Spouse of 7yrs left 8/23 and less than 2mos after I left he lovebombing another lol idk when he’ll paint me as white new supply idk how to feel about her u know he still married lol and ok idk if she knew him before idk but that Hoover his grand Hoover was the passing of his dad aha no I exited entirely including the facade of being a grand family in the church nooo and now I have a court ordered babysitter yay something I never had felt like a single mother since they were birthed and a line of credit lol but possibly soon more than that 🤷🏾♀️ I got my freedom and a place of refuge for me and my children (2) under six I found supervised exchanges then I decided to use vacation time for school day closures so I don’t have to see him yesss I hope it helps someone else bc I saved potentially $300 enrolling in such an arrangement when I could utilize vacation time for Memorial Day and Juneteenth okkkk 💅🏾
They are worse than a demon. Demons and devils don't exit. These entities are evil energy in the flesh. They hate love they only want money & to destroy anything they see that is actually good. Like a blob they want to eat up all the good on earth that is human. They hare themselves because they are hate.
I’m not going back ever… I’m not going back to all the drama chaos and confusion… hell no… I don’t care about how she doing what she doing and who she doing it too… I don’t care about a new supply or a new/old supply… I choose peace over drama
I'm currently going through a divorce with my narcissist, the 1st 30days of no contact. He randomly popped at my house.. he looked a hot mess, frazzled and in despair.. crying and all.. my heart was not moved.. I asked if he wanted prayer. That demon ran up outta there so quick!! 🤣 Thank you Jesus! You are faithful
I have an interesting thing to share that happened at my job. I was scanning groceries at my line, and some guy walks up and asks "You aren't speaking to me anymore? I guess not...." He had a salty smile as he walks off. I asks the ladies in my line if he was talking to them, and the lady paying for her groceries, without skipping a beat says "I don't talk to bums. You leave those narcs right where they at. GHOSTS!!!" It made my day, and reminded me of my situation with cutting ties with my narc. She ignored him so hard that I had no clue who he was talking to!! It was truly rewarding to see someone else able to turn a blind eye to a narc. I'll remember that for the rest of my life.
He knew I was done because I changed my entire empath ways. Plus I filed for divorce and he saw it online. I'm never taking him back I will never be the same. I am completely done I just want OUT.
I feel ya!! I filed for Divorce August 11th 2023. Working on getting it Finalized. He won't complete the Parenting Class needed. Next step is my Attorney to file Contempt Motion. God has the final say.
Your silence is as good as gold. And no contact is the key. Never feel the need to explain yourself when they start their smear campaign. Honestly it's a pathetic way to get any kind of attention from you. Slam that door shut and keep moving forward.
Me too it’s burner numbers 😂he is contacting my fam members too lol! Fake numbers I have notified everyone not to answer! Lol! I dumped him 2 years ago met a multi millionaire ❤❤❤and life is a dream ! The ex I Put on NO contact the moment I dumped him llol! He’s stalking me on the gram on fake accs watching my amazing life! I’m Traveling globally on first class and four seasons suites !!!!😂😂😂
I went back once. Man. If I could turn back time. That fool lied his arse off with all kinds of fake promises to rope me back in. Yep, I am truly done. I only wished I would have wised up sooner!!
100% facts on the spirtual aspect of this. As soon as you start moving on its like they can sense it and that's when the hoover comes. BLOCK THEM and NEVER look back!!
I recently dropped him. My grades skyrocketed. Yesterday, we happened to be in the same building & he changed his direction to just walk past me, slowly , trying to make eye contact. I simply ignored him. The amount of relief & things I've achieved since letting him go are so surreal. It's his last year on campus. And I cannot wait for him to leave.
I went from 💯love for him - to 💯apathy .. I discarded that 4 years ago. He can’t hoover this time cuz I’m MIA .. thank GOD - I stayed on my white horse & never looked back .🎉 ..
