People got to realize that the only thing that can truly give you true joy and happiness is GOD A lot of us run around here screaming God this God that and really ain't close to him like we make it seem I don't know your story I don't know you but I love your channel I washed it a lot use your views to buy a lot of wigs and I think that you're a very pretty woman and back to what I was saying everybody trying to look for joy and happiness and people in certain things when at the end of the day their joy and their happiness is found in Jesus and the reason people continue to be in that place of feeling like something is missing is because a lot of them are living LUKEWARM lives and when you're living with one foot in and one foot out God can't fully be who he desires to be in your life when living a life like that doing what you want to do and still trying to hold on to God those two don't mix well we have to learn to let go completely of our desires our plans and our will for our lives and let God in to have complete control and only then will true joy and happiness feel our lives we have to start getting more serious about our relationship with the Lord allowing him to have complete control over everything and not some things going to him about everything and not just when we get in trouble and we need him to help us out of it but truly surrendering everything about us and our lives to him
Thank you so much for this, I completely agree... As the saying goes.. "“If you have worry, you don’t have faith, and if you have faith, you don’t have worry.” I also believe people look for other people to give them happiness and you can only find happiness within you. Once you find that kind of peace and take care of you, the right partner will also come along. If you are in a pessimistic or negative mindset or space you attract what you are...You have to learn to love yourself before you can get love from someone else. Take care of self, heal self, pray, do gratitudes even when things are terrible be thankful for what you DO HAVE and thank God for that and the rest will fall into place. And have Faith that it will be fine. Granted, that's easier said than done but once you really do the work everything else will fall into place and you will be surprised at all the "goodness" that comes into your life. People are constantly saying to me now "omg you are just glowing now...." But that's the internal peace that I have found. Am I perfect?? Of course, not... I still fall short often but I now recognize and try to work on all the negative aspects about myself daily as well as replacing any negative thoughts with positive ones. And not judging people... That's a huge flaw within our community, especially amongst black women who will take what they want from the bible yet forget this quote "Let him who is without sin cast the first stone" .. Life is a journey and we are all learning as we go but it doesn't have to be miserable and once you find true inner peace you realize how amazing life, God, and this Earth is.. Other than on my pmdd days... Hopefully I can get these hormones together soon and I can be peaceful all the time lol.But once again.. Thank you for this Sis I really appreciate it ❤❤😘😘 Much Love to you and yours😘
Happy Tuesday 💜 Love the update and that you're feeling better and the family is good. You always have to do what is best for you. It's always heaven sent to have someone who is supportive and loving in your life. 🫶🏼 Keep living your best life and May God Continue to Bless you and the family 🙏🏼 Have a Blessed Week 🙌🏼 🛐God is saying to you today, "You've waited, cried, prayed, and persevered. Now you're about to experience blessings and breakthroughs in every area of your life."🙌🏼💜💜
Heyyyyyyy Beautiful 👋🏾👋🏾 Thank you soooooooooo much Sis!!!! ❤😘😘 I have told you numerous times how your quotes and spiritual verses have gotten me through some really dark times and I have written alot of them down and they really helped to pull me out of a dark place. Once I was able to see the light, I still would refer to them when I would do morning prayers and gratitudes.. So thank you again for all your wonderful words, encouragement and support it has truly been appreciated!!! May God continue to bless you and your family as well and I hope you have a blessed week!!! And whew!!! This quote gave me chills!!! Thank you so much Beautiful ❤❤❤😘😘😘😘😘
Happiness looks radiant on you!! Side note: I'm very much an introvert & thought i wuz the only 1 with anxiety about having a wedding ceremony. Also the reason I've only had 1 birthday party. Nice to be able to relate to.some1 else.
