The saddest part is that it was a black cop dealing with a black child, treating his minor infraction that children do as if he was an adult who was doing something unimaginable On the flip side, and clown world, when a full-grown adult shoots at the police and then gets killed, the same community treats it as if he was just a child who didn't know any better. Now the way does poor child was treated, he'll probably grow up to be another statistic because now he'll have this memory of police just being assholes
That first clip was WILD. The kid was five! He probably doesn't understand half of what these cops are telling him. And then they encourage the mom to beat him? And to not leave any marks? That is so messed up. That child is traumatized for life.
And they also called him a bad child. That kids going to grow up and do whatever he wants, thinking "what does it matter, I'm a bad child anyway". That's the kind of shit that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy Those are the kind of police they need to get off the force or at the very least not let them have anything to do with dealing with children
If I was 5 years old and being yelled at and berated by police like those 2 were, I'd be traumatized. They acted like the 5 year old child was a 12 delinquent who sold drugs and got into trouble.
7 years into the future yes he would get arrested for selling drugs and got into truble with multiple more charges against him if he kept that behavior widouth being disiplined
@@arcadontapapafrita2347You can be disciplined without being berated. He was a 5 year old kid who didn't know it was wrong. Punishment should occur but it could be a good lesson for the kid rather than scare him.
That last clip: if kids are that desperate to get away from a foster home, that is a RED FLAG that that foster home needs to be investigated. I survived an abusive foster home myself. This is not "bad kid" behavior, this is "terrified kid" behavior.
it seems the police in the us dont want to do stuff other than arresting offenders or chase DUIs. i guess it is easier to handle for poor educated cops than investigate a family for abuse
@@paleofolkI don’t know if we should listen to someone who gets this triggered over opinions in a RU-vid video. “Don’t ever call the cops. See how that works out.” What the fuck ever, dude. Imagine taking RU-vid comments this autistically serious lol
The cops put handcuffs on the kid it was only for showing him how its feels. Sometimes you need to do what you need to do when it goes that far. I was seriously frustrated when I heard a 5 YEAR OLD did that!
@goat0472 at that age you aren’t even fully conscience. You are doing actions for survival. So there was probably some abusive type stuff that was motivating his only survival instincts to escape.
Thank god some people actually realize this. Even if a kid is spoiled, you can discipline them in other ways that don't require getting physical (which when it happened to me as a kid, it escalated into abuse). My stepfather grounded me when I did something wrong, he knew my biological father abused me so he refused to hit me. I turned out alright. People who say that the only way to discipline a child is by physically harming them obviously don't know that it can escalate to actual abuse. My biological father spanked me, it quickly escalated to him beating me with shoes and throwing his shoes at me. He even put out cigarettes on my head, with the burn scars still here albeit healed now. My past is why I won't get physical with disciplining my children when I have kids of my own. I'll ground them, take away certain privileges, or just talk with them. I'd rather not have my own kids fear me because it makes me no better than my biological father in my eyes
@@asquadron20yes. Beating your children is absolutely child abuse. I could see like, spanking kids for misbehaving but full on beating children is child abuse at that point.
The first clip is absolutely disturbing. None of them asked him why he didn’t want to go to school, because there’s clearly a reason. Is it bullying? He’s 5. How is it so hard to exercise compassion when it comes to people, especially children? If it were me, I would’ve knelt down and introduced myself and then asked him for his name, and then continue to ask him questions on why he tried to run away from school. He would’ve opened up more, and gave more information. Edit: I hope that many of you in the replies don’t reproduce. We have enough horrible parents out there. I’m all for spanking your child when necessary. But sometimes kids need for you to talk to them, especially when they’re only 5 years old.
@@funnystranger3380 I think you need to rewatch the video.. The female cop said "We want you to beat him" and "You don't go to jail for beating your child. Don't use a weapon, but you can smack that butt repeatedly." That is WAY more than "Just a tap on the bottom" as you put it... I'm all for disciplining/spanking a child when needed and honestly more parents really should, but what she said was extremely out of line for a police officer to say.
