Who Knows Kids Better? Mums Vs Maids | Inspirational Video

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Features interviews with mothers children and their maids from Singapore. Through a series of questions and answers, it shows that domestic workers understand their employers' children better than their employers. This film, which calls on employers to allow domestic workers every week, informs mothers about their maid rights in this way.
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@evasmithturton5208 3 года назад

“She doesn’t like people to know... so i don’t tell you” respect

@some1else688 3 года назад

Y E S

@eevieaaa759 3 года назад

She's a real one

@khaela9255 3 года назад

She'll have your back no matter what

@alisaintannandaputrigyza8059 3 года назад

@citysc4pes916 3 года назад

Justice for me whos crush always got leaked😭🤚

@marianabarros6565 3 года назад

The saddest thing is that the maid's kids probably miss their mom so much while she's working to be able to feed them

@keacarter8392 3 года назад

I know right? I mean spending some times with your child should be normal but I understand those mothers that have to work. So seeing people in the comment section saying they're not good mothers or that they should not be mothers is saddening. Like, they can't judge them on a 1 minute video

@marianabarros6565 3 года назад

@@keacarter8392 Yes!! It's a loop that is difficult to be broken

@dontmatterrr 3 года назад

Wow. So very true.

@nicolaablett7790 3 года назад

grand parents parent it happens all over from Singapore to Beirut and Lagos Whole generations parented by their grandparents and the same the generation before You don't parent your own you parent your children's So they can have education MESSED UP WORKD WE HAVE CREATED

@b2st836 3 года назад

@@f.b.8700 but I think that would lower the maid’s salary income

@chantararix 10 месяцев назад

You know what's sadder? These nannies know more about these kids than their own children.

@nemoali2626 10 месяцев назад

Maybe they don’t have kids, that’s way they are with them 24/7

@Myra146av 4 месяца назад

I think they do

@anastasiavoit409 4 месяца назад

@@nemoali2626they have children, and sometimes these maids work with those families until children grow up, have their own children and maids take care of Their children as well , while maid’s own children receive only money from their mom and no attention or presence.

@ThinkerNinja 4 месяца назад

Heartbreaking

@sheilaolayo2155 4 месяца назад

So true, for most of them it's a sacrifice they have to make for their children, they're forced to pick between being present or providing.

@Mylo-gn1tc 4 месяца назад

When I was a nanny, I was taking care of this girl (an only child). When I first came to her family, her parents constantly get a note from her school teacher of how poorly she behaved at school. She was a very emotional girl. She would even kick me or spit at her mom whenever she doesn’t get what she wants. Whenever I would put her to bed, she gets restless and anxious; she doesn’t want me to leave her room. I didn’t know how to deal with it so I would just tell her Bible stories to divert her mind, and pray for her. Later on, she would pray on her own. She also liked to ask me about God. Her parents were very busy so I was the one who would also help her with her homework most of the time. We played a lot and spend so much time together just having fun and be silly at times. I saw how she changed so much. She eventually became a role model in her classroom. Her mom cried when she first became a role model in her class. Eventually, I had to leave the family because I was to get married and had to move to another state. The girl told me that I was her mom. It really touched my heart but I had to explain to her that her parents loved her so much and that they were doing their best to give her a good life. I also told her that I was not her mom but I could be her sister from another mom. She told me to not forget her even when I become a mom myself. She said that she was my first child. I’m a mom of two now, and up to this day, I still think of her and pray for her. I hope she’s happy and well. Children just want to feel loved. They want to feel that their parents like them, want to be with them, and enjoy being with them.

@pipsipop4525 Месяц назад

Nice ❤️

@awhoreforjk Месяц назад

Your history reminds me of my first nanny :( I miss her sm. I bet you still being really special to that little girl.

@AishwaryaSingaravelan Месяц назад

The child is too sweet, "I'm your first child" ❤

@AG-ym6iw Месяц назад

I am crying

@ThisIsMyCareFace Месяц назад

Thank you xo

@kinedj699 3 года назад

The fact that the one mom doesn’t even think her kid is waking up when in reality she does and immediately looks to the maid for comfort....

@Sevencatsinatrenchcoat 3 года назад

Yeah

@diogenesofsinope7465 3 года назад

You don’t get a maid when you have enough time to spend with your kid

@dontmindme9046 3 года назад

@@diogenesofsinope7465 People shouldn't have kids they don't have time for.

@diogenesofsinope7465 3 года назад

@@dontmindme9046 that’s a progressive belief, these people don’t have the same values as some other countries, they only want to see their child succeed (usually) you shouldn’t tell someone how to parent if it doesn’t really do much harm. They still have someone taking care of them and have someone to look up to so why care?

@yoongi7854 3 года назад

dont mind me i’ll say it depends an example is like a divorce and the. the mother has to work full time to make enough money and arent able to spend time with there children

@jed6043 3 года назад

Got teary eyed when the nanny protected her little girl's secret. Too precious.

@Milky_mans 3 года назад

When?

@Sol-fo2zu 3 года назад

LOL

@Milky_mans 3 года назад

@Nic Bai thanks

@introusas 3 года назад

@@Milky_mans the video is less than 2 mins long...

@rrrreeeeeeEEEEEeEeEeeEeEeeeee 3 года назад

@@introusas attention spans are no longer existent

@LilacDeiji 5 месяцев назад

"No boyfriend for me! Only friends." WHY IS THAT SO CUTE

@XinjianDynast 2 месяца назад

ikr that girl won so many hearts today ❤

@temmie31 Месяц назад

It was a sweet line , but why does her mom think it's ok to have " crushes " at such young age AND exposing them to everyone watching ....

@XinjianDynast Месяц назад

@@temmie31 i think it is because didn’t we all?

@temmie31 Месяц назад

@@XinjianDynast i can understand that some people might have crushes at a young age , but its not ok to expose them to the internet .

@Maxi.Dounut Год назад

“Shouldn’t we spend more time with our children?” Was such a powerful quote at the end of this video.

@WoozyCool 11 месяцев назад

firstly, the nannies go home and tada they don't know their kids' preferences JUST as these mothers who hired them don't secondly, the point was how the nannies are underpaid and overworked, which is nice, but, *why step on one to lift another?* mothers, especially in asia, go through enough sh*t as it is no one even thinks where the f*ck are the fathers, cuz not all these women are single mothers? *these mother forgot their kids' preferences, being busy making sure their kids won't have to toil like they do, to have a decent life* this video is VERY tone deaf to mothers. just cuz they wanted to do justice to maids, doesn't excuse being tone deaf to those mothers.

@ManiyaVinas 11 месяцев назад

And the maid doesn’t have children of her own?

@Maxi.Dounut 11 месяцев назад

@@ManiyaVinas probably not. Most travel from their home as soon as they become legal to escape poverty, then they work as nannies till the kids are old enough and them move back home to get married and perhaps start a family. Some don’t end up going back at all, and marries someone in the country they work in or just continue working.

@TheFakeyCakeMaker 10 месяцев назад

Everyone knows they should but it's a luxury to be able to do that.

@tamhuy10 10 месяцев назад

where's daddy ?

@JadesOfGrey 3 года назад

“She doesn’t like people to know... so I don’t tell you.” That woman’s got your back

@chocolattefeverdreams4228 3 года назад

You find few trustworthy people like that.