Those spirits get 70 times wicker than they were when you were with them and when they leave and you let them back wicked is is wicked does... Lord have mercy on us all 🙏🏾
He called me last night crying asking for closure. I told him I can’t give you what I never received. He went on to say well if I give it to you, can you do it for me. I said I don’t need it 😂. He said well can you answer if you ever love me? I said if you have to ask that then you probably believe I didn’t so nothing I can say will change that. I said you sound upset. He starts balling and saying I am. Can you tell me why we couldn’t fix it, I said you crossed a boundary that was unforgivable and I had to stand 10 toes down on my decision because of it. He said I wouldn’t have been trying to talk to other people if you didn’t say you were done all those times before. I said the problem is you’re focusing on me saying “I’m done” but you’re neglecting why I said it all those times and that doesn’t work for me.
I got a text saying his sister was in a bad accident. Why would I respond? Thinking that he just wanted a response, I deleted the text, prayed for the sister and kept on my new schedule of events. Come back? Not here! When I told him once we were divorced to forget my name, my address, my phone number, I meant it!
My ex really tries his damndest to contact me. He's blocked on everything, but somehow, he messaged me at work! Ignored and BLOCKEDT! The apathy is strong over here. He will never have to worry about me ever again!
My Ex is blocked on everything also. I always had a decent relationship with her mom, but I felt I needed to let them all go. I didn't even call to wish happy Mothers because I wanted no parts of any of the energy coming from that side.
@@reddmann4340 Saddly we must to. Sometimes due they are unaware, the narcissists became them on unvolunteer flying monkeys or places where arrive because "suddenly" random encounters for more tactics. 🧞♂️
He's so exhausted by the new supply. He wanted her for the moment to meet his selfish needs but he needed me to stabilize his life and persona but I'm very very low contact (child involved). He's now stuck w her- someone who cheated oh her husband just like her cheated on his wife. He's already cheating on her but she's clueless. It would be funny if it weren't so sad.
ABANDONED HOUSE TREATMENT! Crying talking about he missed me then ghosted a week later was the LAST STRAW! Go back to the one who didnt her a** clean all the way!
Mine left without closure, and after his hoover attemps didnt work and I wasn't running after him he knew I was done. We had moved to the desert before the breakup and I had no friends out here, he wanted me to depend on him for everything after he left. I end up making a friend who knows the woman he left me for and now that she helped me get my car fixed and had my back, he has an attitude every time I talk to him. He blow up and I'm not even saying anything mean or wrong, I wish I could block him but we have 4 kids together and I don't want to put them in the middle, I just respond with have a nice day, it makes him speechless.
He describes himself as being apathetic. Took a page from his book. They do stupid things and surprised when they win stupid prizes😂🎉. The family sees that he is the problem. It use to bother me the smear campaign but I managed to tell my side and they now ask him questions and see through the lies.
His family tells me when I do see them how he behaves with them. Asking me what is wrong with him? I just look and say your problem not mine! Never again!
