WHEN THE EMPATH IS PUSHED TOO FAR 

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Then it's time to collect heads!

I'm free to be me amen

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Wow! Okay.

Yep. Its golden.

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Ooooo. That's a great way to lool at it.

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EXCELLENT statement! Thank you! Happy Mother's day!

I love your comment and this is so true

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Yep. What a waste

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I know, Angie , I've done it myself . Waaaaaaay too often . But , knowing what I've recently learnt on this channel , if you are in a relationship where you find yourself saying that, I think the line of acceptability has already been crossed . Time for a very hasty exit .

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I agree !

Amen to that! As child didnt know others didn't know 🤷🏻‍♀️...tough learning! 🙏👣💖🕊🌍💖🐾🙏

Yeah...l'm just now realizing that..

I never knew why or how I was always the way I was but I knew I felt thankfulness in my heart that I was created the way that I am. I have gone most of my life without any knowledge of what being an Empath even was or meant until about 2 years ago when a girl came upto me and said, "You don't know what you are do you?" And no I did not and I'm trying to find out more so that I can find out if this is true with me. Ty for your comments, they are helpful when trying to understand.

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Beautiful explaination … yes 💕

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WHOOP I just did that tonite. Liberating, eh?

I had a situation, where I really, really wanted to blow up and beat the blah blah out of a guy who actually had been just using me for my $. It started fair and with the appearance of friendship. I was in between housing and on the street. Unfortunately, I had shattered my ankle and needed a place to heal up. I paid his rent and bought groceries for the both of us. And, paid his bank NSF fees for mistakes he had made before my arrival. (We had been "friends" for a while from a different apt bldg.). Anyway even after I was able to get back on the street, he was still asking for money. Eventually, instead of making myself a criminal, I just cut him completely out of my life. I wish I would have known then what I know now.

I was pushed too far and exploded, too.

Yeah, I scared the daylights out of the narc and ended the ‘situationship’ the next day 🙏🙏🙏🙏🥹 Thank you Lord for saving me. Amen

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Don't know what that's like.

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Well said

You are so right.

Agreed

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You stated everything I wanted to say, from my heart!! 💛❤️💌🌅💌☀️🥰💝

I know it is healing.

Yes it is awesome. To relate. It actually is immense therapy and does wonders.....the ''crazy'' tag goes back to Narcs, and not us.

1 Hail Mary & 1 Guardian Angel prayer for 7 days straight.

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Exactly this. There is absolutely no turning back once we have had enough. It takes us time to get there but once we do then that is it. The journey is painful and walking away is painful but we are then in the process of setting ourselves free. My friend told me recently run and don't look back. Life is too short don't waste another second on this absolute rubbish.

@@AJ-kb9hf Yup. Current situation.

Yes I’m like this, once I have had it, that’s it!

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@CareBear Hope you are doing well. I too left a narcissist, over 19 years ago, and never regretted leaving. I, like you, left most things there...people don't realize how quickly and easily material things can be replaced. Freedom feels so good, hope you are enjoying your freedom too.

Same...22 yr. Left, kids, dog, house 😢

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the greatest gift is to love yourself and to be so comfortable being you .. its hard finding genuine authentic heart full people me too .its a powerful ability to feel and be empathic .natures a great soother but i get lonely also .the masses are sadly sick with programs and agendas that don't allow humane to be humans or honest good people but your not alone we are here .i so love you blessings

It can be difficult to meet new ppl but we are most attractive when we are at peace and feel confident

@@gayleshipp2918 thank you for those heart felt words. I needed to hear them today. Many blessings to you and yours.

I felt your pain ( mimosamk 19-54 ) I am 74 ,born in 19-48 , It is my 51 st wedding anniversary , 10th June . I have endured a half century of being married to this man . I gave up everything I was ,and all my possession’s to come to America , and be with what I thought was a wonderful man .. We meet in London in 19-69 .. Married a few years latter. No matter how much I did for him … it was never enough. He is 81yrs old now, and I just found out he has been in a relationship with a woman for 17 Yrs, I found letters , then looked at his phone for the first time ever . The disgusting texts made me sick to my stomach , beyond revolting . He has had lots of affairs , and one time in counters in the past, Where I have just had to except that he’s not right in his head , as I am to weak and worn down to get away from him . He has recently been diagnosed with third stage cancer, gets his first kemo treatment in 2 days time. Our two daughters are rallying around to take care of him .I just can’t , I am so so broken, shattered, spent . I keep thinking ,This is ( KARMA ) … on steroids . I was touched by your story , it made me cry , for myself , you and every person suffering like we are . My name is Fiona , God Bless you my dear lady . I was just like you as a child , I felt like a servant to my family, trying to please everyone . I don’t know how my story will end . I just long for Peace ,and calm .

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I hope to get there…

Exactly! Same!!

