When Your Woman Changes Before Your Eyes - The Westernized Filipina 

Thanks for the video

Pea " What kind of friends?" Me " American friends that's who"

I agree with him. It’s a lost cause. Soldiers are not like agents, we are more physical because the state of mind we have is dying all the time. At war it’s a very high percentage that you will die and be forgotten. Agents just play tricks, unless you were an ex soldier. So soldiers have a type of communication that is always edgy, because if we don’t act right move right speak right we die. So it would be faster for two soldiers to marry than agents. Y’all don’t get married y’all cat and play pranks with each other; scams and crap. We pull cards hard, that’s why you couldn’t get around him, he was being serious and clear the whole way. No trick of the tongue, so you kept getting choked up. It means he is an upstanding man, and ex soldier with a good character that doesn’t play games. He’s rather go to Vietnam and die with his fellow fallen soldiers than play around with these new aged children. You guys are so one world government it’s a joke you pull flags like you are your own nation. These nations are all United and the same in the same evil, LGBTQ+. He’s telling me don’t do it, these whole world is selfish and self centered. Marriage is no longer honorable and it’s no one to fight for. It’s no one to defend that is honorable. No example of love to drive the youth anymore. Everyone wants to hurt each other with no reason at all. It’s not logical, just emotional. Innocent men minding their business get attacked instead of getting known. Filipina Pea wants to hurt him for the truth, but that’s an upstanding man and soldier that you can rely on to speak clear to you. He survived war where many of his fellow soldiers didn’t, so he won’t play around with his borrow led time. Either live life right and pure of heart or die and leave, that’s how we think. Y’all playing minority report with life. We don’t get along with civilians too well because of the difference of thought and intent. Filipina Pea thinks she has a an enemy to fight, and isn’t realizing she is her own enemy. Talking to me would be like that. Exposing how silly you are in the mind, and you need love.

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This issue is Very, Very and Very common. I can connected with this because I have heard and seen this issue a whole lot over the years with the Women from the Philippines and Indonesia and Cambodia. Good Blessing that I have never experience it. The women assumed that American men are extremely rich as Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk, which is Very Not true. Most people around the world are not taught the difference of Currency value. That's why so many Filiphinas assumed that 100 USD is big money, which it is 5,730.21 PHP. It seems a whole of money but it is only pocket change, small amount of basic coins to flip with. Since I was in high school of the 1980's, It is said that Filipinas are attracted to American men because they assumed that the men has money. By the magazines and movies and series that they are watching. Hollywood movies of American life are totally stupid BUT the dear Filipinas think it's the real deal. When I was in high school, I had a Filipina pencil PenPal. 12 years before the internet came. I was in Western Pennsylvania and she was in Hong Kong with her parents. We wrote paper letters to each other, every monoth. After high school, her last letter that I got from her, she have said that she met a Japanese guy with big money and live as an American life style. Of course, I was heartbroken and sad but now, hopefully, I do hope that she is okay now. Maybe. One of my all time favorite movies is called, El Norte, year 1983. It's about a poor brother and sister in Guatemala who look at American magazines and they assumed that all Americans are super rich. The brother and sister had discover the very hard difficulties of living in the USA. The movie is about lost desires for a better life in USA, Sad Ending. I do Strongly Bellieve that so many Filipina fall into the DayDream as the movie, El Norte. To have a better life with an American man in the USA. The Amazing Great Anthony Bourdain had Great Love for the Philippines. He love the Filiphino a human among humans searching for actual, meaningful connection. He knew and seen the poverty but the people love Art and Music and Food and of course Singing. Filipinas have Amazing Culture....the women of the Philippines should focus on their culture and not try to be Americanized. If a Filipina really love an American guy. It's great and amazing but don't try to fit in and try to be "rich and famous". There's always a downfall when you step out of something really special and a Blessing. Always happens.

yes she wants to keep her options open in case that the new man dont work out. so she is safe to try to use you as a option to fall back on.

Usually it means that she's already got a specific guy in mind and she wants the appearance of permission to pursue him.

She has already met someone else

Truth!!

It’s BEEN over which means you were CLUELESS from the beginning

Yes, don't give up your advantage and don't simp too much.

He heard it from the internet.

I got an ad for Christian Filipina dating site on this video. The actions you describe make the ad very ironic.

