Naw laughin will make her look weak what she needa do is start packin ND speak her mind freely and say why she gotta say to dem, when dey start tryna jump her she gotta pull the strap out and start sprayin dats gon teach em not to fw wit NOBODY een if dey alone
this is so trueeee, people act on insecurity so they try to "impress" their "friends" by being an asshole to everyone else, they wouldn't be laughing like that if it was happening to them
as a teen, i sincerely apologize. some of these girls my age are absolute (and i don’t use this word lightly) assholes. such jerks often. i’m lonely cause these kinda girls are all around me, and i refuse to be friends with people like that. i’m so sorry you experienced that. you deserve way better. ❤
I don't now why people are so rude for no reason. At my school if you walked by a group of girls they will literally be like you are so pretty and genuinely mean it. I wish it was like that everywhere.
@@theartroyalty4429 I go to a public school but its like the only good school in are area and you have to test to get in and be really smart. so you basically stay with the same people for years like a private school so were like family.
2:56 Gianna, you only stood out to her because she thought you were gorgeous and that made her feel threatened. So the only thing left for no brain to do was to try to intimidate you. She won’t go to far with that flaming insecurity weighing her down. The other girls are just mindless followers with no purpose or direction. It’s actually a brutal compliment. Pretty hurts, sweetheart! Sorry❤
It's so disappointing when people behave like that, a similar thing happened to me once before. I just assume that these kinds of people lack self esteem, as they always bully others when their friends are around, likely because it makes them feel better about themselves when they have the approval of their friends to back them up. It's often people like this who struggle later on in life, as they don't understand respect for others, or who they really are besides a bully. My advice is to just keep doing what you're doing, as they likely have their own issues that they need to work through...
I never had to bump into these girls, so I also do consider myself lucky. One of my girl friends did all the time, and she had ridiculous stories of rude teen girls. One of them being she and this group of teen girls literally having a dramatic fight over nothing while in a line for boba, in the middle of a big mall 😭
Yes. Lash out at them indeed if you’re a girl experiencing other girls acting this way. Take advantage of the fact that you’re equally matched against them. As guys we can’t do anything about it because those are the types of girls that send out kicks straight to our balls which disables us with unbelievable amounts of pain, AND we still aren’t allowed to hit back even if we could somehow fight through that kind of pain because we would be in very serious legal trouble if we did. We don’t like those girls any more than you do. So please don’t let the fact that you don’t have those vulnerabilities holding you back go to waste.
Yes. Lash out at them indeed if you’re a girl experiencing other girls acting this way. Take advantage of the fact that you’re equally matched against them. As guys we can’t do anything about it because those are the types of girls that send out kicks straight to our 🥚🥚 which disables us with unbelievable amounts of pain, AND we still aren’t allowed to hit back even if we could somehow fight through that kind of pain because we would be in very serious legal trouble if we did. We don’t like those girls any more than you do. So please don’t let the fact that you don’t have those vulnerabilities holding you back go to waste.
Yes. Lash out at them indeed if you’re a girl experiencing other girls acting this way. Take advantage of the fact that you’re equally matched against them. As guys we can’t do anything about it because those are the types of girls that send out kicks straight to our 🎾🎾 which disables us with unbelievable amounts of pain, AND we still aren’t allowed to fight back even if we could somehow resist that kind of pain because we would be in very serious legal trouble if we did. We don’t like those girls any more than you do. So please don’t let the fact that you don’t have those vulnerabilities holding you back go to waste.
Yes. Don’t let them get away with it if you’re a girl experiencing other girls acting this way. Take advantage of the fact that you’re equally matched against them. As guys we can’t do anything about it because those are the types of girls that send out kicks straight to our 🎾🎾 which disables us with unbelievable amounts of pain, AND we still aren’t allowed to retaliate even if we could somehow resist that kind of pain because we would be in very serious legal trouble if we did. We don’t like those girls any more than you do. So please don’t let the fact that you don’t have those vulnerabilities holding you back go to waste.
I’ve never had this happen to me, but I was thinking that if this ever happens to anyone again, don’t apologize to them because theyll probably take that as “scared” or “weak” and bully you more. And Im sure you could also tell an employee and get them kicked out.