Exactly what happened to me! I was so done!

and feeling of sadness knowing in your heart that this road is not youre future, but after a while, the door to the new future begins to open its door and now and then you catch a glimpse of the beautiful light spraying its glare , hopefully that distracted you for a minute and you forgot the future 🥰 do your best and believe in your self now, and the future will take care of itself

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Exactly. Ever catch any episodes of Little House on the Prairie? Michael Landon played Charles Ingalls. Even though he was a fictionalized version of this man, I like the way he handled his business, because he was absolutely an empath, but he had boundaries and would even fight hand-to-hand if the situation called for it. That's how it is when we free ourselves and narcissists can't guilt us into inaction any longer.

Did this just happen? Cause I put in my 2 weeks. But changed my mind because changes are coming. But scared them. Lmao

Not everyone that treats people badly is a Narcissist on that basis. That word gets thrown around all to often, and frequently used to describe anybody that was in a previous commitment or some sort of relationship, but that doesn't mean the inability to sort things out, means the other person is a Narcissist. The other person could well be thinking the person they were involved with, was the Narcissist. I'm not being mean either. Just keeping it real.

until you had a nervous breakdown Yes.

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AMEN, AMEN

My 2 sons are the reason I breath and Gods promis that I'll be with loved ones again keep me from rushing His will as well. ❤️

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I was just in Costa Rica!

love that so much

I think more like intelligent people forgive. Weak people revenge. Strong people ignore

Wasn’t Einstein abusive to his wife?

@Random V Chick May I suggest that forgiving is not accepting. I think it's about letting go, for your own sake. Relieving yourself of that huge emotional load. Freeing yourself of that burden. Lift your soul. You can't lift others who don't want to be lifted. Letting them go, emotionally and physically, is about freeing yourself. I think we all deserve that freedom. Just a thought. Hope it helps.

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Not in Canada anymore! The manipulation is above the law somehow!☺️

Spot on. This has been my life. With a concerning situation i ended up writing 4 foolscap pages of thoughts last night to try a find perspective. We have a backbone few will ever know

That’s so right!!! Took me forever to realize my role is not to be a human punching bag.

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@@MusiciansWithVision sorry you were triggered enough to leave a negative comment, with a little introspection you could take something positive from recognising your triggers :)

@@MusiciansWithVision Because attacking random people on the internet is soooo altruistic 😂

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@savedsoul Time to bake your own bread. Go to school, join a gym or a walking club, go to Church. You do you. It feels so great! God Bless you! 🙏

I thought he was gonna say 5he empathy explodes and loses it on the narc cause that's what I do. I'm too polite to just communicate my issue and let shit build and build until I'm so angry I explode and tell them off.

@@ellaova thats what I did, then he discarded me. Couldn't take the truth and it damaged their ego. I'm in no contact now. 💪🏼👍🏼❤️

Im in therapy now to address my attachment style.

It’s true

I would be ravaged by guilt in the aftermath

I’ve definitely been pushed too far!

@@thedrugthatkilled and THAT'S what hinders.......guilt. It's what they manipulate you with. They know it bothers you but it doesn't really bother them for they have no guilt.

You toooooo and stay strong 💪🏼 ❤️

@@tmo.48 Very true get strength from watching them crumble...

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The rate they'd usually go through people, they must be so prone to being dumped themselves. They entangle others with read tape, seeking just a touch of 'mutual' compliance. Often just a windup for the discard, impending the used by date.

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You can do it. If they’re not willing to do the same for you don’t do it for them. Saying No really does empower you

@@sheliawashington2725 but that still is similar to narcissists baiting. It can be why the discard is so sudden and extreme.

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20 years

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Agreed!! “What part of No don’t you understand!?” That little word! 👏💪 like magic!

SUPER BOUNDARIES!!!!!!!

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I know that feeling.

@@foliageinfall8387 Me too. :>(

When I was having a difficult time, my Grandfather told me "One of the greatest things about being an adult is not having to explain why you say 'No'." Best advice I've ever remembered.

OMG I thought I was the only one ! I am at the point now where I mostly just avoid people just in case They ask something of me that I don’t want to give just so I don’t have to explain my “No” …. That blocks a lot of opportunities tho as well , I haven’t watched this video yet but I definitely feel that I really need to.

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It definitely is!

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Yes indeed, we are strong people. I always thought I was weak but I now see ive been strong. Who else could live through the things we have and still be alive, and doing pretty good I might add. Only a strong individual 💪 💯 ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘

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for me not reslly.. as i think i lost my pour feelings to people and no longer have trust.. sad

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I had the same thing, "you don't know what the future holds...."

Bread crumbs yes perfect term for what I got. But, no more!

@@jaygauld85 well, what a crock!

@@littleiodine9480 I cannot believe I didn’t see this sooner.

Yes, if u had any doubts as to what they were...they soon prove it to you when u ask for some space, or try to leave.

Sometimes, the trash takes itself out.