You are human and a woman. Alot comes with that and thanks for sharing this intimate part of your life. Any woman who comes at you harshly is truly a hater so whatever BYE. Wish you the best with your new love and support system and family. Just continue to Do you as I'm sure you will. 🙏
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Say it again for the people in the back Sis!!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 You are so right... We, as women, go through so much and sometimes we can be one another's harshest critics... But not my village.. You guys are all amazing and the love and support yall give me is truly appreciated!! Thank you so much Sis!!! ❤❤😘😘😘😘😘 The best thing we can all do is live in our truths and live our lives doing what makes US happy. Forget the naysayers because they don't matter anyway❤
Go Go Go Go Cuzzin!!!!!! She's married nan! And looking just as glowy and Happy. Love Love Love to see it!!! And even if this is or aint your last marriage, thats nobody business but yours. And if you chose to share, you can count on me to listen in. Like you said, we only know what you share. It's layers to your life and we aint living it!! I'm so glad the kids are well. And your finding your footing outside of RU-vid! Just know if you want to have a everything must go wig sale, I'm all in😂😂😂! Thank so so much for sharing with us. Hope to see you soon. ❤
LOL.. Crysten!!!!!!!!! I just love you so much Girl... I was laughing and nodding all the way through this comment.. Thank you so much Sis!!! You know I appreciate you !!! ❤❤❤😘😘😘 For once I can say this is my last marriage 😂😂😂 My favorite saying use to be "And if this one don't act right I'll be on husband #3" 😂 I don't say that now.. But Sis, when I say I appreciate the love and support you have given me throughout this entire journey I truly mean it! ❤❤❤ Thank you so much and I will definitely have another video coming some time this week hopefully.. At the latest it will be early next week! But thanks again Cuzzin I truly appreciate you❤
Great job sis yes we need that video about PMDD I started my RU-vid channel in January or February but chil I got sick went to two doctors one said dieabties and the other said my B12 shots were so low that I have to give myself shots every other day ❤❤❤❤ good seeing you sis
Heyyyyyy Sheri👋🏾👋🏾 I will definitely be doing the video on my PMDD this week. I want to bring as much awareness to it as possible because it's so scary going through something like that and not knowing what is going on. And omg..... so you didn't have diabetes?? If not, that is a blessing but I know taking those shots are still not fun but hopefully it's not a forever thing and after a time you can just take the supplements orally instead. That would be great!! It's so good hearing from you Boo.. Stay safe and blessed and once you feel better get back to your channel.. Talking about your experience with the low B12 levels can really be a great video and can really help a lot of people.❤😘
Blessings and Congratulations! Happiness looks fantastic on you. I also left nursing for a while, burnout is really real. We women go through so much with our hormones and cycles, it’s just a lot!
Thank you so much Beautiful!!!!! I really appreciate it so much!!! ❤❤😘😘 And yes burnout is REALLLLLL.... Especially when you overwork trying to support your family.. smh.. and yes you are right we go through so much and don't have much help nor support for the things we go through because it's literally a man's world 😩
Hey Girl 👋🏾I really enjoy your videos. Cheers 🥂to doing what makes you happy and what you love. Having a supportive husband makes it so much easier. I can totally relate. 2 years back I wasn't happy and had to change the way I work. I was so grateful that my husband supported and was the same he would do whatever was needed. I love the hair 💖esp the color 🤩. ~JT
Heyyyyyy Jackie 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 How are you Beautiful ?? I am planning a sale soon. I just gotta add the wigs to the site.. I've already washed them just haven't added them smh. lol.. Thank you so much for your continued love and support Sis!! I really appreciate it❤😘😘
The dynamic of you and your husband’s relationship sounds so much like me and my fiancé. I’m super shy with very few friends while he had a huge family with a big friend group, all married, good men. He has been a football coach for so long and everyone knows him. We are having a pretty big wedding and I am so nervous.
Congratulations! I’m sure his family and friends don’t want to overwhelm you, they simply are happy that you all found each other. Relax in knowing you’re the person they too have been waiting for him to find. ❤
Awwwwwww congratulations again Beautiful!!!!! ❤❤😘😘😘 I am sure your wedding is going to be as beautiful as you are.. I can definitely understand being nervous because I am shy just like that but I know it's going to be amazing and you will have an amazing time. Please keep us updated...and I definitely do not recommend taking a gummy before the ceremony 😂😂
Heyyyyyyy Beautiful 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 Thank you so much Boo!!! I truly appreciate you so much!! You have loved and supported me thru so much and I can't tell you enough how much I appreciate you ❤❤😘😘😘😘
Hey Chrissy 👋🏾 I’m so happy that you’re happy and it shows, I’ve always known that making videos is hard work, and you made it look so easy But chile Thank God for your blessings, glad you’re doing a little nursing, I remember the Friday night hair 😂 Love you to Life Blessings 💚💜
I love it Chrissy, thank you so much for this VIDEO, we love you. Keep being your own unique self, constantly evolving into the Woman the CREATOR created you to be. Just know you are helping somebody with the fragrance of your life , especially me love.
Awwwww.... Thank you so much Barretta ❤❤😘😘 You are just too sweet!! I truly appreciate it so much Boo!!! ❤😘 I love how you worded that "the fragrance of you life"..... BEAUTIFUL!!! You are so amazing with words!!! Love ya Sis and thank you for your continued love and support ❤😘😘😘
Awwww... Thank you so much!!!! ❤❤😘😘 Nursing is truly a calling because I have never missed a job in my life like I missed nursing lol. Happy belated Nurses Week!!
