US Teachers that fail to stop bullying should lose their paychecks, pensions, retirement credit, etc. If you're not doing your job, why should you be paid for it?
Although I agree that teachers have to intervene, I disagree on the punishment - being a teacher does not fully equate to being responsible for raising all the kids/students. That responsibility still lies on the parents' shoulders.
They are asked not to get in the middle of it. If you get a rich kid, the parents can sue the school and pretend the teacher hit the kid or something when they're breaking them apart. At least this is how it is in Alaska.
Ok time to carry my compass to school! ^^ Also i had a story like this once where this kid was extra critical and kept asking me why i was carrying my sketch book So i snapped at him and said "Well, if your so interested, why not have a pencil in your eye, too?"
That's so common that i suspect half of people's bullies are just people who wanna befriend you but are affraid of rejection so they abuse you instead because if they can't be your friend, they can at least be your problem
I was 13 at the time and my bully always called out on me and after a half year, i punched him straight in the skull for a few times and broke my wrist with it... we both ended up in the hospital. He with his smashed head and i with my broken wrist. The doctor knew what was going on and we were in detention together afterwards... we came together as friends in detention and ended up smoking weed together after HS. Now he is my best friend and helped me trough my depression... i never thought this would end so good for us :)
Dented a locker with his head. This was the culmination of a whole year of relentless bullying in plain sight of teachers who did nothing despite my multiple complaints. After this incident I, and only I, got in trouble. Love the bullying policies schools have.
Lol, yeah, principles/teachers are useless, only parrotting the same bs. Till I was like "yall useless, I take care of it myself" the guy, joey, thought he could handle it by his own. I totalled him, he was picked up by the ambulance. Broken nose, jaw, arm. I didnt stop till they dragged me away from him. I still wanted to go back full in, I wasnt done with him. They told me that I went all in and dragged me off as the guy was already unconscious. Lol.
I was repeatedly bullied for years (punching pushing verbal etc.) And one day I decided I would stand up to him. So I yelled at him to stop and pushed him. I got suspended and he was not punished at all.
I was bullied severely through grade school and junior high. In 5th grade, my worst bullies cornered me atop the monkey bars so I couldn't come down from them during the whole recess without risking whatever they were planning on doing to me when I hit the ground. Likely steal my hat and throw it in the dirt, then make fun of me for my half-bald head (I have a condition that makes me lose my hair sometimes). Anyway, I finally snapped and spat on them. I got three days of in-school detention; they had no repercussions. Later that year, I faked an injury to get away from them and try to get sent home or to hospital, anywhere but there. Got a week of in-school suspension that time. I was repeatedly told to just ignore the bullies and they'd leave me alone if I didn't react, but obviously that didn't work. None of the bullies ever got in trouble over anything, as far as I can remember. Not even the time they pulled my wig off my head during a school and parent assembly, when our choir was singing for the parents. School was great.
i remeber in grade 10 art class one of the bullies in the class tired to wreck my painting , he grabbed the frame and tried to bend it, i super kicked him, he fell over and got up and told the teacher, she said well your an asshole so you deserve it , she looked at me and said about time you stood up to him.
I'm sure this is from your experience, but maybe you changed it up a little to sound better. If the teacher really did say that, then she was fully aware of the bullying and did nothing. I think it's a little wrong of her to just hope that you would do something.
This girl in middle school who was the "popular girl" decided to walk up to me and say " why do you wear the same shoes every day" "Because daddy's money doesnt buy me anything , sorry in not spoiled" That's what I said
I feel for poor Katie. I already thought it sounded like my own story, but when she mentioned the Katie touch, suddenly I was back in third grade again, sitting by myself on the playground and crying because I had just heard Colin react with disgust at the thought of inviting me to his birthday party. (Which in hindsight was not so important, but he really did invite everyone in class excluding me.) I hated that school. Even in 5th and 6th grade, the teachers always found a way to tell me they couldn't be bothered to help.
1st day of High School a guy thought he was going to establish dominance over me and attempted to quietly steal my backpack from under my desk. As he reached over, I quickly stood up and punched him in the face so hard it knocked him out of his desk. He said "What's your problem?", I said "You are, now stand up and I'm going to finish you!" He didn't stand up, I went back to my desk and sat down. I got the reputation as someone not to F with that day.
That crap with the pushover irresponsible teacher that didn't do anything makes me livid, I'm surprised thy didn't go postal on them. Edit: The first one not the second one.
@@Slavino Some school shootings are caused by real students, but a lot of them are distractions or to push an agenda. The cabal organizes school shootings to push their agenda of taking away guns.
