Marriage is a partnership. And a man needs to know how to cook, clean,and needs to do his own wash. And better be a good father and that means helping with the children. Especially if both mom n dad both work. And no way would I every allow my husband to live with in laws. Nor would I put up with excess visits from the in laws. You need to tell MIL to mind her own own business and stay out of yours. Evidently Ryan is a mommy's baby. Divorce the jerk.
Why would he prefer his mothers opinion than his wife’s ill really tell them both off ,I don’t hold back but only when they are rude don’t criticize your DIL it’s not just done