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nah man... she's doing good SO far, ignoring social media AND you, but eventually she's going to break. Marriage is BS in the US; and she will break that marriage and family because of it. Or at least there's a 50% chance she will.
She decided she wasn't happy with me so we ended things agreeably. We couldn't agree on how to raise children only to find out years later that she couldn't have children. She married someone else and tried adopting only to be denied at every turn. I'm still single because being a husband is not in the cards.
Yes. Thankfully I was saved and spared a lifetime of misery twice. Good lord had mercy on keeping me from two of the most narcissistic people I ever met in my life. Told them keep the rings! I need peace of mind!
When the woman changes her mind, it's called a divorce. She's not going to pass up getting a ring and a wedding day and being a bride. It's a far better pay day for her after the wedding. Yet, the guy is always the asshole for pulling out of the wedding because "he broke the girl's heart."
As a man, yes ghosting is immature, but there is a double standard. When women ghost they say she was protecting herself & safeguarding her feelings. But when a guy does it to a women now it’s bad & no one asks why he did it. Women should not complain when they do it to others as well.
People need to know that you can do a common-law marriage without the State, and it is valid; if people really know what is going on with the State-sponsored marriage, there may be a revolution; ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-N3hMGG3xHTY.htmlsi=qbqi5oz4QGMr8IgL with this approach, one can set up their own contract based on common law and the bible, and the State will not have jurisdiction over the terms of the marriage; people need to know that the State is fiction because you can't touch the State, and you can't talk to the State; therefore, the State is only on paper or on a computer, and in people's heads, but not in reality; think about it: when has anybody talked to the State? you don't talk to the State; you talk to State representatives of the State, i.e., office holders on behalf of the corporate fiction State; now if people knew the order of authority in the world--that they don't teach in school anymore--you know that the State does not have jurisdiction over and man or woman unless one agreed to self-appointed servitude via a contract, agreement, or trust; hence, take the State out of the marriage equation; no administrative corporate court has jurisdiction over the body; one needs to correct the status of the records "the State" holds against your BC Estate; if you want to know more about this, check my page and my email is therein because I can't post it here, the AI would remove the post ...
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp there are men like that, I saw one on twitter in his way after a new marriage after 2 divorces accepting getting shamed from women "just be a better man" .. so cringe
We as men need to start doing this more often with these disrespectful women! Save you the pain of divorce! Also the pain of a family break up 💔! Stop ignoring red flags!
My Beloved Husband and I were together for 4 years before we got married. Our wedding cost around $1,000 and that includes our rings. Our guests wore jeans and t-shirts and there were kids running around barefoot. It was the most loving and beautiful of days. We just celebrated 29 years as Husband and Wife and we are still going strong. We have been through tragedies and triumphs, laughter and tears and everything in between. Marriage takes work, commitment and above all else, a deep abiding respect and love for your partner. ❤❤❤
If a person truly values your love & building together, they should be willing to get married at the courthouse. Save the money & have a formal wedding to celebrate your 5 year anniversary after yall have saved up enough money for extras.
People these days don’t realize that marriage doesn’t mean “happily ever after”, it means happy sometimes, but slogging through the shit together but coming out shining as one on the other side. If both people aren’t willing to put the work in, neither party should bother. It’s not worth it in the end, as the one not willing to work, will simply find someone else to branch off to in the end.
I was going to propose to my ex & she said something that changed my whole life. She said after xxx that she hopes she gets pregnant so she can put me on child support! She said oh we will still be together, but I want that. That was the last time I ever hit that. Thx GOD I don’t get her pregnant.
Men! are Logical creatures by default, so think to yourself man. If a man calls off a union, just know he’s given it many many chances/thoughts until the last straw broke the camels back. Yal need to STOP FEELING SORRY FOR THEM JUST BECAUSE THEY’RE WOMEN. THEY HAVE 0 SYMPATHY WHEN FUCKIN YOU OVER.
Women view marriage as a fairy tale, men view marriage as a lifelong commitment of resources, very different perspectives. Let the man take his time...
I mean, it told the same story as the rest of that convo; her sole focus was on his money and her wants. She has ZERO care, concern, or love for that man outside of his financial provisioning.
