear the Lord? Its yours. Seek first the kingdom and everything else will be added to you.
I found my 1st true love since my wife passed a few years ago I feel she is definitely God sent bc I wasn't looking and she appeared in my life she is everything I want in a future spouse and she tells me I'm everything she wanted in a future spouse we keep praying together for our relationship to blossom into more. AMEN
God blessed me with a vision of my wedding day with my fiance a year ago the Sunday before he asked me out. I was unsure because he was such a good friend. We talked it through together and decided to give it a shot. He's my best friend now. I can't wait for that day to come to pass just as He promised 😊
I been a born again christian for a long time and all those points mentioned are an accurate assertion. God put me together with a lady whith whom God blessed our relationship even though we have slightly different theological beliefs. I believe the traditional we are saved by grace doctrine and she believes we humans are divine. Well, i guess both approaches can coexhist because when a sinner becomes a born again believer he/she takes on Gods nature. It is safe to say that once regenerated we do in essence become divine. If this werent true then God wouldnt of blessed me with this wonderful lady. Everytime we talk to each other her and i behave in an integrated fashion. God blessed me so much by bringing her in my life and never knew what a truly beautiful woman was until i met her. She is very divine
It's almost 5:30 in the morning, but I can't sleep. I'm in tears as I write this. I know that my heart was made for marriage. I want to share my life so much that it hurts. My heart aches so badly that I haven't been able to sleep tonight. I don't understand why... why did God create me for marriage and create me for my soulmate, but not create my soulmate? Or... what if God did create my soulmate, but some other woman stole him before we met? All this passion deferred is pain. My gift is that I feel passion more deeply than any normal human should, but it turns to pain and it makes my heart ache. I don't see how married happiness can happen for me. I can't help how I feel. I want to share my life with my one true soulmate. I want it so bad that it's breaking my heart.
I know it is hard. I also have a desire for marriage for a long time now. It is difficult to be patience, wait on God's timing and trust him. Especially when it seems like everyone around you is getting married. It is easy to feel we need to do something before God will blessed us. And it does not help that people in relationships can't really relate and by trying to give 'helpful' advice, they make it worse. I don't believe there is just one person for everyone, but rather that God has a person perfectly suited for you. So if someone else 'stole' your spouse as you called it, then it was never God's intended will for you to marry that person. In the meantime, bring you tears, longings, hope and dreams to God, ask him what he is calling you to do in this season, and do it. Surround yourself with godly single people. And pray for your future spouse.
Hope deferred can make the heart sick, but a good word maketh it glad. The good word is God’s word. Please read the Bible like it’s your medicine that you were assigned to take daily. I learned that from Tiphani Montgomery. God gives us the desires of our heart, but make sure he is your treasure first, do not love or desire anything more than him. I’m just leaving a long relationship & it hurts because I thought he would be my husband. Yes, you’re hurting but decree that your latter will be greater than your former, that you will not survive off bread alone but every Word from God, that an angel of the Lord will go before your destiny helper to put you & your husband together like like in Genesis 24 because what God put together, let no man put asunder. Nobody can take what God has given you ❤ you have to cast down thoughts that do not align with God’s word. His word is final. Don’t idolize marriage, seek God first & all things will be added unto you, if they align with His word. I’m working on this too ❤
I believe both young men and women are done no favors by the older generation. They fail to teach the younger generation how to go about things. I will say as a young man. There are specific places you'll find decent women and decent men at. And, if you do not put yourself out there, you will not find them nor will they find you. However, do not put yourself out there without a dad, granddad or God fearing male figure to protect you. Otherwise, you'll be vulnerable to be taken advantage of. If you go to a church, tell the elders that you're searching for a husband. They'll have sons, nephews, etc. who may be Christian and be looking as well. It is best to go through elders and families who'll be able to help find a good thing for you.
I've been reading through the comments feeling the exact same way. I have faith God has my future spouse out there but it is hard not to have doubts that I'll ever find her. I know I need to be patient, but it's admittedly something I struggle with. All I can do is pray and trust God, he's never led me down the wrong path before.
You need to stop this negativity that’s from the devil himself! G-d’s Will is it’s NOT good for the man to be alone n to the woman too! The Devil is NOT happy when G-d peoples get married n serve Him together!
