I think Andy ❤ People might think it’s too fast but I think when you’re older and you know, why waste time. Plus he travels a lot so you still get a sense of independence. If this is the case I think this couldn’t be a more perfect situation. At the end of the day whatever you choose as long as you are happy that’s all that matters.
I think the same way too...they have fantastic chemistry. I see them making it to the finish line. As stated He is a pilot who is away a lot. Win win!! ❤
Moved into a less expensive apartment in or near Andy’s complex…….if you both are smart! Keep some magic going until there is a ring💫, a place large enough to accommodate his visiting children, plus you and your stuff!
Totally agree! Living together relationships don't ever become more & fizzle out badly. If you fo move in with Andy. live totally platonically, i.e., as brother & sister, completely chaste! Or get married today!
Danna! I’ve missed your videos!! Glad to see you’re doing well and making so many memories with Andy. Can’t wait to see your new place no matter where it is. Love from Texas. 🫶🏻
Congratulations on your new move! 🎉 Yeah!! We've all missed you! ❤ Isn't amazing HOW fast the time flew by since you moved in? Glad you can settle now and not worry about moving again! LOVE your videos beautiful Danna! ❤
Hi Danna, I look at it this way YES !!! It was a lovely apt. and you also gained some beautiful new furniture (sponsorship and purchased ) BUT the largest blessing to take from this experience is you WENT THROUGH ALL YOUR POSSESSIONS. You ORGANIZED clothes, shoes, bathroom essentials and beauty products ,kitchen utensils ,pots pans , cutlery dishes and dry goods ,and ,,costumes. props and instruments !!!!! More I'm sure BUT you also cleaned out your shed ,went through storage (may not need it again ) and now have a much more organized ,catalogued, packaging of your belongings. depending on where you are going you may only need a small amount of the above and when you do want/need everything else it should be much more easily accessible than the chaotic mess it was in before ???? I could be wrong but now you can store a lot more in your she shed now that it's been cleaned out and you pack in a more manageable way w/ items needed in front and everything else toward back . . . Regardless, I wish you luck I'm sorry if this move makes you sad However EVERYTHING happens for a reason and maybe your relationship w/ Andy may never have happened when you were stuck in one place. he was able to see the way you live, how you cook and all you own :) and he STIIL loves you (that's a joke ) Sounds like you had a fun two weeks Let the adventures continue Your resilience ,capability , talents ,strength and courage continue to amaze me!!!!! Best and Blessings !!!!!
My aunt and uncle got married after 6 weeks of knowing each other and have been happily married for over 40 years! 😍 you never know! ❤️ whatever you decided I hope all goes well!
This is so exciting to hear. And you have SO MUCH strength! I salute you. Here's the thing - I remember how ready you were for an apartment this past spring, how far away and impossible it seemed. And then the sublet came up and you grabbed it, despite all the work involved (not just your stuff - there was the former tenant's stuff to deal with!!) It seems kind of typical for the universe to say to us "oh, you're ready and willing to live in a permanent dwelling? Let me get you set up for a better situation for you..." even though it means another moving slog... I'm sending you lots of strength and I want you to know your videos really empower and motivate me in my own life. Thank you!!
Gurl… has anyone ever told you that you are enough without all that stuff? The more time devoted to stuff, the less time you’ll have you & your dreams. You’re talented enough to do the musical with just a different hats. If you must, you can rent a costume or create one with secondhand clothing. In your absence, I ran across a middle aged RU-vidr, who is crushing it without a change of clothing, playing up to 3 different characters in her delivery outfit. She had no plans on being successful at YT, but after two years, she no longer stresses over how to pay the bills.
Was very glad to hear and see you only because I was concerned whether you got sick or accident, . . . Another daunting task - moving!! Your rationale makes complete sense to me. I only wish for you it would be a bit easier or I could help you. Sending nothing but ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
Hopefully a new apartment. Moving in after 5 mos in middle age sounds crazy.. Also, moving in with Andy would be so much pressure, and if it doesn't work out, back to vanlife/homeless that you hate with another break up could send the nervous system over the edge. ♥️
This one is going to work out because they aren't playing games with each other at all. It's a very communicative relationship, and I believe they are on the same page: love and marriage.
@liz4581 Yeah, I am still of the school that really getting to know someone before signing up for marriage is really the best move. Let's get those divorce statistics down. Also, having it be based on more than I can't afford my apartment and we are so in love after 5 months, so let's move in. It was fun in our twenties. I genuinely hope she gets her own place, does a massive downsize, and then incorporates herself into someone's life who has children. Andy's kids will also be affected by this, and 5 months just isn't enough. And what if it doesn't work? Then she is back to square one. It is good they have solid communication, but they are also in the infancy of their relationship. It just seems like taking their time and being smart about it will get them further in the long run?
All these, I assume well-meant thoughts are really not very helpful. Danna knows what she is doing, is experienced and mature. Let’s join/create/embrace a “SUPPORT CHAIN!”