Spot on! I went no contact with my ex narcissist going on 4 years come to find out this walking trash can) was stalking me the whole damn time and because she knew I was done I guess she tried to give it time before trying to seek revenge! But being that I educated myself about narcissistic personality I was ready for her I ignored everything she threw at me and just laughed at her because all she was doing is making herself look stupid!! You want revenge on someone who wants nothing to do with you! My new girlfriend had to do a police report on her and her daughter at first I couldn’t understand why she was doing all that goofy stuff but now I know she’s embarrassed because now her family and friends knows she was the problem the whole time!!! And I never begged or chased her now they see it was a reason for not doing so! Because like her dad said let the next man think he won a prize…
You are absolutely right in my situation the Narcissist I was with it actually ended up backfiring on her one particular day I overheard her saying something about how her new supply was using her for money and I know how she was she was always love bombing people in giving them gifts that was her favorite thing to do until she came to realize the guy she was with that was using her the whole time and I wasn't so now she knows that she can never come back I've even saw her in public unintentionally I just literally happen to look up when I was riding in a lift and I happen to see her for that split second she looked like she was really devastated about something it's like every time she would see me in public she don't Hoover she would hurry up and make a beeline and go to her destination it's sad to see that you got people out here that are afraid to face shame and take a capability for their actions but her karma is never meeting somebody like me again
Telsha you are speaking 100% TRUTH!!!!!! Preach!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I survived the malignant narcissist/psychopath. Barely. And me going black out no contact and never once looking back… baby!!!!! Yea that one!!!! They absolutely HATE losing all access. Because they always need to know what’s going on so they know how to manipulate you. No access takes all their power away. And that absolutely crushes them! Trust me on this people! No matter what you think…. It absolutely annihilates them!!!! And we literally have to do nothing. Absolutely nothing. Just go black out. Work on your inner peace and love yourself!!!! Put all the energy you put into that demonic clown and put that into yourself and watch what happens!!!! Praise God!!! 🙏❤️🙏❤️
Never go back to what God rescued you from and remind yourself of the traumatic experiences you have been through so you won't make a costly mistake! You have to protect your emotional, physical and mental health and wellbeing. Narcissistic abuse is UNFORGIVABLE because it is intentional and you don't have to forgive a demon who knows what they are doing and is relished in their evil actions.
My ex narc told me he didn't want to be with me anymore but proceeded to text me as if nothing had ever happened. When i asked him why he was still texting me he said he still "had my back" "still thought about me" and still "cared" but he was never coming back. Aka....i want to let you know all this stuff in case the new supply falls through you'll know i still "care" so you don't move on. I blocked him lol
Oh yes he tried to reach out on Mothers Day saying "How are you going" i did not respond it was like that question was set out to a stranger like I'm thinking whats this 🤣 after like 3mnths of not hearing from him he sends this 😂 i did not respond that chapter of my life is done. Not waisting anymore of my time & energy on a pathetic looser. 😂😂
Yes his KARMA caught up with him & I found out it's been 17 months he left after 10 yrs.& He no he can Neva ever come back & he got some good KARMA cuz I prayed on it & put it in God's hands & he delivered that. Sweet KARMA I found out he had a nervous brake down & he had. That narcissistic collapse 😂,& had 2 be put in mental health hospital and he locked in& this was about 2wks. Ago tyJesus😊
When you actually show them that you’re never going back - it is mind blowing to them ! Seen it with some past friends & family members. And as they age and/or you’ve known them for a long period of time - it’s absolutely devastating to them. HA - we finally get the last bang in life … no tears for them at all
I didn't respond, after putting him out then DIVORCED HIM. LOL😅😅😅😅 HE went right on 2 yrs later and married for the 4th time to the one he was cheating on me with. Thank GOD I'M FREE!!!!
And he told me I can have a boyfriend 😂😂😂but he’s not signing no divorce papers 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, I’m sick 😷 of a lying 🤥 sneaky, stealing any and everything else 😂😂😂
@@empressb444 I filled an injunction on him last month on the 7 or the 8 at nine thirty 🕤 at night just as he got home he didn’t know what hit him and after they made him leave then the policeman came to where I was waiting and they gave me procession of the home then two days later one of his flying monkeys 🙈 called and I said that I’m not allowed to talk to any of my husband friends I went missing for a couple of days because what he had done to my dog 🐶 he killed her and I was lost 😡 I cried my eyes out because he loves to hurt 😢 or destroy why I love 💕 and care about, he loves LITTLE girls and boys , I stopped all of my friends from coming to our house because he set up the bathroom 🚽 so he can peep 👀 at them and after thirty years in June I pieced it together and yes I’m headed to divorce court and he’s going to get the surprise of his life. I’m tired 😪 of his SNOOPING 🧐 and his unexplainable hygiene 🪥😂😂😂I think he’s afraid of SOAP 🧼 and WATER 🚿 💦 but soon I will be free he turned eighty on the third of June and I will be eighty in October and his eighty is a mess but me glory to God
Same here… I was specifically told by God to be quiet and not speak in the presence of this wicked man because it’s a spiritual battle and not mine to fight with demons!
