true when i was small i had this rages and attacked my bullies, until one of them told me they bullied me because they liked to see my anger. So i learn to self control and mostly the bullying stopped. I very observant and like peace, but i am never afraid of conflict. Oddly when i play games people say i have a killer insitnct as i do not seek to win the game only but to cut the chances of winning for my opponents. Meaning the best they can get out of me is a tie. I never tell when i gonna attack, and give no warnings, one time a bully was hitting my head from behind then pretending it was not him then i grabbed a pencil so hard it broke in two from the grip then as soon as i felt the hit turne around and stabbed him with the pencil no word no warning just stabbed and if i had a knife i would have stabbed him as i was so angry i was not thinking. So provoking the quiet one is not very healthy if you plan to live for long.
@@estebanfernandez4870you deserve a like for your comment, good story, about a year ago there were some 2 weirdos that just talk oddly to people with premeditation. Some people yelled at them but everytime they talked to me i just answeared shortly and just waited for them to stop talking, just ignored them and it didn't take long for them to just walk away from me. Eventualy they just stoped talking to me
This makes sense for the people who remain silent and when they have had enough of what has happened to them. People who keep silent are the most dangerous person out there.
when the tension receded there was calm, the calm that is called before the storm, but is in reality the foundation of a human life, waiting there for us between the steps of our march to our mortality, when we are compelled to pause and not act but be.
Yes… what could and would be a life long journey of calm. What might be born and die calm. What is infinitely calm. Not so sure. The storm will ever come out but one things true: where there is calm there is storm. Some calm is not so intentional. Let’s not forget get what catatonia is.
I agree with this a 100%. If there's a friend you always know that's always nice. There's a reason why he's nice because when he's not laughing and smiling. You're gonna see a whole different side of him or her.
Wrong discipline is what protects the who. Training is what does that. Anger blinds you and prevents you from being able to focus and think. Anger isn’t your friend. It’s the enemy of a Warrior.
It represents narcissistic women when I used to date with her. It's too hard for me to let go her. But I'll be stronger day by day because of her. Thank you honey, I'll be my best Alpha man.
I understand this, and I like it very much. For us, the lone wolves, keep pushing forward, we're going to be just fine. Don't lower yourself to their standards. You know who you are, and it's majestic!
I know that is a Fact. We love very passionately! Fight just as passionately. Just because someone is Kind ,loving,honest, patient Does not mean They are Weak! Just the opposite! We are survivors. Know how it feels to Suffer and we know betrayal 💯❤️😘
Please. You're being fooled by bumper-sticker philosophy, put out on a bullcrap channel using AI images and narration to push cheap crap out for clicks.
The worst part about being these kinds of people is that everybody's will think u cried or get angry for a stupid reason and make fun of you for being emotionally "weak" .it hurts it really does hurt😢
To this type of person, they do not care about other people’s opinion on why they were triggered. They are a quiet and caring person knowing that they are misunderstood but it is borne of a true humility. But the strength in kindness and calm is able to stand on its own. They do not care how there actions are interpreted. If they do, then they are “nice” guys or girls; the creature described in a video such a this, is a person who is kind because it is right. They’re moves have not a thing to do with being accepted, liked or understood. Peace.
My late husband was such a one.Ex military and high ranking it amazed me and made me love him more when he was so well balanced at home, always working behind the scenes to make my life better.Yet when needed at work to solve a problem soldier who refused to come right by help and guidance, my husband would take him aside and the quiet voice turned into a bombastic delivery which could be heard for the length and breadth of the camp.He never showed that side to me but I learned love and resilience from him.
This video broke down what I evolved into. I had forgotten that I learned to get even instead of being mad. Otherwise, yes I'm calm but didn't know that I was also dangerous. Courtesy kills but kindness is a weakness. And I live off of "what they don't know won't hurt.