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The sad thing is most of us are so much older before we find the truth of what we suffered 50+ years!!! Oh if we would have known. But we did find out and now it's time to take our emotions, money and life back! Cheer ourselves on! Wake up and say 'I'm amazing and I'm going to have a great day!' Don't seek revenge God will take care of evil doers in due time. They will not get away with anything they have done unless the get saved and are truly sorry which might be 1 in a million.. so don't count on it just MOVE ON AND MARK THEM AND AVOID THEM!!

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My sister in law is like this. It's been 12 years and I just cannot connect with her. At times we have managed but she is often blunt and rude. There is a flip from one interaction to the next, always having something negative to say. Always picking on things I do. I am a massive believer in kindness, people don't need to hear their flaws unless it's someone who respects you is telling you a way to improve. It's got to the point I get anxiety when I visit my parents as they chose to live opposite. My brother and I have a strained relationship because he feels I'm unstable and sensitive. I have tried to explain that I struggle with people who have nothing better to do than judge what I am doing in my life negatively. I would agree I am sensitive but more to bs and unkind people. I do back off and he sees this as me lacking social skills. Apparently we should all accept it was how she was raised.

Yes as this is the narcissistic way regardless who they are. They flip everything to the other person. You are awesome and strong. Blessings

@@cloudbusting5968 well, you could just ask her if she hears you being critical to Her. If indeed you have not been criticizing her then you can tell her your belief that criticism ought to come only from someone who respects that person getting the criticism. That ought to shut her up for a day.

@@cloudbusting5968 are all her siblings like her? Are they all just product of how they were raised? Gee, perhaps they could step up to do better if someone points out that growing up means stepping out of failures of their parents parenting style. No parent actually patents properly, I suspect. But mostly figure how to be "better" as we take on families of pur own, but then there are those who Were actually just "crushed" by their parents' errors. But perhaps more encouragement would help you g patents continue to seek better; I found my encouragement from older women in church when I was a young mother. (I was new to church when I had my first child)

Sending positive energy and strength ☀️🙌🙏💯

I hope you recover. Remember, you are worthy of real love!

Same

youre lucky im glad for you - after 30+ years I have FULLBOWN panic attack every time I get my car packed and start to drive away, i keep turning right around and going back before he gets home and realizes what i was trying to do

Does your soul ever come back

​@@marshasnitzer9223 please get help. Watch Crappy Childhood Fairy Videos, educate yourself. Personally, I dive into my relationship with God, and feel stronger and more confident. His word says, "NO weapon formed against me shall prosper."

I get it. The sudden feeling pf boundaries and confidence is inexplicable. You suddenly have clarity on what's real and what isn't and completely ignore everything that isn't real.

@@marshasnitzer9223 FULLBLOWN panic attacks are seriously unpleasant. I hope you can work out a way to minimise those peak panic attack symptoms on your escape day soon so that you can get to comfort & safety.

its probably more a product of your environment and surroundings

There were times when I imagined 'cutting' my 'heart' out and throwing it in the trash. There is a price for doing kindness, it is the price that no one else is willing to pay. Ignoring your heart is a very bad idea, I recommend more of a deprivation, a place of solitude where you cannot witness any suffering. There is a rule that I have been following called "Rule .303", IF you have the means at hand, you also have the responsibility to act. If you see something wrong that you know you can easily fix, fix it. If you know you do not have the means, find help. If you cannot find help, realize it is what it is and throwing yourself on the pyre will not change it.

My family and friends tell me. Stop giving everything away....I can't help it. If I have something. ..and someone else doesn't. . you know the rest. 2 of my daughters andy son Kevin.....SAME WAY

I agree. At work, I am isolated from the other employees because I actually CARE about our patients. Coworkers become jealous or believe I think I'm better than they are, or I make them feel bad for their lack of truly wanting to help others. The retaliate in some way eventually. Thats when I quit, find a new job, and it repeats. 22 years in a profession where 98 % of those in the field pretend to care so they can maximize their profits. I DO care and pay for it dearly every time! I dont even bother with relationships anymore. Since i attract the wrong people, meeting "the one" is better left in my dreams. At the core of my existence, I cannot change. Life sometimes seems like a waste but i just keep going and will until I dont.

@@aboomalacani5829 Find comfort in the fact that you are contributing to ease suffering, and not contributing to the causes of that suffering. You are still in the phase of being jealous they get rewards for causing more suffering. It will cost them everything in the long run, because it is not sustainable. I see their aging regret every single day. Helping to ease suffering is what eases your suffering, realize that and do you. Own who you are and ignore them.

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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You're welcome. Thank you for posting such a wonderful and insightful video. You're helping SO many people heal.