@@UteGoldkuhleidk, I feel like everything I said is based in pure logic. Genuinely. ❤ I hope she gets her own place and gives her relationship the room it deserves to grow.
YES! Isn't it exciting? I'm in support of her and how she does her life. In fact, I'm a bit jealous that I never was so independent and capable of doing all that she does. I'm very proud of Danna, and I support what she wants and desires. So excited to see her set up in her new place: wherever that may be!
Great to see you glowing . Although moving is stressful I can see such joy and excitement in this process. I feel it would make sense to live with andy .it's great because he's gone 2 weeks a month witch gives you time to do you. And why spend on rent when you are with him 2 weeks a month anyway. And this gives you time to save money so if you have to leave Andy you can get another place. But to be honest I see a marriage and baby within the year so fingers crossed 🤞 you get the family you dreamed of
So glad you are ok, so worried …2 weeks was such a long time without hearing from you ❤️ Thinking your taking the next step and moving in with Andy 🤞💕👍 No need for any click-bait titles-enjoy hearing from you about anything and everything 😂 🤩
You moved into your own place !!!!! A Studio !! Your last relationship went so far the two of you came this close to living together AND starting a business together. Call me old fashioned BUT you have been SO strong and SO independent for so long and I would pray your last relationship taught you one thing. Perhaps ,since it hasn't even been a year, wait for a ring ? An official proposal. I'm certain it will happen but it doesn't hurt having autonomy in a relationship. No matter how head over heels Andy may be. I would STILL give it some time and again have a proper proposal ring and all !!!!!!!!
I think a good read for her is WHO MOVED MY CHEESE? it takes about 2 to 3 hours to read. It's about doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. I know well about this because up to 42 years old (her age) I was the queen of same ole same ole! Once I changed the pattern I spent the next several years with a soulmate but he passed away. Anyway, it might help her to read it. Actually its good for any single person that wants to change their life.
@@Donna-jz2ft Donna, you wouldn’t have stayed in my last relationship if you knew what happened to the end. 😊 being married is not an end goal or a priority for me, having a healthy and happy relationship is. If that turns into a marriage, that’s great! 50% of marriages end in divorce and just because two people are married does not mean they are compatible, or happy. You see about .05 of my reality so I understand it can be confusing. Why make the decisions I do. I would have to date someone for at least one year before I would marry them. I take that commitment extremely serious. I would rather live with someone and learn in the day today whether we are compatible or not rather than getting married and finding out later that we’re not compatible or just extremely unhappy together. I don’t think someone else can make you happy, but I do believe that being with the wrong person can make you miserable. I am on board too see if it’s going to work long-term. I don’t just go jumping into a marriage after four months of knowing someone though. 😊 alas, you and I are different and that is OK. 💖💖💖 much love to you and hope you are thriving in your relationship
@@montanadanna You go gurl! I think you will enjoy it. I read it over 20 years ago and picture lots of advice from the book when I am about to do something AGAIN that I shouldn't...aka go to the left when I should go to the right, lol!
@@montanadanna I WOULD NOT have you're right. Perhaps you should REread what I wrote. ALL the more reason to take things a bit slower w/ Andy But you seem to be SO sure of yourself and your choices you ask for advice but go ahead and do whatever it is you want o do at the moment anyway. There is NOTHING HEALTHY about your lifestyle or your decisions. You have a one track mind unfortunately the train goes off the track too many times. It's a shame,
You got this! It's easy to say ignore all of the opinions, including mine. But that isn't how this RU-vid thing works. It's painfully interactive. Just hoping this move can give you the best situation you could ask for because you deserve complete happiness.
Exactly! And I get to chose what and when I share big decisions in my life. Just because I'm online doesn't mean I'm not human. Everyone needs some privacy 😜
This video made me stress eat for you, I swear LOL! 😅 Seriously, you have gone through so much. Whatever your decision, am rooting for you and hoping for the best!!!
My guess is with Andy! Im so happy that you found your person! Im so glad that you can finally ground yourself and just enjoy life! Keep the magic alive 💗💗💗💗
You should get a tiny house on wheels, Canna. You could travel with all the comforts of home or buy a cheap piece of land in Utah or neighboring states and park it. You could also get a Casita travel trailer that has a shower and all the comforts of home.
I am so sorry for missing your last month of videos as I have been helping my mom with her cancer battle but I’m so sad to say that she has lost her battle ❤❤❤love your Aussie family friend John ❤❤❤
For myself I have missed you the last weeks and my personal drama of having my car stolen has been my focus so didn't realize there was a small hole where your videos belonged. I found a new car and now I think hearing you ramble on about packing..lol..is soothing ok. Know it's stress..but my house is a wreck and I have no excuse..lived in same place eleven years.
I bet you’ve already moved in with Andy since you’ve been gone for a few weeks hopefully I’m right. I think he’s the right guy for you and you’re the right gal for him.! Let’s all sing it together. Let’s all sing it together. Andy loves Danna ❤
I hope you chose your own apartment, the relationship is still so new that you need your own space, don't rush it, enjoy the journey. I certainly missed your videos.
