I think he still does. This is the "Jane Austen" approach of the lady strategically dropping her handkerchief. It's just been upgraded. Making eye contact briefly could be one way to do it. Giving him the signal that it's ok for him to approach you.
John Gray: you are the holy grail of relationships🙏🏻 Love all your teachings! I ordered your new book “Beyond Mars and Venus” in Dutch language and can’t wait to learn more of your genius teachings. Bless you
So great. I'm single at the moment but I'm really looking forward to having a relationship that incorporates the higher spirit. Thank you for saying it's possible - not to mention giving great tips on how to make it happen. Wonderful gift.
Thank you John, For sharing your wisdom and helping us to understand and fix the mistakes that destroy a relationship. You are an angel! 😇... I’m your Fan #1. God bless you...❤️❤️👍🙏🏼
Am I hearing right!? This from John Gray!? This is gold. I have become more spiritual upon finding what ‘who I am’ means. What this has done has thrown away the “who _should_ do what, when, and how” element to dating and relationships. Finding that woman who has the same thinking and activities is not an easy one.
I am frustrated right now! I have like zero men interested in getting to know me. Barely get men interested in taking me on dates, and when we go on date quite rapidly they make it clear they want sex. Depending where I am at, I do have sex with them or not, result is the same... they vanish. Men admit they see me as a sensual being, yet do not ‘feel’ it 😖 What should I do to find a partner? I apply all you explain in Mars/Venus (I have all the books) for over 6 years not 1 guy sticks. All say how wonderful I am, yet do not stick. There must be something I do to not inspire them to stay. Really sad here 😢
Nathalie I am no expert. I just starting dating and I wonder why the fuck anyone hardly sends a message. Anyway, please be yourself. I am listening to RU-vid a lot to learn how to date, to improve my skills. I strongly believe we need to be true to ourselves, we need to be patient. We women tend to give up easily ... society has changed a lot. Little we can do about it. Yet I love to believe there are still good men out there. Good luck !!!
If uve worked on you and giving yourself love and care thats all you can do. sometimes its them there are so many men that dont know how to work on themselves. Idk if you believe in praying but whatever you believe follow it. 💜 Its better to be alone than with a person thats not gona give you what you need and its hard.
Its very very hard because men do not want nothing serious anymore they learned that they can be bythemselfs and be ok about it .woman are too easy giving them the sex with out any feelings involve at all ..i been trying for 7 yrs already and no matter what i do , nothing works anymore with men ..its all about casual dates ! Terrible ..so i stop caring . I can also be single and happy 😁
OK I am confused now. Two days ago I discovered John Gray, with his clear message - don't go with the man who you turned on right away. Then John explains how it suppose to be - a man pick you, he asks you out, you go out with him even if you are not attracted to him. If he likes you a lot, he will start doing things for you, therefore opening your heart for liking him more and more.....But now this message is just opposite of what I listened to few days back.
I feel what you're saying, If you listen to the way he is describing how a woman should choose their mate, is knowing that the man would be a compatible & SAFE mate, a good choice. not just choosing a mate cause you're sexually attracted/infatuated with him. Normally the good guys we dismiss could be a good fit to us, thats why he suggest to be open minded toward men we wouldn't normally date, This doesn't mean date every man tho, like saying yes to everyone who asks you out in hope to find the one. You wouldn't want to say yes to a guy who feels unsafe to you, who triggers you, who ignores you, who just doesn't feel right. I find that usually the energy, whether or not someone feels safe to us is showed to us in the beginning. if you're feeling anxiety, "butterflies", like you're unable to be yourself, that person may be an unsafe partner & not one you should say yes to. I find that after watching his videos, they made me super aware about alot of things & how I do actually feel safe around guys that I don't consider "my type" I think its all about self awareness & listening to your intuition when it comes to how someone energetically feels. If you feel safe in their presence, thats the first step to see if you guys are compatible. I know I wrote alot, but I hope it helped.
@@innergs9586 Thank you for providing an amazing explanation. This is so helpful for me. It can be really confusing sometimes to navigate the whole relationship thing. It's so important to do it consciously.
I agree with this value as well!! 🥰However, i know it’s biological for men to have the drive and sexual interest in a woman, but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be disciplined in himself 🧡🧡I believe they should both have strong values in having an emotional connection before intimacy.
Thats interesting. First of all, some profound acknowledgement of the spiritual, would venture to say welcoming the Spirit, bravo. Only two steps away ... And trying to think how to reframe the metaphor now that it sounds as though he has adapted his views to one of fem/masc balance in each person. "Men are from Mars but vacation in Venus, Women are from Venus but attend grad school on Mars"? Lol or "homosapiens in space, a foot on each planet, they straddle the universe? Lol idk. But excellent info, on point.
Great advise!!! Subtile first move on my part puts me Often in the friendzone 😂 Got 3 new great friends lately, none is making a real move... I’ll have to get less subtile without chasing!!! Man, I just want one of them to persue me!!!
I get asked out a lot here in Colorado, but I Hate this state, I'm just here for school and that's it, im like saltwater fishing, traveling to Hawaii, Bermuda for fishing only. but these women get mad at me for rejecting them. i have no use for the mountains or skiing. I just love to fish in the ocean, swim, and travel. but I hate living on land.
Maybe you should open yourself up to more experiences but if you like living in your narrow mindset, you're lucky 70% of the earth is salt water. Have you ever tried fly fishing in a mountain stream?
Doctor Gray, This is so Funny, I think the “ leaving the shoe 👠 “ for the man to find and then go search for the woman the shoe fits “ only works in the story of “ Cinderella “. 😂Hahahahaha 😂, if a woman were to leave a shoe 👠 for a man to find these days, he could possibly pick it up, wonder “ who lost her shoe?”, and then, toss it into a garbage bin. 5:02
Please, that is NOT rape. Rapes do happen and 1 in 4 young girls or women will be violated by a man. Please don't minimize that. You sound like an apologist for predators.
John, I respect you and learn from you. But I am tired. It is too much responsibility for a women. Do men have any intelligence and logic? If I was a men I would pursue a women from beginning to end and be ready for any rejection. Time to grow up.
