Those parents chose to film it and release it online. Not to discipline their kids but to get some clout, cause filming it just makes everything worse and serves no fucking purpose.
@@Shyknit To embarass their kid it aint rocket science. This has nothing to do with attention or clout or whatever stupid ass word you wanna insert. Their goal is to embarass their child because in their minds their child's behavior embarassed them. That's it. That's the goal. It's revenge for making them look like bad mother's. Of course, doing so just further proves it but that's literally all there is to it.
For whatever reason, it seems to be a common go-to insult a lot of black mothers tend to use against their daughters. Overheard my sister saying something similar about how her daughter not knowing how to clean up for herself or how to use a tampon.
It's part of the abuse, my mum used to insult me when I tried to learn things or asked her to show me how to clean something, and later she'd insult me on how I couldn't mop properly or how i can't cook, like I came with a handbook
@@mimigee4414I tell my niece to ask questions if you're curious. If she ask me I'll give the best answer or I'll look it up. Also told her never give up. There's always an answer or solution.
I swear it seems like some parents be forgetting that Children are their own people that have their own lives but are still in the stages of learning how to live it. And not their property. And yes discipline is one thing but the type of public humiliation and giving them no dignity in that moment is just gonna cause more problems than it does fix any (if at all).
It's not about fixing behavioral problems. It's about revenge. Most of these mothers said it themselves in the video. "You made me look stupid in front of everyone, now i'm about to do the same to you".
She kicked that girl out with the clothes on her BACK. This so sick to me. What is with them and the humiliation tactics and berating their kids. Like, bro. Like I'm pregnant rn, and I can't FATHOM DOING THIS TO MY BABY. LIKE BRO. TS GETS ME HOT.
I hate things like this when we found out about my niece having snapchat we talked to her and deleted her snapchat. This is so weird for these parents to do this unless you talking to the kids parents directly this is odd behavior
see its popular until CPS shows up at your door. perception is everything. if you that comfortable being aggressive and physicallly violent towards your kids on LIVE!, people will naturally assume that you do tthe same or even worse when 300 people aren't watching. BIRD BEHAVIOR.
I’ve always hated and never understood parents who feel the need to embarrass their kids. The kids are usually a carbon copy of the parent, its psychological and genetic. You’re punishing THEM for something YOU do or have done. Its evil atp
i thought i was the only one who thought this type of behavior was weird asf - i’ve come across multiple videos like these - it almost feels performative to me - it feels like these “parents” are more focused on showboating to other adults around their age demographic rather than instilling proper values in their children
Or sometimes they do raise them right but the kid or kids follow what going on around them from other kids and then the parents has to go to either physically woop them which sime people tryna stop parents from doin or embarrass them publicly because just talking to them is not gon workwith these kids
@@ashtonramsey386 i can agree with this 100% I am all for whooping your kids but when it comes to this internet shit nowadays, and even back then when it was less monitored I wouldn’t even wish this on my worst enemy. Just embarrassing your child on the internet is wild in itself and screams “Look at how much of a shit parent I can be”
@@TamiaLeslie-ix5qn of course he didn't have to film it but he did but sometimes especially these days you have to embarrasse them in a public eye because Im assuming the dad taught his son better but the son went against his dad so his dad felt like so you wanna disrespect me in public by the way you acting while you are away from me so let's show the public how you really are around me and all that is is discipline in another form so now I bet his would think twice to act the same way again while he's not around his father
there’s a reason why these kids act up, and it’s cause their parents treat them like THIS. how are you gonna publicly embarrass them on video that’ll be on the internet forever but then expect them to care about you/listen to you? if you treat them like shit, they’re not gonna respect you 💀 so many people should NOT be parents.
im sorry people who do this to their kids are mentally ill, this is the type of thing to mess ur child up for life. like why do this, be a better parent
I got cussed out on ig and tik tok for calling out parents who did this. The older gen is ALL about beating and embarrassing kids to make them act right. They don’t even realize nor care that when your kids are acting out like this it’s because something is missing in the home most of the time. Usually love/attention
Then they wonder why they end up in old homes and die tf alone....or even when they kids confront them when time passes they behave like they never did and said those horrific things ..Welp they got video footage now..I feel so bad for these kids ..