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The west is poison for good women

I dated 2 Filipinas in the USA before I went to find one in the Philippines. The first one I wish I never let go of, and the second one I wish I never met! The first one had only been in the USA 2 years, the second one had already been here 15 years.

I dated 2 Filipinas and married one. The first was 18, me 24. Everything was good, till she got a job. Then, she cheated on me. The 2nd one was a security guard at LAX. We dated for 5 years, but when I got her into nursing, she cut the rope!! Now, no more communication. The last Filipina I was with from 2011, married in 2014, but divorced by 2019!! She was a bank Teller for 26 years in Manila. Came to the USA in 2007, to work as a caregiver. She still does work at 67!! She is jealous, insecure, but loves dinning out, expensive shoes- purses, and telling me I'm the Devil. Even though I paid for everything, and never had her cook, or do laundry!!

The reality is that any woman of any culture will become westernized after living in America. Even Filipina RU-vidrs who have never set foot in the US are becoming westernized through YT fame.

TRUTH!!!

Good point 👍😊

The bigger shock for Western women is nobody is coming to Western countries to rescue them .

Yep. Mgtow has taken over and American men are ignoring women.

Not just that but they are miserable. Look at stats for depression and other mental illness of women in the west. It’s tragic. I wish them all the best and much love, just… not my love. If you get what I mean ❤

Hey I'm the guest that Pea interviewed. Thank you for your thoughtful comments and the moral boost!

@@zetaone2669 They're talking about you again!

Before I hooked up with my Filipina, she knew full well that by American standards I was poor. She was great about that. I helped her through nursing school. She earns her own money, helps her family and saves. We have two beautiful daughters. 15 years in, it was the best decision of my life, she's a wonderful gal. She was a province girl, from Biliran, very traditional, very trustworthy even though half my age. She is a little hard headed, but not in a bad way at all. No problems, no drama.

cool story man sounds like you are lucky. Cheers!

I married a Thai Chinese woman and when I asked her if she wanted to visit the U.S. she laughed and said it was too far to visit a third world country. She could visit Laos,it was closer.

That's the exception though statistically isn't it? Banking decisions on exceptions isn't usually a good idea. People often try to exploit that with the 'But this one time it happened differently'.

Filipinas of 35 years ago were very different speaking from experience.

Today's Filipinas have a different attitude towards marriage than their mothers had. Today's Filipinas are beginning to take on Western ways and want more independence. If they can enjoy their own career with a guaranteed income adequate enough to be independent of a husband's income, these young Filipinas will begin to behave the same way Western women behave in the USA, UK, etc. The traditional marriage is threatened by the equal earning power of today's career women. The traditional housewife is no longer a natural choice for women with increased educational and/or financial earnings. It's the same movement Western women went through about seventy or eighty years ago.

@@davewright9313 It's all about picking the right one and then teaching her how to be an independent thinker and how to block out the noise of the strong independent western woman. Remember I was there 35 years ago.

@@xavierkoolat6926 It's all about picking the right one and then teaching her how to be an independent thinker and how to block out the noise of the strong independent western woman.

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THANKS, AJ! I do try my best to bring you the stuff you need to know 👍❤️😊

I agree! It even applies to young men in their 20s

That's exactly what I am doing. I hope to retire to the Philippines in a few years. I am taking all of Pea's advice. I just want Pea and Alma to do a video about living on a boat. I want to buy a nice boat, and find a great harbor where living on board is permitted.

I'm visiting the Philippines in August & I've been watching her videos, which is better information than some of the other channels. No discredit to the others, but Pea is very knowledgeable.

So that's what I'm going to do. It seems pretty scary due to the videos and how accurate they are but we'll see what happens because I'm basically doing and have done almost everything that this man on the video did

Seems like she had her own agenda.

Better be a rich man in the Philippines rather than a be poor man in an insane asylum (USA).

Facts. I married a Dominican woman and it happened to me too.... im never bringing a woman here again

Nursing is one of the worst professions for cheating. They are also hanging around the Alpha male doctors who are smart and rich.

Had one plan to murder me for the will, and f buddy was planning me over the balcony. Another had a baby from her brother and he took 400 in 4 days, another came pregnant, another came as a lesbian couple, and one in lete wanted marriage to enrich dad. You marry the family.. got a fine lady now.. she found loans never were repaid and distanced from family. Get a referral girl from the provinces.