I was in high school (UK) when I made a new friend. One of his old friends called Edward didn't like the fact his mate spent more time hanging out with me than him, and he kept pushing me around, calling me names etc. Told teachers repeatedly, but they did nothing. One day, walking behind me in the hallway, Edward punched me in the back of the head. I had a rage moment, back-elbowed him in the face, turned and punched him, then grabbed his hair and started smashing his head into one of those old style cast iron ribbed radiators, whilst also kneeing him in the face. Left him on the floor unconscious and bleeding heavily. Somehow never got in trouble for it and he ended up being a lot more civil to me after that. That saying..."violence is never the answer"?...total garbage...violence is the BEST answer, because nothing else works.
Please never tell someone to ignore the bullies it doesn’t work, I got bullied the entirety of primary school and 3 years of high school. I was really quite, I had a lot of anxiety, the only reason the bulling stopped is cause it got to the point where I was bringing in a knife to protect myself after some boys tried to set me on fire on the way home from school, I was moved school and it was the first time I ever had a stranger be nice to me, it felt good. A lot of friends I have now who also used to be bullied their bullying stopped once they stood up to them, so if you’re getting bullied stand up for yourself, even if they are stronger still do it cause they will know every time they fuck with you you’re gonna keep coming back and not put up with their shit, I wish I did that.
Honestly, all teachers I've ever met were completely useless when it comes to bullying and when I took bullying into my own hands, I'm the one in trouble?
Kid in my friends class (who we will call fat goblin) was pressuring my friend(E) to dance for the gym activity (it was a tik tok one and it was one of the worst choices the teachers made). E said no and fat goblin kept pressuring her. E told me about her and I told her to keep on saying no and ignore fat goblin But that little shit kept on bothering her. At one point, she came up to us and said "E, you're dancing for the camera." E snapped and yelled no so many times at her face. I even threatened her not to threaten her. The day came, I warned E that if she bothered you again, I'll come to your gym class and beat the living shit out of her. My friend was thankful for me. Nothing happened, E didn't dance for the camera and she recorded it instead. I got more stories of fat goblin being a preturd to E and I.
For nearly a year I was bullied by a guy on my sports team. I was really small and he took advantage of that. One day he pinned me down and punched me but I managed to get out from under him and kick him in the face. He cried and never messed with me again. I wasn’t even angry, just wanted to stand up for myself because coaches and adults refused to do anything about it.
I remember in elementary there was a kid I used to hangout with, and it was primarily because we were both outcasts. Three kids bullied us relentlessly, but we dealt with them near the end of year 3. My friend and I called them out while we were all walking home and they immediately came over. We argued for a while until one of them threw a fake punch. I immediately spat in his face and punched him, my friend kicked another right in the nose. The third guy was about to throw in but my friends younger brother kicked him in the balls and he was out the whole time. We won the fight but my friend just kept hitting the bully and wouldn’t stop. Some adults showed up and I was trying to get him to run with me but he wouldn’t, he just kept slamming the kids face on the pavement. I wasn’t about to leave him so I grabbed him and pulled him off and had to drag him into the woods. Turns out the kids he’d kept beating was blind in his right eye and deaf in his right ear. Some time last year he had a stroke and it pretty much melted the right half of his body. The other two bullies haven’t had the best time either. One of them got over a hundred years in prison for murder and the other guy overdosed on heroin. I’m gonna be honest and say that I don’t feel bad for them whatsoever.
I remember back in middle school there was this kid who used to bully me a lot. There was no major size difference between the 2 of us. But due to him bullying me. His sister did to. I had enough one day so I cussed her out. Then outside during free time he came up to me to fight about me insulting his sister. So I threw a punch with all the force I could and connected with his face. I did it so hard I fractured my own wrist and practically shattered his jaw. He was in the hospital for a bit. And I did not even notice the fracture till I got home later that day due to the adrenaline. Plus I got suspended and nearly expelled due to the damage I caused that kid. No regrets tho. Little shit deserved it
I was bullied from 4th to 8th grade. Everyday the kids from both my grade and the grade below me would call me ugly and weird. One time this girl called me ugly when I was getting into math class. I snapped and I spit in her face and ran away laughing my ass off while her 4 friends held her back. Another time (at another school) I was called squid over the school year and had had enough. I snapped and I turned around and stomped over to her face and yelled “back off” and then she pushed me and I made myself fall in a way that the teachers would see me sliding across the hallway. Both incidents ended the bullying for the most part.
I am bullied on middle school. Than I was into punk rock, joined music club, made some friends, dressed like trashy punk rock and they stop messing with me. I don't even realize that.