Lol! I can't get over your thumbnail!!😅😂 Anyway, you're right, the narcissist goes coo coo for cocoa puffs when they realize you are permanently gone!😂
When they wanna come back i always say sure, as FF's and most of em will run. I wont tolerate the silent treatment i had one do it resently and we havnt talked since
My NEX tried to use a leg injury to attempt to hoover me. Before i saw him for who he was, I would have offered to drive to him and take care of him. This time around, I told him to get well soon and carried on with my day. I didn’t even consider offering him my help and support. His new supply can handle that, respectfully.
I let my parents back in because I felt guilty for leaving them and living my life. BAD MISTAKE! It took 10 years for me to remove them again! They roped me back into because of a sickness in the family, looking back I wasted the majority of my life trying to be around people that hated me, people that worked to tear me down. Apathy is really one of the tools for dealing with those people, even if it's your mother, sister, brother, cousins, remember they have their own problems and they are scapegoating you to make themselves feel better. They never change because they never understand that they are their own problem. Stay away!
My ex narc didn’t believe it was over until the judge issued a restraining order against him and found him guilty of domestic violence 😂😂😂. I texted him to stop contacting me, he sent 53 more messages, sent 5 dozen roses with desperate notes, emailed me, texted me from his son’s phone, showed up at my house unannounced and uninvited, etc. I let him think he was getting away with it then used ALL of it as evidence against him. Checkmate! 🥳
Tea, I can't let him back because I'm so much closer to God now. I remember when you said he speaks to you. Well, I've felt that. It's hard to put into words but I had to pull my car over and I cried. I'm a chosen one and I'm telling ppl my story. I have 2 fb groups. One is ..A New Beginning. The other one is Awakening Empath. Please check them out. One is private the other one is public.
My narcissistic who raised me called me to come over. I had not been around in a long time. So she called me i thought maybe to apologize for past deeds. When i got there she started to talk about some more. I calmy got up and left..i finally got it. I will never return . To save my life. I cant do it anymore..i forgive as a christian but i know what they are. And its not human.. i saw the black eyes RUN!!
It has been over 5 years since I had the police escort my Narcissist out of my home and I obtained a restraining order. 5 YEARS! He just randomly attempted to message me on FB (it went to my spam folder first) in April. I did not read it or even respond, I immediately deleted it and blocked the profile he was using to try to see if he could reactivate his old supply (me). He failed. I know he's burning up on the inside. 😂 The best revenge is your silence, ladies! It KILLS them!
5/23/2024 marks 2 solid years of no contact, final restraining order and stalking order. He's abandoned his 7 children because he can't be with me but it's the absolute best choice I've ever made. My divorce finalization is 6/3. God is good!
Great video, as always! When mine left and he was trying to get back in, he asked me to do him a favor and keep my heart open for him. Now I know why he said that. NOT!!! Been no contact since January. Just waiting on the divorce process to be over. And these flying monkeys.... are something else. smh...lol
Yes but never say if I , Because they're going to do it away. He's just Big Mad because he got caught with his Pants Down, probably in the very place they asked you never to go ,or speak with...
First off I think we need to agree that the confusion is addicting. If you are constantly watching these videos, you're addicted to these birds. We have to understand we are dealing with a different kind of evil in this world. Seems everywhere you turn we see these flamingos. From TD Jakes, Diddy, Jay Z and the list goes on. When are you gonna decide to choose YOU??
MRS TELSHA ❤❤ YES I ENTERED THE SPACE OF UNBOTHERED 💯💯.. I CAN'T NO LONGER IVE BEEN DONE. I DON'T HATE HIM I'M JUST OVER IT. PEACE, LOVE , AND HEALING ❤❤LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤
