Hi Aaron, What are your thoughts on feeling the love that you want and at the same time let go of when and how things will happen ? Is this what you mean ?
I saw a good example of this. My sister had a hard time attracting love her entire life. She had gotten sick and was bed ridden for a whole year. When she was finally healed she focused on herself, went back to college, studied and worked. She met someone and has been in love dating for the last year. Her sickness forced her to change her energy. I tell people this and they think I’m crazy.
glad she got better. but i don't believe it was beacuse she didn't "care" about the outcome. she was just busy, focused on other things. being present. but the desire is still in your mind somewhere , otherwise when it shows up if it wasn't or u didn't care ,you would let it pass by . but i believe it's when your just busy with work. or hobbies. even just meditating in the park. your mindset is not obessing when and where ( will this show up)
Just found your channel and at 66 years of age, I can say, you are 100% correct. When you want something passionately, but have not the faith to get it, the magnetic flux of your desire will actually repel the very thing you desire.
I bet you learned that by experience and not through a video like this. Well it’s fortunate to hear it from someone who’s lived long enough to see these things over the years.
@@danielartollus3899 If that person give to you then you are not doing a good job in the LOA, because "someone needs to give to you" every time you need money. if you change that to "I get money anytime I want/chose to/think of" then you are in the right track. Or you can think "I don't need money" it's even better. $ = someone = give = YOU but, $ = someone = give = YOU = $ = someone = THEM = $ and the cycle repeats, that cash that you gave/invest come back to you.
That’s why they say “a watched kettle never boils”. Each and every time something cool happens, it’s when you are not thinking about it or expecting it. That’s what I have found. But it’s hard to stop looking and thinking about what you want - even when you know that is the key!! So that’s what I need to figure out, going forward. Thanks for your video it is so true and, although it seems a bit paradoxical to the usual “focus on what you want”, I 100% have found this is how energy truly works.
I think the main problem people have been having with the whole detachment teachings is knowing how to tap into that frequency. You could make a billion videos over a year about telling someone to let go, but unless they feel themselves into that vibration, it is completely useless. The reason why this happens is because it tends to be a paradox. They can't let go, because the manifestation hasn't arrived, so they run in circles. I would say a very good and efficient technique to detachment is to take your focus off whatever it is. Invest your time into doing other things during the day.
When I stopped looking for love, I met a guy at the airport who started talking to me, we lost each other but then he ended up sitting next to me on the plane (pure chance). We ended up talking the whole flight, he was everything I had written down when I wrote down traits of my ideal partner. And he was SO into me. Sadly my self confidence was too low and I felt like he was too good for me (literally won Guinness records, owned his own business, traithalete...) and I ended up losing him though this poor self concept. I want him back but.... It's tough! Come back beautiful man!!
I remember I lost my 1st dog 🐕 & was trying to manifest another dog similar to the 1st dog down to the "t" of their character, nothing happened 😢 I gave up 4 months later walked past a pet shop and there she was down to everything she looked liked, she grew up with the personality I desired, had the best 11 years with her, sadl she passed away, my point is as soon as I let go and forgot about it that's when she appeared, thanks for the reminder Aaron it's true what you're saying 🙏
I have really focused on growing my channel and I keep begging people to subscribe but they are not... Also I realise that I keep trying to start up romantic relationship but each time I call any lady I took the contact the vibes go down😅😅😅 it's time to stop focusing on the things I want😅😅 Let's practice Aron's advice ♥️♥️♥️
I was checking the _"someone i like"_ socials every 5 minutes when I saw the notification for this video LOL definitely a sign. Indeed, you can't achieve anything if you are attached to it, It's essential to let it go.
Just wanted to express gratitude for running into your channel not long ago. This video hit me spot on with my current life situation. I recently bombed an interview that I "really wanted ". You explain things in an easy to understand way and are very effective with getting your points across. I feel better now and I'm left feeling optimistic about my future interviews and in general. Thank you, Aaron!
I haven't been looking for love in 20 years and I still don't have it. But I work every day and I've saved alot of money. Now I'm investing. I go to the gym 4x a week and I'm in the best shape of my life. If it was meant to be, its up to me. Seek, and ye shall find. Discipline goes a long way.