I wish I could do this but I’m in a foreign country all alone with the Narcissistic husband. No family and isolated enough to not have friends but when I made some , I got PUNISHED later via emotional neglect ( patterns) you can do whatever you want but you will be punished . Leaving isn’t the issue, it’s where to go . So I’m looking for work to leave this place soon. If i had family, I would just drive to their place . Yes I am alone … literally . Mum died etc. But he will not win , now I just mirror him, today is day 7 of silent treatment and I am playing along as I spend time recouping my energy . I cook, he eats and says nothing lol.. It’s so childish and boring. Don’t believe I married this guy, there was a moment of doubt.. I had so much life in me , miss sunshine he called me. Until he sucked it out lol Ladies please if there’s doubt before the wedding even if venue is paid, You are better off paying some money back than entering this darkness . What a waste of life and time . Such weak People nacs. Once you see it you pity them but one must look after one’s self. When I get rich. I must help victims have a place to go , even temporarily until we sort them out…

@@sparkle1949 I didn't have anywhere to go other than motels/hotels. I did have my sister with me during that time. We bounced around hotels for a month until we got an apartment set up for us. We had some savings to ride on and went to work every day while living in the hotels. We got lucky breaks too with tax returns and Covid pay-outs to help us along too. If there is a will, there is a way. Give yourself some time to plan, maybe your approach will be different, but a way out exists.

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I really wish my folks would've taught me how to not to become a people pleaser but my mom had am abusive drunk as her dad and my dad had an overbearing mom who never thought any woman would ever be good enough for her son to marry.

almost to a point "they" make you believe " i'm the narcissists."

Thank-you for your comments about how abusive narcissistic people can be and unfortunately evolve into. Your sentence of how they will even use their own children ad chess pieces really hit me hard and deep. I just ended a 2 1/2 year dating relationship with what appeared to be a great guy. Over time, things just did not keep adding up, especially his so called relationships with his grown adult kids, who unfortunately don't really want anything to do with their dad. And it's been that way for most of their lives. (Their mom had passed away when the kids were in elementary & middle school. And apparently the step mom gave them a rough time of it as well. So thank-you for speaking up on the behave of other victims as well. I wish you the best in your continued healing. Have a blessed day. M

What happens though when it is your own kid who is the narcissistic and because they are your child everyone around you expects you to put your life on hold and be pushed around by them for, well, forever?

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Thanks for sharing I'm right there with you.

Amen to that. I have had a similar epiphany. We are better to put our own needs first. And allow others to do the same.

@Joanna Bentley I believe the highest level of spirit is where it is unmanifested as form or as positive and negative, it just is. Most people are unaware of this and only see duality, especially as most religions remain in the realm of duality - good and evil. Since most people cannot rise above duality because of what they are taught, they cannot understand why God "lets them down" and allows evil and suffering in the world. They get mad at God and live in the negative spiritual stream where things a reversed. Life loses its value, people become commodities and materialism takes over. Ego is a protective shell we have in these lower realms to guard us against spiritual abrasion and, like anything, it can get out of control. Someone who feels they've been betrayed by God will start amplifying their own importance to compensate for the rage they feel, narcissism is an aspect of this, so in that sense I believe it's evil since is born of the negative path. Negative spiritual energy is what we see as evil, it's necessary for creation because creation is duality. If people were taught that good and bad are not the ultimate states and that one can go higher, they could get some perspective in these lower worlds and begin to let go of their resentment towards God and climb the ladder. My beliefs anyhow.

@Joanna Bentley That spiritual component....... The way I see it... we all have 'our demons'. The narcissist has given in to his or hers. (I cut myself off from my whole family a few months back. I've never ever sensed an ounce of empathy coming from any of them EVER.) I only realised that I'm an empath recently... about a year ago and when that happened, my life made a whole lot more sense.... as to why I never felt like I fit in. Listening to this vid and what Narcdaily said about how rare empaths are, well, that makes sense too.... because now that I'm switched on to how people behave... I'm looking for that spark of empathy, when I meet someone and in the past year, I've only come across two people.

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Keep up the good work! It's so liberating! Freedom at last! All the best outcome in becoming a Super Empath! ♡

I feel you! Took me a long time to finally say," Enough!" It's really tough when you realize that the very ones you should be able to trust are many times the ones who do you in. I'm free at last! Blessings to you. You can do it!

I had to leave my narc family. It will be best for you! Be strong. It gets easier once you actually do it and notice the freedom, less stress and peace but most of all no one to rain on your sunny day or to put you down

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Agreed. I so appreciate that. I was listening to Richard Grannon talk about how he hates empaths because they are narcissists too. Of course, He loves Sam Venkman . It is hard sometimes for me to know my energy. As I can feel everything it seems. But I love the reframe. I have a super power. ❤

its a very creative gift and dose test one self to be true to self as well as self a wear .to know from the inside out and see ,you'll speak many languages of nature and heart .TO ME ITS THE ESSENCE OF LIFE .AND OF GREAT VALUE IN AWORLD THAT DOSENT always VAULE life .oops caps got locked .don't give up i so love you all .grateful to for this Chanell.

@@gayleshipp2918 Thank you - Respect!

@@poeticnation6251 so much love to you and yours be well and blessed .

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SAY NO TO NARCS!!!

That sank in for me too.

My new mantra is "My happiness is their karma."

