When Keith is NOT Invited | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 205

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We talk about when it's okay to bring your partner vs. when you should leave them at home. Plus, 2nd Try's Finance woman lays down the law.
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YOU CAN SIT WITH US
We're your new best friends. In our weekly podcast we dive into female friendships, current events, and what's going on in our lives. Come sit with us, and enjoy!
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Executive Producer | Keith Habersberger
Executive Producer | Eugene Lee Yang
Executive Producer | Zach Kornfeld
Podcast Producer | Rainie Toll
Audio Engineer | Jonathan Kirk
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@brittanyjeffries1613 21 день назад

Well ladies, it’s Tuesday. That means it’s time for ‘You Can Sit With Us’ and fold laundry with a glass of wine

@jtkelley1873 16 дней назад

And gays!

@ES.Evergreen 21 день назад

I follow an etiquette idea that you rebuff someone's offer twice and if they still insist you let them pay, do the task, or whatever the situation is.

@robo7643 21 день назад

I hate when older relatives refuse to let you pay them back for something 😭 like let me give you gas money

@EeRR19 21 день назад

Not me standing here in Mexican 🇲🇽. Our weddings, baby showers etc are pretty large so thank you notes are not done. Having said that you have to say thank you to anyone you see who attended if you see them within 5 business years 🤣🤣

@lovemycharlene 21 день назад

Filipinos too. 🇵🇭You get to take extra food home to eat, favors and whatever decor flowers /balloons at the party 😂 and the host will thank you a billion times when they leave the party and ask if they can take more food home with them😂

@BeroKyandi 14 дней назад

I didn't even know half the guests at my Singaporean wedding 😅they RSVPed by word of mouth too so I don't even know how I would thank them

@whereyoubean 21 день назад

Here in the Philippines, “thank you” notes per person are not necessary. They just post their wedding photos on facebook (our solo and group photos included) and just thanked everyone who came. For me, that’s fine 😂

@brynnleighweaver1682 21 день назад

I feel the same way about bringing an S.O. to places and events. The only time I would be upset that my bf isn’t invited is if everyone else’s bf is invited.

@tiffaninye6281 20 дней назад

This might be unpopular but I don’t want a thank you card, ever, for anything lol. I don’t want something I’m just going to throw away and I know you appreciate the gift. I give the gift with zero expectations and often say please don’t send me a thank you lol

@_sammydb 21 день назад

Would it be crazy to ask that YCSWU and guilty pleasures be added to the 2nd try app? It’s nice to have everything in one place

@jmason1770 21 день назад

Zach said if there's enough of a demand YCSWU will be on 2nd Try TV. I don't remember if he said that about Guilty Pleasure too.

@kirraa3191 21 день назад

I need the unfiltered version asap

@petravanbommel9877 20 дней назад

Yes please!

@petravanbommel9877 20 дней назад

Yes as in I would like it too, not that it's crazy lol

@apatel62889 18 дней назад

Please I pay so much for so much everywhere else! I’d like to enjoy some free content on the usual day I come to watch this podcast! Please everything monetized is insane!

@Sakana_Ren 21 день назад

Partner be like: "my ears are ringing. I know they are talking smack about me.' lol 🤣

@FlagCutie 21 день назад

Uh oh! What did Keith do to get uninvited? 😂

@caitiemantie2479 21 день назад

It blows my mind that there’s no e-transfer in the states

@Sg-de9wo 20 дней назад

Wait, really? Thanks for educating me!

@simonsaysism 18 дней назад

They also mostly don't have tap to pay, and also at restaurants they generally bring you 1 bill and expect everybody to sort it out amongst themselves. I was so surprised to learn all the ways they're behind in terms of financial transactions.

@caitiemantie2479 18 дней назад

@@simonsaysism yea i dont understand why they cant split bills. I also dont like how they take your credit card away when you pay like why cant you pay at your table

@TheEminemfan10 21 день назад

The “C” word is the WORST! 2nd would be the “P” word. 😂

@katie18976 21 день назад

Agreed

@stephearley3141 21 день назад

Ok I think they've been more entertaining and have better conversations when they have guests

@whereyoubean 21 день назад

I agree but i guess, the topic they chose today is very ‘conversational’ than the others. They should pick this kind of topic next time.

@tyrseaarg 20 дней назад

I think a lot of this is down to culture because I’ve never sent a thank you note, and I’ve never received one in turn for any holiday, wedding, and various shower gifts + if we aren’t fighting over the bill it’s also considered rude lol

@TM.BECK14 19 дней назад

Same, and I'm even from the American Midwest lol. I occasionally get them from "well-to-do" or older acquaintances tho.

@whereyoubean 21 день назад

Devin and Becky is like sister from another mothers!

@clewless_kitty 12 дней назад

Omg Becky mentioning 10th kingdom. That felt like such a fever dream 😅 sometime all i can remember from there it a talking pearl ring😂😂😂

@tgilbs 21 день назад

Loved the 10th Kingdom shoutout! Brought me back. My friend thought she fully hallucinated this show for like a solid 10 years before we were like, no that was a real show! Apparently her dad told her she made it up!