I would have told them loud but calm with a ngry face what Kind of bullshit show that is and that they might want to look for some hobbys wie values if they are bored. I would also call out they are insecure or when they said that she looks like she works there I would have replied "wow, what a surprise I was just thinking th same about you"
No bby we shouldn’t feel threatened or scared when we see beautiful people instead we should confront the aspect of us which feels the need to think that way. It indicates some underlying wound within our subconscious that needs healing. Beautiful empowered girlies see other beautiful girlies and feel happy and are able to admire their beauty without feeling insecure and let’s work on achieving that okay? You deserve so much! Being a woman is power, it’s a wonderful thing and we deserve to heal our femininity so we flourish the way we deserve to 💖
Wtf why are people so mean for zero reason? I had a manager like this she was grown too like 30 (and I was 18 at the time) but she was acting like a mean middle schooler… she would constantly shade employees for no reason and make snarky remarks. Always hostile. Gossiping and lying about pelote… I hated it so much because I just wanted to to my job and I didn’t wanna get involved in drama. I’ve been through enough in life that all these toxic things are so unnecessary. Some people are evil.
You're not being a dramatic baby at all. It's not about you. They are insecure little brats that hate themselves and so direct that pain onto others. Don't even acknowledge them/others next time. Literally, the best thing for your mental health and well-being is to just walk away and not engage. To them and in your own mind. Missing nails; you're beautiful. Missing conditioner; you're beautiful. Eat whatever you want. Skinny/curvy; NOT a component of beauty. Period. You are stunning. You are worthy exactly as you are. Own it, lovely! ♥︎
at this point you should've informed someone that worked there, if they did this to you they're going to try and do this shit to another girl.. this is harassment and you could've easily gotten them kicked out lol! i'm so sorry you went through this, it's very evident that they're jealous of you!!
Prolonged eye contact, doesn't matter who you are, people don't like it, especially if it's an uncomfortable amount of time... People quickly back down. And will leave you alone.
I never take time out of my day to be rude because like why tf would I care about someone else, especially someone I literally don't know 😭 and if someone does do that you, that means that they obviously care enough to show emotion towards you, so they're likely insecure or just don't have anything better to do with their life.
I get this so much, I'm a girl but I'm terrified if I see girls outside cos it always feels like theyre judging me. Don't let anything they said get to u, you're so pretty :)
ahhhh your sooooo prettyyy i probably would've cried too lol. some people are just so mean i don't really get it. they're honestly probably super jealous of how beautiful you are💗💗
I work on a street crew with all men, no women. And I'm loving it better than any female workers I've ever had, for this reason. At least men tell you to your face and roast you blatantly. I prefer that over cliques, drama, backstabbing, etc of females.
Fr tho…. So relatable. Literally my friend invited everyone in our friend group to her bday party except for me behind my back and they just whispered about when I was in their presence
I can explain one reason why: puberty. Changes in the body making them moody. I remember how mean girls were in middle school at the height of puberty. A lot of bullies have rough home lives and were not taught right or wrong by their parents. Bullied also have lot of insecurities and take it out on people. I know that doesn’t make it better though. I was bullied throughout Elementary and Middle school because of my cerebral palsy and how I walk differently because of it and I got ganged up on a lot because I was small, sensitive, and had CP which made me an easy target and I knew a lot of them had rough home lives and were cruel to other people, but it never made me feel any better. I think the girls at Target were bored with their lives and jealous because you’re so beautiful.
Aww. It’s okay. There are so many mean people out there who are actually the most insecure. They feel like targeting someone is cool or hilarious. And if that happens to you again, be confident and throw those girls out of your face and make them wanna leave you. If it’s a little hard doing that, just go to an employee at the store or just leave the store immediately. I feel so sorry for you. Those mean assholes should go to hell. Love you and stay strong ❤
Honestly all you have to do is look at people who act like this and with a genuine smile on your face state “My parents love me, my friends and family love me, and I love myself. I just hope that you guys get the chance to experience that in life someday because based on your attitude it doesn’t seem like you have after all of this time on Earth and I feel sorry for you.” And then just walk casually away.
Honey it not just teenage girls . Grown women will try to get you fired just because they are jealous of you be rude mean and lie. Be strong stay true to yourself only keep those close you can trust and are consistent
nah girl i probably woulda cried to. it’s not so much about the action itself being done, but rather the intent behind it. when you realize that someone is targeting you and doing something rude to you on purpose, it’s upsetting, even if it’s essentially harmless. the knowledge that someone(s) going out of their way to mess with you and make your day intentionally more difficult, when you know you’ve literally done nothing to deserve it and they still won’t stop, that part would make me cry to myself after a point too. i have little patience for constant disruptions while i’m trying to get a task done 😂
Omg I feel like a group of teen was targeting me for a similar situation but the one mean girl backed off because I was with my older dad. They gave it 3 soft attempts. The first line being, “do you work here?” I think they had second thoughts. I’m a grown 34yr old woman. Like what’s wrong with teens these days?! It’s the parents fault for not giving timeouts, spankings, spoiling them, and I blame the parents for having them while they’re so much older and they don’t have the energy to handle teen drama. Thank god I had mine at 19. Because my teen knows she got it coming bad from me if she’s out of line. She wouldn’t dare. This is fucking stupid, I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s bullshit, they shouldn’t be allowed out behaving this way disrespecting people.