It's a fact 💌

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Amen 🙏

hi michael...same happened to me...when I called him out, he said the same...they are all so sick

Are you okay now Michael? Some people can be so mean. I experienced disrespect by someone yesterday.

Do tell, 'Empath' do tell... ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Ht5m19P-cFQ.html

Hope you are doing well.

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SAME!!!! RN...25 years....blamed covid...blamed my job...I was miserable....blamed everything but him...he played illness and injury so I was more than willing to give all of me to make (my soul mate, best friend, love of my life) all the care and tenderness to make him happy....until it completely drained my life force....moved out Thanksgiving when him and his adults kids went out for the day....wish I was a fly on the wall...took the internet boxes fire sticks shut off everything except water and electricity....the minute you drive away you start to feel better. He litteraly turned into a stranger for the last few months when i called him out...not even realizing i did....then googling his behaviors ...then woke up. My favorite of all during the final days was when a gigantic black bear snuck up on me in the backyard and I made alot of noise to scare it away...he lost in on me for frightening an apex predator who could have litteraly ripped me to shreds...that I didn't wait 5 more minutes for him to get home from work to see it....when he never came home at the same time everyday regardless....when you think about it logically and not in defense mode...it's sad, pathetic but almost laughable....evil creatures.

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And don’t go back

She's watching you write your comments. I saw her.

My telekinesys teacher said the same thing! Creeeepy..

@@djordjemiljenovic9387 yeah right. Telekinesis teacher? 🤣🤣👀

@@rogerramjet6429 Yeah, in our country, when toddlers finish their musical education (for some reason it's usually piano, we have so many piano players) they get to learn social studies, mind reading, pyro and telekinsis, time rewind lvl.1, and woodwork. Sooo many carpenters here..with exeptional piano skills...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jade, how wonderful for you to have a role model as a child and an excellent one. I am going to write your quote in my journal. Thank you for sharing. 🙏

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uh huh...and I was fool enough to let her leave that door open...but only once

Yup. Other opportunities to use your position, help with helping their other more important friends find jobs. To use you up and put away on the shelf for the next time you are useful. They have a way of making u feel like a useful idiot. I no longer allow myself To be useful to these people. Got a better way of investing my time and energy.

Not in my experience.. they leave and twist the knife.

I lost count of how many times I was lured back. He used my love for my stepdaughter as access to me. When she was 13 she started abusing me right along with her dad. That tagteaming me after 8 years of devotion to them was the final straw!

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯💯💪

He was scared if your beauty, never stop singing , how wonderful it’s a beautiful unique gift am sorry happy for you x

Congrats Cindy I'm so happy you escaped! Seeing another's light seems to remind the narcissist of how dark and empty they feel as if they're being compared, and maybe they're the ones doing the comparing.

Of course the devil is not happy that you are praising God. God gave you that voice. Praise God almighty everytime.

Keep singing

That's my story in a nutshell! I doubt I will ever heal in my lifetime.

Wow 🤯 thank you

@@tinydancer36 keep your eyes focused on the future and don't look back. Every breath you take is another chance at a new beginning. You can do this. Accept what was, bear no grudges, allow time for healing and it will come.

You' re giving me hope. I'm 64. For the most part I'm free of it but there are bouts. Thanks

@@tinydancer36 love your name. Elton John song?

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Thank you, I will repeat it until I be able to say No to the family member now ,I have not be able to brake free , knowing just the Co- Dependent ways of being! “Used and Abused , people pleaser “

Men want mommy..cooking cleaning working money business ..they can do it! Adults..no children!

so much love to you with respects

Good night😊👋🙏

I like that metaphor the Beast is not dead just sleeping, that's awesome!

Dam...yes!!

Namaste 🙏

Yes Donna! When that beast is awakened there is hell to pay! It is really sad that people who really care are so taken advantage of by these slobs. They don't realize that empaths are actually very strong.

Welcome 🙏

Me too!! WE GOT THIS!!!

I have had enough I am ready to take my life back and I am happy about it... Nothing compares to you Lord 🙏 thank you

You deserve to have peace and joy in life.

Yes!! Amen!! 🙌❤️ It’s a daily struggle at times but we are worth it!!!

Thank you for sharing this message 🙏💯🙌☀️😊

Their biggest mistake was always underestimating us. I told the Nex for years not to push me too far, because I was not like his mother and would leave. Lucky for me he ignored me as usual and we are free💪💪 I agree all of our lives have changed so much for the better because of Andrew and the beautiful community he built through this channel. We are all very blessed🙏

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Welcome 🙏🙌💯

Welcome always 🙏💯🇦🇺🇨🇷🙌

I'm new..what is A U..and A U C R ?? Also, God bless you for being so kind. As far as trying to "fix" ppl, Jesus warned: do not cast your pearls to swine. Like swine, narcs cannot appreciate the value of pearls. Like swine, they instead trample on our pearls of kindness, goodness, helpfulness, etc. That is, if we let them. So let's not let them.❤

Know exactly what you mean.