@DarkWolf77 be careful, bro.... if someone reports your comment, can you get a warning you said the b word.. and yes, they don't like the but with an extra t word That why I said tap on the button.. worded wrong, but... but that is what she meant not to take a belt and go crazy
When I was a kid, about 20 years ago, my mum used to be close friends with a cop that lived across the street. I don't remember what I did, but one night I was acting up and being stubborn so she called him for a favor. He came over in his uniform and found me hiding under my bed. He slowly stomps his way beside the bed, sticks the light under it and says "Get your ass out of there and I mean right now". He sits me in the car with the cuffs on, talking about how bad children can get sent away. It's just one of those memories that stuck with me.
@@sroydetroy6404 So you never got a spanking your asking him how it with his mom well tells me your mom gave in and did not do a proper job cause my parents even grandparents tell you growing up I would never act cause I knew I get my tail whooped and please do not sit here and ask me that question I love my parents and grandparents relationship is doing well
Help the black community by teaching him a lesson? Be berated by the same community you're trying to help. Then act surprised when blacks act out. Sad.
I Agree With You, that cop was in the wrong and to the kids credit, a lot of people learn more Useful Stuff outside of school than inside school, Lord Knows I Did. The problem with school is that they teach you stuff that you Never Ever Use In The Real World, if they taught us stuff like being an adult and how to live after you start living on your own it would be useful but it's just all this useless crap that you don't even use in your freaking life. The only things people really use from school are the basics from elementary school and that's it past elementary school is mostly Useless.
@@NoonMight Bro, is 5 he doesn't know the rules too well. It is rare for a child to do that but not uncommon. And bro he might not have the logic of an adult 💀💀💀💀
Of course the police & school were wrong in the case of the 5 year old. They terrorized that kid. The parents won a settlement with the county schools & police. Police procedures were changed & cops retrained.
All they did was bring him in, tell the parent to discipline, and put one of his arms in cuffs as an example of what’s going to happen when you do crimes. I don’t agree with the “make your own decisions” part but was what he was doing that bad? I’m confused
@@footballfan_editzare you kidding me? He is a five year old. They are screaming at him and scaring him. Threatening him that they’re gonna arrest him eventually like he can even understand that?? Then tell the mother to beat him in FRONT of that poor baby.
@Grag235 it how nature works, bro... you learn mosley at a young age. Humans are animals. we learn from rememberable moments.. moments like getting hurt, emotional moments being scared... it a human/animal nature not to listen to words/sounds. Words do not prevent issues. actions do something you can look back on and determine if it was a good ideal. Like spanking or a punishment of some short no phone, no TV stuck in a room or not being spoiled for a week... People act like one mistake boom huge spanking that not what happening.. the spankings come after muiple words said.... for most kids who get raised with no discipline of some short, they are not going to have a single ideal. Why he shouldn't take that cookie. He got a cookie and got a mouthful of words... what preventing him from doing it again
@joshualonsdale-rq2lz I was spanked a lot... if you mean beat as spanking.... But you mean literally hit slammed into stuff constantly hit. No I haven't.
People should be worried about being punished for their actions, but if they're scared of YOU because of something so small, then you're not doing your job right.
I'm a single father of two boys, that first clip pissed me off to no end. He came up screaming and yelling and threatening the child. Telling him he's bad and wrong and telling mom he needs a beating. You gotta be patient like you're dealing with a small drunk person. Don't treat kids like they are stupid because they are small. Show respect and patience and try to have him explain why he thought leaving was the best option.
You must coddle the shit out of your kids. The woman (mother) even said “this is my youngest i’m starting over and he is very spoiled” there are things I understood at 5 that I did would earn me a belt to the backside (Caribbean household) if the officers didn’t do that I guarantee you kid would end up exactly where they said he would in the future. Little bit narcissistic on your part to think what may work for your children will work for others.