@ava_.staticc 3 года назад

@@chocolattefeverdreams4228 Yea! When I find people like that they are always so nice :D

@some1else688 3 года назад

yes

@Sevencatsinatrenchcoat 3 года назад

@Hun Bun yes

@kjones3748 3 года назад

My mom would tell the whole world my business which is exactly I don't say shit to her no more😐

@sunflowerx4723 3 года назад

The one maid that said "she doesn't like other people to know" has my respect.

@meowlinae1480 3 года назад

Right!! Finally someone said it She really cared about the kid's feeling and respect than the mom

@gargi4330 3 года назад

Same

@Devi_Seona 3 года назад

Same, I almost got emotional with this one, pure love, while the mom gave the name without thinking about it.

@ZC-hi8ir 3 года назад

The maid kept her secret 😔

@dayakwarfighter7477 3 года назад

Yep total loyalty , Alfred pennyworth level

@matthewgumabon7498 Год назад

I had a Vietnamese classmate in college. He was born in Vietnam and spoke English and Vietnamese, but I was surprised to learn that his first language was actually Spanish. His parents both had demanding full time jobs, so after they had him they left him with a maid for most of his childhood. The maid spoke Spanish to him everyday, so that was the language he naturally acquired. Whether this is a good thing is bad thing is hard to tell, and I think it’s a really hard balance to find. On one hand, his parents worked hard and earned plenty of money, so they never worried about finances. But in the process they let their son grow up with a someone else.

@graceysarah23 Год назад

thats a little sad but still he learned Spanish so its okay

@marimo66666 11 месяцев назад

@@graceysarah23as someone who grew up under the care of my maid, once you miss the time spent with your children, it is never the same as trying to compensate by spending time later. i feel more gratitude than kinship towards my parents 30 years today

@naomix7738 11 месяцев назад

Its Kind of cool to speak another language like that

@bauhausliker0 10 месяцев назад

that’s kind of sad but actually pretty cool

@TheFakeyCakeMaker 10 месяцев назад

@@marimo66666agree it's a short window to create those bonds

@toniyoung623 Год назад

Mom's "she won't wake up but she'll scream and cry" vs their "she looks for me/I tell my auntie".. that one broke my heart.

@thereal47bullets 2 года назад

"She doesnt like other people to know" Ma'am i think you dropped this 👑

@camilaalmiron5588 Год назад

Yes

@nezuko-chan824 Год назад

@fumiko.cup1d Год назад

@@lokifrostpaw2976I hate that guy

@pratiksharay685 Год назад

exactly This may not be true but since I have seen some like that i say this theory :- While the mother was occupied with winning that she knows everything about her thus saying what she shouldn't, the maid more cared about the child's feelings and it literally breaks my hearts when these nanny's are first doubted for anything bad happening to child but that's how it goes.

@indybruggeman1293 Год назад

Absolutely

@zmenaczzz3165 3 года назад

Low-key feels like the moms are answering what THEY want their kids to be rather than what the kids really want themselves to be.

@marinettedupaincheng4749 3 года назад

Yea true

@chompchump1739 3 года назад

true •́ ‿ ,•̀

@nelliedawnmccarley4220 3 года назад

Yep

@goobigi 3 года назад

the teacher one, the boyfriend one espically.

@Kiki15578 3 года назад

At least one of them said that her son's mind is not set yet which is quite nice since it indicates that she's open with her son's decision to pursue in any career Edit: Just to make it clear, my comment is referring to the original comment about parents projecting their children to pursue in their desire career, not about neglecting their children, which the video talks about.

@noseraph 3 месяца назад

I was born in Malaysia but grew up in Singapore. My father was a surgeon and was out of the house for most of the day until late into the evening. My mother didn't work but she spent most of her day at cafes and tennis clubs. My nanny was called Alma, and she was from Laos. When she began working in our home I was 3 and called her Ah-Ah, but she never corrected me so the name stuck. She would cook for me, took me to school and to the park, and would often sing to me when she put me to bed. When she came to live and work in our home I began to see my mother less and less, and only at breakfast. I called Ah-Ah "Mama" once by accident, but she began to cry so I was careful never to do it again. She raised me until I turned 13, then she got sick and went back to Laos and I never saw her again. I cried every day for a month after she left. I didn't shed a single tear at my mother's funeral.

@user-kk9hp6sf3t Месяц назад

I’m so sorry to hear this. Every child deserves to be loved and cared for by their parents. I hope you’re doing okay now though ❤

@sadlotus851 Месяц назад

Mine was nani. I was ten when my mom fired her, said I didn’t need her anymore. I always will. I found out she had dementia and she still remembered me until the end. She was my real mother, not my mom who just had kids for status

@ThisIsMyCareFace Месяц назад

I feel that.

@patriciazandilencube4597 Месяц назад

My nanny was Lindiwe. she stayed with me and my mum. She took care of my sick mother until she died. Then Lindiwe and l moved to another city to stay with my dad (my parents were divorced and my dad had a high paying job that required him to change cities every three years). Unfortunately my step mother hated Lindiwe (jealous of her I think) so after a year, she was told to leave. I will tell you this, loosing my mother had been a horrible thing. But when Lindiwe left, I was devastated. I lost 2 mothers in a year. I'm 35 years old now but I still cry when I think about how we both clung to each other before she was dragged away. But good news is I've found someone who might help me reconnect with her. Apparently she has a loving husband and kids ! I wonder if you can find out what happened to Ah-ah ?

@blehblehblehhh 17 дней назад

@@patriciazandilencube4597that was so cruel of your stepmother and I hate her even tho I don’t know her… I really really hope u reconnect with lindiwe and I’m sure she’d be over the moon to see u again and the person u grew up to be❤️

@strawbsforavii 10 месяцев назад

“A teacher.” “A princess.” There is such a big change between those two answers.

@s.j.warlock4901 3 года назад

Take a moment to look how proud the last woman is when she says "She looks for me". Very sweet.

@peggingbatman 3 года назад

its sweet but sad, seems like the mother doesnt pay attention or hang out with their own kid 😔

@priam9376 3 года назад

Her smile... you can see how much she loves that child

@vivianareyes3671 3 года назад

@@priam9376 yes

@thewhisper8798 3 года назад

That part almost made me cry

@_Dreamay 3 года назад

They all look very proud

@angieliang8475 3 года назад

“She likes the boy Darius” “She doesn’t want people to know so I won’t say” idk I found that really sweet of the maid to respect the kid even if they’re super young

@noel6133 3 года назад

When the impostor is sus!!!!!!!!!!!

@andriwahyudani1302 3 года назад

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@aicerg 3 года назад

That's a basic idea that, believe it or not, many adults don't understand: children are people, not pets. They deserve respect.

@ihavenoidea2805 3 года назад

And also that's a kid, it's kinda weird when the mom said "she likes a boy" when the kid is like 10 and herself said she just wants friends

@pianohelper8873 3 года назад

"She likes the boy Darius" And that is how the rebelling phase started.

@candyflosstiger7777 10 месяцев назад

The “she doesn’t like people to know” maid seems lovely. You can tell she loves the girl

@renae3857 4 месяца назад

Same when I was a kid. The lady who looked after me called me “my child” and I did chores with her all day and had no memories of ever seeing my mum.

@unicornlovericalla5316 2 дня назад

Poor you, hope you finally saw her as you got older.

@filmeyara 3 года назад

“She doesn’t want anyone to know so I won’t tell you” HUGE RESPECT RIGHT THERE!

