At 15 I thought I'd be driving a Range Rover, living in my huge loft apartment in London, able to afford every item of clothing I've ever dreamed of at this age. WHAT A JOKE! But re:goals, I've realised that 40 is what I thought 25 would be. We're all doing amazing considering the external situations we face, sweethearts !!
15 year old you and me would have definitely been friends with our big dreams 😂🤞🏾 But I love how all we've adjusted are our timelines and expectations and not our dreams! ❤️
it's crazy how it feels like all these things are happening to you alone, then you watch a video like this and you relate to almost everything. loved it
I can TOTALLY relate to Kat and Bokang saying that their younger selves were so confident/courageous. It is so hard to build your confidence back up as an adult because no one gives you the grace to. You're expected to have that same self-confidence or even more, and it's really not there. And tbh it's so much harder to build yourself back up when the reality is so much harsher than when you didn't know
Yup! It's definitely been a lot tougher than I anticipated to go back to that level of confidence but I do think (hope?) it's possible even if it just means taking baby steps and getting there little by little 💕 We got this!!
Turning 25 this month and i dunno what I'm doing with my life, there's just so much pressure 😭 I was actually more confident and more excited about life at 20-21. After graduating, adulting just kinda took my confidence away EVEN tho 24 year old me achieved so much more than any other version of me has ever achieved.
I know exactly what you mean! If only we could bottle up the confidence of that 20 year old selves 😭 That being said you should be proud of yourself!! This life ain't easy so let's celebrate all our wins big & small!
My friend posting a clip of this video on her insta stories is the reason I’m here…and I’m happy I actually watched insta stories only to stumble in this. This was so nice to watch.
I’m definitely for the realities of expectations from your twenties as single woman ,I’d really like if you’d do the same for ladies who are in serious relationships and marriages because that also comes with its hardships ,like it’s so crazy the expectations don’t stop . After marriage it’s kids /house / car /school/ like it’s so deep but one of the most definite things is that No body cares everyone is really looking for some form of validation,but it’s really great to find ladies that you can relate to. These conversations are amazing because I know when I was in my twenties I was on this race that has no clear direction. But you feel this immense to pressure to perform. It sometimes feels like a never ending rat race.
My life has been wow. If someone had told me that I still wouldn't have tasted graduation at 24 because of being laid back. At first I did my bridging course okay shap. but then I had to take a gap year right before my last year and now I get asked all the time when am I finishing university
It must be frustrating constantly being on the receiving end of those questions 😫 But try not to let that get to you! In fact when you do make it to that stage it's gonna mean SO much more because of what you had to face to get there. Hang in there! You're doing GREAT! 💕
just entererd you channel for the first time didnt realize how long you had been on youtube. I like your work and will be doing better in supporting going forward
