I finally manifested dating my SP, because of taking a break and letting things smooth over thank you so much. I feel like i'm living life on easy mode.
Guys this really REALLY WORKS. The moment you stop focusing on what you want to manifest, it happens when you don’t expect it. Just let it go and it will come to you
its called detachment and beginners fail on that part for multiple reasons. one of them is how the matrix has programmed people to think and go against how there mind and universe works
Well, I mean, I think He would want us to be happy. As long as we aren’t doing bad and hurting others, and instead helping when we can, we’re just happy and follow Him... Why would he not prioritize that on some level? I know there are others that need help, but if we can help ourselves... God will only help those who (at least try) help themselves.
How to manifest by "giving up" Step 1: get clear about what you want Step 2: turn over your desire (Release it trusting that its being taken care of.) Say this prayer to turn over your desire "i step back and let the universe lead the way" Step 3: Do everything you can to support the feeling you want
This video came as such a confirmation because so many of the manifesting advice threads that I've been called to lately call on this same principle. Remembering that I am complete, desire originates and returns to me, and lastly I don't have to obsess because the feeling I get thinking of the desire is the same as having it fulfilled. I'm just taking my time now and letting things complete themselves because I've done all I could. If any other inspired action comes up, I'll do it, but other than that I don't have the need to try to force the 3D anymore because it caused unnecessary stress. I can no longer punish myself for "messing up" my manifestation. I know that I am never separate from my ideal experience.
its called detachment and beginners fail on that part for multiple reasons. one of them is how the matrix has programmed people to think and go against how there mind and universe works
1. Stop focusing on much time. 2. Stop noticing your physical environment and subsequently the lack of what you want in physical world. 3.Get comfortable with the state of having what you want. Summary a) stop being desperate/stop trying so hard to manifest your desires. b) stop focusing on time, stop caring about how long it takes. c) stop being aware of the lack in your environment. d) be satisfied with the state feeling what you want.
When it comes to point b) a 40-year-old single woman and a 60-year-old single man are equally frustrated when it comes to finding a soulmate. They find it difficult to deal with the strong urge and the feeling that time is running out.
This makes so much sense. Any time I didn't care too much about something it manifested almost instantly, like the time I wanted peaches and the next day, someone had left a bag of peaches on our doorstep. We hold on to something tightly when we don't believe it is really ours. I love how you broke everything down so easily and it's helpful for reference. Thank you for this video! 🙏🏽❤👑💝🌟🎀
@@bluedaylight1243 when you hold onto something, think about it, it can be because of the fear of losing it, or that we are desperately trying to have it. But when we are certain we already have that thing, we let go and that is how we manifest it into our reality
@@youniverse_astrotarot yeah, the dude who commented before literally proved my point from my original comment lol... If you don't believe you deserve it, your life won't manifest the way you want it...
The truth it is, and nothing less. When I was a child mom used to tell me "cover your mouth with your palms, whisper your wish, hold it in your fists, shake them really well and throw your wish up, to the sky, to the universe, and forget, never think about it again". Thought it was just child's play, turned out to be a lesson on manifesting. Whenever I had to work for something? Never worked out. Busted my butt trying to acquire a new skill, never succeeded. Put in effort to talk to and flirt with my crush, he started dating my classmate. Put myself out there to make friends, didn't click with anyone. Everyone and their mom keeps saying that you need to step out of your comfort zone and be really focused to achieve something, and in my life it has been the complete opposite. Randomly texted a girl who I shared a class with in college, asked to meet up with zero expectations, out of sheer boredom, didn't even think she would agree. We've been best friends for four years now and I've never met a better person in my entire life. Want to buy something and can't find it anywhere? Forget about it for a couple of months and there it is, right in my face. Want to learn Japanese but don't know which course wold be worth taking? Stopped thinking about it and then randomly stumbled on an ad of a course that fit me perfectly - structure, tutors, price. Literally whenever I just throw my wishes out in the air and kind of put them in the back of my head, being only half-conscious of what I want and wish for, it all comes around, sooner or later. Even the most ridiculous things. Like one thing I think I manifested. My college is two stops away from my house. Despite that I've always arrived late. Just a trait of mine, I'm always late. And this one stop in between has always been annoying me. It wasn't that far away from the next one, completely unnecessary by my judgement, made me even more late to class. Sometimes when passing it I used to think 'hate this stop, wish it'd disappear'. A couple of weeks ago, summer break's over, back to school. First day, I'm on the bus, we approach the stop, but keep moving forward. It got demolished.