@sanisura6997 3 года назад

Yesssssssssss agree

@saranghaeyobts5231 3 года назад

@One of eight billion yea😭

@amarisrosalette3694 3 года назад

YES

@miri4963 3 года назад

Lmao bkg's soft side 💀 wish to see it even more

@yourtypicalfeminist1621 3 года назад

yea huge respect for that lady

@terradactyl 3 года назад

The fact that the daughter wants the maid to be with her after her nightmares instead of her mom... that says a lot.

@grey984 3 года назад

The fact that the mom thought she would just wake up, cry and go back to sleep without cheking on her or asking her about it later Pretty much the only way she could have not known she looked to the maid for confort

@deliciousnoodles5505 3 года назад

In Singapore working hours are among the longest in the world so parents have a hard time having ample time with their kids, esp if they can afford a maid = more time spent in office. That's why maids spent the most time with kids.

@jakandaxter1 3 года назад

@@deliciousnoodles5505 why are the hours so long

@sisterspot111 3 года назад

@@jakandaxter1 Unfortunately that's just how things roll in Singapore. Like how 44 hr weeks are normal in some areas. 55+ are normal in others

@nathaliehaaksema9697 3 года назад

@@sisterspot111 wow 55+ In my country the work weeks are 32-40 hours.

@erinforster9953 Год назад

This happens everywhere. My mother has no idea what my degree is in, and she would tell people she didn't believe in my school instead of saying she didn't believe in me. The janitor woman at work knew what classes I was taking, and she was so encouraging! Shout out to Julie!

@BodiBaghead Год назад

I grew up with an abusive mother who would hit me call names and scream at me. But I always have my nanny and this video made me cry so so much thank you. I love her so so so so so so much she is my real mom

@batsnghostz 3 года назад

“She wakes up and asks me to sleep beside her” really speaks a lot

@skyazullopez6726 3 года назад

If I am the mother, I'd feel a little hurt. Reality bites...

@_how_arethey1official818 3 года назад

@@skyazullopez6726 i can tell that kid doesn't trust her mother, so she asked the "maid" Instead.

@divrasyabros6150 3 года назад

@@skyazullopez6726 i mean, why did the child said that because her mom probably didn't give her much attention, so the mom shouldn't feel sad, i mean its her fault tho

@borki7469 3 года назад

Yes. Definitely her fault.

@marianavarro4704 3 года назад

😭🫂🥺

@hannah_129 3 года назад

The one who said "she doesn't want anyone to know so I won't tell you" is very trustworthy wow

@lunablossom5354 3 года назад

I know I literally cried that is so wholesome

@tomsdolly7661 3 года назад

Yep.

@reemchan6880 3 года назад

Yeah

@amithyaanindita 3 года назад

Not my children needs her. I NEED HER 😩

@laura.the.explora 3 года назад

I know she’s showing the little girl so much respect that normally we don’t give to children

@alfnoakes392 3 месяца назад

Used to know a nanny (in the UK, she was English) and she talked about how 'distant' the parents were from their kids. The parents will get a nanny when the kids are small, then send them off to Boarding School when they are old enough, then wonder why there is a lack of close emotional relationships within the family.

@audreymcknight 4 месяца назад

the fathers couldn’t even tell you the child’s birthday

@anuno3242 3 года назад

I started to get teary eyed when the women said “she doesn’t like people to know, so I don’t tell you.” she got her back, we should all have each other’s backs

@recnews2003 3 года назад

Same

@starfruitiger 3 года назад

🥺 omg i completely agree, and this comment is so wholesome, i dont even know you but i got your back, we should all do this, we must, please people ✌🏽💜

@sunandflowerpots9931 3 года назад

Auntie passed the vibe check and we're all sobbing😭😭😭

@AddBowIfGirl 3 года назад

*woman

@TheSereneCat1000 3 года назад

i started crying too when she said that

@haikalmunawar1720 3 года назад

"she doesn't like other people to know, So I won't tell you" Seriously everybody need someone like her in they're life

@Helloknight 3 года назад

Some parents can’t fathom not showing their kid off to the world and this maid has enough common sense not to talk about it

@peach8079 3 года назад

that is so deep

@ujjwalraisolidakiba9737 3 года назад

I really respect that.

@razberrymist9475 3 года назад

The amount of respect that this maid gives this child is so admirable.

@islarichard2851 3 года назад

Not to be that person, but to be that person- it’s THEIR

@KraXoom 9 месяцев назад

In America a lot of kids with nanny’s first language ends up being the language their nanny speaks. One of my friends is fluent in mandarin because his nanny was from China and she spent 12 years with him and mostly spoke to him in mandarin. She spent more time with him then his own parents. Apparently he knew mandarin before he knew English 😂

@talkingbirb2808 2 месяца назад

I don't quite understand why would they hire a nanny that doesn't speak English. It's cheaper, I guess?

@AriMon05 2 месяца назад

@@talkingbirb2808 Yeah

@AriMon05 2 месяца назад

@@talkingbirb2808 But some do it so their child will learn another language

@talkingbirb2808 2 месяца назад

@@AriMon05 then they need to spend enough time with children themselves I guess

@AriMon05 2 месяца назад

@@talkingbirb2808 It's pretty obvious, yeah

@3seren Год назад

My mom is a full time babyssiter and it's incredible how much kids bond with her rather than their parents. Thing is most parents won't even take the time to know their child..is sad

@HeartTouchingFilms. Год назад

It's wonderful to hear that your mom is able to create such strong bonds with the children she cares for. Even if it's just spending a few minutes each day to talk, read a book together, or play a game, those small moments can make a big difference in a child's life. It's never too late to start building that bond, and I encourage all parents to make the effort to do so.

@hiimain7932 3 года назад

"She looks for me" "She doesnt like people to know, so I dont tell you" Sweet 💞

@Gone29364 3 года назад

Finally, people who don't spoil the kid's privacy

@ayeshcia8772 3 года назад

Aw-

@andriwahyudani1302 3 года назад

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@adrianasafiya1643 3 года назад

@@Gone29364 yes

@anonymousina9210 3 года назад

The "she looks for me" is kinda me, cause I remember having a nightmare and I ran into my maid instead of my mom...

@user-hs5py1cn3z 3 года назад

“A teacher” “A princess” You can see something in their answers

@PyroGothNerd 3 года назад

Yeah, the Mom seems to be projecting what she wants her child to want

@jesusRamirez-xv7xp 3 года назад

@@PyroGothNerd Projecting is really bad its a form of sickening control. Control land order is important for children but not these stupid fantasies such as princess or astronaut. Lets be honest they aint opening astronaut positions every 15 days

@gnap6051 3 года назад

@@jesusRamirez-xv7xp damn you really felt the need to burst someone's bubble.

@jesusRamirez-xv7xp 3 года назад

@@gnap6051 Exactly people live in a little bubble and cant see things clearly. Bubble

@jkardi9803 3 года назад

That one didn't surprise me actually and I can see her saying both. Most young children have a dual image of themselves and what they want to be in the future. Typically one aspiration is responsible, well-regarded, and positively contributing to society (teacher, doctor, fireman) and the other unrealistic, fanciful, and without limits (unicorn, batman, fairy) Fun activity, ask any 5-year old what they want to be when they grow up and after they answer say, "or....?". Unless you have a child with unusual psychology, you tend to get at least one of each. 🥰

@Julia-xi8mf 4 месяца назад

I grew up being closer to my maids than my mother. The fact they kept getting fired meant i had several different "moms" that came and went. My own mother never learned how to be a mother. This video hit hard. I miss them.