A few gold diggers make 90% of all the other women look bad (regardless of nationality race ethnicity or culture) . I know this from experience. But remember every person is different and can never be compared to the next person. The goal is to find the right healthy minded women or man regardless of ethnicity. Americanized disease ( US citizens are consumer centric indoctrinated - it’s the American way ) . Worse - Social media trains both men and women to obsess about wanting more more and more things that we don’t need , and love unfortunately gets converted into what more can the other mate “give me “ to feed my consumeristic greed indoctrination- that is so prevalent here in the USA. Go to Philippines marry and stay there with her , family and friends and be happy. Don’t bring her back to the USA

Yeah. Meal ticket.

Yes, when you are opening your wallet, you will find smiling nice girls anywhere in the world you don't need to travel to buy a smile.

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the majority of these types of marriages are ultimately done for the green card (or some other material benefit). men shouldn't kid themselves.

I knew an old guy who married 4 different women from the Philippines , Taiwan and Vietnam . The marriage seemed to be going good in each case until they hit the 6-7 year mark. By then the women were educated and had good career jobs and then the feminine drama kicked in. After the 4th wife he finally said I won’t get married again unless I stay overseas in their country 🤯

"The7 year Itch". Great movie too

That is rough

I'm the man that Pea interviewed in this video. Thank you for your thoughtful words and encouragement.

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​@@zetaone2669 Thank you for sharing your compelling story. It is quite obvious you are a good man. It is most unfortunate that the ills of the west you sought to escape by going to the PH nonetheless ruined the marriage you formed there. Congratulations for going back to find another good woman, and this time you won't make the mistake of bringing her back where she can be corrupted by the things we leave the west to get away from. At 60, my life has been co-extensive with events in the US during the entire period of modern so-called "feminism." It started out to be simply about equality, which is actually the dictionary definition of the word. I think all right thinking men are on board with the concept of simple equality. But over the decades it developed into something sinister. Not content with equality, so-called "feminists" progressed to constant criticism and vilification of men, and popularization of truly abhorrent and dangerous terms like "toxic masculinity" and the "tyranny of the patriarchy." Whole successive generations of women in the west, especially the US, have been brainwashed by feminist propaganda into thinking they MUST pursue professional careers over marriage and family and child rearing, and that choosing the latter would make them a "failure." This has even included harsh criticism of women who have rejected such views in favor of more balanced or traditional values in their lives. I saw this in my 20's, and I knew then that many of these women would progress into middle age and come to regret their choices, facing life alone and childless, or divorced, having rejected the very things that bring men and women together to begin with. I am a lawyer, and in few professions has this progression been more apparent than in mine. Sadly the things I anticipated as a young man have come to be. I believe eventually equality and freedom of choice will remain - as they should - but the ills of modern so-called "feminism" will be left behind on what I like to call "the great garbage pile of human history," along with bell bottom jeans, sun worship, human sacrifice, and mood rings. This will be a long time in happening though, and it will not be in our lifetimes. In the meantime, we can go to the Philippines or other countries in Asia and elsewhere where women are still truly feminine, and who genuinely respect good men and have not fallen prey to the propaganda in the west. I have been to the PH three times so far, and each trip I stay for longer. I work for myself and have the freedom to work while there. I am happy to say that I have met a number of truly wonderful, lovely, and feminine women there, who have restored my faith that there are women in the world worth spending your life with. And to the point here, I have met filipinas who do not want to move to the US, contrary to the ongoing propaganda from "feminists" about them just wanting money or visas. Marrying one and staying there will prevent the evils of so-called "feminism" from ruining them and destroying our happiness with them. A large number of modern American women are unhappy, and although most will not admit it, they cannot stand to see a woman from Asia simply being truly feminine and making her man happy. They abhor it, so they take it upon themselves to brainwash filipinas in the US if given the chance. To other men here I always say, Go East, young man. Find yourself a truly feminine woman in the Philippines, and stay there with her. Thanks to you and the Pea for this excellent video, and I wish you all the best in finding real happiness again.

@@zetaone2669great interview! It gives me pause because my age gap is 37 years, I’m a young 57 and she is 20 with a 4 year old son. My plan is the bring her back after we marry and try to have 2 daughters right away. She will be graduating University in 2 years then I bring her back. I’m working till I’m 65-70. I got to make sure I have rock solid pre nuptial agreements in place.

@@zetaone2669 You are a kind, courteous, honourable man. Stay true, brother.

Pastor telling the truth.

I did not know they have Christian churches there.

Feministic values such as that women have equal value to men?