You know, my whole life it feels like all the women I've tried to even get close to and almost date, God slapped me across the face and said "Not this one" and now I'm like "Alright Alright" ❤️🙏
Imagination and Infatuation. Yep I have certainly experienced that before. I would prefer the format as shown in Genesis 24 for finding a wife. At 60 there are not many single God fearing ladies within an appropriate age range to meet.I won’t do dating apps, as I prefer to meet people organically, and trust God to make us cross paths. On the flip side, I am prepared to be single for the rest of my life. Jesus, Paul and the Baptist were ok, they did some great work as single men for the Kingdom of God.
About 3yrs ago i decided to give it over to God coz ive made mistakes by my own choosing. Been celebate and still waiting on my God sent Kingdom spouse. It can be a bit lonely when you see other couples, so these days i dont go out much, only with close friends and family. Still hoping and have faith that God will send my kingdom spouse, its not easy though.. the Lord is my strength 😅
I think this was one of my favorite videos on this channel it was so right to the point and I think it all was speaking to me! I’m in a waiting season for my future wife and I’m trying to be strong in this wait.
Sometimes wonder if there is someone for me, I’ve only been in for relationship in my entire life or close to 40. I haven’t met the person I’m supposed to be with for the rest of my life. All my relationship hurt me took advantage of me and my kindness. I’m a very forgiving person and I love life. Lately, I don’t even know who I am anymore. I’m just constantly feeling pain and hurt thinking if there is someone out there for me, waiting for me. I’d love to meet that person someday. I sure do hope that someday I’ll meet my future husband.
This is helpful teaching even in other areas Such as job search and much more. It is imperative to know that God is involved in all aspects of our lives
Thank you, this serves as confirmation… this has blessed me more than you know… I believe it’s so important in the times we live in, that people don’t get caught up on social media personalities making them a fantasy person and mistaking it for being God’s person for them… in a lot of ways technology advancement is good, but then not so good because it has so many ppl in their feelings, projecting a false connection just because that person responds to their comment section to you or speak back doesn’t mean that’s the person for you, especially if they are not approaching you with interest at All…. Sometimes, it would be nice if there was a true break from social media for everyone, that will force ppl to engage the old fashion way sometimes, that way you most definitely will know when someone is interested in you or not… but Oh well, waiting patiently for God to reveal his person to me in the meantime. God Bless you MOG!!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
God has been revealing this man to me EVEN when I was being “distracted”. I’m back on track and the info about this man is STILL the same. It’s amazing how God doesn’t skip a step or even pause to scold me😂 God just kept confirming to me over and over again.
I know I have met my chosen man God has for me, bc we have a strong connection that I’ve never experienced before. Even though we haven’t been able to meet in person yet, video calls, phone calls and messages keep us connected right now as we are states apart bc our children from our previous marriages. Patiently waiting for God’s full blessing on us & God’s timing, shall it be His will! 🙏🙏
Im 34 and still single. Kinda hard to find someone when everyone you meet is already dating, married, or abusive in some way. Ive tried the online stuff but I had to stop as i knew it wasn't for me. It's not that i haven't been out and about...for whatever reason im still single. The Lord promises ill marry though.
Choosing and Dating Opportunities is exclusive for women and high net worth individuals. There rest, average men that is, has to learn how to live with themselves or take whatever you get while running every red light on your path...99.9% rejection rate despite daily gym, no alcohol, no drugs, no partying....ego destroyed.
the verse in Deuteronomy 22, says to not fear the prophet if he gets something wrong (KJV), that seems to indicate that a prophet is not to get something wrong to keep his authority
It is certainly good to know these five points, with not hesitation, confusion, just wait on God’s will to be performed. You don’t have to stand outside with a big sign on . Just wait , if it is so to be good, and if not good.
Thank you, brother Mark 🤍☀️☁️ This aligns perfectly with what I'm going through. This is confirmation. I feel God is using you to confirm my Goldy relationship.
It's almost one year we have been texting each other, I hope this is really the right person that you brought to me you know who it is please let this beautiful woman come to me I really love her 💖 Amen 🙏
I only have dated 2 people before my “first love” for 3 years and another guy after for a year. Both I could tell were not the one God had for me to marry. Both were painful because I’m sentimental and it’s hard for me to accept those things and it’s hard for me to move on. Now out of fear and exhaustion I don’t really feel like dating. I still think about my first love sometimes though I know God told me at that time to let it go. I don’t want to live in the past but I’m also afraid to move on forward. I don’t feel like giving anybody a chance and I don’t feel like dating. I hope that feeling doesn’t hinder me from marrying the person I am supposed to marry if they exist or that it will hinder them from wanting to marry me. I feel kind of weak and tired of thinking about it though
You're just emotionally exhausted or burnt out. You probably just need to heal. Nothing wrong with taking time to heal before being ready to try again. Relationships can be exhausting if you are a sensitive person. Nothing wrong with that.