@deletedaccount6732 Год назад

That "No boyfriend for me. Just friends." Was precious. Omg. ❤

@andrea-fv8my 3 года назад

can we appreciate that “maid” that said “she doesn’t like people to know so i won’t tell you” she doesn’t need to prove she knows, she respects the child’s privacy and won’t take advantage of her trust.

@andriwahyudani1302 3 года назад

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@-Saoussene- 3 года назад

I actually found that so respectful from her

@alenalaw6941 3 года назад

That truly is beautiful

@charibelsaw8664 3 года назад

Up for this.... ❤️

@Hi-ky2wd 3 года назад

Why would you reveal someone’s crush on the internet in the first place?

@Ejiro__Kirishima 3 года назад

She seriously thought her kid just didn’t wake up when she had nightmares because her daughter went to her aunt(maid) for help. That, just wow.

@_Lyzzy_ 3 года назад

She said her daughter would cry and scream so why didn’t she go check on her and comfort her??? Terrible mother and terrible person. No wonder the daughter looked for the maid instead! That’s so sad it makes me angry

@monicapetitebonita218 3 года назад

@@_Lyzzy_ bet the mom angry at her for waking her up 😂 that's why the child went to her maid

@maricruzavila2747 3 года назад

This just makes my hurt 😢 it's just like wow😥

@lovewins1072 3 года назад

Wow

@han-eh7ih 3 года назад

i did that too when i was younger. the contract for the nanny that worked with my family has ended so she has returned to her home :( seeing this made me miss her more

@sashaflip7450 Год назад

Even as a teacher in public school I know a lot about my kids than the parents know and I know A LOT about the parents that they don’t know I know 😂 I got the tea on the entire family.

@uptdb 9 месяцев назад

😂😂😂

@gildatheplant 7 месяцев назад

Little kids don't have a filter...you'll learn stuff about the family that you don't want to know. Or they'll say weird stuff like "I'm gonna grow arm hair like my Dad!" completely out of nowhere.

@crashmisel 10 месяцев назад

Mom used to be the breadwinner of my family. She was a banker, highly respected by her subordinates and coworkers due to her integrity and achievements in her work, even climbed the corporate ladders. But it always amaze me how me and my two siblings are really close to her, despite of the most part of our childhood was taken care by nannies (we each got one nannies, they took care of our school needs, laundries, cooking, housekeeping, etc). I witnessed her commitment for her family, all I remember is that she is always present in my childhood memories. She drew the clear barrier that nannies are not family. She changed our nannies every 3 years, or if she found out redflags. These kinds of videos set as a reminder that she's the best mother I could have had. I love her and misses her so much everyday and now that I am also a banker and a wife, how I wish she's still here to advise me how to be like her.

@jendubay3782 4 месяца назад

Wow, what a shitty parent. You fire someone so they can't form an emotional bond with someone they spend most of their time with. The fact you don't see how fucked up that is, shocks me.

@crashmisel 4 месяца назад

@@jendubay3782 nope, we moved across the country every 3 years, so most of the time it's because the dont want to move with us 😭💀🤣 They were saying that nannies are paid to take care of laundries, cooking, and cleaning, and not people to reach out when you need emotional support or any sort of that.. so I always come to mom and dad if I have difficulties or to share things that makes us happy 💕 and I'm glad I dont end up like the kids in this video hehe

@crashmisel 4 месяца назад

@@jendubay3782 we also still kept in touch with our nannies and they are still as kind as I remembered. I'm so sorry if my family story hurt you btw, seeing you can judge people without knowing the full story :)

@kingdomakaqueen6624 4 месяца назад

I get you. I'm sorry you lost your mentor and mother. It's awesome that you understood what she was trying to do. ❤

@catm.9276 4 месяца назад

@@jendubay3782 wow way to assume negative things

@bandungaye-aye758 3 года назад

And the cruel thing is, some of peoples still treat a nanny just like a slave even when that woman loves their kids like their own

@miylx8396 3 года назад

Yea and it’s really sad people think that way cause I have a nanny and I see her as kinda like my second mom

@jottamartins 3 года назад

It's been more than 20 years and I can still remember vividly when my mom told that a lady was coming to work for us. She was going to clean, cook, and take care of me and my sister, but above all to care for our grandparents that lived with us. "She is going to care of our home and our family, and that makes her very important person. I don't even want to hear about you being rude or disrespectful to her!". A decade passed, grandparents passed away, we grew up, and my parents decided to move to another city.....how my mom and her cried holding each other. My mom had no illusions of the role she played in her daughter's lives over the years.

@bandungaye-aye758 3 года назад

Yeah its hurt me. At restaurant in family dinner. They just make a nany or house keeper sat on the other table just to hold their litle baby and dont even treated them meals. The family just make them wait and watch the family having a good times enjoy the food. Rich peoples!

@rocky-jy5nx 3 года назад

what about grand parents? ur parents dont live with em?

@tee3835 3 года назад

@Patronus what a horrible thing to say about these lovely women in the video

@ArtByJUSTSAM 3 года назад

The last one, with the nightmares, broke my heart. The fact that she runs to “Auntie” when she’s scared is very telling.

@judithsauchsecanell34 3 года назад

And the mother doesn't even notice which tells me she probably doesn't go check on her child when she is screaming and crying :/

@Kalani_Saiko 3 года назад

I mean my youngest brother runs to me but that has more to do with the fact that as a seven year old I didn't know what a baby was despite having 3 other younger siblings (born consecutive years except for mentioned youngest brother and my second youngest bro) so I watched him sleep

@tracik1277 3 года назад

I wish I had had an auntie to run to when I had nightmares, it could have stopped me getting beaten for it.

@brzana4689 3 года назад

Why somone would beat you because you had a night mare? Thats terrible!

@dit3731 3 года назад

I remember doing the exact same thing when I was a child. My parents' room was closer but I'd walk down the stairs and encounter some bugs walking to the maid's room rather than going to my parents' room. Probably because I knew that my parents would be cranky and sent me back to my room while my maid would let me stay there until I'm sleepy again. I'm still grateful for my parents for hiring a maid and not leaving me alone, though.

@Trogdor1365 4 месяца назад

The maid not sharing the child's crush because the child didn't want her to is amazing. That child will come to her with everything and be able to be guided, because she knows she can trust her.

@raidenpo88 Год назад

I am from Indonesia and it's very common to have at least 1 maid in a house. Some families have 2 or more to take care multiple children. I moved to Australia 17 years ago. My little boy was born 2 years ago, my wife and I struggled really hard to raise him especially when he was still a newborn. Our parents couldn't visit us due to covid so we were under pressure since we are new parents. My wife had a post natal depression so it added an extra pressure for our family but yet we're happy that we give all of our time for little Kenny. I help changing his nappy, bathing him every night, feeding him, etc and this bond is irreplacable. Parents, take care of your kids while you can otherwise you'll regret for not spending time with them when they grow up.

@user-fg2zw3eh7l 2 года назад

“She doesn't like people to know, so I don't tell you.” She doesn't want to prove she knows, she just wants the child to be happy. Round of applause

@Abyss_Trips 2 года назад

Indeed.

@joemama6710 2 года назад

Indeed.