Your vibe is so sexy and soothing, unique in a world of LOA vloggers focused on speed and status markers rather than kindness and the sensuousness of experience. That presence is honestly half the battle in believing/reminding myself that I can do this too, that I live in a nurturing universe. As a woman who forgot her Yin energy and power when depleted prior to this moment, thank you.
Remember that you don’t attract what you want, you attract who you are. So focus on love. Focus on happiness. Focus on feeling fulfilled and like you already have everything you’ve ever wanted. Focus on gratitude. You are a powerful source of energy. When you do this, you will get what you want because you are in alignment and focusing on all you have instead of a lack. Just know you have everything you have ever wanted. It’s already yours . Be joyful! Sending loving energy to you all. ❤️
That’s just stupid and false. You realistically don’t have what you want otherwise WHY want it?! Who we are is humans with needs so cut the bs it’s not about acting for the fkng universe
lol this is how i met my bf. I realized i needed to stop chasing and forcing connections with people and figured id meet someone who will want ME and treat me how i deserve to be treated. In a moment i decided to just let things work themselves out and literally a week later i met my bf who wanted me and treats me how i deserve and also has been helping me to deeper understand my views on relationships and grow. Let the universe work FOR you guys, your intentions are known and the benefits will find you
This was a really beautiful video, I love how genuine you are. I was having a bit of a ‘breakdown’ trying to manifest health while dealing with pain…and it can be hard at times. Peace usually comes when I stop resisting it, but sometimes it’s just so overwhelming I just want it to stop, so I get frustrated, and that just makes it worse. But I’m learning how to be more patient and compassionate with myself…but when it’s difficult, it’s good to have videos like these that address the need to just stop trying so hard. Thank you for this, much love to you ❤️
This really resonates. When I've had a super specific goal (like related to my business or an SP), I became obsessive and not only did my goal not materialize, but I actually felt like things were getting worse in regards to my goal and my mental state was in shambles. Now I just go general, I imagine scenes that conjure up feelings of love and freedom which I can easily conjure up in the present and most importantly, enjoy the hell out of my life RIGHT NOW.
I can relate to this. When I set specific goals, everything and I mean EVERYTHING goes wrong and even worse. But here is the rub, I have to focus and set goals because I have severe adult adhd. If I dont focus and set goals i'm a mess then fall into the procrastination abyss. I'm so beyond frustrated anynore.
@@1realtruthrightnow742 In your case, it may help to practice setting firm goals with as little attachment as possible. Embark on new projects because it would be cool or a worthwhile learning experience. That way the resistance emanating from desperation eases away more and more.
so when you do all of that, does that specific thing manifest? because it sounds like you are leaving it up for the universe to bring you something that evokes those feelings, and not that thing in particular
"I'm not trying to off myself" I LOVE THAT FOR YOU and I'm so glad you've got to this point in life that you're satisfied and happy with your life bc it's YOUR ideal, even if it's not the ideal everyone else is striving for. Love this message, especially for myself bc so many people strive for things that deep down they don't really want just bc people say that's what you SHOULD want.
i kept basing on people's comments on subliminals, that kept saying "OMG THIS HAPPENED AFTER SOME SECONDS I LISTENED TO THIS AUDIO", basically wanting the same, such as getting results in seconds. still listening to subliminals, but i didn't saw any results. Today i Will literally stop manifesting, i know i deserve everything and since i deserve everything i will give myself everything. Universe knows when and how, but i have to fucking keep living.