I was bullied from my first day of school ever until 7th grade. But one day on the bus, no one would let me sit with them. I sat with this one kid and he hit me with my clarinet case repeatedly until he got out of the seat. I read it kicked him to the floor, and then proceeded to stomp his chest in until he was coughing up blood. Turns out one of his bones pierced his lung. I ended up with a severe concussion because of him though, so no charges were pressed
One person was bulling a friend, the bully was 2 years older, an 8 years old dude, I was 6 at the time, got between the two, punch him once, in the face, he ended up bleeding and running away, hit me once against the wall but that wasn't strong, so I ended up with almost no injuries and he ended up with all the face covered in blood and too embarrassed because a 6 years old beat him with just one punch to seek help or trying anything else. Never mess with my friends
At this point, I just wanna know why some teachers will constantly demand for higher pay. If part of their job is to make sure bullying is prevented, and they are blatantly ignoring it, only punishing the victims that fight back, they have no say in how much they're paid. I know it's kinda political and all that, but to those who DO get involved and punish the bully, good on you; you deserve the money. Bur to those who don't, don't *EVER* demand that you deserve more. You want it? Like good old capitalism, EARN IT.
My cousins story (btw its true lol) Bully: comes towards my cousin to steal his lunch My cousin : my cousin put chilli sauce in his sandwich Bully : starts to realize that there is chilli sauce Also my cousin: punches bully and breaks his nose Bully : starts to tear up and since then never has been a nuisence to him Me after listening to this story becasue i new that my cousin finally stood up for him self since the school wasn : Yaas queen i stan you for punching him💅✌
Was in a boys home with a kid when I was 8-9 years old. Randomly met again at a pizza hut in my teens. He was a lil concerned that I recognized him but we hung out and played the arcades. We ended up at the same school where he bullied be every day by pushing me into my locker whenever he passed. I think he didn't want people to know he was in a boys home as a kid, so he was mean to me. Well, one day, he pushed me into my locker and I snapped. Turned around and hip flipped him onto the ground where I punched him once in the face and kicked him twice before he got up and ran. Chased him down the hall and caught in a reverse bear hug and was about to body slam the kid when outta the corner of my eye I saw the front desk lady looking at me very startled. So I slowly turned from side to side (as if I was really hugging him) and put him down. I got suspended for 3 days. Worth it. He never bothered me again and I told everyone the one thing he didn't want me to. And it was a mental health hospital, not a boys home. I just consider it to be. Most of us were just ADHD and didn't belong there.
In 7th grade i was being bullied by an 8th grader for being fat. He told me he was gonna jump me after school. So i walked out holding my history book, as he approached me and attempted to punch me i swung my book at his head. He fell and started crying, he was fine, just hurt. The teachers knew about the bullying and let me off with a 1 day suspension. My bully never looked at me again, and i got alot of respect for it.
Story of my own (though not as intense as some of the other stuff I've read) : In prep to grade 3 I went to a school where my friend group and especially myself were bullied an unbelievable amount. My best friend had recently gotten a black eye from getting punched in the face and my bullies tried to spread rumours about us being gay (we weren't) it was one day with a sub that the bullies tried to tell on me for saying the f word (I didn't but since there was like 7 of them it was believable) then I saw red and started yelling every profanity I could think of as loud as I could, don't remember much but I basically told them something along the lines of this "do not bad mouth my friends behind our backs, do not hurt my friends, do not bad mouth others behind there mouths and just don't be overall b*tches" the teacher didn't take my side. Ended up taking the class outside (along with me) and explained that everything I did was ridiculous and the usual stuff me and my friend (not the one with the black eye she was in a different class) ended up leaving and just walking around the yard waiting for the sub to finish talking. Bullying got worse but my parents were never called or anything and if my parents were called they didn't tell me. Edit - spelling and grammar errors
I remember once when some kids kept slapping my head, i told my teacher and she said "Just stay there and don't fight back" (she said something like that but that was what she meant) I told my dad and when me and my dad were going home, we saw one of the bullies and my dad told him to come over, then some other stuff happened and I stopped getting bullied.