@jesusislord6545 2 года назад

Repent to Jesus Christ “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3:5-6‬ ‭NIV‬‬ I

@miuiswaifu 2 года назад

@@jesusislord6545 shut up

@LittleRedMads 2 года назад

@@jesusislord6545 this has nothing to do with this please excuse yourself

@Ratburger_ 2 года назад

the fact that the last child would go to the “maid” for comfort after a nightmare instead of her mother really says something

@samanthalau3696 2 года назад

I used to do that too lmao

@aayurome1743 2 года назад

Of course, when children are afraid they go to their attachment figure who is the one who gives them the most security (in this case the nannies)

@berrybloom2000 2 года назад

@@samanthalau3696 I hope that you find comfort in your heart to love yourself and others unconditionally, to do what you want to do... There is only love or lessons to strengthen you

@animoorimi2858 2 года назад

Right now I feel that I have really been lucky as a child to always have my mom with me .....even though she doesn't usually understand my feelings so I don't tell her , but I am happy atleast I have her by my side

@shreyadas2100 2 года назад

@@animoorimi2858 same here 😊

@mayumimabini2630 11 месяцев назад

I saw this video years ago and it made an impact in my life. I made sure to get to know my child and spend more time together despite my busy schedule. She is 10 and thinks of me as her “bestest friend” and i thank this video for our wonderful mommy-daughter relationship. ❤

@gabrielnine7680 9 месяцев назад

Growing up as a 'nanny kid' as well, this hits really hard. I still feel safer around them even as an adult..

@leodiyanah9146 23 дня назад

I know right, it hits harder when u grow up and realize the fact they left their own family to work and send money back to them with barely any breaks. Yet they managed to find time in their day to call their family and make you feel loved and cared for. They’re extremely resilient, hard working and I have so much compassion for them. They were born in a hard system which required them to work so much even in later life just to pay for support their families while supporting yours at home.

@NOOBMASTER-yn6dv 3 года назад

The fact that the last kid seeks out the maid for comfort after having a nightmare instead of their own mother just tells you everything.

@iulianaghimici7579 3 года назад

The fact that the mother knows her child cries and screams during the night but doesn't check up on her tells you even more.

@NOOBMASTER-yn6dv 3 года назад

@@iulianaghimici7579 it's just straight up neglect at that point.

@Modishstar 3 года назад

@@NOOBMASTER-yn6dv how do you know that tho?

@Modishstar 3 года назад

@@iulianaghimici7579 more about what all she said was she scream and cry but she never said if she went or not

@iulianaghimici7579 3 года назад

@@Modishstar She said she screams and cries but doesn't wake up, but the girl said she wakes up and goes crying to the maid. Does that give you the impression that the mother went to check up on the kid?

@ladieuhang91 3 года назад

What is also ironic is that a lot of domestic workers cannot take care of their OWN children, because they are busy taking care of other people's kids in order to raise their families :'(

@janemagsayo3997 3 года назад

It's a sad reality. I just hope these domestic workers get paid reasonably.

@loveyourself814 3 года назад

Sadly truee

@loliberryyydeadaccount8735 3 года назад

@Stella Li (li_1502) it's not strange, it's just normal, like how your mom works and gets money to support your needs too. Maids work normally too, just far from their own children

@joyuri7155 3 года назад

Why do you have break my heart like that.... I miss my mom

@amanekaze 3 года назад

Exactly! It had been 10 years I've been treated as a domestic violence victim in my family. All of them never get along each other. I always tell myself, why did my dad marry a narcissistic jerk woman? Probably the looks? Yeah I guess. In the end, he doesn't know that the reason why I'm so quiet and mute already was part of my mother fault. I got fed up so bad and i wish if i could do the hand signal as a sign of victimized in family. I was an abused and bullied child. I was born with social anxiety ever since I reach my child age. All thanks to my mom, i feel mute now 🤭

@user-pq3ut4bz9f Год назад

When I was young, I hardly recognized my mother's face because she was always a busy woman, but now I spend most of my time with my mother.

@cloudyskiesxrose1406 Месяц назад

I used to be one of these children. I barely knew my parents until I was around 5, when my Nanny went back to her home in the Philippines. We shared some great memories together.

@livdil98 3 года назад

As a former nanny, this is kind of true. You learn all the secret codes and inside jokes because your job is to be focused on the kid all day

@honestfriend767 3 года назад

The sad thing is that should be the job of the parents. They are giving you their responsibility.

@3StarLogo 3 года назад

@@honestfriend767 the real sad thing is parents have to work a lot to be able to afford the roof over their heads let alone a nanny to help care for their kids. I would LOVE to be with my kids all the time but it's impossible, I can't do a lot I want because I can't afford to be at home.

@SPDcru 3 года назад

@@3StarLogo I don't think this is the same case for these Singaporean parents.

@pomberry3591 3 года назад

@@honestfriend767 maybe instead of shaming parents we can start having a conversation about why they need to work so many hours to give basic necessities and opportunities to their children?

@honestfriend767 3 года назад

@@3StarLogo but the times that you are at home you can spend maybe 30 minutes with them. Kids don’t need you to spend a day, they just need to see you make an attempt and try to be there for them when you can. When they grow up they will remember that you tried.

@sahana4498 2 года назад

1:01 "She doesn't like people to know, so I don't tell you." Ya'll someone give this queen an award cause' she deserves it

@murrkii 2 года назад

@Hello Bruh u cant be serious right now OMGPSJFOS

@StrongestLibrafluidAlive 2 года назад

@Hello Bruh same difference

@PoemFromAnAngel 2 года назад

@Hello Bruh girl bye 💀

@Twelve_Thirteen1213 2 года назад

@Hello Bruh grab a snickers dude

@Moya3003 2 года назад

@@StrongestLibrafluidAlive If one's financial balance decides one's position in this society of 2021 then I'm sorry but you seem like someone from 1396

@Neems0210 Месяц назад

I was raised by a maid for most part of my childhood. My mom was studying at that time and needed someone to take care of me. When I was in 4 th grade she got married and left us. We lost touch with her and even though I am really close with my mom right now, I wish I could talk with her as an adult now and thank her for taking care of me.

@Pri_purpleheart_ 10 месяцев назад

Now I think I'm blessed to have a mum who always nag me for every single thing😢

@kinedj699 3 года назад

Something that I find really interesting is a couple of the moms were really unsure with their answers, while the maids all had little to no hesitation.

@xsargantxshaftx7997 3 года назад

It shows who truly is involved in the kids life :/

@cockichioumaigod2805 3 года назад

I hereby give you the award of having the audacity to comment two comments in one video and have both of them blow up. (This ain't sarcasm, seriously, congrats lmao)

@esmeray9704 3 года назад

Yeah it does show

@hekr0029 3 года назад

almost like the maids were coached and were told the right answers to make a point mmmmm

@anncabras3961 3 года назад

Well they especially hired them for that

@allianabogado1617 3 года назад

The ending quote is "Let's give domestic workers their legal days off" This video is about domestic workers' rights and the fact that they have to spend more time with someone else's child more than their own.

@s0Shi 3 года назад

This.