Exactly as you say, Andrew 👍☀️The first, foremost blessing of the www/ internet is that we get to realise we are not! alone, we are many, we have a tribe and this contributes tremendously to healing wounds and strength!

I love your first sentence! So sweet! I didn't know what an empath was til I had morning sickness before our daughter told us she was pregnant. I felt every single emotion she was having, eventually discovering how very angry she was at me for invading her privacy. Eventually she walked away from me, refuses contact. I was so unaware what an empath could feel and how strongly. Had I been aware she was trying to conceive, i would never have spoken those words to her about the morning sickness. I may have put 2+2 together after that call. She did tell us a few weeks later. You can't tell someone about their private life without them feeling as if you invaded their space. Learning who you are while unaware a narcissist is beating you down, his problems have spread like a cancer through our entire family. So sad, my dream as a 6 year old was to grow up and be a mommy who loved her kids. I was crying for help way back then! No one cared. 2nd fiddle after the star dancer and the prodigal son were born. I was just another notch on the family tree. I wasn't raised by my grandparents, but spent several weeks with them in the summer months working on Gramps's hobby farm. Raised differently by our parents, my 2 older siblings, then me and a younger brother, raised by same parents yet separately from the older pair. Def the tail end of my parents parenting pleasure, they had had enough. And I felt it.... Or lack of IT. Never any one on one time with either parent, it just didn't happen.

Beautiful message 💯🙏🙌💪

Thanks for sharing this Stephanie, as I understand this all too well. I’m so happy you’ve come through the pain and you have discovered yourself. Take care 🙏🏽🌻

I too am a daughter of a narcissist but I always knew that behavior wasn't normal and I could spot them from a mile away. I've never married one nor had any of them around me.

@@danajacobs9097 All of my earliest core memories are of instances where I knew this was wrong and I knew my parents were not acting in a way that was safe or good. On top of my mother my father was a drunk and the drug addict so there was no stability in the household. My earliest memory is literally just being alone in a cold room. I am so tired of these types of people that just being in the same room with them makes my skin crawl. My husband's ex and the mother of his daughter has always made my skin crawl no matter what she said or what she's done something in the back of my mind and deep in my soul says I don't want to be close to you... She and her daughter both revealed that they had been manipulating pretty much my husband's entire family for the entire 8 years of our relationship simply because baby mama don't want new wife around at all. All I could say to my husband is see I knew that woman wasn't right I knew something wasn't right there. I f****** told you so.

@@stephanieallison7647 i wish they would all go in the middle of Ocean and stay there and disappear from Society

Thank you for sharing this insight 💯🙌🙏💪

I can understand this. It's like your in a snake pit with them. I rarely let people get close to me.

Thanks for sharing your fear of people after narc abuse. That was brave and it helped me. I too have a servants heart by way of God and I have been ashamed to even verbalize my fear of others because it would mean I am a bad servant. I know intellectually that the Holy Spirit has sealed me but narc emotional conditioning from childhood on can be a powerful thing.

You need to test the spirit. YOU shall know them by their fruit.

Maybe it's your behavior and not "the whole world."

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So awesome!! {Hug}

Hi beautiful. Thank you love this moment and share the happiness with u.

@Choosing Myself Daily my beauty i feel you and know you are honest. amazingly pushing that wall that had you trapped with all you have inside. Your determination and talking about your path gives us so much for a Yes iam going to get there too. Thank you sweet flower you are very loved. God bless you ND peace be unto you.

Beautiful growth and progress 🙏🙌💯

Welcome always ..you are amazing and blessed 💯🙏🙌🙌

This was my experience 💯 also. I paid 90 percent of the bills, he spent lavishly on stuff he didn't need basically paid me rent that was way below market value. I bought the food, he complained about it but still ate most of it. Oh the list goes on and on. Still it was never enough. Nope he had to go out and cheat and make my life a living hell just because he could. Well never again. Even with how awful it all was I still feel like I came out on top. I have been given parole for good behavior and taken out of God's waiting room and he has been sentenced to a lifetime of trying to figure out what went wrong. Karma has a way of making everything right in time. I could care less about anything with him at this point. I'm just so glad it's over!

👍… I’d cook him a nice plate of cat food with rice … then put on your coat and walk … happy days ahead for you much love xxx

@@christine11347 … do you realise how strong you are now! Your amazing lady …. He’s at your feet now , just step over him never look back ❤️

Try not to buy anything for anyone for a good long time unless it's you or your kids

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

It's an excellent "sentence". Love it.

I LIKE the saying " What part of the word NO do you not understand?".....

Hey 👋, how are you doing today; how's everything going hope it was a bless and fun day for you ?

15 years here …. And one year extra working on finding my way out.. and exit, a safe place for me and my child…. It may not be all ready and many challenges may be ahead but NOTHING, NOTHING will be as challenging, depressive and such a terrible terrible waste of love, patience, forgiveness, adaptation and all that I did for this lamentable narcissist being… YOU CAN DO THIS TOO… leave! Find yourself and enjoy yourself again…. You are beautiful and the narcissist does not deserve a second of you anymore!