The lady with bags for arms just made herself look like a clown. How tf you end up with a guy that can't read? I swear these jokes just write themselves.
She pretty much Exposed herself man. You are who you Attract or Entertain and she is every bit of everything she listed on that board. She’s very pathetic.
Agreed. In fact, women willing to dump their lives online in these stupid videos is already a huge red flag, even if it isn't bragging about monetary things. It is so unattractive when women are obsessed with online fame. It also raises questions. And one thing almost all of these ladies have in common, is that they value their online posting far too much. They take pride in it. It is THEM in a nutshell. It is simply wrong.
So, I haven't ended an engagement but I have greatly regretted a marriage. There is absolutely nothing more torturous under the sun than being with a disagreeable feminist individual. Listening to their theory based logic is painful. They are tough, rough and uninspiring.
Back in the early 2000s, I knew of a girl who was devastated because her groom called off the wedding when she was headed to the church. My family was at the church waiting for the wedding to start. Many people thought he was cruel for changing his mind and she was hurt. It was the gossip for a time. She was so embarrassed. Three to four years later, he came out of the closet, and a few years later, she married a guy who she is still married to the last time I heard. On her wedding day, she was devastated and hated this guy for changing his mind. He did her a favor. It worked out for her in the end.
I’d be pissed if you called it off the day of too especially if you’re gay why waist my time like that in the first place I always be asking guys if they’re gay or making jokes implying so bc if you’re gay and I’m a cover up I’d rather you tell me that straight up rather than have me attach myself to you and I find out later
There was a guy I grew up with who, I never spoke about it, I knew was gay. I thought it was weird he dated girls and even got married. He eventually came out of the closet AFTER stealing the prime years of that woman's life. I don't know what happened to the woman but I always thought it was obvious the guy was gay.
@@Alexz5040 yea, I was pissed for her. But nowadays, I believe that some things are meant to be while others are not. But yes, it is not right for a person to waste your time like that.
The woman with the Ick list who got dumped was just proving what a bad judge of character she is. She thinks she’s dunking on this dude, but she happily accepted a proposal from that man and spent 10 months preparing to marry him.
There is always 2 sides to every story..we know how these women lie..especially men should avoid these women who publicly expose their personal lives she might make u look goofy.
Idk, I'm a woman, and if ever there was a time for a man to change his mind, it's before the wedding instead of after. As for the ick list lady, she is proving she is a bad judge of character, because I like to think most people would not choose to marry a man that needs his parents to do his adult duties for him or can't read. It speaks more to her lack of discernment in relationships and desperation to get married.
@@dcg590 It doesn't really matter whether she's telling the full story or not, because men are allowed to back out of a relationship just like women are...I wish I could ask these women, "What would you rather have happen? Breakup...or years of divorce court?" There isn't really a way to breakup and everyone feel great about it, so it just sounds like a bunch of whining. People are allowed to break up with you.
She pretty much Exposed herself man. You are who you Attract or Entertain and she is every bit of everything she listed on that board. She’s very pathetic.
Marriage will never be with it used to be unless you're raised to be a husband or raised to be a wife. The days of old and getting married are gone. Lack of loyalty in too many opportunities.
People need to know that you can do a common-law marriage without the State, and it is valid; if people really know what is going on with the State-sponsored marriage, there may be a revolution; ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-N3hMGG3xHTY.htmlsi=qbqi5oz4QGMr8IgL with this approach, one can set up their own contract based on common law and the bible, and the State will not have jurisdiction over the terms of the marriage; people need to know that the State is fiction because you can't touch the State, and you can't talk to the State; therefore, the State is only on paper or on a computer, and in people's heads, but not in reality; think about it: when has anybody talked to the State? you don't talk to the State; you talk to State representatives of the State, i.e., office holders on behalf of the corporate fiction State; now if people knew the order of authority in the world--that they don't teach in school anymore--you know that the State does not have jurisdiction over and man or woman unless one agreed to self-appointed servitude via a contract, agreement, or trust; hence, take the State out of the marriage equation; no administrative corporate court has jurisdiction over the body; one needs to correct the status of the records "the State" holds against your BC Estate; if you want to know more about this, check my page and my email is therein because I can't post it here, the AI would remove the post ...