@SomebodyWon 3 года назад

Thats susp AMONG US IS HERE 2

@otakumangastudios3617 3 года назад

Exactly! There's in fact very much this kind of culture in america, and I can think of a few examples off the top of my head. The parents really think they're doing the best thing for their child, but I think our world has really gotten caught up in the materialistic idea of money is love, and I know these particular families were restricted on what they could and could not get, so they got financially gluttonous when they became adults themselves, and then so they perceived love of their children as having a job that takes away all their time from them to make enough money to buy them super expensive toys and such. I know that as a result, the oldest child has behavioral issues due to a sense of feeling unloved and unappreciated, although that was rarely addressed most of his childhood, and mostly treated as if he was purposely trying to be a little devil, which I know he was not, the middle sister is the most mature of all, warmer than her own brother, likely she developed that way because there is no one else mature enough to really be the head, and then there's the baby sister who is just shy in front of everyone in a way that seems, at least from my conversations with her, that she does not trust adults. She did not trust me at first, but after talking to her for a little bit very gently and kindly and openly, she opened up to me as well, and I saw a lot of pain in her heart. I feel bad for all three of them

@ASmith-jn7kf 3 года назад

Well that's because for some reason society is for maids and nannies having a job raising children but not their real parents.

@Lourdes-wf9hm 3 года назад

Exactly, also another sad thing is that they get fired when they get too old to work, even if they feel more like a mother than the child's actual mother.

@psalmethyst 10 месяцев назад

This is why I homeschool my kids. Your time is more valuable than anything this world can offer.

@dinahassan4320 Год назад

The maids have big hearts, you see clearly how kind they are when they speak about the kid

@jeevajebarose2046 3 года назад

At least these kids got good care takers who love them and understood them.. Not worst ones.. glad

@vLogPhase 3 года назад

Yeah

@nuzhasajjad8112 3 года назад

Yeah True,not every Child is Lucky enough to have a good caretaker!

@Srisky 3 года назад

yeah thats true

@sumaiyyahmahaaz191 3 года назад

Oh yes I have to agree with you.

@Af-le3pd 3 года назад

@@nuzhasajjad8112 Yes. B4 is was even born my mum hired a type of person like that. At that time she would just cook for the family and I had another person to take care of me.she was nice and all but she got married when I was 2. So the women who cooked for us started taking care of me and my sister. She wouldn't hit my sister but hit me "specifically" and blackmail my sister that if she told our mom she'd get spanked too. My mom worked as a doctor. I told my mom many times, but she never did anything as she had no proof. She believed the maid more than me as she said that I was lying and would leave my mom was desperate for someone to look after us as no one was there to. I still hate the maid for the time she somehow managed to put a cockroach in my water bottle. I opened the bottle in school and I fucking hated it. She did tell me she'd put a cockroach in my water bottle tho- but I thought of it as a joke. I was in playgroup that time and I was thirsty for 5 hours. When I was in nursery she hit me in the shower so hard that I slipped and my back started hurting really bad. She got scared once Someone told her that she might get caught as my mom is a doctor and might figure it out. So many stories- I am happy it's all over with 🙂

@rowdyghatkar 3 года назад

Most of the parent's answers are what they want their children to be rather than what children want themselves....

@knitwitchpgh 3 года назад

Yea the one mom said "it should be English" very telling

@hinaansari302 3 года назад

Yes...

@kylaaakarii6694 3 года назад

Exactly

@AddBowIfGirl 3 года назад

Rahul Ghatkar Well maybe the dads should work harder so the moms can afford to stay home with the babies then. Tf? Of course working parents won’t be as close to the kids as the live-in nannies at these young ages. What I’m not seeing though is the fathers being held accountable in any way. I wonder why they didn’t test any of the dad’s’ knowledge of their kid against the nannies’. 🤔

@coleyhead9242 3 года назад

@@AddBowIfGirl They are probably toobusy working.

@ardenteodosio224 Год назад

The video summarizes such a sad concept that our society is facing. Because of the hard work ethic produced by a prevailing work-based society, most children grow up without the affection and love which is deemed necessary by their psychological needs. The society values productivity more than individual needs. The society treats people as resources, instruments used for the benefit of a select few. This is our society. A society starved of love and compassion. A parasite. Therefore to all parents out there, be with your children. Be contented with what you have and do not be overly grandiose of your future. For in your pursuit of that idea, you lose sight of reality itself. End the cycle of numbness, embrace your humanity. You are not robots. You are people. People who need to produce and reciprocate to love. God bless to everyone! ❤

@rock2946 Год назад

I was a nanny's kid too. I dont blame my mom for it, tho. She was trying her best to keep our family afloat in tough times.

@chiewolf1935 3 года назад

The sad thing is, some of the maids probably have their own son/daughters but didnt know much about their own children

@animelovergirl8461 3 года назад

Totally agree.

@sameverglade5854 3 года назад

@biny8 The video mentions the maids barely getting time off.

@SodikinGross 3 года назад

That really sad

@izukumidoriya4269 3 года назад

Yup, it's usually like that with people in the lower working class. It's really sad, but they don't get the opportunity to do anything about it. :/

@UsapUsapUniversity 3 года назад

You freakin' got it.

@realcyrusjohn 3 года назад

This is wake up call to all parents that your kids need quality time.

@clod8 3 года назад

@Cassie K And covering everything with plastic.

@ningen6392 3 года назад

People think that making money would give the kids a good life and it’s true but also sometimes kids just want to spend time with their family 😭.

@florm4193 3 года назад

Well, it’s not that easy as it sounds. Especially in poor countries. My mom had me and my 2 brothers. My dad left us and gave us very little money per month for the 3 of us. There were times that my mom had to work 15 hours daily. She worked in a school, from 07:00 to 22:00. She had to left us with a neighbor while she was working. In my country is not that expensive to pay for a “maid” or a “nanny”, because they are not working “”legally””, they are not registered most of the times, especially 15 years ago. During our childhood she didn’t spend that much time with us. Maybe she didn’t know who was my best friend or that kind of silly stuffs but she worked her ass off for the 3 of us. I’m not saying this is the case of these moms, but non of us know. It’s 2 minutes long video, you can’t judge, specially if it is a culture so different than yours.

@tinybubbles1673 3 года назад

@@florm4193 MAD RESPECT FOR YOUR PARENTS. AND YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING

@florm4193 3 года назад

@@tinybubbles1673 Thank you so much! But just my mom. My dad didn’t even ask if we need new shoes for school. My mom is the only hero. I don’t remember exactly how I felt when I was little, I have some memories of me crying when she had to go to work but that’s all. But now that I’m an adult I understand everything and I’m so grateful.

@PaigeLong-wk6qv 6 месяцев назад

full on respect to the maid that wouldn’t tell us her crush

@enzo4zero168 11 месяцев назад

This is actually so sad and wholesome at the same time

@artist_rae0160 3 года назад

“I am your parent, I know the most about you more than anyone in the world”......ok

@stillvisibletoallusers 3 года назад

For most parents this is probably true until they're teens at least. Parents with maids are a minority.

@user_508. 3 года назад

@tanigawaisamu 3 года назад

But isnt it supposed to be u knowing the most abt u?-

@icedmacchiatooo 3 года назад

@az_koala no lol i dont think they know im gay

@frootiloops1704 3 года назад

@@tanigawaisamu 👁️

@gukane4573 3 года назад

I love how the maids says "i think" even if the kids probably tell them directly, cause probably they considered that the kids maybe change their minds already

@rosettastoned3567 3 года назад

They also might feel more comfortable telling their secrets to a friend or a maid (in this case) cause there are subjects we prefer to share with friends rather than our parents mostly because of the age/generation gap.

@aini6570 3 года назад

it also meant that they’re being considerate and careful as well as being understanding to what the kids thinking while the mothers on the other hand might just say things that they want their children to be

@mansfieldfamily5389 Год назад

And here’s another reason I’m a stay at home mom. My kids deserve to have their actual mother know them

@jagritikumari4012 Год назад

I think motherhood is a universal feeling ....... So real mother or motherly figures shouldn't be a thing . BTW what's the other reasons for you to become an SHAM ?