Walk away now

You go, girl! In your own time. Smart, the sooner the better. The most important thing is that u are efucazed now. Your eyes are open! 🌞 You won.

dont wait 33 years until you have limited opportunities

Same here but it's my house and he won't leave.....

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Thank you!

Thanks for this. Walked out of a toxic relationship after 10 years, my narcissistic lover pushed too far, at last I saw the light. Got an email from her by way of a rebuke saying I was like a ghost to her. There has been no contact either way for 8 months. I wish her well and hope she gets help. Even though I miss her I won’t be stepping into that cage again. I have regained my individuality, others have noticed this, especially my very grown up kids. The euphoria of freedom will last a very long time.

@@davemurphy2020 well done ! When they go too far, it helps. So we keep remembering everything bad they did and said, no coming back after that no way. Keep up the good work

Thank you for this, Sandrine. It’s been 4 years of hell. I gave everything I have and now I have nothing. Therapy for sure!

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌

I understand completely, 🫂

Jaime O - I feel you.....and one thing I'd like to add is that I'm finally understanding that I'm misunderstood by many. I've heard people comment that I'm "the nicest person in the world" however that hasn't gotten me very far in many avenues of my life, including employment. I'm sick and tired of always being nice to people and saying "hi," or "good morning," or giving a compliment to anyone. I can't stop being nice, but it's difficult that I recognize that not everyone is like us. I isolate myself after work and have no friends. My family all live in another state and although I'm lonely, it feels good to come home to my dog and not be obligated to speak to anyone. Was married to a narcissist for 14 years and it's been 5 years since my divorce. I don't want to date anyone. Finding friends is very difficult; it seems I can't connect, yet feel so lonely. Thanks for your comment; I know it was hard to write; but we have to get these feelings out in the universe to make us feel better. Peace and love.

@@LauraVee63 , yes I feel Jamie as well... And your words completely resonated with me. I'm afraid the amount of narcissism in this world is far greater than truly kind people. It took me a lifetime to learn and now I am alone as well.. just me and my kittie.I am very lonely as I believe we were meant to have community... But in this current world we are outcasts.. very sensitive and the narcs target us. . 🕊️💚

Exactly

yes me as well i walked away from my messed up family and it has bee n the smartest choice i haveprob ever made

@@robertantieau2097 good for you! God bless you!

My story too!

your comment helped me today i am still going through what you went through i feel like i will have to end up doing this im the future, again i thank you so much for sharing this it helps me not feel alone

@@saltshakergg1813 Do not feel you are alone ever. The more I am on these channels and learning about all this I realize how much I too am not alone. We suffer tremendously because of the narcissists and toxic people until we realize we too have the power to get away from them. Keep learning about this topic and get closer to God and you will be fine. The path is not easy but you will get stronger. God bless you!

Beautiful empowering message of encouragement and resilience 💯🙏🙌💪💯

Very encouraging words, thank you. Again, another woman who went through decades of it. I am sire there are men out that have as well, i just have not seen any yet. I mean that went through it for sever decades. I've learned so much in just the last 6 months and it has changed my life, and still is. It's been 37 years for me and as sad as I get when I see others in it for decades it does help me see I can heal too. 🙏 ❤️

Beautiful empowering message 💯🙌🙏

Narc being scared shitless of a empath pushed too far equals no hoovering. 👍

@@bradmcewen Lol...No that will NOT be happening 😉

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Understand that completely … also Scorpio ♏️

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So absolutely TRUE. Thanks.

So absolutely TRUE. Thanks.

Thank you...as long as you are blind, the Narcissist can play their game, without you realizing that you even in a game. You still think, you are in a save places with that person, so are your children. Until it Hits you, and you See. Moment I realized, that the Monster is not under my bed, Its right beside me ....in my bed and its feasting of me and my Kids, was the Moment where EVERYTHING changed. Coming to a Point of accepting, that Humans really can be that monstrous , yes its really happening to me ...I am Not crazy, I am in fucking danger !....is the first step into a better Life. I was born and raised by Monsters, not knowing I am an Empath...I thought and learned , that I am the crazy one in this Family, the one who is different in a bad way, wiredly twisted and better be silent, functional and unseen until needed. I was perfectly blind and free to kill. But you cant unsee, what you have seen....and I survived, and I heal....and thats awesome ❤️

It’s amazing the number of times you hear “he/she changed on our wedding day/night”. Happened to me too. Was in complete denial about this and many other incidents for years. Was so confused as I didn’t know about narcs. Now I do. Desperately trying to leave.