Its definitely a risk to get into something new. I am going through it now. It takes courage and a lot of faith. Relationships take work. It takes courage to deal with the imperfections of your own and of another. It is draining to open up your heart again. But if you meet someone special, its worth going for it. Don't let the exhaustion cause you to self sabotage.
Thank you for this 🥹 you have inspired me to try and shift my mentality, because truthfully, I don’t trust myself to find someone. I don’t trust my own judgement or feelings and they always get so clouded and confused. I’ve always just been so scared that I will never really know know if someone is right for me. But I suppose all I can do is pray that God reveals my person to me, and shuts out anybody else because only He can lead me to the right person 😭 I just pray so hard that He will reveal that to me 🤍 thank you for this 🤍🤍🤍
Brothers and Sisters, I say this. If you are trying to make a relationship or a former marriage work and it’s not working that is also something to consider. Throw this at Gods feet and He will be there with you. He will show you if this is what He wants for you.
2 years ago I accidentally followed a girl from an old church who I liked which ended up getting me rejected so now i don’t talk very much due to the fact I’m afraid of being rejected, now a lot of my friends are in relationships so sometimes I get jealous of it and try to get in a relationship. That always failed.
I've searched and chased for so long it got exhausting. I have one divorce under my belt and 3 long term relationships. I'm not getting married again. I'm staying single. When God is ready for me to meet the one He will let me know. Until then, I'm not ready to share my life, my emotions and my home with anyone.
Indeed I wanted to be with someone whom I really liked and cared about but this person doesn’t have an desires to be with me so I know this isn’t God’s will it’s painful at times but I’m praying for the peace to let God do what he wants and for me not to worry about this anymore.
Jesus please help me to find the right person You have decided for me in Your perfect timing ...Please do not let sin and unholiness make me to get away from You and miss my Kingdom husband ...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I pray for my future wife I pray that God becomes her #1 love and only #1 love that she prioritizes her relationship with Him above all else that nothing below this earth on this earth or beyond this earth ever takes His spot on the throne of her heart and whatever vies for that spot that she calls out and cries out to Him to help her set them in their proper places that she becomes the women of God He called her to be and when she is ready when I'm ready we develop a God centered relationship that flourishes into a marriage and one day have beautiful children we can dedicate to the Lord on His perfectly timing
So if everything is predestined by God and he chooses who we ultimately love, then he also chose who we end up failing with or losing. So if his ways are higher than our ways, he made us go thru it for a reason or for a lesson, for growth.
I’m 18 and gods show me through life circumstances and some extremely hard lessons. My dream of being a father later in life will come true. I will have a wife and family that I can restore my generational curse. This gives me rest and I can give up on the part of my life. I trust gods timing, the only thing that matters right now are the oppurtunites he has in front of me. He is setting me up to do his work.
Thank you so much for being used as.a vessel to give truth concerning God’s Holy Word and marriage relationships. Would you please prepare a video concerning God’s call for a Pastor connecting with the women God called him to marry? It is my belief that God will have a man called to ministry to obtain a wife through the leading of the Holy Spirit to help him build his ministry. I believe the called woman will also be called with a gift to teach and manage to help with the ministry. What is your understanding? Please share! 😊
We were together, A God fearing man and woman. Now she wants space to heal on her own. Should I move on and just stay supportive? We still pray together as friends.
I am a virgin(26) waiting for the perfect will of God. I pray for my future partner every morning and night even though I haven't met or seen him. I pray that when the time comes, our union will be a testimony to others and glorify his Kingdom. Amen.
I pray for my Adri’s success and happiness, she is with another man who is Muslim who is dragging her down with lust but Heavenly Father I humbly pray that Adrianna M W finds peace and salvation in the lord and stops sinning as much, lord I pray for this beautiful woman who I know is my soulmate, god bless you my love and when he’s out of your life, we’ll be reunited again❤🙏