@@vivianholliday4338 The lord has sent his only son to die on the cross for our sins and has risen him from the dead that's what the lord has done before we were even born as far as life goes the lord has prevented me from dying 10 times in the last 15 years I've had my ex gf put spell work on me for over 15 years yet I'm still here unscathed the lord is great
You hit the nail directly on the head!! I distanced myself from my entire family because of this very reason!!! Self-love ❤️ and knowing your worth is priceless! Never allow anyone to take you for granted!!!!!!
Well said . Since my Momma and Dad passed away,. most of my siblings have changed . I too have withdrawn from most of them and heal and take care of myself,and they don't understand me. Take care and have a nice day. 🌄⚘
@stephengibson2869 Thank you! My situation was very similar. My siblings showed their truer colors once my parents passed. I pray God will help you to remain strong and stay encouraged. Recognizing toxicity no matter where it stems and taking the steps to have peace of mind takes a lot of strength and courage!! Take care and God bless!!!
@stephengibson2869 Good day, you are welcome!! Stay in God's word and continue to seek him. For when others turn their back, God will never forsake you!! Stay encouraged, and God bless!!
I can relate. Save your greatness for the real storm! To help others in need. Don’t give anybody who goes through life as a destructive force your energy! Utilize the gifts from GOD understand how they work!
100% Me... No sense in wasting time on people that are always looking for conflict or any type of knit picking... staying silent makes people even more pist!!! They should learn from people like us regardless of age. Peace be with you all... thank you and God bless!!
I'm quiet and mostly calm and I notice a lot. I tell friends what I saw and they say: I didn't notice that. Sometimes ppl tell you things they never say.
That's exactly the way I am! And people have always made the same mistake... instead of appreciate they push even harder until I say "enough," not verbally but with my actions...
If that’s really how you are no one will even consider crossing/pushing you, your presence alone would command enough respect and intimidation that it wouldn’t get to that
Everyone has there threshold ❤❤❤❤don't mistake their Silence for weakness, and call them Weido,pansies and stupid. They REMEMBER EVERYTHING U DO & SAY.❤❤❤
I have been keeping all my emotions in for the past three years and it’s hard to imagine how much pain I’ve been through. I’ve only let out my anger once and I’m still struggling to keep my anger in. But I have friends that can help me control my anger and pain. But some friends don’t even help me out. I’m still here bc every day every morning I tell myself “today is a new day and I will keep going and don’t stop till I succeed. the one quote I tell myself is to let people go when they want to go, no chasing, no begging. Let it hurt then let it heal. You’ll make room for the people that will make u successful in life. Just to let u know u only have one life so make it count.
Funny, my wife (before she walked out) used to say she hated how I rarely get angry, saying my apparent lack of emotion was not normal. Since she left, her emotions have seen her arrested 3 times and loose her driving licence, I in the same time have provided a safe calm home for our daughters
Amen, Amen, & Amen, praise GOD. someone needs to explain this to some ignorant people that think they know us. They need to be very careful when they think we are not noticing or paying attention to what they are doing.❤❤❤
I relate there's also a saying it goes like this do not mistake the quietest person in any room for the weakest the quietest storms are usually the most dangerous
I need pray you guys I had three strokes died three times I get angry I have started exploding on a couple of people then I hear a great Christian man teach love everybody
My God, that's true, I stood by someone loyally for a long time but I watched little things that they did. We're so non. Caring and insensitive so I started to value the person and when I got the picture of who they were. I cut them right out of my life. The first week was a little difficult, but I feel so much better. I realized that they're not worth my breath .. not worth trying to change the character. That's they have, and I could see. They're not willing to but how they run the rest of their life. I'm so happy I also realized I also realized that I lost nothing but a lot of stress and thar they lost a lot. They lost me and all the suport I gave them.
Absolute facts. People need to understand that you can not treat people any type of way without consequence. I always tell people, "I hope it was worth it." Once I say that they no longer exist in my world. Sometimes they're not worth the storm...
THE 🐺 WOLF SPIRIT ....They are here to teach us…Honor & Respect them ....Learn from them. Do not take them for granted. They are precious...its essential. ⭐️🕊🤍🌬