@ato1120 21 день назад

Also came to say I LOVED the 10th kingdom!! My husband and I found it on prime and he watched for the first time with me during lockdown. ❤️ now he gestures that he’s rowing a boat every time he hears the BeeGees 😂

@0509kristine 21 день назад

I loved the 10th Kingdom. I used to watch it all the time.

@TheTfroggy912 21 день назад

I haven’t thought about Family Matters and Urkle is long. Just found it on Hulu! Let the binge begin.

@davidnorris8852 21 день назад

Thanks again Girlies!

@ofthenearfuture 21 день назад

Straight man checking in 😬

@MmeViper 18 дней назад

ATMs have cameras y'all lmao

@katie18976 21 день назад

Loved this episode! 🥰❤

@beatrixbelden1584 13 дней назад

I got my little nephew a real cordless stick vacuum for Christmas one year, it was his favorite toy (and useful 😁)

@emilyjohannes7007 20 дней назад

We didn’t send wedding thank yous to anyone but the grandparents, since they’re the only ones who really cared. And we’re from the Midwest 😅

@TM.BECK14 19 дней назад

Same

@alysonbuchholz2841 19 дней назад

I'm not from the Midwest, but my mom instilled in my from a very young age to always send a thank you note! To also be specific about what I'm thanking them for and not just a general thank you, lol!

@Ian-yw8fc 21 день назад

Bad gifts I’ve been given: maternity clothes while struggling with infertility

@whereyoubean 21 день назад

Keith and Zach would love to hang out with Devin’s dad 😂

@_ohhalexx 19 дней назад

The 10th Kingdom is a must see!!

@SteffyDee 21 день назад

I loved the 10th Kingdom! I would rent it all the time at Blockbuster.

@dragonstarspirit 20 дней назад

Omg! I can't believe Becky has seen the 10th kingdom!! I watched it every weekend as a kid. My grandma bought it on vhs thinking it was some religious something or other, it was on 6 vhs tapes! And as a poor kid with no cable in the boonies, I loved it sooo much. I got it on dvd when I was about 25. It is streaming on the roku channel I believe. I rewatched it last year when I had the covid, and there were scenes that were not on the vhs edition. Considering it was almost 8 hrs on vhs, I'm surprised that there was another 2 hrs in the full made for tv edition. This has clearly unlocked a core memory for me lol

@alondra9974 20 дней назад

I have NEVER received thank you for formal events lol. this is a white person thing guys...

@TM.BECK14 19 дней назад

A middle-class+ white person thing, for sure

@alondra9974 18 дней назад

@@TM.BECK14 yup yup agreed lol

@pollenbeau8917 20 дней назад

It feels weird to hear that thank you card is an etiquette must in the US because in my country its not really heard of 🤣 plus wedding guests can sometimes go into the thousand since we practically invite everyone we know; old school friends, coworkers and neighbors included from both sides of the family, i cant imagine writing thank you notes for that many people 😅

@TM.BECK14 19 дней назад

I'm in the US (from the Midwest even) but my family and people I knew never did thank you cards for anything. But we were poor and I feel like it was always the "expected" etiquette in middle class or richer families.

@chemgirl1331 21 день назад

8:00 just reminding y'all, sometimes ♿️ folks need their partners with them bc they're their primary caretakers. Most of the time, if we have an issue & need to leave the function early, we don't want you to be impacted by it or have to be "burdened" by getting us home. YES, alternative sitches can be arranged around, but health is unpredictable most of the time. This attitude is literally why so many of us ♿️ folks don't have friends that "tolerate" our health conditions. We know it sucks--we live with it on a daily basis. Really wishing Maggie was on this episode. Normally she's pretty insightful for this kind of stuff, especially having a ♿️ partner & her background.

@mayab4326 19 дней назад

That’s not really what they were talking about. Obviously, as with anything there will be exceptions.

@spoonfulofsalt 18 дней назад

That's true, but there should be communication ahead of time, even if it's just a "hey guys, my partner may need to come with me last minute sometimes. I'll do my best to shoot you a text when I need them with me." In some situations, a partner could also be nearby but not directly involved in the "outing." It's not unusual for me and my mom to do it that way 🙂

@maia8401 21 день назад

10th Kingdom is available for free on The Roku Channel right now!

@samanthaarana2960 19 дней назад

I feel the complete opposite way about venmo. I still use it because some people do, but we are grown and we are not trying to wait for our money or pay fees. Zelle is the move

@ninahelena266 18 дней назад

why does Devin have the same dad as I do LOL... Parents are 11 years apart and he is 73.. when he graduated uni he went to the Navy(Canadian) he travelled the world, has a bunch of crazy stories and was also a salesman

@ten-hx2xi 21 день назад

YAYAYY DEVIN I LOVE HER SHES SO FUNNY!!!!! SHES MY QUEEN IN TANDUM W BECKY AND MAGS❤

@carriewilkinson8315 21 день назад

For my bridal shower on the invite we said in lieu of thank you cards we would be making a donation to breast cancer.

@StargazerApril 19 дней назад

I ghosted a dude almost 10 years ago and he still tries to hit me up...I've blocked him on everything and he still finds a way at least once a year...