This is abusive and the parents should be reported to the authorities. Not everyone deserves children . Most parents are suffering from mental illness themselves while trying to teach somebody else. Most parents have never considered psychoeducation or parenting courses before taking on the responsibility of guiding someone else’s life. The embarrassment can cause more harmful effects to the child than whatever mistake they were trying to correct. Parents can be bullies too 😢
Sometimes kids do stupid shit as a result of peer pressure. That doesn't mean they should go against their parents wishes but they just want to be included. I get that. I also get that parents don't want their kids being exposed to the dangers of social media and these apps. Parenting is hard. You want your kids to be decent people but you also want to protect them. The problem is that these parents don't know how to parent so they do shit like this thinking it's helpful when its extremely harmful to their mental health. I definitely parented my kids through anger and lack of skills. But my oldest daughter gave me a reality check. She told me that I was scary when I was angry and that broke my heart. I never want my kids to be afraid of me so that's why I ended up going to therapy because I needed to learn to address my anger and conquer it. These parents need therapy. They're destroying their kids and they don't even know it.
What is the logic of punishing your child for being on social media while BLASTING them on social media. If their safety is a concern then why are you posting the punishment with their face on the internet. Im never going to be the do as I say not as I do parent. Makes no sense.
My mother did this to me on her facebook live showing my under wear from my first period when I was in 6 grade, will never forget that shit I’m scarred for life
I sincerely hope you never speak to her, because as a woman, she's not only messing with your psyche, she is harming your body image and sense of self-love. Femininity is important, however you define it.
but if these kids were to go online and talk about their business happening between them and their parents, the first thing that their parents would say would be to keep the family business within the family. HYPOCRITES
I really don't get the goal they think this would accomplish. If you "win", now you just embarrassed your child and made yourself look bad. If you lose, now you got a child that doesn't respect you And they know they can beat you🧍♀️ Even if you dont fight them, why all of Facebook need to know whats going on in your house😑
children acting provocatively can often be a sign of grooming/sa. now whether that’s from the parents or somebody at school or especially the very online spaces they’re in idk, but it’s really telling either way, and embarrassing them on social is the worst fucking thing you could ever do. sit down and have a talk with them. either you’re actively harming them, or your child seriously needs your help. you’re a parent, not a dictator
Exactly and its insane that no one mentions this. They really think these little girls are acting sexual just bc they want to? Out of the blue? These mothers would rather beat their kids and traumatize them then ever try to ask them what's really going on
@@jspsand7085 wtf is wrong with you, these kids are literally all under the age of 18 and you think it's their fault that they're doing sexual things? Istg I hope you don't have kids you'd definitely fuck them up
That second clip of the mom exposing their daughter for telling ppl she loves them is disgusting. Obviously she wants to feel loved and she as a mom isn’t giving it to her, so she should be asking why she feels the need to be so romantic with ppl instead of bashing her!! She’s just exposing herself as an emotionally neglectful and immature parent
My dad decided to "embarass" me in front of my classmates about some homework nonsense because he thought it would make him look cool, raising his voice and shit, That was the last time anyone would see me in public with that dude. Trying to ruin my life because you ruined yours lmao foh..
I think the parent is saying they don’t know how to wipe properly is to show them they are still a child and that the mom does their laundry. I will say when I grew up you got embarrassed at school. However, my brother just caught his 13yr old snap chat and taking mirror photos and sending to boys. And discussing bad things. It’s sooo hard to raise teenagers especially when they discover sexual stuff. Very sad and hard. Moms just don’t want they kids to not have a teenage pregnancy
I'm pretty sure that whole wipe your ass thing is a figure of speech. Like I always heard people say that like to emphasize how young someone is. I guess it's like calling em a baby
Pathetic. I don’t care what my daughter does I’ll never put her mistakes online for the world to see . This is also child abuse. These parents need to take some parenting classes or something .
I somewhat disagree with Dee. If the kid is smoking, drinking acting a mess on IG Live or Snapchat Live, I don't think there is anything wrong with the parents reprimanding their kids online; however, cursing the kid out and beating is disgusting. Now if it happens off of Social Media, it does not need to be broadcast.
Single mother households. Unless you've got the support of your family, those kids will act out. Working moms may take out their work environment angry on the kids. Dinner might be skipped, failing grades, the child might tell the parent No, they might tell lies and snoop around behind your back. Then mom, still needs her own energy for work the next day and want a break and go out with friends - staying out late when she needs to make sure the child is ready for bed.