I was that kid that was berated and tuned on and smacked around all through elementary and high school, K-12, and by everybody. Well, not senior year because I finally had enough and started dishing it back out, and people started leaving me alone. But to be honest, I had to stop the video halfway through because it’s kinda unearthing shit that I’d much rather keep locked away and not deal with. Idk why this is even in my suggested videos to watch
Sorry to hear about your difficulties. But please don't keep it locked, if it bothers you, could you talk to somebody about it? I think ultimately unhealthy to not process it. It just increases anxiety that you might not even realize what it's about, if you keep many negative thoughts bottled. Just my two cents, all the best to you! (I was bullied as well, you're not alone bro)
it’s interesting to me that everyone claims to see red before having an outburst of violence, maybe it’s just me but when i’ve had enough of someone’s constant BS i feel more like i throw their regards out the window and do what i want. i wouldn’t say that it’s out of anger or rage, but if i’m violent to someone it’s because i’ve chosen not to care about them because their in some sense, in my way. i have no actual desire to hurt anyone but if someone blocks the door i need to walk through, i have no remorse for stabbing them out of my way.
Love when you get in trouble for reacting to a bully and you tell the principal _"I only did it because theyve been doing [cruel behavior] to me all year"_ and they say _"we know but its still not a reason to act like that"_ Sorry, can we backtrack for a sec- _"we know"_ ? I tell you this has been happening for years, and you tell me *_"We know"_* ?????????? You tell me *_you know_* i've been being treated like this, and _nobody ever fucking did anything??_
I just smashed her calculator on the pavement with my friends and almost got suspended. Funny how _that's_ when the teachers decided to step in, and not for the multiple times I came to them about her bullying me
I hate how most teachers don't give a crap about kids being bullied. I was getting bullied once right in front of my class but she carried on with the lesson like nothings happening. And then they tell us we can talk to them about anything we are having trouble with.
The last 2 years of high school I endured verbal abuse (U.K.) Went to the teachers 5 times in a short space of time nothing. Gave up for a couple months, had the last straw, returned 1 more time, the teacher said I should have kept coming, why, what’s the point if you have no intention of helping. I’m not confrontational so I said if you don’t do something it will continue, so either you start dealing out punishments or I’ll just break his nose, she believed me (I was bluffing, I might have gotten there soon but at that time I wouldn’t have snapped) she called in 1 of the bullies, he got one detention. The bullying continued a little bit, I’ll see if it continues at college (during corona)
Theres many times I've snapped at bullies, but came up with fruitless efforts. The only reason it somewhat stopped was because I stood up for two of them in a class and almost got suspended for it. That was the first time in 7 years that my classmates began to respect me for once. Unfortunately it was at the middle/end of our 8th grade year and we were going to different high schools. Now I'm in a new school with only 1 kid from my old school and she abandoned me for other people
A friend of mine got pushed by one of the popular bullies in our school,so I dicided to go up to him and say back off but I said it so loud that half of the students in the cafeteria heard it. So he left and most of the students who heard it gave me a round of applause.
I was steadily bullied from 4th grade throughout high school. In 7th grade, there was this one bully who just picked at me constantly, at one point my locker was broken into and all my textbooks were stolen, so my parents had to pay for new ones (not at all cheap and we were pretty poor). At this point, I keep all my textbooks in my backpack. During lunch, I get my food, put it on the table with some of my friends, go to get some condiments and return to the bully sitting in my seat, and eating my lunch. in my mind, I tell myself to just walk away, just walk away. Something in the back of my head says, nope, not this time. I whip around at full force sliding my backpack (full of all my textbooks and notebooks) down my arm grabbing the strap in my hand and hit the bully square in the face/chest. Sending him off the bench and a little way across the tiled floor. He immediately gets up and in my face. Teachers aids break it up and I get taken to the Disciplinarians office. She asks me my name, I tell her, she sighs as she realized that my older brother just left the school I just started and he was a problem child. Now she has to deal with me and thinks I'm the same. looks up my file and realizes that I've never been in trouble before and tells me she has to call my parents to let them know what happened. I'm scared but understand. the bully on the other hand is scoffing at her, being a jerk. she tells him to go sit down and she'll deal with him, asks me what happened I tell her. I ended getting "suspended" when I looked at the date it was on a school holiday. I was confused and being the good kid that I have mentioned it to her. she just smiled and said, I talked to your mom and yes I know what that date is. So the suspension never actually went on my record, and the billy stopped bothering me but kept at it with two of my friends, but those are stories for another day.
Apparently bullying does not exist in my school •If you tell an adult your labeled as a snitch •If you get offended they automatically say “it’s a joke” after they make fun of one of your dead relatives •If you stand up for yourself your automatically shut down by more then half the class by insults and excuses •If you lose your temper your labeled as “the one with anger issues” and more bullies target you •if you show any emotion they’ll use it to there advantage and push you further to your limit *ALSO* if you show no emotion you get more attention and more people to try and break you. *your lucky if nobody notices you, but enjoy that time while you can* My school is ruthless and it’s even worse for you if your black/Asian/Hispanic (I’m blashian) Because along with bullies there’s trump supporters and racists You have to have strong mental and physical health otherwise you won’t make it. (I’m near crashing..)