Half! I want half!

I came here to say the exact same thing. I learned not to trust American women who want to mess things up for you.

Umfufu!

I want HALF Eddie...hahaha. I remember that bit well

I want HALF Eddie...hahaha. I remember that bit well

I'm the man that Pea interviewed in this video. I enlisted one month after my 17th birthday and took an early retirement at 35. Best decision of my life. And much respect to you brother!

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@@zetaone2669 I served from 77 to 95 in the USAF. With the draw down after Desert Storm they said they would pay me to stay away so I said colour me gone. 18 years and change with just a little smaller retirement. Best decision i ever made. Full benefits and a steady income for life. Good on ya bro.

@@zetaone2669 thank you for your service brother...

@@zetaone2669 Thank you for your service brother!!

There ARE no rules until you take her to another country where she will become corr....

and thats why you are still together -- bringing any foriegn woman to the states is a gauranteed crash and burn !

The rare successful cases doesnt change Western mindset has infected the world's women so 1% are the rare prized truly not pretending real traditional ones.

The matrix can be very alluring, yes

***Never Never Never BRING HER BACK*** YOU CAN VISIT THE U.S.with her show her around maybe BUT DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT BRING AND STAY WITH HER

Many of us, myself included are trying to escape the matrix. Don’t know why anyone would want to join it?!

True dat. Rule #5.

Escape the Matrix

At least not without taking precautions, and thinking long and hard 👍

@@TheFilipinaPea Agree 💯 Captain

Exactly right! Like Eddy Murphy said in one of his stand-up shows: He went to the deepest, darkest, bush-lands of Africa to find a simple unspoiled woman. He married her and brought her back to the US and as soon as the airplane wheels touched the ground she said "Eddy, I get half!"

When I Stationed at Subic Bay in 1983, there was a lot sailors. That got married in the Philippines and bought their wives back to San Diego. When their wives made it State side they changed dramatically, especially going to bars and coming home late in the morning. When hubby was a sea the wives were at the base Club picking up guys to sleep with for the night. The divorce rate for marrying bar girls from the Philippines was extremely high. The base closures in 1991 was a blessing in disguise for Navy sailors.

There is an illusion that asian women are better to nice guys than western women. Well, generally they are but not much. They will end up disrespecting the nice guy too & become verbally abusive or dumping or cheating on him. It's a sad world when being genuinely nice to someone in a relationship is seen as a bad thing.

Filipina: Mistake 1: stayed with him 10 years.

I've knocked up 5 Filipinas and pay all their bills and sending all the kids to college. Key is...they are all in the Phillipines

@@cheeeeezewizzz all the kids will knock you one day.

​@@cheeeeezewizzz5?????, you need to get fixed. Yikes

Envy could eat me! Why do you hide the address of your fountain of eternal youth? 😉

@zetaone2669- Hi Bale, please tell us what you would do differently if you had a do-over with you past girlfriend/wife?

Thanks for sharing your experience.

And thanks so much for agreeing to be interviewed - it looks like they enjoyed hearing your point of view 😊👍

Thanks for sharing your story. Stay healthy and happy my friend.

This is Balentino the man Pea interviewed. I second your suggestion!! Seriously thank you for the thoughtful comment I've been considering creating my own channel for some time but after watching how hard Pea works to produce just one video has given me pause. Again thank you for the positivity it mean more than you know.

@@zetaone2669 are you in PH right now ? I’m 35 met a girl in Cebu 24 Iam dating, I’ve gone back once already, again in July after her graduation. I would live there to meet her more instead of bringing her here. How do you make your USD income over there??

@@Travel_Cebu222 You can pretty much forget about earning money in the Philippines. You need an external source of income. Remote work for a company, pension. Actually earning money in/from the Philippines is going to be problematic at best.

@@ZXLNT yeah I learned that the first time. Just trying to pick a good remote job really

@@Travel_Cebu222 I think it's best to have multiple streams of income from your country set up before you plan to settle there.

You just need to be strong and have enough charisma to keep her legit. If she's corrupted by the environment and you aren't able to stop it, she ain't the one bro

@@behindthen0thing525 🤡😧😳😱😂🤣😭💀

Yes, however often that happens afterwards​@@behindthen0thing525

I brought my Filipina wife back to the States 16 years ago. We have a great strong marriage. If you have a fear of bringing your wife back to the States, you married the wrong woman. I briefed my wife on the potential pitfalls of living here and what men and women say and do here. We never had any problems.

