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I aint never meant no girl or guy tht claimed to be a 10 tht was above a 7. Most really attractive people have alot of self doubt as the internally judge themselves against very attractive people in media. Thr have been quite a bit of studies to prove what i am saying too.
@@akumaquik literally look up Fresh & Fit or any Sneako and girls will rate themselves 10s. Most guys will never rate themselves a 10. Ever! Most guys would maybe give themselves a 5 or 6 average. Women will almost never rate themselves below a 7 and often time lie to themselves or their friends. Look up the video of the girl that went viral saying she don’t hang around ugly people. She’s literally not attractive herself and her friend hypes her up to be a 10. After facing backlash she then responds in the most patronizing and condescending way and ironically came dolled up this time around because she knew the last time she was looking busted and acting like a 10
Good thinking I'm using that. As far as ratings go - ..' there is a bum for every seat'... That's my analysis ...someone somewhere will find you to be a good fit
My friends dad who is straight off the boat from Greece told us some true shit. "Women and men can't be friends without one wanting to have sex with the other. Doesn't matter which one."
Oh it can work, they know I'd never let them cheat on their husbands so I can just tease them about it without anything happening. Probably helps their sex lives a bit too.
Nah it’s defenatly possible. They may have had that feeling at some point but then get passed it. You don’t dwelve on the sex part for years. After all a while, it’s just mutual respect and love. Anyway that’s what I see in true friendships.
That may be true for men. On my part…I can perfectly like a guy without wanting to have sex with him. But because sooner or later the guy shows his real interest, I’m so disappointed and brake up the contact. Actually pretty sad.
I played rugby while stationed in Germany and a bunch of our GFs wanted to play. Our coach helped them set up a club and play against other female teams from other parts of the country. Thing is, they only had us to practice with and we did NOT take it easy on them. They never beat us in practice but they freakin' dominated every game they played.
@@omgcollin because the world has already been discovered. He's talking about when there were unknown parts of the world in the columbus days. And he will die before people explore the galaxy, we haven't even been to another planet yet
Never be afraid to tease these women, even if it may upset them a bit. So many guys are afraid to roast a woman they're with, but she might grow to love and respect you more because you're not putting her on a pedestal and treating her like an actual person.
You can achtually do both. Show her affection but roast her when she's being dumb or thinks just because you are being nice she can start pushig you around.
@@dwrabauke my wife likes to occasionally help me work on my cars. When she makes a dumb mistake, such as rolling the 3 ton floor jack slap over her foot after I told her to watch your feet, I tell her you have 2 ears and one mouth for a reason lol. It keeps things fresh and interesting. I'm just as guilty at times, for doing something dumb and she isn't bashful about calling me out either. I wouldn't have it any other way.
Ive coached both boys and girls u17, u15 and u12 in football. Ive also played a few games in the best football division in Denmark when I was younger. And I can tell you. Comparing boys and girls in football (or soccer as you call it) its not just about size, strength and speed. The boys are technically far far superior, when it comes to ball control, balance, agility, dribbling, flair, touch, passing, shooting, concentration, vision of the game... I could go on. There is just no comparing them. As you see in this clip as well.
You got that right coach. I'm sure you've heard of the memes and how our top women's team got outplayed by a bunch of high schoolers but yeah. For my school's practices I went up against some girls who have played longer than I ever did yet I was still able to compete with them, if not then handle myself. Still though it's pretty clear the difference between males and females in sports in general, soccer is one of the best in demonstrating that.
And this never seemed controversial, it was a no brainer up until a few years ago. My daughter played coed soccer from k-2nd (they didn’t separate them til 3rd grade), and even at those young ages, the most aggressive, best dribblers, passers, shooters, etc….were always boys. This is way before puberty, and there was still an obvious difference. Some of the girls were more interested in doing cartwheels and picking dandelions. And then I recall at age 9 one practice the girls spending a lot of time deciding which pinnie color they wanted to be….and thinking I bet the boys don’t have a long discussion about this, lol. What I never understood, is who cares?
And women complain about the wage gap LOL, they dont earn anything because people are simply not attracted because they are BORING because they have such a lower level.
LMFAO that clip where the girl pretends she can have guy friends with no intentions & the guy with the mic laughs, I lost it. I rewound it like 4 times & laughed harder each time
@@mr.m8539 He probably celebrates both, TBH, but sometimes he might celebrate one more than the other. It really just depends. Birthdays aren't important, but they are special. I can definitely see him giving her a gift, or just a small date (since he probably spends a lot of money on BHM), for her B-Day.