Back in 8th grade i was a treasurer. There was this troublemaker that never pays even though he's clearly loaded. He and his friends also starts calling me names. The bullying didn't get physical since its an islamic school so boys and girls aren't allowed to touch. I was polite and shy. He was the reason i started cussing. I'm not staying quiet. One time i yelled at him to "go die". We got into argument and i told him, "you are a total embarrasment for your parent. I pity them having a trash as a son." He was speechless and almost got violent. The teachers stepped in and make him apologize to me(and the rest of the class). By the end of the year he had became a better person. I was traumatized and never accepted treasurer or any similar position again. Never got bullied again.
Imagine having the guts to bully a 6"5 person when you are probably like 5"11 and then you get your ass slammed into a locker 1980's style. Lmao that story got me at the end ngl.
for two and a half years in grade school i was bullied constantly. one day, i didn't see red, i didn't feel angry, i just chose one of the bullies, handed my books to my sister and told her to tell mom i was taking care of business with the bully. i beat the crap out of her. her mother called my mother and mom told her that kids get in fights all the time. the school wanted to take me, the tiniest person in my class, and send me to the school for delinquent kids. fortunately, someone talked them out of it, but i was blamed for everything. the victim is ALWAYS punished and the bully ALWAYS gets away with it. two teachers and my mother came up with a plan that worked with the nicer kids and the bullying ended. i have NO forgiveness for those teachers, principal, or the kids who bullied me. they had a great run of two and a half years and i doubt they regret a single second of it.
I turned around and bullied my bully. I was "the good kid" that would take shit for a while, then just gut punch the bully right out of view from a teacher, and then play dumb around the teacher. "What? Why would I hit him?" He couldn't do crap as he was known to be a "bad kid". Over time, I turned it into a taunt, looking at him while standing near teachers. I got tired of it, but bully never started back up. I also remember eventually making fun of his broken home. I regret that.
7th grade, I kept getting hit and insulted from this kid that sat behind me on the bus, one day I'd finally had enough and turned around and just started punching until my arms started going numb. Of course, I couldn't claim self-defense because this was the _one_ day there was an assistant bus driver on the bus, so the staff still expected me to take the abuse and tell the driver (which I'd done before to no effect) even though they had several days worth of video footage of me being attacked without fighting back before this, even with their regular data cleaning. After the both of us got back from a 3 day suspension, I went from the nerdy kid no one would want to hang with, to 'school shooter' rumors being made about me. No one bullied me again, but I never made another friend for the rest of my years at school.
God, a lot of these stories make me so pissed off at the teachers just either neglecting or taking a side of the bullies. As an educator you should be ashamed if somebody tells you they're being bullied and you do nothing about it
Two years ago when I was 15, my friend was being bullied relentlessly, i man like shoving him punching him, verbal abuse, it was horrible. He is a pacifist, and it was 5 people who were a year older than them. I finally got sick of my friend getting bullied, and I met the 5 bullies (year older than me.). And I beat the crap out of them. By the time I was done they swore they would never bully another person again. Just asked my friend for a update, and they have completely stopped bullying and are actually top students now. Sometimes Jerks need to be taught that there are consequences for their actions. I am so proud of them. (No I never told my friend)
One of my ‘friends’ actually, he would stab me with pencils and shit. So this one time during lunch in 9th grade, he stabs me as usual except i start bleeding. I tell him to stop and he does it one more time and grabed him by the shirt and flung him across the hall (hes like 4 11 and im 5 9). Teacher saw what happened and took me to the nurse and took him too the principal. That was awsome
Girl picked on me in 5th grade for not being like her and her friends, and for telling me to not make a fuss about things on other people. Note that I was a new student there at the time, and most of the students there sidelined me a lot at the time. During PE I had enough, and pushed the bully back with all my force. Nearly fell, we both got lectured, and the bullying continued. As *if* most people there genuinely wanted to help smh
My bully was kinda wimpy, and I never lost it. I hit puberty and shot up a foot. He tried to start something by punching me as hard as he could. It didn't hurt, so I just stood there and stared at him. He rushed off and never bothered me again. After that was all settled, he became kind of a decent dude, as did his friends.