"I'm 41yrs old" "I'm older than you so ur age means nothings" 3:01 that's all the information you need the freaking AUDACITY OF THIS COP. not to mention how much she wanted that kid to be beaten defiantly shouldn't be near ANY child imo
@@XxSLENDERSlender Beating your kids is not discipline, it's abuse. If you have to resort to abuse because you can't discipline your child, then you've obviously failed as a parent.
The man in the first case is the definition of a Karen Edit: The cops encouraged the parents to beat their child and even told them ways to beat the child that aren’t criminal. Not Karen enough?
HEY! That’s racist! I agree that arresting a five year old is wrong but saying that just because someone said something makes them black!? I’m white but I don’t go around saying that!!
Restraining a minor who clearly isn’t cooperating is one thing, but anyone who says “You don’t go to prison for beating your child” needs serious professional help
she meant a butt tap and you know it.......... my God you're pathetic. You need serious help if you couldn't comprehend she wasn't talking about abuse, she even clarified in the video.
She’s talking about spanking. She clarifies by saying that you don’t use a weapon or any other kind of beating (because it’s illegal) but you can spank a child legally.
@@near5148If you see a problem with regular normal spanking you’re obviously not a parent, or if you are… I don’t want to know what your children are like.
The last clip was definitely wild. If his parents were there, they could actually sue the department for various reasons. The police cannot do that if they have a reason for small charges like that, they can’t do that but she can sue and department can fire him, but they didn’t do anything.
Everyone pissed me off in the first video. It's a bunch of adult children trying to teach a child that running away is wrong, but in the most immature way possible. No concern over why the child may be doing this, nope. Instead they lash out and scare the crap out of the kid. Encouraging the parent to beat their child instead.
@@notadoge8178there should be a focus on the why, but you can’t have kids out on the street alone in broad daylight. Its asking for trouble these days.
@nickrogers3624 yea, but the way that officer was like to the kid was so fucking unnecessary. like i get it, having a kid roaming around in the streets is pretty bad, but still. there is a semi truck worth of way to handle this situation better than the officer did.
The first case almost makes me physically sick. The way the adults are justifying child abuse is INSANE to me. Edit: not saying you shouldn't discipline your kid. Totally for it and I agree with spanking. But they say to BEAT the kid. There is wholly a difference between discipline and BEATING.
children like that need dicipline. me personally, i agree with the officers, my parents used to hit me a lot when i made bad choices and now i'm a good person
@@silent4198yeah kids need discipline, but not being traumatised, that might make him scared of cops (and not want to listen to them(or just scared this is one of the options))
That parent of the teen with alcohol is the reason I left elementary education. The parents blame everyone else and non tenured administrators cater to them.
I'm sorry for describing it this way, but the black lady officer, when she said "but you can smack that butt repeatedly" reminded me SOOO much of my parents. And yes, I fully agree that corrective smack was COMPLETELY earned by my part, 1 or 2hrs later, when the situation was defused, there was always this talk: "Do you know why I punished you? I did what I did because you did XYZ". Never did the same mistake twice, but managed to do other ones. My mom had an AIMBOT when it came to throwing sandals. They did the right thing, I like to think I'm a productive member of society. On the other hand, unless there is a clear cut, straight up medical emergency, we still check them for signs of physical abuse, be it a high fever call (parents get worried, and although I'm not a parent, I understand them) or a broken arm. By law, any emergency personnel has to disclose suspicions of physical or mental abuse in children when they enter the hospital, since the ER has better equipment and people specifically trained for those situations.