@@arpwcos2011 its just one day of 365 days he is being a asshole just for the sake of it he properly did not even give a shit about black history month before but now is using it as an excuse to do nothing. And you know what, the fact that black people in general think they are entitled to something just because they were born with the right skin colour for black history month is foolish
Watching those young men unify spontaneously doing physical labor gave me an evolutionary flashback to how our ancestors conquered nature. It's our instinct to join a brotherhood in common cause. Especially when it comes to building.
I find it so unattractive when a woman I’m dating doesn’t set respectful boundaries with her guy “friends”. I early on show my perspective on it. If they don’t change that behavior, I dead it. ✌🏽
once a girl has a BF she needs to get rid of all her guy friends unless they're ghey. If she keeps guy friends around that means she's for the streets.
100%. Set lines in the sand. If she crosses it, send her back to the streets. If you girl tells you she's going to Vegas with her best friends for a week don't tell her she can't go, you don't control her, but tell her she'll be single when she steps foot in Vegas. It's not about being insecure. It's about respecting yourself.
Had an ex that would go out for food once a fortnight with her guy mate she had known since high school. Wasn't a big deal to me until I told her I went for a drink with a few mates after work (one of which was a girl) and she started accusing me of wanting to get with this girl from work. I told her trust goes both ways and showed her the door.
As a woman, I like your videos. You speak the truth. As for the porn thing, spot on. It does ruin your brain and etc. Glad to see you say that to the men, because it's not spoken about enough.
Like a lot of 'entertainment' it sets unrealistic expectations. Most people can define the difference between fiction and reality though there are a collection of people who can't.
today a girl was hovering near me in the gym while i was working out, she looked confused as hell, then she went on the machine next to me, i finished my set and went somewhere else, lo and behold she went on the neighbouring machine. that whole time i didnt even look in her direction, just noticed her from the side of my eyes. now i understand what it means to not give a girl your attention, they end up wanting it more. the power of not looking is amazing, i guess it drives them mad when they dont get the attention they claim they dont want lol.
I once went out on a date with a coworker who decided to invite her friend to dinner also. I wasn't told about it until they both walked in the restaurant. I immediately told the waitress whatever is ordered is on 3 separate bills because I'm not paying everyone's bills, just my own bill. The coworker asked me why I won't pay her friend's expenses and I told her "you invited her so you pay for her"!
The bit with the girl bringing her best friend could be 100 percent legit it happened to me bout 8 years ago. She brought 2 friends they ordered the most expensive pizza they could in addition to the 1 I had already ordered. Plus they ordered 2 pitchers of beer the girl I asked out originally told me she didn't drink. Long story short I made like I was goin to the head had the waitress separate the 1 pizza & coffee I ordered onto a separate bill & asked if they could have it delivered to my place. I not only got my pizza but I got the waitresses number & a note in my pizza telling me how much of a melt down my date & her friends had when they found out they were on the hook for their food. Don't ever put up with that shit.
There's nothing with that video though, they're training to get better, she should be trying hard, and he shouldn't be making it easier on her or she won't improve. This is really a non issue at any decent dojo/MMA club. Obviously you don't knock a girl half your size out just because you can, but that goes for everyone, other guys who aren't as strong or as advanced as you too.
Same. And I’m 37. 😮 Stay aware, King. My son and daughter are 7 and 4 but they will be trained on this someday too. Papa ain’t raisin’ no simp or street hoe.
@@amoththatthinks lmao. But those archetypical females would say it ironically. when she would do something stupid and immoral. Though I guess youre correct so I guess that means Jesus Is the King of Kings. I wouldnt call another male a king but it just depends on the two men.
That one at 3:04 is how my wife and I are. She needs some. I give it and go back to video games while she’s sleeping in bliss. You know you done your job when she wakes up the next morning and doesn’t even remember you going downstairs to play video games. Lol.
There's the saying, The family that plays together stays together. A bit of banter between you and your significant other is fun. Of course you need a partner that doesn't take themselves too seriously in the first place. lol
Yeah exactly. Need to be on the same wavelength . My other half has hypermobility. I always make cripple jokes and she always makes old fat and balding jokes. It's fun. Keeps things happy. If you cant laugh together you won't last.
@@lolocaust4967 My wife is really clumsy so I always joke that she can trip while standing still. She makes jokes about how I can't hear for shit which is true as well.
Im a pretty serious guy and I get really turned off by women thinking they are "funny" and "sarcastic" but really just want to insult me and pretend it was a joke afterwards. Just my 2 cents.
Might turn into a RL minecraft server. 10 guys digging up sand is interesting. 200+ guys digging and it ain't a sand castle anymore it's a real castle.
