true when i was small i had this rages and attacked my bullies, until one of them told me they bullied me because they liked to see my anger. So i learn to self control and mostly the bullying stopped. I very observant and like peace, but i am never afraid of conflict. Oddly when i play games people say i have a killer insitnct as i do not seek to win the game only but to cut the chances of winning for my opponents. Meaning the best they can get out of me is a tie. I never tell when i gonna attack, and give no warnings, one time a bully was hitting my head from behind then pretending it was not him then i grabbed a pencil so hard it broke in two from the grip then as soon as i felt the hit turne around and stabbed him with the pencil no word no warning just stabbed and if i had a knife i would have stabbed him as i was so angry i was not thinking. So provoking the quiet one is not very healthy if you plan to live for long.
@@estebanfernandez4870you deserve a like for your comment, good story, about a year ago there were some 2 weirdos that just talk oddly to people with premeditation. Some people yelled at them but everytime they talked to me i just answeared shortly and just waited for them to stop talking, just ignored them and it didn't take long for them to just walk away from me. Eventualy they just stoped talking to me
I agree with this a 100%. If there's a friend you always know that's always nice. There's a reason why he's nice because when he's not laughing and smiling. You're gonna see a whole different side of him or her.
when the tension receded there was calm, the calm that is called before the storm, but is in reality the foundation of a human life, waiting there for us between the steps of our march to our mortality, when we are compelled to pause and not act but be.
Yes… what could and would be a life long journey of calm. What might be born and die calm. What is infinitely calm. Not so sure. The storm will ever come out but one things true: where there is calm there is storm. Some calm is not so intentional. Let’s not forget get what catatonia is.
Wrong discipline is what protects the who. Training is what does that. Anger blinds you and prevents you from being able to focus and think. Anger isn’t your friend. It’s the enemy of a Warrior.
It represents narcissistic women when I used to date with her. It's too hard for me to let go her. But I'll be stronger day by day because of her. Thank you honey, I'll be my best Alpha man.
The worst part about being these kinds of people is that everybody's will think u cried or get angry for a stupid reason and make fun of you for being emotionally "weak" .it hurts it really does hurt😢
My late husband was such a one.Ex military and high ranking it amazed me and made me love him more when he was so well balanced at home, always working behind the scenes to make my life better.Yet when needed at work to solve a problem soldier who refused to come right by help and guidance, my husband would take him aside and the quiet voice turned into a bombastic delivery which could be heard for the length and breadth of the camp.He never showed that side to me but I learned love and resilience from him.
I understand this, and I like it very much. For us, the lone wolves, keep pushing forward, we're going to be just fine. Don't lower yourself to their standards. You know who you are, and it's majestic!
I can relate. Save your greatness for the real storm! To help others in need. Don’t give anybody who goes through life as a destructive force your energy! Utilize the gifts from GOD understand how they work!
I know that is a Fact. We love very passionately! Fight just as passionately. Just because someone is Kind ,loving,honest, patient Does not mean They are Weak! Just the opposite! We are survivors. Know how it feels to Suffer and we know betrayal 💯❤️😘
Please. You're being fooled by bumper-sticker philosophy, put out on a bullcrap channel using AI images and narration to push cheap crap out for clicks.
@@vivianholliday4338 The lord has sent his only son to die on the cross for our sins and has risen him from the dead that's what the lord has done before we were even born as far as life goes the lord has prevented me from dying 10 times in the last 15 years I've had my ex gf put spell work on me for over 15 years yet I'm still here unscathed the lord is great
And yet for whatever reason as u r minding your own business they make it your business and that's when it becomes personal. U continue to mind your business as well as not take anything personal but now this is strike two. U walk away and not react to anything outside of u and yet u have this overwhelming feeling that u have to make sure you're not going crazy. Then when u realize you're not crazy,it still doesn't change the fact that you're not,but u keep it to yourself as it eats away at u,and u realize how alone u really are and it hurts bad. U find yourself forcing yourself to keep up with basic tasks knowing no one will understand. Intrusive suicidal thoughts drive-by in your mind and u have nobody but yourself. The life u could have had,your womanhood stripped,the medicines they stick in a needle as u cry to them I feel like I'm dying and it's this shot n it doesn't help me and I feel like a hostage not a mental patient,this shit doesn't change my reality and they are killing me literally,I m suffering immensely n internally.