Oh Mona, I wish you were closer. Your story sounds just like mine, from children. 33 years ago yesterday I married a narcissist. I had no idea what he was until now. He has totally isolated me on 40 acres of forest way in the boonies. When I was younger and tried to leave, he promised he would change and I believed him. Everything was all lies! Now I'm old and my health is gone and I have NO ONE! I cry all of the time and have lost all hope. It's just nice to know someone out there can relate. I'm so happy you were strong enough to save yourself.😘

@@MusiciansWithVision You don't know me. Therefore your opinion will receive all the attention it deserves in the fullness of time...

@@MusiciansWithVision I never said I was better than you. You need to find something more constructive to do.

@@MusiciansWithVision So you have nothing better to do than personally attack people you don't know? Why? To make you feel better about yourself? You're a waste of time. And oxygen.

@@MusiciansWithVision You seem desperate for attention.

@@MusiciansWithVision how so?

Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏😊☀️💪

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Most Welcome. I share what I think is helpful to empaths and this video is so helpful. Thank you.

@@LorraineCareyAuthor You Must put yourself First in every area of health. Quickly and easily say goodbye to toxic relationships.

Lorraine, negativity causes & is stress. Stress weakens your immune system & invites harmful pathogens to seize control of your body & make you sick or even kill you. It you are around someone who makes you uncomfortable, get away from them. That discomfort you feel is stress sending you an “ it’s time to get away from that person” physical message!

Gday from oz. We live in their society...the evil oath swearers (jesuit priest,freemasons, oxford rhodes scholars)....their 'Society of Je$u$'....in 1611 ...iesus, hence ..IHS. their modus operandi ?....@ CASUISTRY.....(think lawyer protecting crim or politician) and @COGNITIVE DISSONANCE....(toddlers taught baby jesus,santa> Creationism.....Vs...then start school,dinosaurs> Evolution).......sadly, we all have this. * we spend our teenage yrs in this what is right..Vs..wrong ...Dilemna.....and what is the morally 'right' thing to do. Should we .....spare the rod and spoil the child?, Vs...lead by example with love,compassion. ......Love thy neighbour and forgive?...or turn ploughshares into swords against the heretic? * .....we have all been deceived. The hypocracy(which causes cog. diss.) is all from their ....greek babble bk. They are experts at Casuistry....and play on our implanted-brainwashed..by skool,tv,his story..... " their education morals". # Hope these 'terms', help in your 'self education'. Now 54....i didnt even know of this word...Casuistry, till 50 yrs old......and more evidence of how well they can hide truths and keep secrets.....which now 'plagues' us all...sadly. Good luck, love and peace always...(-_-).

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Well done you. By you. For you. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

They're all the same. I married 2 I was only 17 the first time. My uncle n grandpa was still around. They made him leave town lol

GREAT LOVE STORY...

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Amen to that! Thank u for the love. Love to u also! 💓

As is Mr unavailable and the fallback girl.

This book saved my LIFE

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Very true, unfortunately !

Sooo true!!! But we woke up and we are not dead!

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That's wonderful. Joel 2:25🙏🕊

I am so proud of you Sharon! And so happy for you!💞

Welcome always 💯🙌🙏😊

Wonderful! I pray God will remove any stumbling blocks from you new path! Loves to you!

'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future. - Jeremiah 29:11

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Do u do phone counseling? Need HELP!!! PSYCHO EX BEAUZO TOO!!!

God bless you and help others!

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Thank you ❤

So true. My Norwegian grandmother told me when I was a small child "you are going to have to learn to say no"- best advice ever!!! Thanks Grandma ❤️

Thank you for sharing this.. you are amazing and blessed 💯🙌🙏

I have been doing this too for the last 3 years but I didn't know it had a cause. Thanks for saying this - I better learn more about empath-y .

Bloom and grow. Time to be your authentic self

don't think of yourself as being a recluse, but as the starting point of learning who you are and learning how to stop others from crossing your boundaries. this is your path. hard to tell you how to do this, we all have to discover how on our own. but you can do this. define who you are by personality surveys, for example. do many. write down what is acceptable and what is not for you, and then practice saying no or not acceptable and be ready to cut those ppl off. this can allow you to build a new life

@@evelynbeverley2277 and others that have replied. Since I posted this we have found out that my wife has cancer that has spread quite a bit. So now I have learn how to deal with this as well.

Thank you for sharing this 🙌💯🙏

Well, pandemic was a period for facilitating that change for the humanity but most narcs couldn't break their false shells even during the pandemic conditions, seems they're the recruited ones for the hell. They are like descendants of Cain, the first murderer man. I always told narcissism is the most important virus that we need to collectively fight against and some empaths even told me that I was suggesting being negative and destructive just like them ffs. I don't buy anyone who calls themselves empaths either anymore, toxicity is just everywhere. Discernment is the key.

Mark, I am of the same opinion and if you look too closely then it is very frightening. I am 66 and I am still in disbelief how some people treat others especially if that person is showing kindness to them. We can only shine our own light in this darkness while being aware of who we have around us. I wish you all the very best.

I feel the same way and I'm ok being alone. I love myself and my peace

Hey brother Wonderful share. You're not alone