@skyhawk4946 yeah these guys are just jaded and probably low class men who got a low class girl

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My wife and I met in the U.S. We've been together for a couple years, and she's still a true blue filipina. She's adapted to the more fast paced lifestyle, but it hasn't changed her in a negative fashion. I think if you meet the right person, they'll stay true to who they are. You can be influenced but still remain yourself. But many people seem to forget that is an option though. You don't HAVE to be just like everyone else around you. When I lived in Japan I was still an American, first and foremost. You have to decide what kind of person you are, not what everyone else wants you to be.

It’s not all of us Filipinas who upon going to the USA will get westernized , if you pick you a stable smart honest and mature minded Filipina who is rooted in her traditions she will not get westernized or influenced by western women’s feminist views

@@jacquelinecarcereny2448 👍👍👍👍👍👍 Agreed! There’s no way I’d fall into that trap. I’m neither naive nor impressionable, and it sounds like you aren’t either 😊

Is there a big age gap like in Carlo's situation? I think that's the key.

Oh no, Timothy 🥺😳😢

@@TheFilipinaPea Hi again Pea, just to say I'm ok now 20+ years later but now I don't have a wife, house or all the "stuff" we had but she can't take my heart, mind or my love for people and I hope some day to be in yhe Philippines to tell you "I love you as a friend & all you do" ♥

@@timothybush9633 My experience is similar but with a woman born and raised in the USA. The social and cultural atmosphere here in the USA is poison to families and children, as well as to husbands. The USA's female population has been invaded by an unspoken, underground movement to destroy the American Dream as a stepping stone towards establishing a socialist society, thus destroying our constitutional-republic government, as well as the dominance of the USA's position in the global market. My story began in early 1963 when I first met my future ex-wife on a blind date. I'll skip a lot of detail and cut to the problem. My ex-wife's mother was a lifelong, daily drinking alcoholic. Her father had a minor speech impediment that he compensated with egocentric-egotistic, obsessive germaphobe behavior traits. Her mother's brothers and sisters (her uncles and aunts), and her mother's parents (her grandparents) called her "The Little Princess." She was an only child in both her family and extended family until she was nearly eight years old. All these conditions created a narcissistic type of personality. In effect, my ex-wife was "trained" to have a narcissistic personality by her family and extended family. (This conclusion was described by a pair of psychologists, male and female partners in a psychological-therapist organization.) I was not aware of all these conditions and events about my future wife, including her "party girl" activities both here in the USA and in Italy that were never told me about her past. I was extremely naive as well as ignorant of all her misdeeds and previous behavior. You might say that I was deceived about her reputation and condition. (Does the street slang term "hornswoggled" come to mind?) It was not until about five years into the marriage that I began to question some of her attitudes and behaviors that I began to find out bit-by-bit pieces of her past misdeeds. There's a ton of more information that I will not go into due to limited space. She gave birth to a daughter after having a secret rendezvous with a high school acquaintance nine and a half months earlier, naming her daughter the same name as her secret "friend," only with a variation in spelling. I found out about the secret rendezvous when I overheard her private conversation with one of her girlfriends from the same high school. She also gave birth to a son after she had befriended one of her male co-workers she had developed a friendship with even though I objected and asked her to end it. After about ten years, she stated she never loved me and wanted a divorce. I got her to agree to see a marriage counselor, but she would only go if we had separate private sessions. Desperately, I agreed. I never found out any information from the counseling. She later told me she was moving to another state where her parents lived. It was not a subject for discussion. I moved there and stayed with her parents in their home for six months. She stayed in our home until it sold and her daughter finished her school year. When she finally moved to her parents' city, she had "Financial Separation" papers drawn up and moved out of our rented condo. After a long year, I finally consented to a divorce and left. Eventually, within two years, I ceased communication with her. The point of my telling my sad details is that either a wife or a husband can destroy a marriage by their own personal behavior and attitudes. Neither one has to be a foreigner. Find out as much information as you can about anyone you are considering establishing a marriage relationship with to avoid future problems that will break your heart and destroy your future life and career.

Or flight attendants.

Or stewardesses

I know this is the case in the U.S.... also add hairdressers; but is this the case in Philippines as well (assuming you plan to stay there)

Or date cops/military😮😮

basically anyone with a Uni degree

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7 year itch is common, the 7 year mark is difficult

@@michaelmalin8318 mine made it to 10 before it stopped

She was counting off certain prerequisite years the government mandates. Sadly I don't believe she was genuine all along.

