When he says " I dont like to play mind games " what it really means is I know you're gonna play mind games and I dont want you to play so that I can be the only one who plays mind games and have the upper hand.
I don't mind no contact for a couple of days or so as long as they are respectful and nice when they come back as its natural to need space from someone sometimes, but I hate obvious things like them being online and not replying to your last message pretending their busy or ringing you out of the blue without asking like your there just for their convenience, and I especially detest when they say they will call or see you again but don't
It´s called negging and is typical for pick-uppers. Just read ‚The Game’ by Neil Strauss and you will understand a lot:) Last summer a guy approached me with the line ‚Is your hair natural‘ and I spotted him right away to be a pick-upper. I confronted him by stating that and he got scared and escaped:))) Sorry but it was so obvious:)
Ohhh I dont like to play mind games. I prefer to be straightforward!! But if it's clear I'm dealing w a passive - aggressive person... gloves come off and game on. Then I do become amused with some of the things that unfold sometimes. Btw your pink fuzzy jacket looks really cute! 😍
What guy is meant for you & what guy you are meant for, will not be terrain-challenged with too much game. With too many roadblocks and necessary game, risks follows along. Healing cannot be done as a couple, not without the one needing inner repair being willing to be most exposed vulnerable to his or her shadow side. Their healing may be best conducted in solitary stages.
Thank you for explaining that it takes time to think about what's going on about the mind game. Yeah I don't give a reaction. I leave. I don't need games.
Hey Greta I watched a documentary where when the female whale wants to find a partner to mate with. She flaps her fin against the water and the challenges a group of male whales to chase her and the one who gets her wins! Even in the animal kingdom the male species chase the females. Also I'm so glad you mentioned the thing about gold diggers it is so true. They don't care about what the guy looks like or what they are like internally because they purely just want to use them. Also I showed my mum your videos on emotional control, I hope they help her as much as they helped me 💕
What guy is meant for you & what guy you are meant for, will not be terrain-challenged with too much game. With too many roadblocks and necessary game, risks follows along. Healing cannot be done as a couple, not without the one needing inner repair being willing to be most exposed vulnerable to his or her shadow side. Their healing may be best conducted in solitary stages.
Men and their games.... I was walking with him when a male friend waved to me... my boyfriend didn’t ask who was him... we were having a cup of coffee and he said that one of his friends had a open relationship and he said he could not have one...
Thank you Greta for telling the girls to keep their standards high and let men step it up so we can raise the dating environment for us all especially in the EU. It is soooooooooooooo true that men need us MORE than we need them. I love you and your energy so much! Keep up the good work girl! 💋
"Men need women more than vice versa". Really? Do you have a shred of evidence to back that up? Could it be that you're trying to rationalise the fact that you have no success with men?
Accepting compliments is okay but too much compliments that the intention is to flatter a woman/girl is not right. The compliment that the guy was throwing too much flattery words to a girl became his tool to manipulate a girl/woman in a process. That's why I hate men who flatter women so much like they're trying to make fun of the girl/woman and it sounded more an insult than a compliment at the end.
I just realized I am in a fantasy relationship with a man who smiles and waves and sometimes talks to me at church EVERY Sunday but has never asked for my number. And every Sunday I smile back and hope he will ask. You would think after 10 months of this he would have gathered up his courage by now. The times I got fed up and have ignored him he was literally waving with his hand so high up in the air to get my attention. I saw it out of the corner of my eye it was funny. But i will NOT make the first move. I just smile and RESPOND to his attention every week but i DO NOT initiate anything. But i am considering sitting somewhere else because i keep hoping and nothing has happened.
Christina DiFonzo maybe you should try and be like hi don’t ask for his number or anything but it is sad how he won’t even get the courage to speak to you.
@@nmc1859 I have thought about that too...my gut feeling tells me he is shy but I have had so many bad relationships in the past it makes me afraid. I will try this, it can't hurt.
@@miahlove1753 I will do this next Sunday. It can't hurt to talk to say hi and maybe a few words, to seem more interested so he feels safe to talk to me too. Thank-you for responding, I was hoping somebody would🙂
I had two amazing dates with a man. He looks really good, picked me up with his porsche, invited me to nice restaurants and then we went to a bar and had a lot of fun together. He was charming and pursuing me the whole time even between the dates. I NEVER have texted him 😂After he drives me home after the second date, we smoked a cigarette in front of my house and then he kissed me. Then he asked me to bring me to my bedroom, I said to him I’ll find it by my own and started a bit to laugh😅Since then- no contact. The date was on Friday and now it’s monday 🙃 obviously a player right? Love you Greta. Your videos helped me a lot the last couple weeks🤍
When there's no more interest it's over! And he's cancels dates twice dont you reschedule dont be stupid walk away because he will manipulate you, he playing games, he do not like you, ignore him if you work with him say hi but don't conversate with him like he's your friend keep distance from him, don't show anger, stay cool and keep it moving.
I don't like playing mind games bc I know them all and I'm a pro! So if I say I don't like playing games but he is doing it FIRST HE GONNA REGRET IT AND THEN GET DUMPED.