@mansfieldfamily5389 Год назад

@@jagritikumari4012 To answer your other question (or both questions, really) I am happier pouring my soul into what matters most to me, and that's my children and husband and God.

@mansfieldfamily5389 Год назад

@@jagritikumari4012 You know, my mother was murdered two years ago, in a carjacking-gone-worse. She matters to me more than most people just for having given birth to me and taking care of me. So saying that motherly figures shouldn't be a thing, you can live that way, but I believe that families are central to God's plan for his children. I'm sorry if your mother wasn't around or didn't care about you.

@jagritikumari4012 Год назад

@@mansfieldfamily5389 I'm so sorry for your lose , but I firmly believe that God has gave us life to contribute for the world so these things ( if I ever have ) aren't going to be centre of my life .......

@mangayakposowa4334 9 месяцев назад

@@jagritikumari4012 taking care of your kids and home is contributing to the world

@YSo_serious Месяц назад

ask dads and they'll be like wait, "I have a child!?"

@rajeshbhutia5972 3 года назад

Ok.. So the lady who said "she dosent like people to know" has my respect... She literally is so concerned for the kids privacy she wont say anything

@aerybirb8748 3 года назад

@疲れたレズビアン kinda contradictory, people on the internet also exist in real life

@bluiessa2022 3 года назад

yes and actually treating her like a person w secrets

@bluiessa2022 3 года назад

@@aerybirb8748 they mean they havent met anyone like that irl. most people show off a different persona irl than the internet

@aerybirb8748 3 года назад

@@bluiessa2022 eh, fair enough

@zee.chiaramonte09 3 года назад

I know right

@erniegillo3535 3 года назад

I love the last kid for she calls their maid "Auntie" it sounds so endearing than calling someone as nanny.

@notlikeyouneedmyname.4378 3 года назад

I'm just gonna assume this is Malaysian (because I see Chinese Malay and Indian representating this) and I wanna share another thing, we usually don't call maids as maids but we rather call them kakak as in "big sister" and idk but it sounds kinda sweet to me.

@emilynshimmi785 3 года назад

umm not to be rude, but asian's do not really call their "maids" "maids", but auntie. It is just a name and a way to respect

@milklychee6277 3 года назад

YUP Asians just call every woman older "auntie" I do when I visit mt parent's boyfriend

@jacesdiary6512 3 года назад

I call my nanny "mama"

@notlikeyouneedmyname.4378 3 года назад

@@emilynshimmi785 yeah, it's actually weird when I see people call maids as "maids".

@x.AnnXX_ 2 месяца назад

this is why i want a maid even when im already 13.. i can tell ‘em everything i have on my heart because i know those people have good hearts

@Sakura-Silence2 27 дней назад

This is heartwarming for me because it was, and still is, the same situation with our current maid. I consider her my 2nd mother since she spends more time with me and knows me better than my actual mother. Please do spend time with your children ❤

@queentulip 3 года назад

“A family by heart is a true family, not family by blood”

@duttocatalina6008 3 года назад

I agree. Family is not by blood but by choice

@r3ll282 3 года назад

You cannot choose your kin, but you can choose your family

@kidabear2434 3 года назад

Omg Tohru Honda

@queentulip 3 года назад

@@kidabear2434 You watch Fruits Basket too?

@mrlion728 3 года назад

Those people who hires maid didn't understand the concept of family at all.

@ispaper4051 3 года назад

_"everyone in your family loves you, but nobody likes you"_ - most pre-teens familes today

@brigittejoan7139 3 года назад

That statement hurts, I know, my own mother said it to me

@bunishrimp 3 года назад

Fr though, and I'd always refute by saying "Then why do I have friends? And why do they always invite me out to hang out?" Such utter bullshit.

@whitneyd6827 3 года назад

That doesn't get better, so you do you. You're the one who has to live with yourself every day. You be who you're most proud to be. Don't be who your family wants to be for acceptance because eventually you'll just visit occasionally and you'll wonder why you ever did that.

@starryeyed6659 3 года назад

im sorry, but what does that statement mean?

@dontmindme9046 3 года назад

@@starryeyed6659 Google it. Type "statement definition".

@aferalpeach2771 6 месяцев назад

Children need stability in their life. Especially at the development stages. My parents passed me and my sister around for others (family, relatives, friends, close neighbors, nannies, maids) to babysit/raise. My 2 aunties (who weren't married at the time) couldn't bear to watch it so they decided to raise us when we were 7 and 10. My parents considered it as a blessing back then, but after our aunties pointed out how indifferent we are towards them as we grow up, and have no deep deep parents-children emotional connection to them did they realize what they did wrong. By the time they realized and tried to save it my sister was already in uni and I'm in my mid 20s, so we can't exactly establish any deep emotional connection with them as daughters and parents anymore, other than the general "family bond"

@jotilochun80 3 месяца назад

These kids got the love of a mother ❤ maybe it’s unconventional but they seem to be cared for

@karensmyth1215 3 года назад

Shout out to the maids who due to economic disparities leave their own children to take care of other people's childrens. You are amazingly strong and hope all your sacrifices are worth it.

@yourstepsister2018 2 года назад

my mom was one of those nannies, she went to take care of I think, a toddler, from 6am until 10pm. She got paid a lot to do the job tbf, but she said it was a nightmare working there. the child would scream and cry all the time, she would have tantrums, etc. my mom was the only one who could calm her down a little, but even so, the child gave her bruises when she had tantrums and would throw her toys at my mom. The mother of the child was a 30 year old woman who was married to a rich old man (he was the father) and showed particularly no care for the toddler, and she would also give her large amounts/portions of just overall unhealthy, greasy food (fed her even when she wasn’t hungry, over feeding her) :/ the kid had many nannies and maids beforehand, who were all terrible, and the mom would go on vacations with her husband who lasted 1-3 months, and wouldn’t take the kid with her. It really goes to show how neglectful she was. I’m sure not every parent who hires a nanny is like this but they aren’t very involved in their children’s life, which are the only factual things I can assume. However, my mother quit the job after a while. It’s still shocking to me how bad it really was, now that im talking about it again. The whole place was ludicrous but my only problem was that it caused me such low self esteem to see her bond and care for another child more than me, even though I know it was for the best. I was 10-11 years old at the time and it felt heartbreaking imo. Can’t imagine how that toddler felt.

@blippi9337 2 года назад

@@yourstepsister2018 You must be proud to be her child

@fart4453 2 года назад

@@yourstepsister2018 I’m sorry that must be hard on you and your mother but your mother is incredible good on her!

@3katfox 2 года назад

Exactly. I don't feel bad for these filthy rich mom's who don't know their kids. I feels bad for the nannies who are overworked and underpaid

@-Shibbi 2 года назад

As far as I know, most of the maids who work 24/7 are in their 20s and unmarried. But yea, I got your point. I hope those parents can realize and change by being invited to this event, and parents who watch this too.

@multi_stanp1699 3 года назад

Parent: She wants to be a teacher Nanny: She wants to be a princess that says so much-

@RacingPepe 3 года назад

Feels like the mom was mostly speaking her own preferences and not the child's.

@multi_stanp1699 3 года назад

@@RacingPepe yeah!

@zaxriyah_edits2828 3 года назад

@@multi_stanp1699 Engene-?