Stop looking, focus yourself upon it, it's in the moment. I need to look nowhere, when I seek I am responsible for manifesting lack, for abundance is my innate nature. ❤
i gave up life, but nothing caame. i ran out of money, health got worse. now im back struggling to earn rent and food. this video is for sheep to stay sheep. made by elite rich influencers. motivation and active forcus brings things. liek if u went and smacked his face he would start blushing. if u let go and ignore him he wont start blushing. the amount of people on youtube who blindly follow fairy tale stories by rich influencers are too damn high.
I’m not sure if the language was the best one here. This is a quantum universe, so whatever you focus on, you get more of it, it expands. With that said, if you are embodying the feelings of not having it yet, then you match that frequency. If we take what Neville Goddard says about being in the feeling of already having it. It doesn’t mean you are fully detached, but the attachment that comes from whatever you desire creates the amazing feelings of already experiencing that reality. Attachment only creates suffering if you are not embodying the feelings of already having it… which is the same as being in the desired reality.
thanks i was thinking about the balance . vs "being ambitious vs letting it come to you". some say oh keep trying, call again, check the job or love interest w/e and oh you got it beacuse you NEVER GAVE UP. but in truth i have seen that when it comes your usually not at least at the moment thinking when when when
I manifested my new home. For months I was home hunting and I went to view a home and knew this was the one despite many others that came to view as well. 2 months had passed and I didn’t get a call back from the agency even when I kept calling them and then I stopped thinking about it but I still knew within me that it would happen and one day I didn’t go to work and went to another job interview and when the interview ended I got a call from the agency that the home is available for me 🤭 This is very very true, once you KNOW and AFFIRM regardless of the situation that what you want is already yours you don’t need to obsess over it. I’m learning to do this with love now
Probably one of the best videos of yours, Aaron! Maybe, it is so, because it completely aligns with my current thoughts and life in general. Be blessed!
I knew I was meant to watch this video when you talked about working for Nordstrom.. I applied to the Rack 9 years ago for a stock position while I was in college, I got the job and here I am on my 8th leadership role & my 7th location with Nordstrom. I know I am meant to do more with my life & I’m always daydreaming of a more abundant life. Thank you for this!!
Hey Aaron! Thank you for changing my life. Been watching you since 2017 and honestly my whole life has changed. I appreciate your energy and love you so much!! Keep the wisdom coming. ❤❤❤
Aaron, so true. It happens just like you say. Just go with the flow, don't try and things will work out. Ever wonder how some people that don't look or act qualified for a job, get it. It's because it was meant to be and their body flow shows it.
So true. Many moons ago I had graduated college. Was desperately trying to find work. I applied everywhere and then finally I applied to a place I thought I probably won't even get but by then I had just let it go and thought whatever happens happens and that I was ok and things will be ok. Any ways I've been working for that company 12 years now.
Lol Al Bundy from married with children worked in women's shoes❤ one of the best shows of the 80s. You're doing amazing Aaron. Happy and thankful for you ❤
How wonderful that is! Relinquishing negative energy is the real pathway or gateway of the entrance of whatever much wanted. This phrase "much wanted" is the first thing to kick away.
This videos exactly right. I wrote down in a journal all the aspect I wanted in a partner in November then put it down and stopped searching. There was still a little bit of me everytime I went out that was hoping I’d meet the one though. My friend invited me for a random night out in December, the last thing I had in my head at that time was boys, I was more just going out for her as she wanted cheering up and that night I met the love of my life who matches all the aspects I wrote down in my journal!! Lovely stuff 😎
What you are explaining here , it is true! It happened with me a lot of times. When I stop looking and searching for the answers. Letting it go. Then only it come to me effortlessly.
Omg I relate so much to the “key” example story. Weeks ago I was looking for my moonstone bracelate , I was looking everywhere being upset and calling my parents at my home town to get them to look around the house there. I was even asking my bf to help me find it because it is literally my fav bracelet. Days later after I gave up and I stop caring ( said to myself “Well, maybe my Goddess doesn’t want me to wear moonstone”) I literally found it in my pocket of my jacket 😂😆
It's true Aaron I tried applying the advance gratitude before I took my comprehensive exam. I gave thanks that I had passed it already even though I hadn't taken it yet then I got it and when the result came out unexpectedly, my colleagues informed us to look at our emails and there I received a congratulatory letter that I had passed the exam. Truly when you let go it comes.