Yeah, guys when I were out on the date lately didn’t tell me im beautiful. I started feel really akward as you start questioning yourself and think the guy is taking how you look for granted. So glad I realized it’s mindgames.
Hey Greta! I love your videos and wondered if you have thought about creating some merchendises for your brand? Or something? I would love to have a HV poster or book from you :)
I dont like receiving compliment. As a women we often receive compliments and i feel like you are just like the other guy… i feel like giving compliment i so easy these days, be more creative 😜 !!!! And i feel like sometimes people are so needy for compliment that guys just say compliment in a manipulative way. I prefer a man that treat a women for how much he likes her instead of saying it. Maybe because my love language is not words of affirmation idk but its just the way i feel 🥰❤️ (btw i don’t recommend for men to say mean things too cause it will not work for me nether 🥰) ** LOVE YOUR CONTENT BTW !!!!! SENDING LOVE XX 💕
So funny you bring up the thing about who pays... Steve Harvey is very adamant about the man paying for the first date. He's actually aggressive about it! And I like it! And yeah, there were some LVVVVVV women in that video. They need to come watch your videos ASAP.
I was listening to you speak but also noticed what seems to be arc window in the background. Do you have a better view of the window? I love that type of interior detail.
BTW everyone giving me compliments except my date. I can look bomb and man will watch me like never seen a woman before and he will say '' you look OK'' ( this is the compliment I get twice in three months) so funny
The mind game red flag is for real. The guy who played me a few years ago started out in the first days talking about how he doesn't want to play mind games
Love ur videos. Had a date then he pushed a boundary after a few mind games and I walked away lol. Told him no longer involving myself in this situation
Theres nothing wrong with being a gold digger. Men use women for sex without a commitment or a ring or marriage everyday. Its the man's job, role, and purpose to provide and protect the woman and family anyway.
Hi greta is it possible that men just get bored and if so what to do how to male the relationship alive again i am a leo woman when i care about a man i show i really care i never get bored but man seems to get bored i do not understand please help me
I think when you’re a high value woman you don’t need to play any games, you are saying through your body language and how you speak he knows you love and respect yourself and ultimately he recognizes that you know your worth and are the prize & won’t tolerate games or any inconsistency.
Wow my guy does the same thing that’s one of my complaints. He’s probably watching those videos so he wants to Make you feel insecure. That’s terrible not ok w me
God wants us in relationship and marriage by design. The problem is the devil wants to wreak havoc. That's what he does. Are you a believer? You know the Lord?
For some reason just recently about the last 2 months women keep flirting with my boyfriend. The women are perfect strangers. It comes out of nowhere. It's really weird. My boyfriend lets them know that we are together. Has anyone been through this?
Greta bereisaite something doesn't sit well with what you said in this video if he sends a good morning text or a good night text you said it should be ignored and should not entertain it that it'slow investment, but in and HOT AND COLD video you said don't get discouraged it's just that he's trying to keep you on your toes its nothing dont overreact, to just respond back in the evening or the afternoon?? now your confusing me!
What about when he says you straight away that he's a serious /nice guy and not on a dating app for hook-ups, wants children, family, relationships etc and after see you're not stupid, blocking you straight away ahaha!
I think everyone plays mind games to some extent and that’s ok. But, when someone plays to hurt, be in control or get an emotional reaction that’s a huge red flag.
young men play games, older men suffer with impotence mixed with emotional damage from past relations and they still feel young so they are not faithful, then how do we those couples despite the animosity of partnership? better remain single
Or when they say they love and want ‚peace‘ but in reality they crave and cannot live without drama. 🎭 The only one I’ve dated wo played stupid obvious mind games was a dude that was so insecure and weak who cried in front of me when I dumped him 😂😂😂
When he's not coming after you when he's play those games is because he sees that your not with that bullshit anymore and that you dont want to date him any more ,your stand offish, that's when he know game is over, period.
Your so a nice person with a good hearth, even though your terget clients are females, you still advice the guys not to be victimes of gold digging girls. ❤
Hi, Great. I don't know why I was thinking you live in America, coz I see you in video with RC Blakes. But then you said you live inondon. Just to say hi, I'm live in London too. I don't know why I think that you are from lithuanian TV shows? Is like I know you not in real life but your face or you look like someone famous??is really, I feel like, I see her somewhere but can't remember... did you ever belong to lkbl. org-lithuanian Christian Church in London? you was offering about narcissist videos to watch. I want to share about it also:to get "Quora" app there is a lot practical daily reminders about narcs to wake up for victims & take back dignity. I like watch your videos.. Blessed be Greta Shalom!!! 🙌😇💭🌧️🏡🇬🇧🔥🔥🔥🌹🌹🌹🦋🐞🦋🐞🌼🦋🌼🐞🌼🐞🤣😌
Did this woman say it was okay to date guys even if you have no intention of dating them if you're putting them in the friendzone? And she's got the nerve to criticise male dating coaches? lol. Awful.
@@rivkaruthgolan you need to be sure before you comment. She said it’s not good to date someone you’re not interested in UNLESS you’re friend zoning him. 27:30. You’re learning from a scumbag who sees nothing wrong with using men. Pathetic.