@multi_stanp1699 3 года назад

@@zaxriyah_edits2828 YESSSSS

@cheyennelandgraf5081 3 года назад

Yea even that one mom “what’s his fav subject?” mom- “oh it SHOULD be English” the kid- “Chinese”

@queenofcats9240 11 месяцев назад

I currently work as a live in nanny and I’m glad the kid I take care of hasn’t forgotten who her real mom is. I know for sure she loves me (she tells me everyday) but the second her mom walks through the door, everyone else in the room disappears to her. The parents let me off work at 5pm everyday and I get weekends off so they thankfully still get to spend a lot of time with her. I only say this because in the past, I got let go from two families because the parents began to notice that their kids were beginning to see me more as the parental figure and not them, so it worried them

@ariariiimo 6 месяцев назад

This same thing is in my country (Bangladesh) and i feel deeply sorry for them. We have to give them days off and proper wage. (TW: abuse) There are often many cases of abuse too. So, my heart goes out to all of the hard working aunties.

@pragy17 3 года назад

The one that kept her privacy and said "she don't like people to know so I will not tell you" huge respect!!!

@Viki_Hale 3 года назад

totally agreed😌

@putriameliah9250 3 года назад

Omg, i like ur pfp

@_..jolene.._ 3 года назад

Yeah. And the fact the mom said a name, but the maid said that really shows that the maid cares abt the little girl more than her momma does.

@boredalicia1147 2 года назад

“Ya! She likes a boy..Darius” “She doesn’t like people to know, so I won’t tell you” That’s loyalty right there

@vengefulpianist257 2 года назад

Unrelated but Darius is a sick name. Props to whoever named their kid Darius.

@kacp6485 2 года назад

I don't think that mother wanted to betray the kid :-D she probably just didn't know or take seriously her wish to keep it a secret ...and i like the boy's name, actually

@lene658 2 года назад

@@vengefulpianist257 AHH MY LITTLE BROTHERS NAME IS DARIUS :DD

@patcam8652 2 года назад

I don't like the name, reminds me of *shudders* league of legends.

@abiyyufh1566 2 года назад

Right

@RedAurora Год назад

Bless them all “aunties.” You rock!

@SonicTheHedgehog-mh6uw Год назад

Wow. After watching this video, I’m going to give my maid weekends off, and hire a part-timer. Thank God they raised awareness for all of us maid employers out here.

@Hikaru306 Год назад

smart!

@korruptnovellst4751 11 месяцев назад

Why was she working seven days a week to begin with?

@le_oracle 2 месяца назад

@@korruptnovellst4751its a maid they clean the house and live in it.... respect to them tho

@someslayingbody4813 3 года назад

The last one, when the girl called the maid auntie was very touching

@creatrotera 3 года назад

UwU idk if you know, but Auntie is actually the common term we use when we refer to domestic helpers in sg.

@someslayingbody4813 3 года назад

@@creatrotera ohh

@nurainnajhan2367 3 года назад

In case u didnt know, most people here in south east asia (since i lived here) usually call strangers with common family terms like uncle and auntie

@creatrotera 3 года назад

@@nurainnajhan2367 lol yeah, it's always, uncle and auntie no matter if you are taking the bus/taxi or like buying food XD

@megan0209 3 года назад

The same in Zimbabwe

@princessofpizza6762 3 года назад

To be honest, I am crying right now. When I was little, my parents also hired a nanny, and she basically replaced them, and, in particular, my mother, since I was born. She was the most important and close person for me. My mother almost never spent time with me, and every time when she actually decided to spend some time with me, she ended up yelling or blaming me and my father for every problem she had. One day we had to suddenly move away from the country we lived in, and I lost all contacts with that most significant person in my life. And now I am almost 20, was able to find her and proud to call her my grandmother.

@shinybearevidra 3 года назад

I'm in a similar situation than yours, but over time I got different nannies, so the bond was probably not that strong. Still, what hurts the most is that almost all of them knew me better then my parents.

@anisrs6743 3 года назад

Just pray for her is a good way you can.

@meganmcdonald5229 3 года назад

I’m not crying. You’re crying 😢 ❤️

@agestatsega 3 года назад

That's Such A Wholesome Story

@pearlinerobinson8521 3 года назад

😪

@petert8931 4 месяца назад

A pertinent reminder ; these are the Singapore families that the parents HAD AGREED themselves, their maid and their child to be on a video, to be potentially taken out of context. Imagine the circumstances, dynamics and answers of the ones that wouldn't agree or even consider it.

@urfavoritemary Год назад

Mothers that are in the interview seeing this : *EMOTIONAL DAMAGE*

@cptlevision 3 года назад

They call this “inspirational” but I can’t be the only one who found it more depressing than inspirational.

@yasminthespiritsinger7704 3 года назад

Yeah.

@_R.T_ 3 года назад

It's depressing... mother don't have to be 24/7 with kids but when they are, even 5min be 100% present.

@kingoffire105 3 года назад

Yaaa... This is sad

@saisantosh8747 3 года назад

@@_R.T_ Wth are you uttering?!

@_R.T_ 3 года назад

@@saisantosh8747 you don't understand?? ! Not my problem. 👎

@stxrry2173 3 года назад

Notice how the mum said “i dont think he has set amything to his mind yet“ and the maid said “he wants to be a pilot“ ..............................

@jorgee_pena 3 года назад

Wow its like we watched the same video!

@dezonfilm 3 года назад

I was about to hit the 1k like but someone beat me to it by a second

@shalalala5363 15 дней назад

I love how the video doesnt just blame the mothers it mentions that workers need more time off.

@IKEA101 Месяц назад

i dont say this often but my auntie (maid) was definitely more closer to me then my mother. i will never forget the day she left

@amnedits4898 3 года назад

“his favourite subject *SHOULD* be English” that sentence alone said a lot

@tracie_c 3 года назад

To be fair, from the tone, I think the mom meant "should be English" as in "I'm guessing it's English"

@SayonDDatta 3 года назад

Typical asian parents

@cahkentir4647 3 года назад

@@tracie_c I'm agree with you.

@jazzydadj6206 3 года назад

I think she meant like "last time I checked his favorite was English"

@aridewanta5404 3 года назад

kinda like "he should be" is maybe like having too much hope for wat u think ur child will be

@jodiemorris3602 2 года назад

"Ya! She likes a boy... Darius" She was so excited to actually know an answer to one of the questions and yet, the maid still had a better answer to give.

@yayvids 2 года назад

yeah

@ICruz-vq1ze 2 года назад

huh

@WiseMysticalTree4 2 года назад

My name❤

@ajq4389 2 года назад

I don't why this was hilarious! Your comment is like nice try mom but take this L😆

@minteteaee Год назад

True

@OrangeTweenStudio 3 месяца назад

“Shouldn’t we spend more time with our children?” Yes, if the living cost is not as freakin high as Singapore, who mostly requires both parents to be working just to barely keep their heads above the water.

@sbdreamey Год назад

I was a kid with a nanny as well, almost as soon as I was born. Fortunately, my parents were there for me and I don't hold any grudge. But I remember years ago when my parents had to go somewhere far, I didn't shed a single tear while my brothers cried so much (I was the only one of my siblings to have a nanny since baby and I'm also the youngest). I didn't feel sad because when I went home that night, my nanny was there sleeping with me. My mom talked about it a few days ago and she sounded sad how I didn't even cry but it was inevitable since I spent most of my times with my nanny.