I had a friend like that. I remember telling her to stop being so sweet to me. I ended up falling in love with her but she got a boyfriend in the end. We never talked again after high school. Now she's married. And im a lesbian. Update: OP here update after 3 years. I'm currently happy with my GF. I'm still glad that it happened back then, it really helped me figure out who I am and be more honest to myself. This happened a long time ago btw. The only challenge I had before when everything was fresh was because I never spoke about it to anyone and not even her, so I couldn't get over it at all. Then one time, I texted her and confessed to her that I used to have a crush/feelings towards her and the feeling just disappeared (I guess she didn't really take it seriously, too). So yeah, lesson learned 💫don't fall for straight girls💫
I had a bestfriend in elementary.. I had kinda developed a crush on her but I thought that it was natural to admire your own friend.. for me it was like more than a bestfriend but I wanted to keep it like this. We were close and all that stuff😂 then she noticed but I told her not to get the wrong idea😂 it’s not that kind of crush you have when you see someone you like.. it’s like admiring someone special to you😂 I know it sounds messy but it makes sense to me lol😂 then when we were in high school she met this girl and they started dating.. they have been going strong for 8 months now😌 we are both girls so the bond was a bit stronger but yeah. I don’t regret anything really😂 I’m actually proud of them😅 Im a girl and I’m still searching for my gender😂 I haven’t dated anyone so.. I really can’t tell yet😂 Ps. They would call me her “Guardian” all the time because she’s tho only one that gets special treatment from me in school.. I’d treat her lunch and snacks then walk her to the station to go home😌 sometimes I wish I had a bestfriend like me lol😂😐
내가 옛날에 이랬음....난 그냥 뽀뽀나 그런건 사랑하고 친하고 내가 아끼는 사람한테 다 하는줄알고 그러고 다녔는데 점점 애들이 날 이상하게 보고 내가 좋아하는 마음을 집착으로 풀어서 그게 뭐고 저건 뭐고 그런걸 몰랐음 그런데도 아직도 내옆에 있어준 친구들ㅇ이 너무 고마움
I have a friend like that too... She used to kiss me when i enter in class and give me kiss when we leave... And i always told her plz don't do that that's embarrassing ...and she would say "but i like it" .. Now we are dating happily ....🙈❤
보기만 해도 피곤해보임 진짜,,우리 말랑복숭아콩떡 세영님은 어두워지고 정색하는걸로 끝내고 나중에 해피엔딩이지만 나같으면 못참고 죽빵때리고 배드엔딩 찍었을듯 아 아니야 근데 저렇게 귀엽고 나 좋다고 계속 쫄랑쫄랑 따라오눈 사람을 어떻게 때려,,,오,,이런,,,하느님,,,,저한테 왜 이런시련을,,,,,오오,,,인생이란,,,
I have to admit, a relationship between 2 girls is even cuter then the relationship between a boy and a girl! Honestly, these two girls are soo cute together! I really ship them!
아마 애정결핍이 있는 친구가 아닐까 라는 생각이 들어요 저도 저런 친구 있었거든요 같이 있으면 손 또는 팔짱 꼭 껴야하고 뽀뽀하고 계속 안고.. 우정탬 맞추는 걸 좋아해서 용돈 아껴서 2개 사서 꼭 저 하나 걔 하나 이런 친구.. 근데 어쩌다 알게 된건데 다 다르겠지만 그 친구는 애정결핍이 심해서 이렇게 행동해서 힘들어도 계속 친구로 지낼 수 있는지 확인함과 동시에 믿을 사람? 기댈 사람을 저로 정하고 저한테만 그런거더라고요.. 학교에선 걔가 저 좋아한다고 소문돌고(저는 저랑 친한 친구들이 힘들면 안아주고 뭐 잘했지? 이러면 머리쓰다듬는 게 습관이라 사귄다는 소문은 안났어요) 그 친구는 멘탈이 약해서 소문때문에 힘들어하다가 전학가고 연락 끊겼어요 암튼 이런 경우도 크지 않을까 라는 생각이 들어요
완전 불편해요ㅠㅠ 좀 불편해서 원래 다니던 친구들이랑 다니면서 약간 피해다니면 따로 불러서 다른애들 안 보는데(화장실) 불러서 뭐 싫은거 잇냐고 하구ㅠㅠ 제가 방탄 좋아하니까 걔도 따라서 방탄 좋아하고 하ㅠㅠ 같은 반 안되서, 코로나 땜에 만나는 일이 없어서 다행이예요유ㅠ
TBH i was wishing this , but now i'd rather to die , i have 3 friends like her ( copying too much ) and im dying like they try to even talk like me and use the same emojis and do everything like me and im sick of this 💔☹
진짜 저러면 진짜 피곤해짐 .. 나도 저런 친구 있었는데 집착하다가 시기 질투 하고 ..그러면서도 날 다른애와 지내지 못하게 하게 그러면서 매일 카톡으로 나한테 왜그래...?왜그래? 내가 싫어졌어? 이러면서 욕하면서 뭐라하고 매일매일이 그랬는데 난 계속 미안해미안해만 하고.. 걔한테 카톡오면 손이 차가워지고 발발떨렸음. 그러면서도 학교가면 둘도 없는 친구 처럼 날 구속하고. 진짜 정신병걸릴거 같았는데..처음엔 그 순간만 힘들고 그 애가 싫고 그러다가 그게 1년이 지속되니 하루하루 매일매일이 우울했었다. 그때는 몰랐는데 지나고나니 내가 우울증이었겠구나 싶고. 그 시절 아침에 듣던 알람소리를 들으면 지금도 심장이 갑자기 엄청뛰고 손도 피가안통하는 느낌이고 그럼.. 그때 진짜 너무 많이 힘들었었는데..