I'm sorry but I feel we are all missing something here. A guy that took the time to do all that isn't going to just ghost you like that doesn't make sense. Are we really hearing the whole story here? Did he catch her chatting up an ex or something? Did she show a major Redflag on the days they were in Dubai? Something ain't right here 🤔
Do we EVER hear the full story or even half of it when it’s told by a woman?? Just being real here We all know, doesn’t take much life experience to see through it
Women will never tell the entire story. They will always be the hero and or the victim but never the villain. I think bro slide her that paperwork to sign and her response told buddy everything he needed to know and he moved accordingly.
Great job Sir you are allowed to change your mind at any point you discover you are not ready. Ever heard of the RUN AWAY BRIDE. Proud to announce the Run away Man or Groom exists 👍🏽 He must protect his name and legacy
Just recently cut off a proposal. Had the ring and everything. I called it off. Everyone was asking am I ok. Yeah I am I dodged a bullet. She wasn't the one. There may be a good woman out there for me somewhere. If not life goes on. Glad I got a full refund for the ring due to the resize warranty I got should she gain like child weight, loose a diamond etc
You did the best thing brother! I’m on the way out my marriage myself and tbh I’m wishing I never did it! You’ve saved yourself a lot of stress and bother! Good man!! Good luck with the future bro 🤜🏿
When I decided not not to get married, at first I was misunderstood. Now my brothers see how I live my life fully understands. Married is serious but it is also tainted. If the government wasn't so involved, I would have gotten married. I was engaged twice but never made it to the finish line. Now, I am pleased it didn't happen. I am enjoying my peace and everything that comes with it. Why would I give it up? I can't and won't!!
My ex wife used the full court press on me. We're both Christians and she was a pastor's daughter. She levered the entire Church into pressuring me to marry because I was the eligible bachelor and my church was a huge proponent of marriage. She went to all the male pastor's and leadership and got them to talk to me. Even got the lead pastor's wife to approach me. Unfortunately we married then three month again when shit was already terrible she made the fatal mistake of telling me "The reason I pressured you so much to marry me sooner rather than later because I knew if we had waited you would have never married me." I divorced her. She came after me for $50K in alimony and half of everything else. She got nothing. Three years after leaving her I tripled my salary and now I attend Harvard for grad school setting me up for an even bigger payday. She's someone still trying to trick someone into marrying her.
Dude thats crazy. My ex was a hardcore chrisitan while I grew up catholic. Latino catholic. So some of us were a little loose with the term catholic sometimes, lol. But I never did anything awful or drugs or even considered cheating. After we got married, things went downhill fast with her controlling everything right down to what I believed. 10 years I tried to fix it. It was only going her way, and I was too weak willed after her crazy claims of me abusing her. Those accusations came out only when I started taking more charge of our finances. I never believed in shared accounts but was kinda forced too by her family. Im sorry for what you went through. Similar but yours feels worse.
@@phantomform4171 I’m sorry about your situation. Glad you got out of it. The most satisfying thing about the whole situation is when I served her with divorce papers the second time(because she ignored the 1st one and let the 90 days expire). Maaaan she wailed like black people at a funeral. I loved hearing her weep lmao.
0:00 She said in video that this man conned her. After he ghosted her she later saw him in a photo with a woman and a young girl. Sounds like he already had a family.
A man backing out of an engagement makes him the bad guy? Though it's okay for the woman to back out of the marriage. Either way, the man pays. With cars, clothes, jewelry, restaurants, holidays, these women should be grateful that they were riding the gravy train for so long with the man spending so much money on them. He may have been sh!t-testing her, and she took the bait like a greedy fish every time. Still, blowing cash like this is cheaper than the cost of marriage, especially when the divorce comes round.
I am not sure on that one. If a woman did it to a guy would it be good or bad? Emotionally, it would be bad for either side. Being engaged for 5 years is way too long as far as I am concerned.
