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Комментарии : 45   
@agbochidalu5936
@agbochidalu5936 2 месяца назад
Thank you ❤😊
@pearllicioussim4984
@pearllicioussim4984 4 месяца назад
I really want to bless God for your life, for this vlog. This is the confirmation I needed. God bless you🙏🙏
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
So glad I could help ❤️
@kosiclementina4357
@kosiclementina4357 4 месяца назад
Thank you for this video, Erinma❤ For me, I was born Catholic but I struggled with remaining one because some doctrines do not really align with what ive seen in the bible. For instance, I dont believe in the rosary. I dont want to marry a Catholic and start having quarrels and disagreements over these. I think it can become an issue when a man and a woman get married and start attendinb different churches.
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Hmm. I can understand your point . I would advise that this conversation is one of the first you have when you meet someone then just so everyone is on the same page
@kosiclementina4357
@kosiclementina4357 4 месяца назад
@@erinmaonwuchekwa thank you very much 😘
@joanogohi4078
@joanogohi4078 4 месяца назад
Right now Run 🏃🏾‍♀️
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
🤣🤣😂
@amarathesalt
@amarathesalt 4 месяца назад
Watch the ads tooo ☺️😍
@JOYCENMESOMA-xb5dd
@JOYCENMESOMA-xb5dd 4 месяца назад
Pls how do I watch the ads?
@p.e440
@p.e440 4 месяца назад
Hi Erinma, thank you so much for addressing my question about the church thing. I figured I wasn't so clear with the question because I didn't give context to it. So, firstly, I am very picky with churches because I was born into a very religious church, but the basic and important things I needed for my life to improve were not taught or given to me there. So 6 years ago, I changed church and started attending one where I got to know more about Jesus and my life and character got better. I am that girl who can spend 1 hour on the road boarding 2 vehicles to get to my church and I wouldn't mind, because that is where my spirit is being fed. I follow other pastors online and I know that there are hundreds of other churches like mine all over the country. But somehow, I keep getting relationship advances from men who attend those other kind of churches. Not that they are not Bible believing churches o, but there are values and beliefs they hold onto that I'm not comfortable with. I like to serve God in a department in any church I attend, but I strongly feel like there's a kind of church I'll start attending and I will feel kinda repressed (like the one I was born into). To give just one example: a church which believes and upholds that trouser wearing for women is a sin. I don't believe that it is a sin and I don't see myself a part of such congregation that believes or thinks like that. It is okay for the people who go there, but it won't be okay for me. And I am currently not in any relationship. But this church issue started bothering me when I noticed I wasn't getting advances by men who attend my kind of church. And for the ones I've had to turn down, I turned them down because of other major flaws I couldn't deal with. But I can't help but wonder what I'd do if someone who I really really like comes my way but the only issue is church doctrinal differences. That was why I asked the question.
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
I totally get you but darling always remind yourself the body of Christ is one. Let us believers never be the one to divide the body. In the instance you raised, I personally wear trousers and don’t believe it to be a sin but if as I minister that I am, I am called to minister in a church where trousers are banned, I will gladly wear my skirt, tie my hair and wipe my face of any makeup to get the job done. I have come to realize that these things do not really have to be difficult. To be honest, it’s not that deep as long as the gospel is preached and Jesus is glorified. It’s a mindset thing. If you end up in a relationship with someone who attends a church like that, talk to your partner. Is he willing to compromise? If not, ask him how you two can create a balance. Can I continue to wear my trousers after church? Can I listen to other sermons? But please wherever you find yourself never find an excuse not to serve. It’s your father’s house. Look around, find a need in the local assembly and do it as it is unto the Lord. I see denominations as different expressions of my father’s business. Permit me to put it this way, “Na my Papa business. Just a different branch. And every branch must work “ Hope this made sense 🥰
@abiodunrufai71
@abiodunrufai71 4 месяца назад
I think it's not necessary you go to same church in the relationship stage, his church should be one you have vetted spiritually and can attend after marriage. So if she doesn't believe in the church principles and standards, that is a good reason to say no. Overall, like you said, we are all one body, Jesus died on the cross for all Christians irrespective of the denominations, the same Lord is rich unto all.
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Very true 💯
@Chibuzor-Joy
@Chibuzor-Joy 4 месяца назад
This>>> 💯
@kingsegunakindoyin2286
@kingsegunakindoyin2286 4 месяца назад
i think its good she considers the doctrines of the Church if its in alignment with the doctrine of her own church, we know the Church is one, but most have beliefs and teachings that are not in agreement. its better to marry someone that you hhave similar teachings, it doesnt have to be the same church, but its smart to start making decisions that will help prevent issues in the marriage.