In 7th grade my friends were friends with this one kid who was a new student. I tried to be friends with him as well but he kept calling me a loser and just being generally annoying. At my friends birthday party he slapped my thigh really hard so I did the same to him and everyone got mad at me and the bully acted like he didn’t do anything wrong. Fast forward to another party and I was playing around and blocked my friends ball the he shot at a basket at a trampoline park. So I blocked the ball and the bully came up and punched me so I only saw red and picked him up by his shirt (he was bigger than me) and smashed him into the wall. Everyone got mad at me except for my friend that is now in Alaska who understood my anger and talked to me to calm me down because I was on the verge of calling my parents
I’d been bullied by the same people since 6th grade. At that point they were all bigger than me and I cried a lot, so that didn’t help. Near the end of 8th grade is when I was finally done. I didn’t actually punch them but I wish I had. It was ages gym class and we were all in the locker rooms. This one guy kept talking shit and was finally done with it. At this point I was like six inches taller than ask of them and my voice had gotten really low. I went up to him, stared down at him and said, “Piss me off again and I’m going to break your face.” As he was running out of the bathroom (he was done changing already) I told him to tell all of good friends too. None of them talked to me after that.
Once in 8th grade my bully was pushing me and i was scared from him, i tried to hit his shoulder but i accidentally slapped him so hard he fell on his ass then he attacked me when i did some matrix sh*t then i shoved him to the wall he never bullied me again and i felt so powerful and i got a bit popural Sorry for the bad English
I saw a guy in high school try to stand up to his bully. The bully grabbed his arm pulled him halfway to the ground and stabbed him in the neck with a pen then punched him in the face when he started crying...sometimes it doesn’t work out
I wouldn't teach a kid that violence isn't the answer, but it is the really, *really* the last choice. Except on life threat situation with no escape, there go full berserk lol
Woo boy I have 2 stories so basically I used to go to a late night church event that happened On Friday’s , it was a excuse to get away from home go and socialize with friends have fun etc our church was pretty diverse too literally every type of person worked there and we actually had lgbt on our staff who were the nicest people ever and made me have a deep respect for the community which I already had to begin with . So back my junior year I was a quiet guy minded his Own business and had a small circle of friends we decided to open the circle more and let more people on one of them was this white kid were gonna call him G . G was in the beginning decent guy just wanted to have fun and I could understand that but he often dated people from the church which I learned the hard way wasn’t a good idea and he resulted to bullying me to get over his bad relationships , one time the first time he would throw insults at me during service usually I would let this slide but something about it made it to extreme and went to a pastor member but I told him to make my name anonymous so no one figured out it was me , a week later someone snitched and told them I was the one who did it and he hurled more insults at me for weeks , again I was quiet about it not the type to encourage conflict unless needed too, he then one time after the after party of service was insulting me publicly right in front of a girl I really liked and both her and I really didn’t like it I asked him nicely to stop he kept going I then again in a higher tone said again to stop he kept going after being quiet about it I literally shouted at him G I said that’s enough in the loudest voice I ever gave off in public people said I had a drill instruction voice which was super deep and loud I yelled so loud the whole church heard it and was silent, for about 5 minutes even the staff were dead silent until the mood when back to normal G was so frightened over my reaction he fell on his back onto the floor i also had a really really bad day that night so I drove myself home as weeks passed he never showed up again and I shelved a deep hatred for him for weeks until one time I was getting doughnuts before service . He tried to play it casual and tried to apologize to me but I said “I don’t take apologies from pieces of shit like you” in the most sincere voice and left I kinda felt bad about it as I heard he was getting depressed by the day and I decided to call him up and say I forgave him we kinda drifted away after that , Depending on the likes I’ll tell you the 2nd story I’m not desperate for likes or any shit like that it’s just it shows people actually read this
A girl who was my friend used to always put me down and tell me wild stories that were obviously lies and she became increasingly controlling until one day she asked me to help her kill herself and I just went off the fucking rails. I didn’t understand why she was doing it it seemed like she was just doing it for fun and I think in a way she was so I used it as ammunition to bully HER with. I’m not proud of myself really I should have told a teacher but it was a very scary situation and because I had a family history she knew about I thought that’s why she’s doing this. Anyway it’s better than the alternative which was just blind compliance followed by a court case isn’t it?
I was in a confrontation with a bully. I had to fight it out because i wasn't gonna take anyones shit. They didn't bother me soon afterwards but i would've made him work for it if he tried to fight me again.