HAHAHAHAHAHA 🤣🤣 i was looking for the perfect mentor/mental coach for a few months. stopped looking and came across this gem 💎 of a man and video... how ironic what a beautiful universe 🔮
That happened to me. I was looking for apartment for sooo long and when i gave up on it, it came. Same with love and a car. As soon as l'm not in to it, it comes along. Detachment.
I’ll tell you as a psychic reader it’s maddening sometimes because I’ll make a prediction and a timeline will come through, then the client comes back, same prediction comes through only the timeline gets pushed forward in time. And the reason? It’s not that I’m off.. this information comes through from Spirit but rather THEY CAN’T LET GO.. they want, they need and THAT’S what the universe hears… they want rather than they are grateful because they have.. that’s how powerful letting go is. I hold on too sometimes so I get it.. thank you for this reminder Aaron.
Hey, Aaron, I met you about 6 years ago and you became my teacher in everything I start with you and right now I'm so blessed and happy to see your video this video is a reminder for me to just let go because suddenly I resist so much about why I don't have it but right now I'm noticing again from the universe I should let go and be free
I remember a sunny summer day. I was fed up, nothing seemed to work in my life and I had no purpose in life. (I still do not have, but it is another story). I decided to be a butterfly: just look beautiful (at least some joy) and „fly“ around. I went to walk to the beautiful city, where I lived then, Berlin. I smiled and truly established a feeling wanting nothing. Oh, that day I got everything that I had recently wanted. I found nice shoes on sale, by the same token, a bag that was exactly as I had dreamed. I did not look for tgem, they just came on my way. Then, I at in the park and wrote my journal. It started to rain and I decided to run to the next block nearby. I could not believe: A shop that had been closed every time when I had walked there, was now open. It was a second hand shop and I had seen very nice earrings on the window. Oh boy, I went in and bought them. But, I could not believe my eyes when I saw a green plastic ring on the table there! Just that morning I had thought, that I need a green ring, same colour than my shoes, and just this design was in my mind. I got my ring! How it is possible that it started to rain and i chose just that direction to seek shelter? How? I think that something else happened to me that day, too. It was, indeed, a miraculous day. I thought that it is absolutely wonderful to play to be a butterfly. I should do it daily. Similar experiences has happened later as well, for example with jobs. The less I care, the better it seems to go.
I effing love you! You're my fave fave fave! Also I can't stop recomending people the Magnetic Love challenge, it forever changed me that summer. So grateful for you!
I don’t know how I feel about this. I’ve stopped looking for love, let it go completely, and totally forgot about it 5 years ago. During that time I focused on my family, friends, and myself and have been happy and grateful about my life, however recently it’s resurfaced on my mind again and along with the occasional impatient negative thoughts … the reason I find it not as easy to relate to this video is because during the whole 5 years that I’ve stopped focusing let it go completely and stopped looking for it , nothing has happened.
you have a desire but you still have to take some action towards it. it's possbile that in those 5 years you saw ppl you were attracted to. you felt feelings of desire. but didn't act on it. opportunites may have been right in front of you. but videos like this make you think well it's just going to POP into my lap if i dn't care. or even try. when you say nothing has happened. have you talked to anyone? asked anyone out? went to places were you think like minded ppl are?
I laughed so hard at the key in the pocket analogy, you have great sense of humour! loved this video, sometimes just hearing it said clearly helps so much to untangle the minds thoughts. :)
it's really about mindset , i think what he's trying to say is that. you need to focus on other things. because if you have lots of free time to be in your mind you can let your mind take over and get you into thought patterns of when, where, is this thing ( i desire). but if your busy you are focused on other tasks, jobs, hobbies and your not obsessing. there fore it shows up because your not in the mindset of pushing away. human nature is to DO. so you still have to TAKE SOME ACTION towards w/e you desire. but don't let the thoughts about it consume your mind. and be present in the moment. i don't think by "focusing" on the love with your family or dogs that it will somehow bring a love interest. but just KNOWING what it is you want. but keeping your mind out of the future and the WHAT IF. it will and can show up. example when i was younger looking for my first job i was applying applying applying . at the time i didn't have a specific job in mind jUST A JOB . wasn't hearing anything back. kept applying. (taking action). well a week later i was on transit to a bbq / party. i was just laughing with friends being present. i got a call on the train and it was for an interview. now it wasn't like i didn't' care about wether i got a job. of course that was the goal. i still cared. but i wasn't obsessing . i was just being in the moment .