Lololol...toxic nonsense. Ppl do not realize gossip kills. It left my 3 nieces left without their mother over over my own father's Will. A half-sister accountant defrauded my child and I of EVERYTHING while I was taking care of him to help him cross over. But nooooo, all they saw was money. My other half-sister felt so guilty she called to tell me everything and thdn set herself on fire. Gossip kills. The funny thing I was in college but CHOSE to drop out to be a therapist is to help prevent suicide. Words, gossip, lack of empathy, ghosting, I don't rally watch movies any.ore but watched the 80s movie, "The BreakfastClub." I'm 53, and I dint remember ppl being this chilling
I love how this is posted like it’s new knowledge but this has been the way of life since humans have began but somehow we’ve forgotten it over our lifetime of laziness!
This video broke down what I evolved into. I had forgotten that I learned to get even instead of being mad. Otherwise, yes I'm calm but didn't know that I was also dangerous. Courtesy kills but kindness is a weakness. And I live off of "what they don't know won't hurt.
@@paigewhite1251It's even better that way. You can save yourself from a lot of trauma later on, if you can get to know the true character of a person much earlier and then choose to distance yourself from them.
I never knew that there may be others like me out there. After seeing your video I realized that I was not alone. Every word is truth in this video and yes, I desire peace over power. Not so with many others. They desire and seek out immortality through rousing and taking advantage of others. Many have tried to grab my coller in an attempt to control me. I warned them nicely and in private😊
It took me 30 years to learn that chaos is such an endless fight. Finding any peace brings a lot of happiness and freedom. It's amazing to hear it said so well. ❤
I saw in a different RU-vid-Short. But in the comments. "The Devil Knows Your Name But Calls You By Sins. But God Knows Your Sins But Calls You By Name" meaning the devil doesnt know who you are unless you feed it to him. Like sinning telling you to do this and that and so on. But God knows what you have done and what you'll do next. He knows your life from beginning to end. And everyone else's at the same time.
You hit the nail directly on the head!! I distanced myself from my entire family because of this very reason!!! Self-love ❤️ and knowing your worth is priceless! Never allow anyone to take you for granted!!!!!!
Well said . Since my Momma and Dad passed away,. most of my siblings have changed . I too have withdrawn from most of them and heal and take care of myself,and they don't understand me. Take care and have a nice day. 🌄⚘
@stephengibson2869 Thank you! My situation was very similar. My siblings showed their truer colors once my parents passed. I pray God will help you to remain strong and stay encouraged. Recognizing toxicity no matter where it stems and taking the steps to have peace of mind takes a lot of strength and courage!! Take care and God bless!!!
@stephengibson2869 Good day, you are welcome!! Stay in God's word and continue to seek him. For when others turn their back, God will never forsake you!! Stay encouraged, and God bless!!
Ive always noticed my friend at work never gets angry is always level headed and so collected all the time. He told me yesterday that he cant let anyone bring him to anger or he will black out and hurt them. So this video seems true.
I have had several people at work like this. I asked one about this. He said his religion teaches him to lead by example in love. 3 of the 4 people were the same religion. We need more people leading by example.
@Triplefold It definitely wasn't Christianity. I was born and raised a Christian my whole life. I started seeing it for what it was. I thought maybe the new pastor was the problem. Switched churches several times over several years. In the end, I left religion altogether. I follow the instructions in the Bible, and let God be my only teacher. You would be surprised by what he teaches when you lean on him for understanding. It varies greatly from what any church has ever taught me. He told me that everything is connected. He told me that we are all one. Religion was created as a test of our unconditional love. If we are stuck in the duality of religion, we have failed the test of unconditional love. We are not following the laws. Love binds us together in perfect unity.
@@daylight9114 All religions are the same thing wrapped in a different story, same teachings, same philosophies, same contexts, same stores... Told differently to fit whatever narrative that group wants to use it for.
Finally! Someone who has articulated my thoughts to the letter. They're all the same & they're all still problematic. Can't tell you the numbers of deaths I've come across that were all religion motivated. It's craaaaazy!
That's exactly the way I am! And people have always made the same mistake... instead of appreciate they push even harder until I say "enough," not verbally but with my actions...
If that’s really how you are no one will even consider crossing/pushing you, your presence alone would command enough respect and intimidation that it wouldn’t get to that
I relate there's also a saying it goes like this do not mistake the quietest person in any room for the weakest the quietest storms are usually the most dangerous
I need pray you guys I had three strokes died three times I get angry I have started exploding on a couple of people then I hear a great Christian man teach love everybody