It was all about the money he was spending. That woman was with a man for 5 years and didn’t live together or know where the man live. The guy was just enjoying himself and most men will tell women whatever to get that box. She fell for the vanity 😂
Unfortunately for these women who put so much value into monetary aspects of a relationship, this is the risk that is run. If a wealthy man starts to believe you are a blatant gold digger (obvious by the crap some of these ladies themselves are so willing to post online), then the odds are fairly high they aren't going to risk it with you. Sorry to say, but even if the majority of the US is currently of this mindset... money SHOULD NOT matter beyond provision for the family. Luxury? Fun? That isn't what raising children is about. Yet here we are, women not willing to marry a guy over money. And then the wealthy guys not wanting to risk it with women who are blatantly obsessed with luxury.
@@DjFiyaFrost Nope, but we have a fairly good idea regardless. Any lady who posts their lives online so flippantly is not marriage material. Sadly, most women are like this to some extent now days. It is not attractive
It is impossible to "ghost" a fiancé in 2023. If you don't know where your fiancé lives and work after five years of dating, you're not in a real relationship. She could have pulled up to his mom's house, sister's house, or even best friend's house. No one would look at her crazy if she explained to them that he just vanished while they were planning a wedding.
It can happen. I moved two cities over just to disappear and not give closure to a woman I discovered cheating on me that I was with for almost five years. I didn’t block her or anything, just simply disappeared. It was executed so properly that she reported me missing. I went back home to visit 2 years later and bumped into her and her dad at a shopping mall and they came for my neck for leaving. They pressed me because I was nonchalant about the confrontation but it was only because I was over what happened and moved on. When I told them I left because she was cheating they didn’t believe me and started insulting me. So I sent the video footage with audio directly to their phone and her mother’s phone. They both watched in horror and it looked like their souls left their bodies. See they could’ve avoided that defeat and I wish she would have never known that I found out she cheated. I prefer cheaters to have no closure and left drifting aimlessly in uncertainty.
Remember, this is HER side of the story. I’m betting she’s leaving a lot out. No way he would just change his mind for no reason. Guarantee this is her fault
There's a reason why couples are generally engaged for a period of time BEFORE getting married. Our last chance to determine if we are truly compatible for a long term relationship.
That's actually not true. You date, the engagement is to plan to get settled. The engagement should not be the test phase, that comes first. If a man puts that much financial investment forward just to back out, he's an idiot
@@singingchef23 No, otherwise you'd get married within a short amount of time after engagement. Most wait a year after engagement before marriage. You should certainly discuss compatibility before engagement, but the Fiancee era is certainly one last compatibility test time.
Facts cos when you're in the engagement phase, they tend to drop their guard and reveal who they really are. If she's still the same girl, you won but others think they are at the finish line and start acting different
"It is when danger is greatest that salvation is nearest.” “O LORD, I pray, open his eyes that he may see.” And the LORD opened the servant's eyes, and he saw"
Date 1 - They all get the *TALK* : We ain't ever getting married, We ain't ever having kids, We ain't ever living together, We ain't ever sharing finances, I ain't ever falling in love. You ain't ever changing my mind. The door is over there - you are free to f*ck off. And if you are thinking that you are the 'exception' - I have thirty Exs down stream - you are on deck to be 31. I am 55 - Never Wed, Never Bred, Never Will. I choose my sanity, stability, freedom, fortune and future above all else everytime.
When did it change that the BRIDE's family pays for the wedding - the reception - the destination - full bill tilt, so if their ain't money for the ceremony - talk to mom's & dad's. Drink that Coffee.
I cancelled the wedding to my baby mama twice before leaving her forever. I set clear boundaries, such as "never argue in front of the child," "do not sacrifice our marriage for the sake of the wedding," and "do not invite my family from the USA because we will do something there and I don't want those that can't afford a transatlantic flight to be left out" She violated every single one and was delusional enough to think i would still marry her. The following year, when we tried again after I cancelled the first wedding, she tried to kill me by denying me emergency medical attention and I was days away from septic shock because she wouldn't take me to the hospital. The woman is a psychopath and abused me financially, emotionally, mentally, and even physically. I held back from retaliation for the sake of our child and left her because I couldn't let my child think that her mum's behavior is acceptable. If I accept it, then my little one would accept it in her life when someone tries that sht on her Set your boundaries and don't break them for ANYONE, most especially for those in your family. If you cannot stand up to those within your home, you will never be able to stand up for yourself outside the home.