Resistance is often met with more resistance but in surrender, there’s infinite power. Thank you for the divine reminder to let go and “find your feeling state of what it feels like to have that thing in your life.” That’s where the power is.
Thank you so much ! This is a sign that I gotta stop! Stop stressing about why is it taking so long and what am i doing wrong that it isn't working. But in reality... By being desperate I'm just blocking the pathways . I've done my part. If it's meant to be. It'll be mine.
I don’t know you but I’m proud of you for overcoming your challenges and becoming the best version of yourself. It is wonderful to see more and more people waking up to the truth.
Law of assumption is way easier to understand than law of attraction, I did so many of these methods when I came across Law of attraction for the first time and this video is amazing ❤️
I was telling my friend this exact same thing today. I was done trying. All it did was stress me out and give me so much anxiety. I became obsessed with my desires that I wasn’t living. I went from feeling ok to not being able to do anything else but the techniques. I decided this week that I put it out there. I’m done trying to force things. It’s time to let it happen naturally. It’s nice to see someone else who felt the same. Thank you for posting this! ❤️
I think we all are in the same boat. You're exhausted, frustrated and then you simply stopped caring for it. I wish for you to get your desire, we all want something and I want to see everyone happy.
I’ve been manifesting something for the past 3 years, and I knew why it wasn’t happening but I was and still am scared that if I let it go/ forgot about it, that it would never happen. I’ve been getting a bit better at detaching from my desires and trusting the universe. Something that’s been helping me is thinking of scenarios that make sense like: If you’re baking cookies they will bake no matter what, but if you keep staring at them it’ll feel like a much longer time than it is. If you distract yourself and do something while they’re baking, you’ll come back to delicious cookies. not the best example but it helps me detach a bit more.
dont give up , I manifested something that took me 4 years . If you are scared to let it go then is kinda like you don't the trust universe . Tbh when I look back I completly forget that I WANTED THAT and when I have what I manifest it well is work
@@CL-si3bkso with my friends we are a big fan of Titanic like a lot, and one day me and my friends we planned like go to see like smth about the Titanic like museum when we are gonna be like super old like 50 ( don't ask me why I was young 😭) and everytime I think about that I doesnt care because I always said in my mind it will happen anyways and then forget it then re think abt it and is an cycles until it happen, ( I never had a bad thought abt that )
@@CL-si3bk so after and my friends we planned that few month later, my parent & their parents like is happened so randomly they said yea were gonna have cruise holidays 1week and unfortunatly covid arrive so it was canceled and I thought I won't have cruise holidays then 3 years later I finally do cruise and then I visit the musueum Titanic with my friend
This is true, I learned this a few months ago. You are supposed to set intentions for what you want & then live as if you already have it. That's called "living in the end".
Love you. As an addict who is almost medication free and been off street drugs 3 years. From homeless to being in college n being with my family; this is truly infinitely better
10:16 you gave me a revelation thank you so much. I often wondered why whenever I receive my manifestations in the physical why I didn’t cry of happiness or get really excited and I would kind of just be like “oh right it’s here now” (in a nonchalant way). But it’s because like you said I already embodied the state the whole time and normalised the feeling of it’s presence even though it was not at the time; hence why it’s showed up so quickly. Wow amazing.
This literally came up right when I was giving up on my manifestation. My instinct kept telling me to surrender... give it up.. stop holding on tightly to your manifestation. Right when I agreed to myself and to source that I would, this video literally came up on my feed. Thank you Chelsea for your amazing words
I did the same thing earlier.. I wrote a letter to source surrendering to the process and when my ego comes up, I tell it “the how and the when isn’t up to us, this has been surrendered” and then this video came up
The problem immediately with trying too hard to manifest is by doing so, it means you don't believe it will come to you. The process isn't a meritocracy, just belief and feeling. Love this video, thank you.