Awwwww... Thank you so much Boo!!! I really appreciate it!! ❤❤😘😘 And yes, I want to encourage more women to get the help they need because there are so many of us that will suffer in silence and that's not the way to go... Thanks again, Beautiful ❤😘
You know I love you Boo, my Sis! Im so glad that you found happiness with your hubby. Im sorry that you went through all of that. But look at you know, hun!You survived through all of your struggles. You are glowing, and Im proud of you and here for it!😘😘❤❤❤❤
Awwwwww... Thank you so much Vanessa!!! ❤❤😘😘 You are so sweet! I truly appreciate it so much.. I have gone through alot of craziness and it feels amazing to find so much peace... Thank you for loving and supporting me thru it all Sis❤❤❤
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Heyyyyyy Dee 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 Thank you so much Boo!!! I truly appreciate it so much!! ❤😘 My mental health is much better now... I had some struggles but I am doing better now that I've figured out the issues... As always, I love and appreciate you! Have a great week and stay blessed and safe Boo ❤❤😘😘😘😘
HEY BEAUTIFUL!!!!!! ITS SOOO GOOD TO SEE U!!! You give me hope,I have been single 4 years, I'm praying for a slow , steady ,date filled relationship.Im so happy for you!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS ON EVERYTHING CHRISSY!!!!! I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE YOU AS A NURSE!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰SOOOOO BEAUTIFUL,MAY THE MOST HIGH CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL NEW FAMILY!!!
Heyyyyy Gorgeous 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 This comment has me grinning so hard I may pop out my dental implants 😂😂😂 Thank you so much Sis!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤😘😘😘😘😘 I truly want you to have this same kind of happiness and joy!!!!! And I know you deserve it and it will come to you soon!!! I believe in manifestation and prayer and I believe you will receive everything you truly desire!!! ❤❤❤
Love you girl!!! I have been following you for years and your personality is so refreshing!! Your light shines bright in every video. Congrats!! You deserve this life!! I'm 56 and have been divorced for many years I've given up on the dating scene but you are giving me hope!!
Awwwww... Thank you so much for this comment Annette!!! This really made me smile I appreciate you so much!!❤❤😘😘 And yes, SIS get back out there.. I tell everyone that I can't wait for my 50s... I just feel like that is such a great age to REALLLLLLYYYY enjoy life to the fullest. Get back out there, BOO!!! Even if you don't find Mr. Right immediately just enjoy the experience.. ❤❤ Judging by your profile pic you are too BEAUTIFUL to be keeping all that to yourself lol..
Heeeyyyyy there, what up Chrissy!👋🏽 Giiiirrrrrllll, you ain't lying. Life been lifing! I'm so happy that you've taken charge of your life & your own happiness and you're doing something about it. Kudos to you for getting your passport! I still haven't gotten one yet. Also, kudos to you for going back to nursing. If you choose to never do RU-vid videos again, I support you on that too. I've also made a major decision recently. I've sang in choirs all my life. But, for a long time, it's felt like more of a chore. I'm tired. So, I quit. Everybody was shocked. My response: "You'll be ok, I promise you will." 😂 Anyway, girlfriend, do YOU! ❤❤❤❤❤
Heyyyyyyyy Cynthia 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 Yes it definitely has been lifing lol.. 😂😂😂 I had to take charge or spend the rest of my life miserable trying to please other people and that mess is for the birds lol.. Thank you for the kudos.. I've already gotten it back and was soooooo excited even though Journee said my picture looks like a jail picture 😂 They don't allow you to smile on those things forreal lol. Anddddd Cynthia!!!!! You can sang???? Girl you been holding out on us... And I love your response to the ppl that were shocked that you quit... You have to do what makes YOU happy!!! Nothing that you love should feel like a chore, so when it does it's time to switch it up.. and maybe one day you will go back to it ,maybe you won't 🤷🏾♀ but no matter what you have to do what makes you happy!! I am proud of you Sis💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾❤❤❤❤
Heyyyy Beautiful👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 Thank you so much Boo❤❤😘😘 And congrats on your upcoming marriage as well!!!! I love that yall are doing it on New Year's Eve thats sooooooo DOPE❤❤❤
Heyyyy sis !!! I’m always happy to see you !! I always thought you and Ron looked absolutely beautiful together from day one. He seem like such a great guy and you’re so sweet and down to earth. Y’all are so great together❤ Congratulations to you both !!! I’m so, so happy for y’all !!! You are glowing and seem so happy and I love that for you ❤ Ron is so good to you !! I can tell he come from an AMAZING FAMILY !!! I can’t stress enough how happy I am for you two ❤❤ sis Im a nurse also !!! I’ve been an RN now for 26 years and it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made…. Because I have a job that I love, it feels like I don’t work ( hope that makes sense 😂) I pray for nothing but the best for you and your husband always because you both deserve it !! Thank you so much for the life update. Take care guys !!! Sending lots of love ❤️ By the way sis, that’s going to be a very pretty passport picture 😊