집착하는 친구 조금 미울수도 있긴한데 사정들어보면 딱한 친구들 많더라고요 사랑이 조금 모자라서 그걸 친구에게서 얻으려는 아이들도 있고요 진지하게 그친구의 얘기 들어주고 진심으로 대해준다면 서로 마음을 얻을수있고 좋은관계로 발전이 되지않을까 생각이되요 집착하는 친구가 있다면 사랑으로 보듬어주세요
This made me cry, i had a friend like this but she was not obsessed with me, she was just so kind and sweet, i really felt that she trusted me and she gave me confidence, because im very shy at first but when you get to know me well, im really fun to talk with, but one year later i moved and we dont talk anymore.. i really miss her, i dont have friends like her in my new school, i feel lonely.. i need affection, i want someone to hug me.. i even cried at the first days at school, i looked at everyone and.. they all had friends.. i felt like i was the only one who was alone.. later in the year, i tried to make friends but they were really rude to me, i felt like rejected.. and i realised that having real friends makes me feel really better so if you have friends that you trust, enjoy it because time flies by really quick and you won't realise it because you are having good days with them...
it’s so heartbreaking to hear that 💔💔 girl, I bet you’re much more amazing person than you know! and also, i have a feeling that people who was rude towards you are not only NOT worthy of your attention, but also insecure deep inside. confident people don’t use mean attitude to feel superior. wish you luck, hope you’ll find true friends soon!!💔💔💔(don’t forget it would definitely happen!!! almost everyone go through this)
Annie Yu Aw... I’m sorry you had to go through that... :( But what happened to you is seriously relatable- what I would advise is to build a better relationship with yourself, be more affectionate to yourself (?) and find things that you love the most. From there on, things should get better! Keep smiling~ ;)
I truly understand you. Sometimes, life doesn't always give you joy and hope. Sometimes, it gives you sorrow and loneliness. And that's normal. We need to accept the fact that, there's nothing in this world stays the same as it was supposed to be. Im not putting you down or else but, im saying this because, there's other things that you could possibly do with someone else. Friends come and go, If they stay, then, they are real. Please, chin up. I don't really know you or what happened to the both of you but, cheer up.
Same, I used to me very cold, shy and and Introvert. I my first day of school (which was 4 years ago) I cried in the bathroom because I really felt lonely, everyone was rude to me until a meet some in the second semester, now she has become my best friend, she is really the opposite of me, but she is not as clingy as I am but she doesn't care if a hug her or sometimes kiss her (in the cheeks of course). I also buy her gift like: a big teddy bear or food and for her, she always make her own gifts for me and I really love it. When I meet her, it was weird but then I became more social but I'm still a introvert but not as much as before,
I'm like this to a certain friend and he always don't mind it tbh because I know when to stop when things get too much. People are usually not used to clingliness to people because it shows desperation and biases. Kinda unacquainted one sided love at times to say the least...
There clearly gay lol. If this was a girl and a boy everyone would assume they liked eachother so why is everyone acting different? People really think being straight is the default
There are actually friends like her. They are telling there is a reason for obsession and it doesn’t mean they are homosexuals. That was one of the points of the video.
Eloise Marie no, don't make this a double standard. Like it or not, there are certain ways we interact with the opposite sex, that's a fact. Girls don't generally kiss boys and get super affectionate with guy friends. And I think they might be gay but If so that wasn't really related to anything being shown. Close Female friendship doesn't have to mean gay! A lot of girls are sometimes clingy like she was, I didn't see it as romantic at all, more like co dependent a bit.
Seyoung is so pretty and has the softest, most pleasant voice. Solbee's face lights up and becomes more beautiful when they are together. I know this clip is made to play on your feelings, but dammit it does a great job! I'm glad they renewed their friendship at the end.
제가 집착 좀 많은 스타일임 그냥 어렸을때 부터 부모님 항상 싸우셔서 언니들이랑 울면서 부모님 싸우는거 보고있거 부모님음 항상 늦게 들어와서 언니들이랑 밤마다 혼자 잠들고 그렇게 반복된 일상으로 부모님이 이혼하시고 새로운 친구 사귀었는데 갑자기 친구들이 연끊자고 ..그래서 혼자 다니고 어릴때도 그냥 버림만 받으면서 살아왔는데 그것들이 점점 집착으로 바뀌면서 혹시 제도 그 아이들 처럼 날 버릴까 ? 하다보니 집착이 심해짐 ..
아 내 친구 중에 집착은 아닌데 미친 플러팅 날리는 애는 있음 뭔가 설레서 더 짜증남 근데 소꿉친구고 그래서 이젠 익숙함ㅋㅋㅋ 아 진짜 얘는 통화 3분만 해도 플러팅 열 마디는 하는 듯 얘가 진짜 미치는 게 뭐냐면 존나 귀여운 애기애옹이 같이 생겨놓고는 목소리는 존나 스윗해 썅 아 말하면서 생각났어 열 받는다 암튼 존나 스윗한 애인데 지 남친한테는 연애고자처럼 행동해 어이없을무야 완전