I'm a bit confused sorry I'm slow I listen to sublimails of big eyes and having Navy blue but is it despite to listen to boosters or writing it down like saying " I have big eyes" and " I have Navy blue eyes" and just repeating those words like every two days out of a week? Pls help me manifest better 🥲🙏
you're the only manifesting youtuber I watch at this point everything else is so repetitive with the same advice so I appreciate you so much for these videos
I attempted manifesting before and it seemed to work at first, but the more I became obsessed with it the less it was working. I didn’t know why at first, but now I understand. I’ve been having a hard time lately but this video seems to be the light i needed in order to see through what I truly want. Thank you for this, and good luck to everyone and may all your manifestations come true.
6:10 so true. Desperation comes from a place of anxiety and survival mode. So you'll attract that kind of energy, who are on the same frequency. Focus is clarity, calm and an allowing, nurturing the process. Thank you for your message
i realized that back then, once i figured out about subliminals / manifesting i didn’t know much about it but started frequently listening to cat subliminals because all i talked about was wanting a cat, (specifically black), i didn’t really pay attention but once i stopped listening to them and stop caring it came instantly, and yes it was a black cat
I was awfully egotistical and had a god complex as a child, and whenever I had a crush, my mind would start thinking "I know he likes me." Through this, I absent-mindedly manifested every single person I liked to like me back since primary school, and having spent lots of time with them even though nothing happened between us. (I tend to be more comfortable keeping them friendzoned)
One day I'm going to comment on another one of your videos that 'You saved my life'. Because right now I'm at my low, but somehow your voice, your vids, the whole vibe, it's saving me.
Guys!!!!! Please, please, please!!! Do not let go of your desire!! What letting go means is - letting go of the old story/ unwanted thoughts. And to persist in the new story of what you want!! You want money? Say to yourself I am rich over and over! You want love? Say to yourself I am loved over and over! It’s so simple and ours. We are truly powerful
Love your calming and confident voice ✨. Listened to this video for 2 month ago when my SP left me, I let them go, he came back again out of nowhere. pulled back again. Now changing my self concept and law of assumption. Thank you 🦋
You basically have explained perfectly what I have been thinking lately after a week ago I experienced a disappointment for something I have been soo wanting to manifest but at the last moment things changed completely , which made me cry so much and I gave up. I detached completely for this whish and any other one. I now do things without having any expecation in time or anything. I'm no longer desparate. I leave everything in God's hands after I state my intention. This lowered my anxiety as well.
This video needs to be seen by everyone, practicing the LOA or not. The part where you state stop being aware of the lack in your life, that is so crucial and social media (along with the plethora of influencers) has only made every single person aware of what is lacking in their life along with what they "need" to be happy.
my favorite affirmation to use is it’s already mine / i can have it all. Once you have realize your manifestation is already yours. It’ll come naturally
The feeling state is definitely a video topic I would love to watch. I have moments where I have that feeling then it disappears because of fears and doubt. So my focus is on working on believing in myself and practicing more self love.
I noticed that when I stopped chasing or trying to be in that place that my sp was at, she would just show up in that place I was at or invite to the place that I was already at….I think it’s done. We already love each other. The money I manifested is already here so I know I’m in the right place and manifesting everything I want. 😅
Your vibe is contagious. Thank you, you’ve literally changed the game for me. Get in the feeling detach from how you got the feeling but hold the feeling.
2 minutes in, and I LOVE your vibe/tone/voice/demeanor 🥰 So many LOA/manifestation channels are so high energy - and I get it, it’s good to get hyped up sometimes with this stuff. But it often means I can’t listen to those channels when I’m “stuck” in speedy mode, when I’m trying to sleep, when I’m trying to allow distance between me and another person. This - this, I can listen to. Thank you so much for filling a void I didn’t even realize I had 💖
I am so glad I ran into this video. Finding purpose in life has been so hard for me. I’ve tried as many strategies as I have came across to find joy in my everyday life. I am still in the process of finding that peace and fulfillment that my soul longs for, but I am so glad that I ran into this video. Power and love to you!