Schools are godawful about doing anything about bullying. Drives me nuts.i remember back in 7th grade had this kid constantly fuck with me, call me names, mess with my shit, insult my family etc. I had this note book where I liked writing stories, it was my way of escapism in life, not great at it but still love writing even today. Well one day this shithead decided to steal my notebook. I demanded he give it back and he proceeds to start flinging insults. I'll take a lot, I'm a very non-confrontational person. But that notebook was one my few safe refuges from the world. I lost my shit and punched him in the mouth, he fell backwards and I got on top and started wailing on him. Teacher pulled me off not long after. I got my notebook back and told him he touched it again and I'll get him where no one can save him. The teacher he knew what was going on so while I got ISS for a few days still, he was nice to me and had a talk with me about stuff. I'll never forget you sir.
I love how teachers do nothing for the bullied victim and the moment the victim fights back thats when teachers notice my teacher when I was a kid pulled this bullshit on me i was also 6'5 back in highschool i turned around beat the living shit out of the bully the teacher sent me to the principals office i called her a pathetic clown because she did literally nothing to prevent or stop the bully never bothered me again after that Edit: For those wondering the bullying has been going on since junior high this was end of senior year me and my parents complained about it multiple times principal and teachers did literally nothing to stop it like I said instead blamed me for the bullying yeah idk why.
Idea: if you can hold in the anger (which would probably consume you) until the final day of school or the final year of that school, you could just beat the bully that was building up your energy with almost to regret
She bullied me for 3 years non stop. She even got her mom to bully me too. Her mom would pick her up from school and follow me. I walled home, for several blocks shouting earthquake and calling me fatso. One day she calls me out into the hallway and I'm confronted by her and 3 of her friends. Whenever I get mad I get a southern draw. So when I went out I said "What do y'all want?" She found this funny. I got in her face and said "If you got a problem, fucking say it to my face." She threw a ball I guess she had been holding and it hit my face. I charged after her and I don't remember what happened next. All I know is I apparently tried to strangle her. I didn't get in trouble though. Her on the other hand got detention for a month and suspension for a week. Also she became a warning to others. A few years after that supposedly she overheard some people talking bad about me and explained that I am not to be messed with.
In middle high school, I got bullied a lot by some kid. One day he asked me to fight him after school, and I accepted. After 6 seconds he was screaming and crying, the next second I hit his head with my foot (he was already lying on the floor) and he was knocked out. Never got in trouble, no one ever talked about it. However, the kid has scars all over his face from the punches.
Back at the school, 2and grade, we used to have this ridiculous stainless steel rulers. One day one of my bullies of 3 years said something racist and bothered me. I took my steel ruler, closed my eyes and bit the crap out of him. When I opened my eyes again, the skin under his eye was bleeding. I was glad I didnt hit his eyes. He was crying and saying racist shits like: you ugly Chinese girl." Mind you, I am not Chinese and nor do I come from east asia. I am full ride south-middle east asian. I was always picked on because I looked east asian and had a slight accent and was a loner. I only had one friend. The other kids were disgusted by me, idk why... Nonetheless that day, his friends held me against the wall, while my bully punched me in the stomach, chest and legs. It hurt but I was laughing. He thought I was nuts for laughing out loud. I was laughing like a demon. I told him: "now this will happen again if you ever try to bully me and call me names". My bully stopped bullying me, he even went so far as to stop other kids from picking on me and bullying me. I changed my school, because of racism and bullying, and I never saw him again.
I graduated 5 years ago. I spent most of High School getting bullied, so on my last day, I walked up to every student I could see, every teacher within radius and even some parents, and told them to get fucked, with both middle fingers pointing at them. Moved away from that part of the country (I live in Australia), and am so glad I don't get to see anyone from High School anymore.
i was in middle school and getting ready to head to my next class. i went to my locker to grab my books for the next classes. a girl that was somewhat popular was standing at her locker which was above mine with her friend....and i guess she was showing off in front of her friend because she refused to let me in to my locker. next thing i know my hands reach out and grab her shirt and shove her against the locker....look into her eyes and said MOVE in a calm but firm voice. then shoved her to the side and got my stuff and walked away. she never bothered me again after that.. she was actually nice to me from then on!
It's so sad that a lot of the 'solutions' to making a bully stop is violence. What a messed-up world we live in. As for me, it wasn't a bully, but just someone I was arguing with or something (can't remember). Anyway, the boy pulled my thumb back and I remember experiencing excruciating pain. I instantly snap and go absolutely berserk. In no time at all I have a 30cm wooden ruler in my hand, and I repeatedly and rapidly smash the short, thin end of it on to the top of his head, over and over and over. The boy ended up having to go the school nurse, and I got in trouble (obviously). I can't remember what happened afterward, but I regret the use of a weapon to fight back with after being painfully assaulted. Now if I was assaulted like that normally, I'd use my body as a weapon, but that would have to be the limit. Using objects as weapons... just no. I honestly hope I never snap like that again, it's quite scary.