Awwwwwwwwww.... PATRICE!!!!! ❤❤❤❤ I loved this comment so much I had to screenshot it and send it to Ron..lol. 😂 Thank you so much Sis!!! I am truly in such a happy place.Not only is my husband amazing but his family and my new bonus kids all accepted me and my babies with open arms and no judgement about me coming from a SECOND marriage lol. I just feel so blessed and grateful to have them all in my life. And I truly appreciate my extended family (like you) that have not judged me and loved me through it all even though I didn't give you guys all the information yall supported me nonetheless and have just been happy that I am happy.. That's unconditional love to me and I love you guys so much for it, YOU HAVE NO IDEA!!! ❤❤😘😘 And yes, I understand exactly what you mean about nursing..And because of what you said I KNOW FOR A FACT you are an amazing nurse. It's not just a job to you, you LOVE what you do so I know you are an incredible nurse and I pray that the world gets more nurses like you!! Thank you so much for your 26 years of service! I appreciate you! And happy belated Nurses Week!!❤❤😘😘
Heyyy Lady Diz.......... Great Video, Great Update own yourNew Life.........Good and Funny Family Time as Always. And Congradulations !!!own Your Brand New Husband # b bless # best Wishes 2 You.Both ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Heyyyyyyy Jennie 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 Awwwww Thank you so much as always boo!! You know I appreciate you ❤❤❤ You be blessed and stay safe too Beautiful!! We appreciate your well wishes so much😘😘😘
Awwwww... you are too sweet... I always get carded when I don't wear makeup (which as stated in the video is majority of the time 😂) not gonna lie i don't like how pale i get in the winter and the makeup definitely helps to give my color back but I appreciate it so much Sis... Saying I look better in my natural state will NEVER not be a compliment❤❤ You are so sweet😘😘
I’m open to the PMD video , because I get it as well I was taking a pms gummie to help before it starts to calm my attitude breakout etc but sometime they are not enough. I have to lock myself in my room for the first 3 days lol
OMG!!! I am definitely doing the video this week!!!I want to help as many women as I can and then hopefully we can all help each other in the comments.. I didn't even know they made pms gummies so even with that you are helping me as well.. But i completely understand locking yourself in the room .. it's literally like turning into a werewolf 😂😂😂 thanks so much for sharing Shana ❤😘
Thank you so much Shana ❤❤😘😘😘 Not caring about people's opinions has definitely been something that came with age because in my 20s I cared about everybody's opinions lol. But I realized that other ppl's opinions about me is not my business.. And that is definitely a freeing experience in itself❤❤❤
Awwww... Thank you so much Charmin!!!!❤❤😘😘 I plan to start posting more regularly soon.. Especially during the summer while I have more time from my mama duties 😂😂😂
LOL.. No wayyyyyyy.... Whew!! I'm glad I didn't have to do it more than once cuz I probably would have been like "man forget this😂😂" They did tell me to push my bangs to the side a little more but that was it.. I got my passport back last week and was sooooo excited!!!! lol.
Yes we need more on the pmdd bcuz you got wondering if thts what's wrong with me. Ppl think Im joking when I say I don't like myself during tht time. I'll be 46 this yr & it has never been this bad. My man, kids & supervisor have all seen tht side of me. My 26 yr old son always say you bout to come on tht thang😂😂
YELP!! I'll definitely be doing that video this week FOR SURE!!!! I want to bring as much awareness to this as I can because I feel like so many women go thru it and have no idea what is going on and it makes it way more scary when you feel like you are losing your mind and have no idea why.. So hopefully with my video we can help each other figure out what the heck is going on..❤❤ But it definitely sounds like you are experiencing the same thing that I have... 🥰
Imma Virgo. I agree with the nature thing. I enjoy nature so much. Edit: Girl, i am private also and I do not have a lot of friends. Lol my family is small too.
Ohhhh thank you so much Tip❤❤😘😘 cuz people love to act like I am trippin when I say I love nature, and I'm private and don't have a lot of friends lol..We definitely sound the same 😂😂😂
Im so happy for you but how can i know my next wig lol. I also have tachycardia and take meds so hopefully you dont get to that level. Im in a similar place... waiting on him to get granted a decree. Md is only 6 months.
Thank you so much Koren!!! I truly appreciate it so much Boo!!! ❤❤😘😘😘And wow.. I hope I don't get there but we have to do whatever it takes to stay healthy.. They think mine is associated with my pmdd and the anxiety that comes with it.. And baby i hope you don't have to wait as long as i did... whew!! Prayers Up, Sis🙏🏾
Oh wow!! Really??? I will definitely be recording that video this week then.. I wanna help as many people as possible.. Because it was so more worse when I didn't know what was going on... It's still no picnic but it was way worse when I had no clue what was happening to me..