My advice to find your purpose: Just follow joy. If you enjoy things, you are on right path. I was almost obsessed about my purpose, but then I heard that my purpose is just live life that looks like me. So I try to follow what makes me happy.
I truly believe in manifestation as you attract what you think. I finally started my RU-vid journey and creating the life I want. This was a good reminder for myself and others, keep up the great work.
I love this explanation of manifestation! Honestly, I feel a little called out in this video. I do tend to try to rush my manifestations by more work and less being and accepting. Thank you for this video!
i am really blessed to have found u .U are such a great explainer and every video is so heart calming and filled with warmth , it literally lifts off all the confusions and are reallly really really helpful. I feel like you are my manifestation as a guide on this journey. Thanku so much for everything.God bless your beautiful soul.Angel.
I felt in a trance watching this video. Like I was in an old soul coffee club or cafe with the lights dim and the record playing smooth jazz and no hand claps only snaps of approval and you get drawn into what the storyteller is saying and It’s just smooth. I was Captivated the whole listen. 🧘♀️
Why did this get recommended to me at the perfect time? I was about to give up on manifesting, because things weren’t manifesting, but then my mother gave me a deep talk a couple minutes ago, and now I want to be even more intentional about manifesting. I was always so focused on the thing, and not the person I needed to be to have it. So now I’m gonna focus on specifically my self concept so that things can magnetize to me.
00:52 , I think this quite often. My life may not seem very extravagant to others, but based on what I've lived through I am truly living a dream. I was speaking to my husband the other day about capitalism and how maybe we'll just rent forever and save/invest the money we manifest. If the big cars and houses fall out of the sky, that's fine...but I'm so over the chasing. It just doesn't align with me anymore. Thank you for saying this, because I think it's important that we let people know that they have permission to unlearn. We're allowed to release the expectation that success and abundance look exactly the same for everyone. Love you bby. Okay...let me get back to watching lol.
“ Coming from where Ive come from, where I am now, is INFINITELY BETTER” .. something about that statement is everything I need to hear in order for me to be ok with where I am now. And help me let go and agree with however life wants to manifest what I desire on its own pace, and if it’s meant to be welcomed in my life on its own time. no need to force it to come, or to control the outcomes.
I found myself talking back to this video, as if I were having a conversation with you 😂 especially the part where you said, it’s funny that when you finally get your desire, you don’t really feel different because you’ve already been living in that feeling of having what you want; to which my response was exactly! 💜
She's right. It's called The Art of Not Giving A Fuck. That planting a seed analogy was excellent and very true. Like Neville Goddard said, live calmly as though you have it already and it will appear when you least expect it. The trick is don't expect it.
Very true. Love this video. Personally, affirming, visualizing and other methods never really worked for me. It only made me more desperate and made me chase things. Now I’m just letting go, detaching from outcome, relaxing more, focusing on myself and things have moved much more than ever before. Trying implies we don’t have the thing we want. Need means we currently lack something. That’s why I’ve stopped doing manifesting techniques and just believe in the universe having my back whilst staying as calm and relaxed as possible without trying to fight anything, just go with the flow. Aaron Doughty has many videos on this, too. Game changer.
@@kamiennykamien9578Just saw your reply a year after my comment. I agree with you, I feel like Aaron is one of the few that actually get how energy works and feels and why detaching hasn’t got anything to do with giving up your desire but actually allowing it to come 😊
All of this video was the most important part 🥺. You have definitely touched me! 💕 I feel like I’m obsessed with manifestation I can’t look at anything that isn’t affirmations or frequency music 😭. I’m going to let go and live in the moment.
I really see you as a role model. People that have a WAY TOO PERFECT life can't be role models because they are too far away. You are a real person with actual goals. I understand you because sometimes we just want to manifest being mentally and financialy stable, be healthy.