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Hmmm… Fair point 📌
@kingsegunakindoyin2286
@kingsegunakindoyin2286 4 месяца назад
absolutely, as you said...there is a difference between a good choice and a God choice
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Sure is 💯💯
@maggieblonde6902
@maggieblonde6902 4 месяца назад
Doctrinal issues really can be a thing in relationships but requires the two persons to sit down to weigh the doctrines with the word of God because some doctrines are really not biblical.
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
So true. Didn’t even realize how deep this conversations are until this video
@florenceenemchukwu1101
@florenceenemchukwu1101 4 месяца назад
Nma , you are glowing. God bless your husband. God bless your marriage ❤.
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Thank you so much!!🙏
@Oyesji_Temitope
@Oyesji_Temitope 4 месяца назад
My every Friday dose🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
❤️❤️❤️🙏
@kateelfridaodeh
@kateelfridaodeh 4 месяца назад
I am a catholic, I don’t think I will be comfortable attending any other church outside Catholic Church because I can’t afford to miss taking the body and blood of Christ. I hope my future husband understands.
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Hehehe… this issue tie wrapper🤣🤣😂 and if he doesn’t?🤔
@kateelfridaodeh
@kateelfridaodeh 4 месяца назад
@@erinmaonwuchekwa 😂 I don’t know oo. I haven’t thought about it deeply until I watched this video. I just realized that,place of worship can also be an issue in a relationship too .
@maggieblonde6902
@maggieblonde6902 4 месяца назад
Taking the Communion is practiced in most bible believing Churches now, that shouldn't be a problem.
@Miss_cassie
@Miss_cassie 4 месяца назад
Love to see it
@joanogohi4078
@joanogohi4078 4 месяца назад
Speaking of must you marry someone from your church Erinma, in as much as it’s not bad to marry into another church there’s a story in the Bible about of the daughters of zelophehad having to pick from their tribe so they keep their inheritance. I personally would like to marry from my tribe (church) but I also believe in the calling of the lord so if he’s called me to be part of another tribe I wholeheartedly agree. But personally I would still like to marry from my tribe (church).
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
The tribe is one. The Body of Christ is one. You love God and accept Jesus as Lord and saviour , you are part of my tribe. 1 Corinthians 12: 12-14 Tribes here do not necessarily refer to denominations. The children of Israel were asked not to marry from other tribes because they served idols but when Moses married Zipporah , though she was from Median, The Lord approved of that marriage because she choose to be part of God’s people and align. That made her part of God’s tribe. Hope you get my point?🥰
@amarathesalt
@amarathesalt 4 месяца назад
I’m here first 💃🥳🥳🥳🥳
@Oyesji_Temitope
@Oyesji_Temitope 4 месяца назад
😉😉😉😉😉
@lenahmoyi3458
@lenahmoyi3458 4 месяца назад
You look beautiful our pastors beautiful wife
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Thank you 🙏
@chinechereokeke7886
@chinechereokeke7886 4 месяца назад
How do you call it quit , when the person in question ticked all the boxes for you but the only challenge is premarital sex?
@joanogohi4078
@joanogohi4078 4 месяца назад
I once heard someone say, what’s your reason for not having premarital sex?, is it solid enough?. You need to know your solid reason and reevaluate then mmm if need be . And just Incase you didn’t know the solid reason, is your love for God. Because he said thou shall not, I shall not I know it’s not easy, God give you grace ❤️
@amalsfrancis1485
@amalsfrancis1485 4 месяца назад
If he truly loves you and the one for you he would even be happy you are saying No
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Someone that really desires to honour God will not have a problem with not having sex before marriage. I am not saying He/She may not have weak moments when the person desires to but when both partners know that honoring God is foundational in their relationship, it’s never a challenge because when one partner says no, it is just a reminder and a call to order to what they have both agreed on. My personal take, if premarital sex is a “challenge” you might want to really be sure the person ticks all the boxes. Does a person with no desire to honor God and live by his commandments really tick the boxes? Think about it🤔
@maggieblonde6902
@maggieblonde6902 4 месяца назад
Erinma you have spoken well, if Pre marital sex is a 'challenge' for a believer, it already tells you that the person has not ticked off the most important box of really 'being saved'. If that is still an issue the person in question may need to renew his mind to understand what things are most important to God and the basic requirements for a 'Kingdom Marriage'.
@chinechereokeke7886
@chinechereokeke7886 4 месяца назад
@@erinmaonwuchekwathanks so much for that. It simply means the most important box has not been ticked 👍 The question now is, how can you take a walk out of such situation ?
@Flourish_okoro
@Flourish_okoro 4 месяца назад
The quality of this video🤎.
@erinmaonwuchekwa
@erinmaonwuchekwa 4 месяца назад
Thank you 🙏