What I like about these videos was that she didn’t shame my man at all even though he did that… get with a men/woman that don’t shame their ex that’s a keeper
My parents eloped. Got married at the justice of the peace after dating 3 months. 2 kids and 50 years later....WE STILL HERE! Sit all the way down with blinged out weddings! You probably wont stay married long enough to pay for it....ijs
She’s used to dealing with people who give her whatever she need whatever she want whenever she want it. If she’s talking like that to him now he is doomed.
Nope. That man drank the coffee with a few shots of espresso, found another girl coz options, flew to another country, city, state of mind, planet, whatever......said BYEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!
What world do we live in where women believe they are entitled to all your benefits just because you hang out with them? Women lead men on all the time to get what they want and no one bats an eye. This man dated and changed his mind on the wedding day. Ylu are not wntitled to commitment no matter how long he dates
This is a conversation that should be discussed early in the relationship. To each their own but there is no point of dating long term if there is no ceremony of commitment. If you are dating a person for years & do not see that person as a future wife/husband then why are you together? How can you create life with someone you don’t want to marry? I’m confused.
@tikifreaky5204 women are the ones who call relationships "partnerships". Partnerships only last as long as they are mutually beneficial and pose no risk to both parties
Something happen, he saw something or realized something wasn't going right whatever he had his reasons, It's his life and he's entitled to change his mind no matter what the reason. Happy Holidays Everyone, Christmas is almost here! Hope all your wishes and dream's come true!!! Blessing's to you all! Stay safe and well!!! ❤ Elle on husband's account almost 40 yr marriage ❤ Take care!
Many women want the wedding and not necessarily a life with someone. I got married in a registry office with my kids for witnesses. We are best friends and it’s been rocky with heartbreak and hurt but mostly good times and no drama. We are still friends btw
These girls are NOT telling the entire story. And the woman that had the man with the sex fantasies about his sister and mommas boy??? You were still going to marry him so none of what you list now means anything.🤣🤣🤣🤣
A lot of men will propose for a shutup ring. Not really mean it, not be ready for marriage and waste your best baby making years keeping you around. You have to know the signs and leave before you waste those good years. Two different men did this to me. I was married and both these men kept blowing up my phone and ended up blocked. You didn't want me back then, I'm gone now and happy. Men don't realize what they miss until it's gone. You didn't want to get serious and have babies with me, plenty out there who will. Now I'm a SAHM and have a 5 year old.😂❤
First of all, get yourself a few nice watches. They're nice. And you can find a plethora of great ones for reasonable and affordable prices. Secondly, you are spot on with "it's always a good time to leave a bad situation." 🎯💯
It’s a partnership girls swear they don’t have to do anything. I lost my job when married and my wife held it down for half a year . Started my career and now we are the best team . She can pay the bills herself but now she uses that money for our fun. Last month went to Monaco. Was fun
For the woman who wants the big wedding, the man should have known about her false values before proposing. I hope he finally realized that he needs to disconnect her.
Once upon a time I know of a Resident training to be a Physician There was a nurse who apparently was at his beck and call for you-know-what. He told me he was never going to marry her. There he was, cooped up working, eating, studying his guts out in his training, while she has already experienced travelling around the world. Every time I see her I shook my head, figuratively. I don't think she knew...but if she did, then, all the more stupid of her, wasting her time. Me, I wouldn't put myself in that situation, using women.
Men: When you marry, you bring her into your life. When you make her your life. You'll be devastated if she doesn't reciprocate. Your love and utility is a quality that should be experienced but not given. If it fails, those qualities are to go with you because it wasn't given, but it was an experience instead of a sacrifice.
The woman who wants a big wedding I agree with her you've gave her that type of lifestyle and vibrations for all of the relationship now you got to keep doing it that's what happens when you get with a woman that from day one you can see clearly that all she's about is spend spend bling bling all the time bro Run get to the chopper😂😂