I cannot emphasise enough on this. i have been trying hard to manifest love in my life, I listened to guided meditation few times, started being more social met new people, went on dates but either people only wanted casual or open relationships. I was tired of all of it and just all of a sudden decided I don't want love in my life. I thought to myself to focus on my health, family and career. And Boom! Next day I got a text from a guy from Tinder. We hit off and man it's the best relationship ever... He is kind, generous, loyal and is obsessed with me. He talks about marriage and future and how he is in love with me
I've been having a rough day and in a very 'lack' mindset and then this video pops up on my recommended, thank you!! I most definitely needed to hear and be reminded of this!!
This is absolutely right! All of my awesome manifestations have occurred when I’m not obsessing over them! Wow! I’ve just accepted this fact into my personal reality! Like my husband says, just be cool! 😎
Here's an interesting thing I've discovered. If you have no idea what it feels like to have what you want, create an alter ego of someone who has what you want. Then imagine being that person. Give them a name, maybe a nickname of yours or a completely different name. It can also be someone who you admire or look up to who has what you want. Taking a breath and feeling into what it's like to be that person can make you shift really easily. You might feel it in the way you speak, walk or think. If you find yourself triggered by someone or something ask yourself "how would "person/my ideal self" react? What would they feel?" And then shift yourself into that energy. You might wonder how you can tell that it's working but I assure you, your vibe will immediately and noticably change.
Dear person whoever reading this, we may not know each others but I wish you all the best in life ! Stop blaming yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious 🥰 All the keys of happiness is in your hands, so open it up 🔒🔑🔓
I’ve given up on the idea of manifesting. I’m just doing the best I could in the 3D by taking the right action and becoming more aware of any negative notions of how worthy I am of my desires
@@mswhunter118 yes but you want to also understand that being fixated on how or when etc will create resistance and not help with being in a flow state rather than stagnancy/expectation/resistance
@@SM999 once you shift to your desired state, that is completely unnecessary. That’s spending time trying to figure out an old state you no longer want to occupy. Once you move out of a house, do you go back spending time cleaning it? Shift your state and your thoughts change with it.
I 100% agree with what you're saying! I believe that all the manifestation daily "techniques" taught on internet will only contribute to creating resistance and create a bigger gap between yourself and your desire. Letting go is literally the answer to getting what you want ❤
I totally agree and I had that epiphany recently too. The more "effort " and awareness on lack of what is using techniques to get what we want just reinforces that it isn't already here instead of trusting, letting go, feeling it as real, and understanding "it's already done"!!! The harder we try and force just reinforces lack of trust and belief with resistance.
To me "Let it go" is "putting it at the back of my head" and or "fire and forget". I do every technique until its exhausting or it feels empty then putting it at the back seat and forget about it. After that I use the Buddhism philosophy of balanced life by moving on to other things and subjects that I have interest through LOVE & GRATITUDE manifesting (is like starting all over but different subject same techniques). To me is loving and gratitude for my family, their well being including relatives, friends, loving my job, life, health etc. This keeps my fire burning longer. If I feel everything is burnt out, I go into the sabbath and just relax and not lift anything and let life goes on as is with no worries. I hope it helps 🙏
I've never seen any of your videos before. I found this one very helpful! I had been feeling desperate about manifesting and trying really hard to manifest. I had been focusing on how long it was taking and noticing the state of lack 🤣. Lately, I thought, "Maybe I've trying too hard." I prayed and asked for guidance and lo and behold, there was your video! I am grateful to you and your work. Close your eyes, fall in love, and stay there--that's what I'll be doing from now on.
Watching this I realized that I have so much emotions and trauma to process before I can get to that point. Just letting myself go, being more decisive with what I want, releasing all negativity and self doubt, and allowing myself to feel like i deserve things, feels like such a hurdle for me. Now I've caught myself yet again, being negative 😅
I feel like I’m resisting everything, and I’m not in the “flow” of life. I’m too aware and conscious. Your recent timeline sounds so similar to mine, and I’m curious to hear more about how you overcame things and how things changed. It sounds like you overcame depression and were also able to exercise more // overcome health barriers. This is amazing. I wish I could hear more about all of it. Thank you for sharing your story and your methods