She got citizenship?

That’s so unfortunate and unnecessary 😳

Filipinas have to get off the mindset, rice is life.

One of my former girlfriends (who got pregnant from some other dude while I was deployed to Iraq) recently hit me up n Facebook with the expected “well hey stranger!” The young, cute blonde I remember has transformed into a full grown n land shark. She’s easily 250lbs at 5’ 6”. Four kids later and suddenly she remembers I was a pretty good guy. I didn’t even bother responding to her.

Whales! Hahahahaha

Yup all my ex's are HUGE!!!

Yes, and bringing a young, impressionable or naive woman to the west can spell disaster - and sometimes not 😊👍

They don't have to young or naive. Seen it with older Pinas it is impossible not to assimilate

Out of 28 I know personally there is one that is headed that direction. ​@@rickmancc

LOL, The Philippines were westernized 500 years ago.

@@billb945 LOL consumerism and fourth wave feminism originated there.

Hermano, gracias por tu comentario. Soy el hombre de la entrevista agradezco tu apoyo a mi presentación y el video de Pea.

Now a Filipino lady boy becoming westernized like a feminist would be an interesting interview.

Half, Eddie, half🤣

'What have you done for meeee latelyyyyy, Eddieeee?!' About 40 years ago, very sage advice!

Classic, yes

​@@TheFilipinaPea wow.. surprised you know this skit😊

Enfufu 😂😂😂😂

What is your wife current age and did you have any kids together?

I'm just down the road from you - Tanauan. Sadly, only for one more day but, to quote a general held in high regard here, 'I shall return.' 😊

And that’s the thing that some Europeans and other foreigners learn the hard way. Filipinas and Thai women are coming from a warm country where it’s healthy and therapeutic. Most of these Europeans and Canadians live in places where it is cold, dark and not as “happy “. Most of these southeast Asian women don’t want to live in these places. Some of them will tolerate it if they have no choice, but they really don’t want to be there. You’re better off living in her country. It’s cheaper for you and you don’t have to worry about her becoming Americanized.

Wow, I thought your story was going to have a sad ending! ❤️❤️

My wife is from Tanauan

@@TheFilipinaPea With Nurses it is a Very Stressful Job and Doctors or Coworkers and Nurses bond because of long hours. For Flight Attendents they travel are away from home alot get lonely & meet new people all time. They may strike up a conversation with someone they are attracted to on their flight & well things Happen.

Firefighters and police officers also rank toward the top of the cheaters list, I've read.

​@@bigdaddyboomakamr.knowital8079I forget which year I read these World Health Organisation figures. The WHO stated that the occupation with the highest rate of sexualy transmitted diseases was an airline stewardess. Prostitutes were way down the list at number 10.

@@briancarton1804 WOW 🤯🤯🤯 Thanks for the additional information I did not know that statistic.

20 years of working in healthcare infedility is high across the board.

This is Balentino the man Pea interviewed. You speak the truth brother! My best to you, and thank you for your very thoughtful and encouraging words.

I always present both sides of every issue - and let the viewer decide 👍😊

Greg, I'm the guest that Pea interviewed. Truthfully I am still hurting but getting better everyday. Thank you for your very thoughtful comments.

This is Balentino. Thank you for the comment.

I'm the man that the lovely Pea interviewed on this video. Stay strong my brother and please don't make the mistake that I made. Don't bring her back to the land of the Big Walmart.

Don't look. If you find a keeper great but looking puts pressure on you to find. Avoid woman on social media. It is designed to capture them into an addiction to plastic attention that few ever escape. They no longer are content with one man's attention and get unrealistic expectations. The ones posting new pictures of themselves often, even daily, are dangerous choices.

@@zetaone2669 Thank you Brother. I am taking 100 percent of your advice. I appreciate you sharing your story,and your wisdom,with us.

