actually billy is wrong and john is was right,you dont have to be depend on someone or wait for the right time,no one will be there for u every single thing is meant to done by you,not on others
its wild that bro says " how anm I supoest to care about you when you don't care about yourself" but bro was literally saying the guy was week and bullying his ass 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Once, I had a best friend. We were always together and you could never see us apart, and it was like this for years until something happened. I was better than my friend in almost everything and it really irritated him. I wanted to help my old friend, but he didn't want my help because he would have felt helpless if he accepted my assistance. When he realised that he can't keep up with my pace, this guy started to literally pray on my downfall and do some horrible stuff, I don't want to mention. Envy and pride turned this friendship into rivalry.
I don’t think u can blame the friend. Cuz the motivation helped you with the first steps but you can’t always rely on your friend for the rest. It’s like your mum helping you with math homework, She will help you with the first few questions but, you have to do the rest if you want to finish.
It may be easier to choose others as the reason you make efforts especially when you feel you can't love yourself. For example, you may expect them to love you instead. But you'll realise they're not with you forever/they actually don't care about you but things they can get from you/etc, so such motivation will fail eventually. You must be the only person, if not the first of many, to love you and be the reason you keep moving.
Wow, I loved it. Especially the ending. It is so so much good. I haven’t expected it but it is truth You can ask someone for help but not fully rely on them. I speak it from my own experience I was been dependent on everyone and I got abused so much and I have started to work on myself after another very much bad abusive relationship because I get trauma bond and I wanted to survive I did it. Survived. I work on myself even if it’s hard The more you rely on others, the more you lose yourself. It is sad but truth. But you also can’t do absolutely everything by alone People need a balance and I like what this video portraits. You need to leave someone if things doesn’t change at all just because they will never change and you will be tracked down too
One time i was friends with this guy [not telling his name] amd someone told me they asked this friend if he was my actual friend, then the friend said to him "no, i just use him" ... Friends can be fake.
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I think both sides aren't fully right. John can focus on himself and billy will notice some day and a desire to be like john will develop. John made Billy dependant on him to get him to start working out but that shouldnt have been the case, friends should relax when theyre together but grind when theyre alone.
Very true... There are people out there who will coax you into relying solely on them, and use you for your benefit. Then once they're bored of you, they leave you in the dust.
The title is true for me though the storyline in the video is funny So we have been friends for 4 years and he was my first close friend early on he kept making me feel like an insignificant being. 3 years into our friendship, we became closer after a school camp. This year, it was different. At the start of the year I started going to the gym with my other friends (which he also were friends with) and my weight loss progress was slow. So during my cut, I became crankier because I wasn’t used to this deficit (my first time) so at this time, I had almost fully transitioned from being to an extremely emotionally sensitive boy to a teen who can take normal joke insults. But i was in the middle of the spectrum. So one day me and him were walking out of a shopping mall. It was fasting month (Ramadan) he made a comment to me, “Ramadan is ending in a week then you can go back to eating McDonald’s” one thing is that I HATE MCDONALDS because of an experience that happened to me that I don’t want to go into, but I don’t eat junk food often. So at that point I got real mad. It didn’t stop there. I’m malay and typically malay people are brown-ish but im slightly paler than them because my mom had Eurasian blood and her side of her family are pale skin while my dad’s side are relatively brown. So my skin tone is brighter than the hat the crab is wearing on my pfp. He started calling me the n word with the hard r (so he called me n1gg3r) and i hated it. I told him about it 5 TIMES IN THE SPAN OF 2 MONTHS. So I stopped talking to him, sitting with him, looking at him, breathing within his proximity. I talked to my other friend about it. And 2 days after I told him, ONLY THEN DID HE. WALK UP TO ME TO TALK TO ME ABOUT IT. He asked me why I was being distant. I gave him a summary of his behaviour towards me and we parted ways (only then did he finally know as if the distancing wasnt obvious enough) and according to my other friend, he is more careful with his words. Essentially he only changes once something affects him directly, losing something etc. I only decided to distance myself from him after watching a Lego Ninjago: masters of spinjitzu episode and master Wu said, “if you can’t change your circumstances, change yourself” and reminded me of something my religious teacher taught “god does not burden a soul more than it can hold” and “god only changes your circumstances once you change” Now I am much more tolerant with things, and as for my weight loss journey, I have lost 14 kg since I’ve started and my strenght is amazing for my age (16 yr, 162 cm, 80 kg, 110 kg squat, 120 kg deadlift, 70 kg bench press) and i found out that that person I parted ways with still hung out with toxic people so makes sense why he wont change.
By looking at the comments, I think some people don't understand that they both are in the wrong and in the right. So here's some analysis of the characters (also Jerry, if you're reading this, mind pinning my comment so that people can finally understand? Thank you!) I feel like the last line John said is what to HIM the world is, his extreme rationality made him like this, he probably became a bit narcissistic when him and Billy became best friends, he considered himself above and better than everyone else. Billy most likely didn't understand that relying on John to achieve success would've made him co-dependent and this is probably why he was back to square 1. When he says when he finally improved had felt like he was accepted for once might significate that no one ever liked him, not even John when they first became friends, this is probably the reason why he was co-dependent to John, but John just didn't understand that. Final thought, they both have their own stories so you shouldn't say that John is bad for not caring for his friend, he was just minding his own business and didn't think Billy would've become co-dependent of him, or say that Billy is stupid for not realizing that you shouldn't rely on other people for the sake of your own improvement.
This video reminds me of the big brother movie The main character accidentally broke the piano kid hand when they were in highschool and the piano kid want to take revenge and tried to kill the MC but the MC stab his own lap because he wants to apologize the end