Discipline comes in different forms if the parent doesn't want to or like to physically woop there kids so sometimes embarrassing your kids is another way to tell your kids if you do embarrassing ish you gon get embarrassed
@@krys7667 so I guess you are telling you kids to go to there rooms if they acted up and if so then you are not disciplining your kids because just talking to them and just telling them to go to there rooms is not going to work
@@ashtonramsey386 Yeah imma tell them to go to their rooms, then I’m gonna calm myself down and talk to them, IN PRIVATE WITHOUT THE ENTIRE INTERNET WATCHING, and tell them that since they can’t handle social media or havin a phone then they don’t need one. Then I take the phone and they don’t get one until they can pay for it themselves. If they talk or fight back then I woop Em. Keep in mind this is all without bein live on social media. THAT is discipline. Threatening yo kid and dehumanizing them in front of dozens of strangers isn’t discipline, it’s just you lettin yo anger use you. Be the mature parent that every kid deserves and THINK like you claim them kids should’ve
@@krys7667 discipline is not all anger it's disappointment in your child for disobeying when they know better but also knowing that they need discipline for them disobeying rules because breaking rules have consequences if you didn't know so that's where if they are not understanding after the talk or multiple talks then that's where humbling your kid comes in and that can either be by giving them whoopings and if that don't work embarrass them in front of there friends because they tend to listen to them or there own self's rather than there own parents and embarrassing them is not for the parents amusement it just another form of discipline so they can understand its much worse out in the world thinking you can just break rules and not get punished
And they wonder why kids be growing up defiant, violent, ruthless, reckless, and etc and yes the kids be messing up bad but the parents make it worse by the way they're handling it like that should be kept in the household not for the whole world to see
I’ve never fathomed why parents feel the need to show everything to social media like that won’t exacerbate the problem while demonstrating how atrocious and morally reprehensible of parents they are
Not like this though, all you do when you do stuff like this is show everyone why yo kid ended up so undisciplined and wild, cuz you a failure of a parent
@@krys7667 TO be fair peoples temperment an attitude are genetic to a large degree. So you aint gonna be teaching away alot of these bad habits on these kids
@@rgonzalo511 That really doesn’t hold up. Yes some personality traits are passed on from parent to child, but that doesn’t mean you can’t help them overcome that. If you got an abusive parent with anger issues, yes the kid might have anger issues to but if TAUGHT RIGHT he can learn to not act on those feelings of anger.
2:31 Tmi she didn’t need to expose her ass like that, she could have just told her off on having Snapchat then having her delete that we didn’t need to know all that.
I tried to tell my cousin the same thing about her daughter with instagram her response was she never see them in person I told my cousin your daughter be moan and send pictures she just said time are different than when we was younger and just keep saying she will never meet those boys on instagram.
Being a hypocrite parent is the easiest way to have your children lose respect for you. Children and teens look up to older people for guidance and are VERY observant. They WILL notice when you are not practicing what you preach and it WILL affect how they see you. A lot of these kids are following their parents' example, and sometimes the reason the parents get so mad is because they are seeing what THEY raised and are embarrassed by it. But instead of acknowledging (and apologizing) for their poor influence, they want to get angry and cuss out their kids, as if the kids raised themselves. I'm not saying bad kids can't come from good parents and vice versa, but in most cases, the apple does not fall far from the tree, and the current generation has a massive accountability problem.
i dont agree with publicly humiliating your children under the pretense of disciplining them...but since you cant break a 2x4 across their backs so they know to stay in a child's place, discipline them with what's available lmaoooo,
or how about be an actual parent instead of just a donor or an incubator who provides? how about you sit down with your child and question what's going on and why they feel the need to act like that? so many of these young kids could've been experiencing SA, gr00ming, all sorts and you'd never know because you're a bad parent.
its easy to sit and preach your ideals on what you think is right, i firmly believe in a good ol fashion buttwhooping... and I will not negotiate with a child, my roof my rules :)
This moment will stick with there’s children for the rest of their life and after things like this they expect their child to come crawling back like no and then it’s like I get they did smth wrong but for u to film it and put it online for everyone to see like what type of punishment is that
Kids learn this crap from school TV and the Internet doesn't have to come from home this is why they shouldn't be on there and parental locks needs to be on everything
Please stop saying these kids are getting from the parents when there is the internet now and peer pressure… I swear yall love blaming everything on the parents when yall don’t have answers for the crazy shit these grown ass kids be doing🤦🏽♀️
Uhh we do have an answer, these grown ass adults can’t even handle they own anger and decide to show the world how much they’ve failed as parents. If you can see this type of behavior and not hold the adults somewhat accountable then I sincerely hope you never have children of your own. Become infertile
@@krys7667 Nah you dont know what you talking about. Kid's outside enviroment is gonna have a much stronger influence on how they behave than the enviroment at home.