The problem is the parenting or lack there of!!! I say not because I am a mother of 4 but I needed guidance during my teen years as well. As a mother, Love and consequences goes a long way! I sure hope these parents and children change their path✝️🤗
excuses just becaus its a kid and not an adult kids dont like going to school they dont like waking up early and doing work listening to teachers all day 13 years later you wouldnt make excuses for him
I say its appropreate. After all pedos, murders, kidnappers ect. do exist. If the 5 year old excapes school agein and someone like that finds him. Its unlikely the mother will every see that child after. So this is to scare the kid into staying in school. Idk about you but I had a friend who was my best friend in middle school who walked away on her own. She went missing for a couple of months only for her body to be found with no head. Still think the kid should go on his own?
@@onemanoneperpes1119You know what beating does? Silence. Trauma. Sneakiness. That child won’t stop just cause she beats him, that will simply just make him more isolated and more likely to just become better at hiding and lying about it. Yall are disgusting for saying that a 5 year old who has barely learned right and wrong deserves and should be beaten.
@@onemanoneperpes1119someone who understands why this was needed, finally. Could things have been handled slightly better? Yes. Was it necessary to do something? Also yes
My kids wouldn't even consider doing any of this. I have never spanked my kids because i dont believe in hitting/spanking my kids when i dont punch disrespectful ignorant adults either when they act childish. Words work fine along with consequence and being truthful with my kids about situations and consequences of them.
those cops have no business whatsoever to be anywhere near a school or children again. shouting at a child like that, and then encourage beating the child is disgusting!
"How do you learn that type of behavior at 5?" Um...have you met a five year old? When i was five i wandered away from my teacher and classmates cuss i didn't want to go back to class until i got caught 😂
That first one was pretty insane. I get that the officers probably meant disciplining the kid primarily using spanking, but hearing cops tell a mother to beat her 5 year old child for ditching school is crazy to hear.
@@Peoplepease Nah how about I call 47 to deal with you you shouldn't be able to walk this planet if you think a 5 year old knows why not to walk outside the
I agree with op here, I don’t know why the people here are saying that the mom should go to prison, I also just want to say this has nothing to do with race, as both the victim and officer are black.
I live in Montgomery County, and I did not know to police department treats 5 year olds like this! Very trauma TO ME, I can’t trust my Law Enforcement anymore.
2:39 if you hit your child then it is child abuse. No argument. This is the problem with countries like the US who believe that providing physical discipline, no matter how little, cannot cause permanent mental damage to children in the long term. we don't live in the middle ages anymore we know about mental health. We have to use other methods. Show the police said this to a foster parent in my country like they lost their job the same day, and going to court.
You aren’t the only one. I do health and social care and this is disgusting and disheartening, the amount of people who don’t see a problem is so concerning.
@@ShadowIsABabythere were problems but its a tricky situation. Kid should not be out on the streets jn broad daylight alone. Scaring him straight might help with that since the parent is not parenting. But there should also be a focus on why this happened. Bullying? Bad parenting? Etc. maybe cps should get involved? Its a bad situation that while not perfectly handled, needed to be done imo.
@@bromanshark3606their not wrong even tho the child left the school they were supposed to be more gentle to him because he was a kid and was probably scared and why would they tell the mom he beat her child
@ActuallyBonnie mean only disagreement was encouraged mom beat her child that her decision how discipline her kid Yelling everything, geez. I felt the world is soft ya feel bad for this kid at 5. I knew better what wrong min my family or adult told me it wrong or well get beat Then handcuff just showing him how his future like since he running away at 5
@@nokina3 So essentially what your moron self is saying is 5 year olds have fully developed brains you drunk nobody even remembers anything about when they were 5
What those cops said at 2:38 was an absolute disgrace, saying that a 5 year old child has to be beat. God forbid a child doesn’t like school and leaves it, without knowing any wiser? Both of those officers need to be fired before they traumatise another child.