This much wanting and focusing is based on feelings of lack doibt and underlying fear of it not happening. And letting go is relaxing into knowing and trusting and so allowing instead of chasing. This takes clearing of trauma.
Thanku so much for this talk Aaron I have heard of this belief before that you shldnt put all your energy into wanting things like love money etc but you have just smashed it for me now to understand that it just causes blockages,when you want and desire something so much that it causes blockages and that you just have to focus on yourself and let the divine take care of things!! 🙏🏻😁
Wow so I just recently came to realization that I shouldn't force myself to do spiritual work to speed up things that it should flow naturally or don't bother. I heard this from Alan watts and now you but it must be a synchronicity because it was already there in myself right before I started hearing things like that everywhere. For some people meditation is something we do to get somewhere new.. like a key and it's not a daily thing and Liberation is when we don't need ANYTHING we are just naturally peaceful.. so what I get out of all this is I should do what I want so I can meditate whenever as long as its really what I want to do at that moment
I was ALWAYS looking for my husband. After I FINALLY stopped looking for ANYONE period, the gentleman who is on my life now and truly fills my heart walked back into my life after a 14 year separation! To confirm this message of this video.... I stopped looking for him, he appeared in my life once I finally gave up looking.
It all depends on how we feel in the moment whilst perceiving it, rather we are feeling hence experiencing from the state of lack (illusion) or abundance (the real). Since there is only one moment, the moment is now and we are constantly creating it, consciously or not, realise we are responsible and retrieve our power.
All the time that I watching your video's I feel so good after... And your so right in everything your say. Love you Aaron, really like to see you in person someday and give you a big hug! 🙏💜😘
It's true. Nothing good happens to or for me deliberately. Still, I panic and dwell attempting to manifest. Thank you for the reminder and insights because right now I'm in a serious pit in my life.
Aaron, thank you for your authenticity and passion. I've had many teachers throughout my healing and transformation journey and without you and the rest I wouldn't be embodying nearly as much of my own higher self as I am today. I appreciate you and am inspired by you. It came into an awareness during breathwork yesterday that by showing gratitude to everything that raises my vibration will create a wave for not only myself and those around me but also many others. I'm grateful for the unmeasurable role your energy has played in my own life as well as the collective! Much love 💗
Aaron, I watch your videos a ton but never comment. This is insane because this video popped up in my recommended right as I recently had a terrible OCD episode because I forgot something and had this terrible feeling that I won't be the same or something bad will happen unless I remember it. It sounds like such a small thing and even though I am fully aware it is, this actually helped me gain perspective. Thank you as always.
Your videos are very intelligent. They make sense in the LOA. I remember you Aaron many years ago (in youtube) and the evolution of your videos. Congrats!!
That's why the Internet is so destructive. It always tells you you're about to win the lottery, Or the love of your life is coming now. But it never happens!
It’s funny I just discovered this guy but it was for a video that was 6 years ago he looks so different had to make sure it was the same dude😅your videos are awesome!
Cool story bro. lololol No really though, that was awesome Aaron. You are so on point and I thank you as I needed this reminder. This has happened to me so many times in the past that I totally accept it's a thing. It makes me shake my head remembering how much I'd struggle with a certain thing only to "give up" on it and then bam, there it is. Now it's time to look at my life for where I might be getting too emotionally invested again. It seems to creep in. Thanks
Every girl I've dated, dumped me for no definite reason. The first one just met a new guy when she joined University, the second one turned against me and said i was cheating on her when she was actually the one cheating, and now the third one says im too caring and loving. After two months of being in the relationship she is saying that she doesn't want to be in a relationship ever. I just got confused and I'm saying that love is not meant for me.
I actually watched this video yesterday, but I wanted to come back and say thank you for the free quiz which was actually free. Often times in the past when I would try taking a free quiz somewhere, I would get through the whole thing and then be asked to enter debit/credit card information & other nonsense (which I never did) before getting my results. You did not do this, and I got to see my results right away!😊