I agree. I dont like Andrew Tate, most of the things he says are true. But for me he is an egoistical/narcistic personaloty. But haring someone just because most people hate him is stupid
Yo Arako, thanks for these steady uploads! I'm going through a really hard and deep time right now and your videos make my day ❤🙏🏻 After a long time I finally subscribed 💪🏼
Word brother never let no bitch bring ya down, I just went through a break up and Arako helped out through that time, just pack it in and move on brother she ain't the only one and wont be the last one either, Stay strong and do it for you and no one else, most bitches now days ain't shit, but if we are lucky we may get that one in a million......
You’re spot on with your advice and observations. It all seems like common sense, doesn’t it? It’s exhausting seeing all of the games people play with one another, but it’s like a train wreck. I can’t turn away. 😬
" We dont go to the beach for bitches, we got to the beach to dig shit up" may genuinely imo be the greatest, most truthful, and hard hitting line ever heard on RU-vid. Absolutely fucking outstanding work sir.
If a date brings a friend, you don't pay for EITHER!! Because she is directly disrespecting you. You just excuse yourself and leave. And block the number.
On the "guy best friend" thing, it may not even be that they want a relationship but 9/10 times they'll smash if the chance arose. I've had several friends that were like that. "I'm respect her as a friend, but also I'm a guy and she's hot so while I'm not interested in a relationship I'd smash if she let me". I think to let your girl have a guy best friend you have to know the dude well enough to know he's either not interested at all or wouldn't get with a taken girl.
depends on the quality of the friends. i cant be friends with a guy who would smash a girl thats taken. thats just lack of self respect and control. grow up.
You don't have to do anything. What other people do does not impact your value. If she kills someone, it doesn't mean that *_I'm_* a murderer. If she steals from someone, it doesn't mean that *_I'm_* a thief. If she cures cancer, it doesn't mean that *_I'm_* a genius. If she wins Wimbledon, it doesn't mean that *_I'm_* elite. If she has guy friends, it doesn't mean that *_I'm_* an insecure detective. The only way to know if you can trust a person......is to trust 'em. Otherwise you're a guard trusting a prisoner. Too busy for that shit.
Seriously, these videos make some real good points. And ladies, if you have a guy friend or acquaintance or whatever that you're not interested in truly moving forward in y'all's relationship to a romantic level, just be honest. There are plenty of friends that I've made because they introduced themselves to me and wanted something more. But I clarified with them that I wasn't interested in them as anything more than friends because it wouldn't be right to lead them on and we stayed very good friends. They respected my boundaries and I respected their feelings by not leading them on and I've had some really amazing friendships grow out of that. There's never a good reason to drag a guy around. Just be a decent person. Js.
I am 6 foot. I am muscular. I've been told I'm good looking. I still give no fook how do I look. All I care are skills. That's only thing that defines me.
@@spiffygonzales5160 I never had problems with women, only thing which was putting me off, was how fearful they are. I've got so far without any injuries, their fear about me was ultimately end of relationship. I don't like being told how I should run my life. My name here is just a pinch of my dark humour- funny, because it's true.
“We go to the beach to dig” so true lmao. I was on a church retreat down in Florida, and my friends and I dug a hole deeper than I am tall (I’m 5’4” or so.) it was huge
I challenged myself a while back to do 100 pushups per day for 100 days. I did 1,240 OVER the 10,000 I would have done. I took a brief break and did 30 pull ups for 30 days. Now I am doing 80 pushups, 30 pull/chin ups... ANYWAYS my body and appearance had noticibly changed. Women pay way more attention to me. And while it is nice, I have also grown significantly emotionally, mentally, and most importantly spiritually. I'm very independent. Wtf would I mess that up with a shallow simp case.
Always good to keep anyone, including girls on their toes… that’s what makes life fun when you can establish yourself as unpredictable!!! Stay Strong, Kings!!! 👑👑👑
Man is right at around 6:00 .. His humility and self-awareness is cool - it's about admitting your not Paul Newman - it's abput being successful and modest and charasmatic and have character, experience and are brave and smart. Look at the great physicist, musician, biologist, politicians, painters, philosophist.. .the list goes on. Do your best. Be interested and improve yourself. His message is gold.
Hahahahaah seeing all these grown ass men Digg a random ass trench at the beach was so unexpected and somehow the funniest part of the video yet, I love that shit. Always keep that little boy inside of you alive guys!