We were playing gym hockey. The biggest kid there was basically checking everyone and getting away with it. He was kind of ruining the game so I stepped up and checked him back hard. He raises the stick over his head and came at me like a samurai. I blocked it but I think he caught me in the pinky knuckle. Then I did this cool move where I tripped him and everyone cheered and picked me up Rudy style. Except for that last part I added because the teacher just broke it up and the kid was all like I'm gonna get you but he didn't do nothing after that. Then actually he probably had a new respect for me once he calmed down.
I've always been really protective over my food so when this guy decided to take my food and not give it back I swung my scooter at him. He never took my food again
My bully eventually became a friend of mine because he started to really notice how chill and popular I was. I never really snapped at him or really cared about him, but its all good now
Had a bully who stopped after one of his victims killed them self and had his name in the suicide note. How did he get the note? the kid took a picture and sent it to his best friend who then screamed at the boy and read it to him. Bully tried to continue bullying but at that point people would scream at him about the boy who died. Guy is still a piece of shit but figured out fast that people wouldn't talk or interact with him anymore.
I don't understand how teachers don't give an absolute shit about bullying but when the bullied kid fights back, teachers go fucking balistic. I'm really short for my age and I get picked on a lot (mostly as a joke by my friends) but sometimes it makes me mad as shit.
I was really depressed in middle school, and with the luck I had I gained a really toxic relationship. I knew it was bad, but I was so empty and sad that I didnt care. It was all mental abuse until she started hitting me, slapping me, kicking me, elbowing me etc. Leaving BRUISES. One day, she hit me and it hurt more than usual. I grabbed her hair, slammed her into a table, and kicked her harder than I've ever kicked. Needless to say she transferred schools
At my school you get in trouble for fighting back, but not for bullying. One day I completely snapped and decided to fight back. I'd be getting in trouble anyways, so I absolutely fucked her up. Got out of school suspension for the rest of the week. Mom and Dad completely backed me up and ripped school a new one. I got an early start to my break!
i remember breaking a chair in school full force because the teacher was terrible i have told this teacher "im dysgraphic my handwriting is not gonna be the best" many times and she said "lazy excuse to just say im not gonna participate in class" and bro ms piggie called SHE WANTS HER WIG BACK! like bro she for sure was bald and she never said a word about her having cancer and i know did not have it the teachers kid confirmed it because there was a rumor going around about it im pretty sure her eyebrows were fake too. but anywho she was always giving me a hard time about hand writing im ambidextrous and i can write with both hands but im not good with either hands when it comes to handwriting and she gave me bad grades and kept saying this "learn." she was a lunatic and after the last straw the 3 days away from the last day of school i snapped and got on my desk and jumped on the chair breaking it and i may or may not have concussed my self doing so because i fell after doing it it hurt but i was already mad so i broke it some more and then left the room to tell one of my moms to take me home i said "i threw up in the toilet of one of the bathrooms can you take me home?" and those two said sure and they said they were on there way.
Me but I'm the one who defended my best friend Narjis, we were friends since the beginning of grade 1 to now still, in grade 3 and 4 the boys were now being crackshits and energic asses. There was this one time when the boys came to the girls' toilet my best friend, Narjis got locked up inside and the boys weren't letting her go out so when I came inside or when someone told me what was happening, I don't remember what happened but I saw red, (I'm overweight and actually more stronger then the boys) I shoved the boys' off the door and slammed the door opened (letting my best friend out the door, she looked so scared) and threatened them "If you fucking do that to her, I'll smash your faces on the damn walls." There's more but I think this was memorable for me and my friend.
I had a group of boys bully me, they almost killed me once by nailing me up against a wooden fence and punching my lungs (I have asthma) the teachers didn't care what so ever.. I then started to fake cry and wail anytime they bothered me. Turns out they were actually pretty nice
There was this kid that just genuinely didn't like me and kept fucking with me. For context, we were in seventh grade, and up to that point I had been doing martial arts, and was pretty calm as a result, and he was also easily half my size. It wasn't that important to me, and I usually just brushed him off. One day he walked up to my locker trying to start a fight. I just looked him dead in the eye and said " I don't hit whiny children." And lockedy locker and walked off. My locker was situated in front of the main office, so he was doubly stupid for trying to start shit basically right in front of their door.
I have learned that being an *extrovert* (to EVERYONE) will just make them leave you alone because they will assume that you have many friends who would back you up! *which is true* if you do it right...