@suz6191 21 день назад

10th Kingdom! 💜💜💜💜

@whereyoubean 21 день назад

Aww Emma. RIP girlie 59:39

@silvercookies 20 дней назад

I got a lot of money accidentally sent to my bank account a few years back. I immediately notified the bank because I knew someone had sent it to my account in error. It was COVID times, and people were being allowed to withdraw a large portion of their pensions in advance to help with finances cause no one could work, so I knew that was someone's pension money.

@Heydoesanybodywannalaugh 19 дней назад

Late comment here: for the husband that doesn’t pick up, treat him like you do with multiple cats: many litter boxes = many hampers. So there’s no excuse, put the hampers where it’s convenient to him when he’s changing!!

@Mouse-lm9mc 10 дней назад

10th Kingdom mention, I stg I have NEVER heard anyone talk about it!

@ellieisanerd 18 дней назад

Wow, I have way more in common with Devin than I expected.

@marsharehm5599 21 день назад

Yes, thank you notes….

@paulami1158 21 день назад

When is Devin's dad invited to the podcast.

@jessicamorken5186 17 дней назад

Devin needs to be on perfect person

@Sarah-cs3id 20 дней назад

I have 12 piercings. I’d say the industrial is the worst since it’s 2 piercings and takes a year to heal. Lobes and cartilage were easy. Daith gets infected easy. Conch not too bad.

@rebeccabrooks556 15 дней назад

I’m big on if I wasn’t invited then I wouldn’t go but my fiancé’s family and friends tell me all the time that we are one so if one is invited then so it the other

@emmaliehandley9090 20 дней назад

1. I agree with Matt on the ghosting thing, if you get to the point of a real in person date, don’t ghost. Doesn’t need to be a whole thing but like just nice to get the official close out. Of course I hated ghosting when I was dating so 🤷‍♀️ 2. Thank you’s while nice are unnecessary to me. I always felt like if someone expected a thank you note (to the point where they got petty about it) they didn’t give the gift out of kindness but to get kudos for doing it. 3. I agree with Devin! I hate the word 🐱it just makes me feel icky and something about it feels like violent no matter who uses it or why. I don’t mind the C word though, I think that one’s fun and has a different vibe.

@emmaliehandley9090 20 дней назад

(There are exceptions obviously but I think people rely to heavily on it sometimes)

@rebeccaq7291 19 дней назад

Don’t get your ears pierced at Claire’s 😅. They use a piercing gun and you can’t sterilize those so that’s probably why infections are common from there. Go to a piercing shop and get it done by a professional. You need to use a hollow sterilized needle and the right earring.

@alondra9974 20 дней назад

Change the metal, i use ONLY 316L life changing. I have plenty of cartilage never had pain.

@ShebRaee 21 день назад

Huh? Never thought they looked alike till this video! They def look they could be related at the very least. Edit: The piercing chat made me cringe so much 🥲 I have so many right now and I couldn't imagine doing any of that stuff to any piercing at any time. Hands down, nipples are the worst I've gotten done. But only really one hurt and they BURN afterwards. I don't think the burning sensation went away for a few hours.

@__iTimmayy 19 дней назад

I always thought Devin (sp?) looks like she could be Becky's sister, and then hearing that she's also from the mid-west - it's too much of a coincident!

@julinelson1775 21 день назад

I am a midwestern girl too and you have to do specific thank you if you want another gift from me in life. I hate cursing and frankly far more effective if you only do it once in a while. If you do eyes get wide & they stop and really listen to you.

@saucysoprano 21 день назад

Loophole: if you get the ability to talk to/understand all animals, you'll understand all human languages as well because humans are animals too! 🙌🎉

@megster5432 15 дней назад

I have six holes in each of my ears and my daith was by far the worse. My cartilage is thick, been told by multiple piercers but it was by far the worst

@marsharehm5599 21 день назад

Just be honest………❤

@marsharehm5599 21 день назад

Matt is definitely the smartest human participating in this conversation, sorry not sorry people!!❤

@marsharehm5599 20 дней назад

Hate both words……neither are really necessary…..

@xxAlexixx88 21 день назад

Y’all I’m getting major PTSD from this episode… I asked my two besties, C + H, to go out to dinner to celebrate C’s bday & then C asked if she could bring her husband… super lame AND THEN when the bill came, H offered to cover C & her husband, so we ended up having to PAY FOR HER HUSBAND’S MEAL AS WELL. Girl time is sacred & if you don’t get that, I don’t wanna be there anymore lol

@kelseyp600 21 день назад

That’s exactly was PTSD is. Nailed it

@xxAlexixx88 21 день назад

@@kelseyp600thank you! 😘

@bug.me.with.a.caterpie 21 день назад

2nd try podcasts are just brainrot at this point.

@amybisme 21 день назад

🙄

@JacobGrippenMusic 21 день назад

Then go away.

@MissGhostface 21 день назад

Literally any podcast that's not touted as an educational podcast is brain rot, all entertainment technically is brain rot. What are you even talking about? You didn't say anything here, you just pointed out the obvious.