Some time last year when I was at the mall, a group of teen girls walked behind me and they kept making really weird noises and kept giggling and stuff. They didn’t mock me or anything, but sadly I overheard what they were talking about and they were all basically making fun of another girl in their class, talking ugly about her and mimicking the noises she made while she ate and such apparantly. I just turned around on my heel in from of them, looked them straight in the eye and said «shut up». They were stunned. Teens often think they are cool or something for bullying, but as an adult I felt like I had to signal to them this behavior is just unacceptable and socially condemned.
Omg ur not being dramatic I’m around that age so I see where you’re coming from as I’m experiencing it right now. The kids at my school are literally the main reason why I hate school so much. I have social anxiety so I’m always worried about people talking about me behind my back or generally just not liking me. Everyone’s always talking about eachother behind their backs and being mean for no reason and I’m sick of it.
It's called "leveling" often encouraged through peer pressure and self insecurity. There are really two options. 1. (recommended) Don't give them a heated response because you're alone and they have numbers. It will give them more justification in how they treated you. or 2. Once you've realized that there is nothing more they could do that they haven't already done, push back since it won't get any worse if you do. (Focus on one girl. Grab her by her shirt collar and yank as hard as you can or move in for a push) The point is, you're showing them that you're not going to be an easy target. They don't want the hassle any more than you do. They gave you some hassle you have to give it back. Now, if you are an adult things change a lot lol. You're hands are tied and you'll just have to immediately walk to the front counter, ask for a manager and tell them you're being harassed. Stay by the store's employee as to have a witness and be on the right side of the fence and let them handle them. And don't let it consume your entire day either. If they can't handle the situation in like 10 minutes then it's simply not worth your time. Leave and go some where else.
Hey hey hey. we’re allowed to compliment other people without dragging ourselves like that. I think the energetic vibration of the sweet girl in this video is unfortunately very insecure and wounded and I am not trying to shame her at all but rather shed light on the subconscious wound present. And this video attracts others with that vibration too and it’s a sign from God/The universe or whatever divinity you believe in to heal that aspect of ourselves! I wish you the besttt babe and I hope you can confront that side of you which feels ugly. Beauty is subjective and beauty standards lack temporal validity meaning they change over time. As long as you have a good heart and you are constantly seeking to improve yourself you are beautiful! I think it’s time we understand that if the world was blind a lot of the people we hold on pedestals for their perceived attractiveness by society would then be considered ugly… what kind of energy do you exude? Who are you in the spirit? That’s where true beauty resides ;)
@@dravidianalchemist you’re literally going to make me cry 🥹 you don’t know how much I needed that. and the way you said all that being so polite and sweet ( I just wanna hug you )🤍🌷 THANK YOU
Tell me you're deeply insecure without telling me you're deeply insecure.. secure people don't need to tear others down to feel better about themselves. You're pretty and they are threatened by it. It's kinda a compliment, actually. But you have to be really mature to see it that way.
They always have been. Girls were so mean back in the 90’s when I was a teen to the point I literally stopped hanging with them and hung with guys instead. 😂. Sure, people thought it was strange and I even got called a few choice names being a girl always hanging with a group of guys but there was soooo much less drama by doing so. I have all boys so I don’t really deal with mean teen girls at this point.
Nowadays people would call you "a pick me" and that's ridiculous because what you said is totally true! Girls are usually the ones that love drama, passive aggressiveness and the ones that backstab each other the most (and I say this as a girl myself 💀) Between men and women there can still be a lot of conflict. But I think guys still have the best friendships between each other.
If something like that ever happens again. Don't apologise. Call them out for their bullshit, they are insecure. Say it in a loud but not angry tone. They just can't treat people this way. Or say stuff like "you must be very insecure for doing stuff like his in front of your friends on purpose". They get the most angry if their behavior isn't working
Girl, I don’t have girl friends. I get along with people but they don’t try to make an effort. I’m not exactly a teen anymore but i was a teen not too long ago and even now to this day, girls don’t text me lol. Not sure why. At least I have my little sis 😊
Girl, I don't think you're being dramatic at all! Those girls were acting so rude! I'm so appalled and I'm wondering where their poor behavior and conduct comes from. I was really hoping for a happy ending where you finally bought your conditioner. I'm so sorry this happened to you and I hope you find a different Target where nobody bothers you and the employees are extra kind ❤
I feel so bad to be in the generation I am in. That sounds so weird, and of course I didn't choose when to be born, but I'm truly ashamed to be a part of this generation (Z). It always feels like some girls are just trying to compete with everyone even though they usually don't know what they're talking about. Besides, they're the ones who are projecting their insecurities on others rather than just being nice. It's not hard to be nice. People will genuinely like you more if you're nice.