​@@zetaone2669 I really appreciate the advice you gave. It is kind of depressing to me that a man shouldn't take a Filipina back to the U.S. without the risk of losing big. I hope you don't mind if I share my thoughts. The idea that women should use birth control is one of the toxic pills of feminism. And I consider that a red flag when searching for a woman. Years ago, when I was in a Hawaiian restaurant in Salt Lake, I struck up a conversation with a Tongan woman who was in her mid sixties. She was about to attend her mother's 100th birthday party. This 100 year old woman had something like fourteen kids. And each of her kids had large families and so on, so that by the time she turned one hundred, she had five hundred descendants. If you can imagine that? Now if you can appreciate the contrast. She had five hundred people and their spouses and friends attend her birthday party. And all of those people adored her as a national treasure. Her daughter said that even the queen of Tonga paid her respects. Now you put that in contrast to the average American feminist who fooled around, yet rejected every marriageable man. If you know some of them when they get old, they are bitter lonely people. They live alone in their apartments with little money and no companions except maybe for a dog or a cat. Let me ask you which woman is better off in the end? If you believe in God, then you would know that your children are the only thing you can take with you into the next life. Everything else you leave behind. Plus this life is so short. The older we get the more we realize how little time we actually have. Why do we throw away our lives working towards the things that we inevitably lose anyway when our time is up? Why shouldn't we look to a higher purpose? And what are the results of using birth control? All across the world, wealthy nations are experiencing a population collapse. And their civilizations are on the brink of collapse along with it. Birth control are against the laws of God, and there are always consequences breaking His laws. And we are seeing those consequences. Those are my thoughts. You can take it or leave it.

@@sammajor2075- Repeat, your beautiful submissive non-Western woman will have toxic (mostly divorced & never married) female friends who do not want her to stay married, and they will convince her to fight you on everything, stop having sex with you and “cheat with Chad”!

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All good points but that also means leaving her alone in her country. That too is a recipe for disaster. It's all a matter of how many bites from the turd sandwich we are willing to take.

Not always, unfortunately. Sometimes, they end up seeing how no one else is going to put up with their behavior. Then, they come crawling back hoping you will. I have an ex doing this very thing to me to this day.

Then on the other hand, it's never as good the second time as the first time.

Thanks, I try to remain unbiased 👍 And congrats on finding your soulmate! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Robin, I'm Balentino the man Pea interviewed in this video. Thank you for your very thoughtful comments and good wishes. It means a lot.

@@zetaone2669 You're welcome and I apologize for misspelling your name. Enjoy your evening.

@@robincraft4682 No worries about the name, it happens all the time.

See you then! 👍❤️

No reason to take the hen to the fox house.

it's true. My son is married to an American woman half-black and half-Filipina. Our son said he wanted a 'trad wife' and wanted his wife to stay home and raise the kids. Fortunately she was of a like mind so...fine. My wife, feminist by all accounts, bristled at this arrangement who still has a slight prejudice of wishing to see women be 'bossbabes or 'girlboss' types. She's enough of a feminist (old school) to respect her daughter-in-law's preference and choices, plus we know that our daughter-in-law despite this movement to being trad, has her own will and strength. Tough chick.

Then it sounds like you might’ve found a keeper too! 👍❤️❤️❤️

@@TheFilipinaPea I thank Jesus Christ for her everyday Ms Pea.

The ice maker and water feature is awesome, get it.! you won't regret it.

@@Postofficejoe Instead of a fridge/freezer with an additional add-on of cold-tap water with ice maker, consider a "standalone" ice maker that just makes ice cubes. That way, the fridge/freezer will not have to be replaced when the ice maker stops working. The cost of repairing an ice maker on a fridge/freezer is about the same cost of simply buying a new ice maker.

@xavierkoolat6926 That is a great idea sir, thank you very much. My loving Filipina is frugal and does not want to spend more than necessary. I can truly appreciate this about her. We try to enjoy life and make memories, not objects that will have to be repaired or replaced after a couple of years. Honestly, it seems that people I know who bought the more expensive fridge and freezer with the water and ice feature have had to repair or replace within about 3 to 4 years.

Somehow you got the gold again! 🥇❤️😊👍

Thank you for the suggestion about writing a book and for commenting. Sorry to hear about you and your Chinese bride. Stay strong, life is good and gets a little better everyday.

Well thanks SA, for all of that (right down to the last sentence) 🤣😉👍

Of a fool. I live there. Do not interact running five plants. Not married and no kids. Will not allow the culture to change mine

Thanks Arky! 👍❤️😊

Win, Thank you for the very kind and thoughtful words about me. Best, Bále

Bàle, if only Sweet Pea could have gotten you to loosen up and talk. 😂 I lived in Asheville, NC for 40 years.

Thanks, my friend Win - I’m glad you liked it 👍❤️👍

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