I think it was a poor ass choice of words and not their place. I agree with the statement that children should be disciplined and that as long as it ain't red nor leaving a mark, and is done properly it's fine. But jeeze what kind of moron says that when they're a Law Enforcement position, that's asking to get fired
naw hurting ur kid in anyway like that does nothing execpt instill fear instead have a calm conversation with your kid about why they did it and that they shouldn't unless the reason he did do it was reasonable discipling kids like that just makes them fearfull fr don't do that to ur kids @@HardinProuductionsOriginal
@@LeroyBrown123123123 You only know one person in their entire family that’s in prison and that is all so he’s the only one that you know of that has a criminal history in their family
That fact that the fourth incident's cops leapt into action before ascertaining why the kid was being detained by security only served to escalate that situation further.
Anyone that sits there threatening a 5 year old doesn't deserve a badge let alone to be let outside of a prison. Trust me you gave this kid a rational fear of police officers.
first cop should get arrested. he didn't know what was happening at school and approached the 5 YEAR OLD CHILD being rude and intimidating. and the lady telling the mom to "beat the kid" should as well. edit: just realized how tight he was gripping the kids arm when he handcuffed him
First case is a definite example of how young children get trauma they will never grow out of. When he gets older he might hate being around adults/authority figures.
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@@definitelyarealturtle242they shouldn’t be. The cops in the second video treated that kid with respect, and he drove a car and endangered lives. In the first one, the kid left the school because he wasn’t that smart, he’s 5. They said to fucking beat him, and they yelled at him. If you think that it’s fine for an officer to yell and tell a parent to abuse a kid, you have something wrong w/ u.
@@definitelyarealturtle242 HES 5 IF YOU EXPECT A 5 YEAR OLD WHO SHOULDN'T EVEN BE TALKING TO YOU TO BE RESPECTFUL TO YOU YOU BETTER GET OVER THAT EGO BEFORE YOU RUN YA MOUTH TO THE WRONG PEOPLE AND LOSE YOUR MIND LITERALLY YOU EVER HEAR THE SAYING "DON'T TALK TO STRANGERS" VERY POPULAR SAYING TO TELL YOUR KIDS DOES HE KNOW YOU NO YOUR A STRANGER OH YOUR A COP WHATS A COP HE STILL DON'T KNOW YOU AND BAD PARENTING OH YOU NEEDED A DRUNK FOR A FATHER TO PUT YOU IN YOUR PLACE HOW ABOUT YOU GET A RAISE RIGHT TO HEAVEN ONLY TO BE PUSHED DOWN TO HELL WHERE YOU BELONG
The first cops had no right to do that, they cant just tell a child hes bad, there is no such thing as bad children, the cops stepped out of line, taking him to school, yes. But telling the mother to beat him? The cop had no right.
@@alan133 punishment is /okay/ it just has to be punishment and not "You were bad imma beat you" nono, you explain what they did wrong, the consequences of their actions, and why you have to give them punishment, just don't be too extreme y'know?
2:17 Bro, exactly! He’s five! He doesn’t know any better! Five year olds are the age when they started school! And the reason why he isn’t responding probably because he is scared. Sure, the kid would be in danger out of school with no supervision, but there is no reason to talk to him like that. Like I said, he’s five, he doesn’t know any better 🤦♀️ 2:36 - 2:47 Are they even cops in the first place? What kind of cops say that!? 😡 They have clarified that they wanted some spanking, but I swear that they should’ve worded that better 🙄
@@Franceofficial078he is 5 bro. They have small minds. It could affect their entire mindset and traumatize them for the rest of their life they would be scared their entire life, not only that they wanted the parent to use physical punishment, they want her to fucking injure their child, the child is only 5 bro.. they have a sensitive mind.
Bro that is absolutely Disgusting. Telling a mother of a 5 year old child that they can beat their son aswell as trying to encourage her to do it? I'm glad she didn't do it because I bet if she did she would've went to prison no matter the fact the cops said she wouldn't and as she did say "I don't wanna go to prison." Thats just frustrated me and put me in such a bad mood to see how cops treat younger people especially like that. Not to mention they actaully (basically) handcuffed the little dude. He must be emotional scared or either traumatised for his life. I resoect that mother for filing a law suit and wish the best for Her, the Husban, and the little man.