Apartment then it's with Andy 100% conversation has changed from maybe travel to getting grounded. You get travel with Andy. You guys have found your one.
I am guessing a new apartment, and hopefully a more economical one. I can totally sympathise with the moving I moved twice within two months and it was hectic and exhausting. It took me forever in the end to get unpacked and clean up and sort everything out. Take care of yourself during this time as it is easy to end up drained.
The scariest time of my life is about 3 months (well heck) 6 months before my lease is due to figure out how much it is going up and WHAT FEES they will add. Example, property insurance fees, the lights to run the main building and night lights, the trash removal service, parking. It adds up to an EXTRA 100 that they don't count in the rent. It is insanity. I don't think people in houses go thru this type of unknown stress or have to wonder each year how they will get the extra money. Apartment ownership is a huge business right now and the new owners buy the properties, kick all the current tenants out by raising the rents to high that it is way out of the housing budget of a single person and then start charging fees for stuff that has never had a fee before. It is a SICK GAME. Honestly, I am expecting them to charge for lawn mowing and pool maintenance next. I have only seen the first 5 mins of your video and am going to enjoy the rest now.
I hope you moved into a place you can finally call home. I hope you did and continue to do what you wanted to do and I hope you don’t allow anyone’s opinion to sway your internal guidance and knowing. ❤❤Life is too short to worry about what others think you should be doing with your one precious life ❤❤
Moved in with ANDY I was wondering if you would resurface, it very obvious that the 2 of you are very in love and don't want to be apart because you are losing Love by the minute as Janis J said '' Get it while you can '' ! Congrats ! Happy Days & life for your New Family 👊😍💖
It is actually great timing in a way that you were MIA. I've been glued to so many vids and news from the floods and devastation with hurricane Helene that keeping up with RU-vid folks that I care about. Hmmm. I am going to guess that...the back studio building at Andy's Area is being turned into an apartment to rent out. Or someone is going to help him decorate 😅. Apartments are just like starting a new job. You are at the bottom, then you have to move to move up. Repeat. Sigh. Just the fact that you are willing to let us view your life is fun enough. I just love watching the journey of others. Wherever you end up is going to be awesome because you seem to make life so fun and funny. I actually missed Andy in this vid. 😢.
Danna, 👍 Congrats on the move! 👍 I hope you find stasis, wherever you move next. I am SO impressed by your stamina. But, you still are young and fit, so, such is to be expected. ❤ Congrats on the relationship with Andy lasting! ❤ Congrats on getting along with his kids too. When any parent finds a significant other, it really can be tough on the kids! But, you are great with kids and are so self effacing so, I see good things ahead for you in this relationship. ❤
Love watching the Fast motion as things are clearing out and seeing the makinging of❤❤❤ process happen. I'm so HAPPY for you. I'm guessing you may be moving with Andy but setting up your things in his camper as your "house" and actually living in his house. That would be the Ideal situation.❤
I hope you don’t put all your career goals on hold for a relationship that’s only a couple months old. I hope you moved in to your own place … I cannot believe you have to pack everything again. The abyss and bathroom never even were UNpacked. Plus I thought you needed to post a whole bunch of videos in order to pay debts/rent etc. I’m so sorry because moving is incredibly stressful!! I genuinely hope you found a smaller apartment all your own. Maybe you can just get rid of a whole bunch of stuff while you downsize? That’s an upside!!! Also I know you’ve been sick a lot the last year. Check all options. Take a few COVID tests so you can rule it in or out. I’m so sorry you are moving again so soon after you just moved all this stuff in here!!!
I’m so happy for your new home. My guess is your own place but either way I’m happy for you it’s your life decision ❤ I was gone for 2 weeks too. We’ve been cleaning up after back to back hurricanes here in Florida. It’s a move in itself Glad it’s over until the next one. We have 5 weeks left of hurricane season 🤦🏻♀️
Hi Danna! I believe you are downsizing to a smaller apartment in the same area. Maybe a two bedroom~~one bath, or even a one bedroom~~one bath. It's all good!! You and Andy can continue getting to know each other. Hope you feel better soon!
Never clicked so fast ! Tomorrows video?! Could we be so lucky?, 🍀 you sound sick, that sucks when you’re on the go😢 feel better ❤ I knew you were moving cuz of how long you been MIA… the question is… with who or not 😂 I don’t care either way. I just wan you to be happy! Always love and light from Canada 🇨🇦
I met someone the same time you did in June …I am 51 years old. Fast forward 4 months and we’re engaged and living together. You gotta trust your gut , practice radical honesty ….hopefully both self aware and evolved to know . Sometimes you gotta take chances . When you do the work on yourself and know how you want to feel with someone it gets easier to know if it’s right for you .
❤❤SUPPORT WHATEVER DECISION YOU MADE ,im sure its the exact right decision for YOU ! i have always really admired you for jumping into LIFE with both feet 100% cuz why not