Whilst in the army if I see my mates in a toxic relationship, I'd let him know and if he was good looking, I would constantly reinforce his confidence and encourage him to leave the low valued woman he'd settle for. I've managed to break up at least 6 relationships, helped them with their dating and in 7 years all 6 of my mates have married with the women we've set them up with. What I've noticed and the point of the story is, the vast majority of men under value themselves, settle for less and worst of all are afraid to put in the work in proper communication to help themselves find a good woman. You want a gem? Then ask the right questions, a lot of them and not all at once, find the red flags because none of us are perfect and when you do, find the logic in their answers, if an easy question is confusing, illogical and that's all they got then move on to the next etc. Fellas, stop under valuing yourself, a lot of you are worth much more than you realise and the world is your oyster. Women outnumber men by a lot in the world and it will only continue to be so and even more so, if you are alone and can't find a good woman, it's because you aren't putting in the effort and looking in the wrong areas and also, no excuses and keep trying, you'll learn a plethora of information about yourself and women on your journey gradually improving your chances every time.
I used to think that men would be overdramatic when their girlfriend would have a male best friend. Like, not only is it possible that he just sees her as a friend, but also, why does it matter if he likes her? If she's loyal to you, then why care? BUT, then I actually fell in-love (we're no longer dating, but I still have this mindset), and because me falling in-love made me realize how low-key jealous I am, I now understand that I too would feel some sort of way if I found out my man's female best friend likes him too
2:03 This has happened to me in 23 out of 36 dates in 2022. I always excuse myself right before the bill comes and I jump out of the bathroom window or the kitchen's back door otherwise I would be broke by now.
This has become one of my favourite channels, it's entertaining, funny and the guy presenting it has solid advice for you. I just was to let you know as a gay guy who has lots of hot female friends that value my opinion on guys. If they're waning you be be a certain high or earn a 6 figure salary she belongs to the streets! My friends have their own money, houses and jobs. They all want guys the fun to be around, collaborate with and who'll make their life better. Guys that can do that know who they are and want they want. They find that attractive.
That soccer clip reminds me of when I used to photograph a football club’s matches for their social media as part of s university assessment. I mostly photographed the men’s matches but also did some women’s matches too. Something I immediately notices was that the men were much more aggressive and energised compared to the women. Idk, I’m not a sports fan myself and I’d only ever heard of or seen few clips of the contrast online - but it was interesting to actually see it in-person and “feel” it in-person, you know?
One thing i will teach my kids Dont let people screw you over I got screwed over way too often as a young one and that is literally what sets you up to a hard way
I see a lot of women saying they are tired of men that can't hold a conversation but they have no conversational skills themselves. How can you hold someone else to a standard you won't hold yourself to?
When I was 15 I played on a co-ed soccer team and there are two things that stand out the most from my time playing. Once my buddy attempted to clear a kick down field and this tiny girl decided to jump in front of him. Things did not turn out well. The ball hit her square in the face and she did a complete flip onto her stomach and broke her nose. I know I shouldn't have laughed but man that was and is still one of the most hilarious things I've ever seen. The other thing that stands out, for me, was a girl was trying to defend me and I just ran circles around her. She had become so embarrassed that all she could do was put her hands over her face as it turned bright red. Now that one I felt bad for, as I was being a 🍆. Just thought I'd share my story about how the girls in our league just couldn't play with the guys but were forced to.
To those still watching porn or only fans. you’re ruining yourself psychologically bruv. Gotta find a way stop it asap. Read the studied on what it does to your brain. I only say this bc I care. Stay up men 🙏
@@vlogcity1111 admittedly I watch pron just so I don't have any inconvenient nocturnal emission when I need to be somewhere quick or anything. Basically, it changes expectations. People on the internet always assume 5 inches is short or that having a D cup is massive
@@UnsaidHealer lol that is funny! Legit tho if I had a problem with cranking it I probably wouldn’t want to know or ask the question. I know an acquaintance who break downs with sadness because it’s such a big problem for him. So I don’t fully understand the struggle, it probably alters your brain structure or activity over time! Causing such a huge reaction to no watching it
yeah ahahahaha i been that friend a few times, even had their girl ask ME for help in their arguement and try bring me into it, like bitch ? thats my boy tf i just sit on the couch trying not to laugh
I make fun of my Wife all the time and every so often she gets me back with a really good one that even surprises her :), we joke about all the time, to many people are serious all the time and that's just to hard to live with, laughing is much more fun than crying.
when i first got into the relationship im in now, one of the first things i did was distance myself from about all my girl-friends, except for one because i trusted her and there never truly was anything between us other than sibling love. my girlfriend did the same to an extent, but in the beginning it was definitely something i saw as a future problem. now things are going quite well
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