@@rgonzalo511 it really don’t. There are countless people raised in ghettos who become more than what they are. If you can’t raise yo kids right then just say that. Don’t go blaming random people or things. If the outside environment has more effect on yo child then you failed to establish a good relationship on them
@@krys7667 No it doesn't. First of we need to establish a simple fact and that is that exceptions don't disprove general rules. This is a very basic scientific concept but apparently it's not really known by the general public. But in short, just because SOME kids become more than their environment doesn't negate the fact that MOST kids don't. Having some members who buck a trend doesn't cancel out the larger trend. Hopefully I explained it well. Also these is scientific fact not opinion. If you care too, check out the 50/0/50 rule of developmental psychology. As it's a little too complex for me to explain it in a comment. But just know that among the scientific community this is not even a debate it's just a well established fact that needs no further discussion.
If yall being real parents can teach till they breath blue and ah child won’t listen I was one of them but I don’t condone videoing it’s extra but most people who comment on this don’t have kids and don’t know what it is to. Actually be ah parent 24/7
A lot of mothers hate their children. My mother despises me and has been toxic with me ever since. Why choose to have kids and you dont want to love, nurture, and teach them proper etiquette. A lot of kids are gonna grow up not having any contact with their parents
I can’t stand parents who do stupid shit like this. Like you recording them and embarrassing them is ridiculous bc it ultimately falls back on you. Children are a reflection of you and how you raised them. If they’re on social media acting “grown”, that’s your fault. If you’re yelling at them about “oh you do this but you don’t know how to do this, that and the third-“, but who’s at fault for that? The parent. “Parents” who do this are the ultimate losers.
I highly doubt this lil kids parents be encouraging them to act "grown". More than likely they picked up that habit from their friends or kids at school.
@@rgonzalo511 I’m not saying that the parents are encouraging them. I’m saying it ultimately falls back on the parent because it doesn’t matter if they could’ve possibly picked this up from the other kids, the behaviors and mindset starts from home. If they actually did their jobs as parents and try to build them up instead of taking the time to tear them down and embarrass them, I guarantee you the kids wouldn’t be so quick to act “grown”. Kids who do stuff like this are essentially doing this as cry for help. Keep in mind, parent who likes to play social media games like this when it comes to their kids are the ones neglecting them.
@@janycegonzalez Yeah imma have to respectfully dissagree. You can teach your kids all the values you want. At the end of the day fitting in with their peers and society is simply more important to them. And its not even close. And if acting "freaky" is what's "normal" then most kids are gonna do it in order to fit in. That's why you gotta raise children in enviroments that promote positivity. So the peers your child interacts with instill good values in them. Not just you as the parent doing all the work. But even then you cant control what society at large values. So its difficult honestly. Its never as simple as "oh its the parents fault". Life is more complex than that. Which is my only complain when this topic comes up. Alot of times there's isnt a single thing to point the finger towards. And its more of systemic issue.
@@rgonzalo511 yeah we can agree to disagree bc I believe it’s not a systemic issue bc at the end of the day, you bought kids into this world so you are responsible for how your kids behave and their mindset bc it all starts from home.
Tbh, I don’t think this should be the proper way of disciplining ur child… you may think that’s positive reinforcement of embarrassing the child but you are only embarrassing yourself as the parent.
The problem with these parents that pisses me off is that your child is being influenced by what you say and what your doing or by their peers cause they want to fit in..but instead of you talking to them like a human being you choose to embarrass then, abuse them, and make them hate you...its not their fault you chose to keep them, so you could at least treat them with respect...i hate these parents if you can even call them that Edit: alot of these women are jealous of there daughters and mad that they cant pop their ass no more cause they got kids...so they project that on to their daughters and wanna embarrass them and harm them
Y’all sound dense in this comment section. These young girls go missing, get trafficked and all sorts of things happen to them so if this what it takes to save your child from the dangers that exist, then I’m all for it.
How is this going to save your child from those atrocities. You think the perpetrators care about your disciplining your child online. Nope. This solves absolutely nothing.
@@Beenana09 I’ve never taken time to analyze the mind of a predator but I DO know that they seek children who are timid and who appear to not have parents or family that love and protect them. I’m sure a few will be deterred when they see that their “prey” has that kind of protection and awareness within their household.
@@Meh4991z or they’ll be more likely to prey on children who are depressed and sad because their parents publicly broadcast their “protection” by cursing, embarrassing their child, and being violent
@@Meh4991z I agree the perpetrators look for weak people without a strong guidance in their victims lives. However on the flip side this may be just the fuel they need to get a kid who is already rebellious and manipulate the child against the parent. Either way if protecting the child from the internet is the intent then why post them at all. It’s doesn’t make sense.
