We have been married for 30 years. The day of my wedding my Dad said you are not Cinderella and he is not Prince Charming marriage is so much more - it is based on faith, trust, joy, love, sacrifice, growth, commitment, support, compassion, communication and most importantly selflessness. When you put your spouse first and they do the same you will always come together in the most beautiful way!
“It’s an extra barrier to have that piece of paper, that says after an argument “I do give it a second thought,” we need that. Because it’s so easy to call it quits.. if there’s no structures in place.. it’s an extra commitment to build something together.’ 9:45 “It’s one of the best ways to access that type of “all in” mentality.” 35:20 we come into relationship to serve and not focus on how we can get served. What can i do to make this better.. Once we get to a place where we’re excited to serve and Love to serve, we have understood it. When the other person has your best interest at heart and will also give it back to you, that’s a healthy relationship. Allot of times one person has an endless capacity to take and one person has an endless capacity to give. We have to have accountability for how we show up for others and ourselves.