I'd have gone to the Target employees and explained I was being harassed. These girls could be asked to leave and trespassed for this kind of behavior.
I’ve also been “cornered” by a group of 12yr olds who have such an attitude… like what… this behaviour younger generations are honestly concerning. The age of no respect. And they don’t understand consequences so it’s also frustrating to deal with. Their parents need to do better.
you arent being dramatic, those girls who dont even know you (they might know you from Tiktok) were basically targetting you. Maybe next time tell them to stop, if they dont stop tell an employee. I love you so much by the way your videos are so good!
When i go to stores alone theres always a group of teens and somehow they always follow meand talk shit, but what I do (even tho im scared) is laugh at them and walk away so that they get embarrassed
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. Next time this happens talk to an employee and ask them to walk with you or something, I bet these girls wouldn't have acted this way if you hadn't been alone.
in 8th grade, this dude tried to play me. his gf and her friend cornered me one day, and asked why i didnt wanna talk to her. now see, i've always been very shy and socially anxious. i said that i was scared of her, and they started laughing at me. she said loudly "you're scared of me!?" and a group of guys behind them were like "who's scared of you?" and they pointed at me. they started laughing too, and this girl's friend said "she looks like she's about to cry, im out of here" and walked away. idk how i looked, but my face was burning. also, every time i try to be friends with a girl, she either rejects me or ghosts me. i'd love to have a female friend, but they dont like me and i have no idea why. is it because i look weird? im shy and awkward? im strange? because of that, im scared of women. idk how to act around them, and i feel more comfortable with men (it's crazy because as a kid, i was scared of men and felt comfortable with women). i've been called a pick-me for only being friends with guys, but thats because they accept me as their friend. i hope i find the right woman one day
Don’t be scared of them. Those types are for the streets and are pretty easy to detect or well the really loud ones are, there are some that aren’t so obvious at first but they normally give some red flags along the way before eventually just showing their all/most of her true colors. One I remember she would say stuff like “Oh you have it all wrong”. Which that’s one big verbal sign I guess when someone is a psychopath. And also look for weird looks from them. And another thing you should look for is if you lean towards not liking a chick for no apparent reason, if you are then you are probably just sensing her deviousness in her just below the surface.
@@DanielleDivine-ip2md that whole experience happened 4 years ago and i still get easily intimidated by people which really sucks. i will try to remember your comment, thanks :D
Honestly they targeted you cause they’re jealous of you. Hopefully when they get older they’ll feel horrible about this. They have no idea what actual life is yet. They’ll learn.
This story makes me so mad I am so sorry that you ran into a group of insecure girls with ugly personalities :( you are so gorgeous. I WISH I was at the store you were at, the time of this event. I hope those girls get their karma
I used to work for Target. This is harassment. You are not being dramatic. Find a team member and ask for help. This could have escalated into a physical altercation. I know I would have been heated and would have thrown hands if I was being bullied while minding my own business just trying to shop. You did the best you could in that situation and I'm glad you weren't hurt. But these girls are bullies and that behavior should not be tolerated.
One thing with teens that scares them is the “Ill tell your parents” thing. On one hand, a lot of the times the parents don’t know their kids are rude af so if you have a mature, kind, private convo with their parents they’ll be like “omg sorry I’ll ground them.” But on the other hand some behavior is learned so if it’s one of those scenarios just be nice and walk away sorry you had to deal with that ❤
Hmm you’re better than me girly don’t let anyone disrespect you; You should never feel so intimidated that you refuse to stand up for yourself those girls were harassing you probably out of spiked and jealously you’re stunning and seem purely nice I hope you use this as a lesson God blesss you❤
Girl I was legit being made fun of by a bunch of girls on my freshman orientation basically the whole time. Mind you, school hadn’t even started at that point and I was new. I’m still petty about it 😤 the worst part is that I put extra effort in my look and felt good about myself that day. Teenagers can be so mean.
With bullies, all you have to do is stand up to them. Even if it's a fistfight and you lose, the bully won't do it again because s/he/it might get hurt. You can delight in the fact they won't be able to find a good boyfriend, let alone a husband. We can smell them a mile away.
